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[English]

As your morning alarm blares, you mutter to yourself,

“Why did I set it so early?”

While brushing your teeth, you think,

“I need a haircut... unless?”

Rushing out the front door, you reach for your keys

and realize they’re not there.

Frustrated you shout, “I can’t do anything right!”

just in time to notice your neighbor.

Being caught talking to yourself can feel embarrassing,

and some people even stigmatize this behavior as a sign of mental instability.

But decades of psychology research show that talking to yourself

is completely normal.

In fact, most, if not all, of us engage in some form of self-talk

every single day.

So why do we talk to ourselves?

And does what we say matter?

Self-talk refers to the narration inside your head,

sometimes called inner speech.

It differs from mental imagery or recalling facts and figures.

Specifically, psychologists define self-talk

as verbalized thoughts directed toward yourself or some facet of your life.

This includes personal conversations like “I need to work on my free throw.”

But it also includes reflections you have throughout the day,

like “The gym is crowded tonight. I’ll come back tomorrow.”

And while most self-talk in adults tends to be silent,

speaking to yourself out loud also falls into this category.

In fact, psychologists believe our first experiences with self-talk

are mostly vocal,

as children often speak to themselves out loud as they play.

In the 1930s, Russian psychologist Lev Vygotsky hypothesized

that this kind of speech was actually key to development.

By repeating conversations they’ve had with adults,

children practice managing their behaviors and emotions on their own.

Then, as they grow older, this outward self-talk tends to become internalized,

morphing into a private inner dialogue.

We know this internal self-talk is important,

and can help you plan, work through difficult situations,

and even motivate you throughout the day.

But studying self-talk can be difficult.

It relies on study subjects clearly tracking a behavior that’s spontaneous

and often done without conscious control.

For this reason, scientists are still working to answer basic questions,

like, why do some people self-talk more than others?

What areas of the brain are activated during self-talk?

And how does this activation differ from normal conversation?

One thing we know for certain, however,

is that what you say in these conversations can have real impacts

on your attitude and performance.

Engaging in self-talk that’s instructional or motivational

has been shown to increase focus, boost self-esteem,

and help tackle everyday tasks.

For example, one study of collegiate tennis players

found that incorporating instructional self-talk into practice

increased their concentration and accuracy.

And just as chatting to a friend can help decrease stress,

speaking directly to yourself may also help you regulate your emotions.

Distanced self-talk is when you talk to yourself,

as if in conversation with another person.

So, rather than “I’m going to crush this exam,”

you might think, “Caleb, you are prepared for this test!”

One study found that this kind of self-talk was especially beneficial

for reducing stress when engaging in anxiety-inducing tasks,

such as meeting new people or public speaking.

But where positive self-talk can help you, negative self-talk can harm you.

Most people are critical of themselves occasionally,

but when this behavior gets too frequent or excessively negative,

it can become toxic.

High levels of negative self-talk are often predictive

of anxiety in children and adults.

And those who constantly blame themselves for their problems

and ruminate on those situations

typically experience more intense feelings of depression.

Today, there’s a field of psychological treatment

called cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT,

which is partially focused on regulating the tone of self-talk.

Cognitive behavioral therapists often teach strategies

to identify cycles of negative thoughts

and replace them with neutral or more compassionate reflections.

Over time, these tools can improve one's mental health.

So the next time you find yourself chatting with yourself,

remember to be kind.

That inner voice is a partner you’ll be talking to for many years to come.

Key Vocabulary

Vocabulary	Meanings
stigmatize /ˈstɪɡ.mə.taɪz/ C2	verb - to describe or regard as worthy of disgrace or great disapproval
instability /ˌɪn.stəˈbɪl.ə.ti/ C1	noun - the state of being unstable or prone to change
hypothesized /haɪˈpɒθ.ə.saɪzd/ C1	verb - put forward as a hypothesis or starting point for reasoning
internalized /ɪnˈtɜː.nə.laɪzd/ C1	verb - to make an attitude or belief part of one's own character
spontaneous /spɒnˈteɪ.ni.əs/ B2	adjective - performed or occurring as a result of a sudden inner impulse
activation /ˌæk.tɪˈveɪ.ʃən/ C1	noun - the action or process of making something active or operative
instructional /ɪnˈstrʌk.ʃən.əl/ C1	adjective - intended to instruct or teach
concentration /ˌkɒn.sənˈtreɪ.ʃən/ B2	noun - the action or power of focusing one's attention or mental effort
beneficial /ˌben.ɪˈfɪʃ.əl/ B2	adjective - resulting in good; favorable or advantageous
anxiety-inducing /æŋˈzaɪ.ə.ti ɪnˈdjuː.sɪŋ/ C2	adjective - causing feelings of worry, nervousness, or unease
ruminate /ˈruː.mɪ.neɪt/ C2	verb - think deeply about something; focus excessively on negative thoughts
cognitive /ˈkɒɡ.nə.tɪv/ C1	adjective - relating to the mental processes of perception, memory, and reasoning
compassionate /kəmˈpæʃ.ən.ət/ B2	adjective - feeling or showing sympathy and concern for others

Key Grammar Structures

• Why did I set it so early?

  ➔ Wh- question with Past Simple

  ➔ Used to ask about the reason for an action that happened at a specific time in the past.

• I need a haircut... unless?

  ➔ Ellipsis (omission of words)

  ➔ The speaker omits 'I get one' after 'unless' to convey a spontaneous, trailing thought.

• Some people even stigmatize this behavior as a sign of mental instability.

  ➔ Phrasal Verb / Collocation: Stigmatize [something] as [something]

  ➔ Used to describe the act of labeling a behavior negatively, using the structure 'stigmatize X as Y'.

• Psychologists believe our first experiences with self-talk are mostly vocal.

  ➔ Reporting verb with 'that' clause (implied)

  ➔ The verb 'believe' introduces a fact or opinion, followed by the object clause starting with an implicit 'that'.

• By repeating conversations they’ve had with adults, children practice managing their behaviors.

  ➔ Gerund phrase as a means (By + V-ing)

  ➔ The structure 'By + V-ing' explains the method or mechanism by which children learn to regulate behavior.

• This kind of self-talk was especially beneficial for reducing stress.

  ➔ Adjective + prepositional phrase / Gerund as object of preposition

  ➔ Uses 'beneficial for' followed by a gerund 'reducing' to describe the purpose or effect of an action.

• Those who constantly blame themselves for their problems experience more intense feelings of depression.

  ➔ Relative clause with 'who'

  ➔ Defines the subject 'Those' (people) using the relative pronoun 'who' to provide more information.

• That inner voice is a partner you’ll be talking to for many years to come.

  ➔ Reduced relative clause / Future continuous

  ➔ Contains a reduced relative clause ('[that/whom] you'll be talking to') and a future continuous tense.