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My husband, Chuck, and I have been married for 18 years.
I've always been overweight, but my husband never cared.
Even when my wife was at her heaviest, 280 pounds,
our sex life was a 10 out of 10.
We would joke afterwards, saying there isn't anybody
in this town who got it that good tonight.
Last year, I made the decision
that I was gonna lose weight
and I lost over 100 pounds.
I felt fantastic.
It's been difficult for me to adjust to her new body type.
He said that having sex with me
felt like he was having sex with a different woman.
She was very curvaceous.
Now she's a very thin woman.
My wife's breasts used to be up here
and now they're kind of down here.
She's had a lot of issues with her skin sagging, drooping.
Now things just have a tendency to kind of sag.
I wear this body shaper because if I don't stuff,
the extra skin spills out.
Our sex life used to be great.
Now we're struggling.
I don't feel sexy with my husband.
I want to cover up and hide things.
When you're having sex with a woman,
it's about touch, it's about feel, it's about how they look
and that's changed dramatically.
I still love my wife very much.
It's just been very difficult to accept her body
the way it is now.
I just want him to look at me and find me attractive.
Okay, so congratulations
on your discipline--
Thank you.
And your hard work,
'cause you've got that done.
Thank you.
(audience applauds)
And despite the fact that it's brought about
some new challenges, it's a return to health, right?
Absolutely.
You're happy for that, right?
Absolutely.
So what's bugging you?
She feels like a different woman.
I'm not used to it.
She lost all of this weight so quickly.
She's not a different woman.
She's the same woman.
Correct.
You've been married
to her for 18 years, right?
18 years, yeah.
And when you look in her eyes,
it's the same eyes, it's the same spirit,
it's the same soul, it's the same woman.
Right.
She's beautiful
Yes, she is.
Yeah.
Yes she is.
(audience applauds)
And let me say, before y'all go with attacking him,
(audience laughs)
in all of the pre-interviews,
he has not said one negative word
about this woman at all, period, paragraph.
(audience applauds)
Not one negative word about her,
what he has said is about him.
He said, I don't know why, but I'm feeling different.
It's affecting me different.
He has not criticized her one bit.
No, never.
What do you think is going on?
I think that this is just a very
unexpected side effect of,
I mean, there's been so many great things to my weight loss
and so many positives.
I couldn't even tie my shoes before
and it's been amazing
but I think this kind of hit us out of nowhere.
It was like, all of a sudden, oh my gosh,
like we're having this issue.
Our sex life has never been an issue.
It's always been great.
And so all of a sudden, I think I was feeling self-conscious
about my stomach and my breasts sagging,
and feeling like, oh my gosh,
I don't want him to see this, it's hideous.
And then he's feeling like, this isn't the woman
that I've been with, this doesn't feel the same.
And then I'm worrying about how he's feeling,
and he's worrying about how I'm feeling,
and I think there's just so much mental stuff going on
that it's affecting the physical part of our relationship.
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