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hi guys welcome back to my Channel today
I want to talk about self- Lov again now
this is a passion for me and I'm not
going to stop talking about it until I'm
going to make each every one of you fall
in love with yourself and walk around
with your head high so your crown won't
fall okay okay so today I actually
wanted to talk about self- Lov and
relationships I'm getting a lot of DMS
from you for advice there's a lot of
amazing girls that feel comfortable to
do that with me and I'm so grateful but
I got a few messages in the past two
days about relationship things so I'm
just going to kind of mention a few
points that hopefully will resonate with
you first things first you got to do
your inner work before you choose your
partner and that really applies to all
ages if you are looking for someone to
get married or you're looking for a
boyfriend or you're just 14 years old
and you like like boys and they like you
back and they pull your hair you got to
do inner work and I'll tell you why you
will at some point in your life realize
that no one can make you happy the way
you can make yourself happy and I'm not
saying that you should retire and have
15 cats and live by yourself what I'm
saying is that you can't put that
responsibility on other people you have
to make yourself whole on your own
instead of searching for somebody to
save you and complete you that's not how
it works unfortunately and I know that
there's a lot of movies and a lot of
love songs and a lot of C tunes that
tell you otherwise but reality is that
if you're not happy it doesn't matter
how amazing the person beside you is
you're not going to see it because
you're going to ruin that relationship
because your relationship with yourself
is not there yet when you are in a
relationship um and you are whole on
your own um it's such an amazing strong
base to start with if your partner have
bad days you don't kind of crumble with
it if your partner you know just not
feeling it or not showing you enough
effect it doesn't like ruin your life
and that's the thing we rely sometimes
so much emotionally on our partners that
it completely destroys us when that
partner can keep up when you put that
burden on your partner to constantly
make you happy it can damage your
relationship don't put your happiness
entirely in others people's hands
because if you can't make yourself happy
no one will be able to make you happy
the end another message that I got that
really struck something with me because
I was in that situation before is a
beautiful girl that just says that the
guy she's with he's great and he's funny
and he's amazing and he's smart but he
basically treats her like but she's
still there people treat you the way
they see you treat yourself if you belit
in yourself if you are being mean to
yourself if you keep saying negative
things about yourself that sets the tone
to how people will approach you so you
really have to have high standards to
the way you treat yourself because other
people see it you have to remember that
you lead by example when you're being
mean to yourself or you let people step
over you it shows them that it's okay to
do it cuz you don't stand out for
yourself you don't say no I I'm not
tolerating this and I'm better than this
so please be aware of what you let
people say or do or act towards you
because you're basically giving them the
okay go sign and that also triggers for
you that it's okay this one is something
very very important and I hope you're
going to listen and rewind this and
listen to it again the woman you're
becoming will cost you people will cost
you relationship will cost you places
always choose her over everything so you
have to be true to that woman to your
future self because if you don't make
the right Investments the right move the
right decisions today it will affect you
in the future and um unfortunately
sometimes you will have to cut ties with
certain people with certain friends uh
and relationships that just don't
progress you as a human they don't make
you feel good they don't make you grow
and that's okay you'll be sad just for a
little bit but you'll be fine I promise
it's so worth it you're putting the
investment for your future self and you
know what in 10 years you look back and
say I'm so happy I made myself a
priority um this is kind of it these are
my tips for self- Lov and relationships
um I hope it did something for you if
not whatever I just had 5 minutes of
talking to myself thank you so much for
listening to me and I truly appreciate
your willingness to go and fight for
yourself so you're doing great
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