[English]
Hello everyone! Welcome to "Everyday Chinese"!
I am your friend, Wang Yu.
Hello everyone, my name is Li Ming. It's a pleasure to meet you all again.
Li Ming, I want to ask you a question today.
Oh? What's the problem? you say.
Well, I have many friends who are learning Chinese.
They often send me messages, written in Chinese characters very well.
They also often listen to our podcast,
They say they can understand it.
Well, that's good. It shows that they study hard.
Yes. However, they have a big problem.
They don't speak Chinese.
In other words, they dare not speak Chinese.
They often ask me: "Wang Yu, why have I studied for so long and
know so many Chinese characters, but I just can't pronounce them?"
Ah, I understand. This is a very, very good question.
I think many friends who are listening to our podcast,
may have the same problem.
Yes! So, today we want to talk to you about this topic:
Why do you still can’t speak Chinese after studying for a long time?
OK. I hope today's chat can help everyone.
Li Ming, I think the first and biggest reason is "fear". Afraid of saying the wrong thing.
I agree. Many people don’t just “don’t know how to speak”, but they “dare not speak”.
Yes! It’s this “dare not”.
I remember when I first started learning English. I know a lot of words, and I
can understand them all in books.
But when the teacher asked me to stand up and answer the question, my God, my heart was beating very fast.
You are scared.
Yes. I have many ideas in my mind, but my mouth just won't listen.
I can't say a word. I'm afraid that my pronunciation is wrong, my sentences are wrong, and
my classmates will laugh at me.
I understand very well. We call this feeling "psychological disorder".
You want to say something in your heart, but there seems to be a wall blocking your mouth.
Yes, yes, it is a wall! You put it so well. Did you have this
feeling when you were learning a foreign language before?
Of course. I am a person who prefers to pursue perfection.
So, when I first started learning, I always wanted to say everything I said completely
correctly.
The grammar must be correct, the wording must be correct, and the pronunciation must be correct.
What's the result?
The result is that I think too much and speak too little.
Before I say a word, I have to think about it in my mind for five minutes.
By the time I thought about it, others had already started talking about the next topic.
Hahaha, me too! Exactly the same! How did you change later?
Later, one of my Chinese teachers said something to me that changed me.
He said: "Language is for communication, not for exams.
You said it wrong, it doesn't matter. I can understand what you mean,
That's the most important thing."
That's so right! "Being able to understand what you mean is the most important thing."
An American friend of mine also said the same thing to me.
At that time, I wanted to tell him in English that I went to see a movie yesterday.
I said: "I saw a movie yesterday."
Well, this grammar is wrong.
Yes, it is completely Chinese grammar.
After I finished speaking, my face was very red. I feel so shameful.
But my friend immediately said: "Oh, a movie! Which one? Was it good?"
He completely understood what I meant! He didn't think my grammar was weird at all.
Yes. What he cares about is "what movie did you watch" rather than "whether your sentences are correct."
Since then, I started to become brave.
If I said something wrong, I was wrong.
The important thing is, I said it! I made my point.
So, my friends who are listening to our podcast, I want to tell you,
Please don't be afraid. It really doesn't matter if you say it wrong.
Your Chinese friends, your Chinese teachers, they will definitely understand you.
Right. Open your mouth bravely. This is the first and most important step in learning to speak Chinese.
...
Wang Yu, in addition to "fear", I think there is a second very important reason. What is
?
Many friends only “input” but not “output”.
Input? Output? What does this mean?
A bit like a computer word.
Haha, let me explain. Very simple.
"Input" is your learning process.
For example, you read books, you recognize Chinese characters, and you listen to our podcasts.
This knowledge has entered your brain. This is "input".
Oh, I see. Then I am "typing" every day.
Yes. However, language learning requires not only “input” but also “output”.
"Output" is the process of using language.
For example, you write Chinese characters, or, more importantly, you "speak" Chinese.
I understand! Many friends spend a lot of time reading and listening to lectures every day. This is "input".
But they never speak Chinese, so they have no "output".
Absolutely correct.
Wang Yu, let me give you an analogy.
What do you think learning to speak Chinese is like?
Hmm...like learning to sing?
Kind of like. I have a better analogy. I think learning to speak Chinese is like learning to swim.
like.
Learn to swim? interesting. Tell me.
You think, if a person wants to learn to swim. He bought a lot of books about swimming and read them
every day at home.
The book told him how to move his hands and how to move his feet.
He also watches a lot of videos online to see how world champions swim.
He learned all the theories.
Well, he studies very seriously.
Then, I took him to a swimming pool and said, "Okay, you can swim
now."
Do you think he can swim?
He certainly won't! He will sink!
Why? He has learned so much.
Because he has never been in the water! His body didn't know what it felt like to be in the water.
Reading a book and actually doing it yourself are two different things.
Absolutely correct! Learning to speak Chinese is exactly the same.
You understand all the Chinese characters and understand all our podcasts, just like the person who
has read all the swimming books. You have a lot of knowledge in your brain.
However, if you never open your mouth to "speak", your mouth and your tongue will not learn
how to make Chinese sounds. Your body does not have the habit of "speaking Chinese".
You said it so well! "Speaking Chinese" is a physical habit! Just like swimming, it requires
the body to practice. Seeing with your eyes and hearing with your ears are not enough. Mouth
Ba also needs practice!
Yes. So, friends, please check your study methods.
Do you only watch and listen every day? If so, then you may have found the
reason why you can't speak Chinese.
What you need is to get into the water immediately and start practicing "speaking" immediately.
Li Ming, we just talked about
"fear of saying something wrong" and "only input but no output".
I think of one of my students, her name is Mary.
She has a particularly typical problem.
Oh? Come and listen.
Mary is a very hard-working student.
She has been learning Chinese for two years,
and may know more Chinese characters than I do.
When she reads Chinese news, she can understand the general meaning.
Then she is very powerful! Chinese level should be very high.
Yes, in theory.
However, she hardly spoke.
When we were in class, I asked her questions,
She always had to think about it for a long, long time.
Sometimes, she doesn’t answer and just smiles at me.
Is she also afraid of saying something wrong?
A little bit. But more importantly, she wanted to be too "perfect."
Once after class, I asked her:
"Mary, why don't you talk in class?
Your Chinese is very good."
What did she say?
She said to me:
"Teacher Wang, I want to say something.
But when I want to say a sentence,
I will think about many questions in my mind.
Is this word correct?
Do Chinese people say this sentence?
Are all four of my tones correct?
I thought about it,
and then I don’t know how to say it."
Ah, this is what I just said,
my previous question. Pursue perfection.
Yes! She wanted to say something like a real Chinese,
there was nothing wrong at all.
However, the more she thought about it, the less she could say it.
I know this feeling all too well.
It's like you want to walk,
but every time you take a step, you have to think:
Where should I put my left foot?
Where is my right foot?
Do I want my body to move forward?
If you think too much, you won’t be able to walk.
This is the feeling!
So, I told Mary:
"Don't think so much.
Language is not mathematics,
There are not so many 'completely correct'
or 'completely wrong'.
You are a learner now,
making mistakes is normal and should be done."
Right. Making mistakes is part of learning.
No baby,
does not fall when he first learns to walk.
No one,
makes no mistakes when he first learns to speak.
Yes.
So my advice to Mary is:
Forget "perfect".
Pursue "completion" first.
This is a good statement.
"First complete, then perfect."
What does it mean?
It means,
Don’t always think about saying a 100% sentence.
Just say a 60-minute sentence and that’s it!
If you can make the other party understand, you will succeed.
For example,
you want to tell someone
"I went to a cafe with a friend this afternoon and drank a latte."
This sentence is a bit long and a bit difficult.
Well, for starters, yes.
You may be thinking,
Is the word "afternoon" in the right tone?
How do you say "cafe"?
What about "latte"?
After much deliberation,
finally gave up and
stopped talking.
Very likely.
But if you're after "completion",
you can put it simply.
You can say:
"Today.
I am a friend.
Drink coffee."
This sentence is grammatically incorrect,
It is very simple.
But,
Can your friend understand?
Of course!
I can definitely understand.
That's enough!
You have "completed" the communication.
As your speaking gets better and better in the future,
you will naturally be able to say that perfect, 100% sentence.
But now,
Please start by saying the sentence of sixty points.
Very well said.
So, friends,
Don’t let “perfection” become your enemy.
Say it first, the most important thing.
Okay, Wang Yu. We analyzed three main reasons:
First, fear of saying the wrong thing.
Second, only input and no output.
Third, pursue perfection too much.
We have said so many "whys",
Now, we should give our friends some practical and simple methods.
Tell them "what to do".
OK! This is the most important part.
Tell me first, do you have any good ideas?
I have a very simple method,
and everyone can do it.
That’s it: talking to oneself.
Talking to yourself? Do you talk to yourself?
Right. Many people say:
"I have no Chinese friends, I don't live in China,
I don't have an environment to practice Chinese."
This is not a problem.
You can create your own Chinese environment.
How to create?
Use the method of "talking to yourself".
For example, when you get up in the morning,
you can look out the window and say in Chinese:
"Good morning. The weather is very good today."
When you are having breakfast,
you can look at your bread and say:
"This is a bread.
I like to eat bread."
Haha, this method is so interesting.
Whatever you see, say something.
Use the simplest Chinese words and sentences
you have learned to describe the world around you.
For example, if you see a red cup on the table,
you say: "This is a cup.
It is red.
I drink water from the cup."
I understand!
There are several advantages to doing this.
First, you don't need anyone else,
you can practice alone.
Second, you won't be afraid,
Because no one else will listen, it doesn't matter if you say something wrong.
Yes. And, best of all,
this exercise helps
build a connection between your brain and your mouth.
Let you get used to thinking in Chinese,
use Chinese to express.
This exercise is very simple,
but if you insist on doing it for ten minutes every day,
after a month,
you will definitely find that you have made great progress.
This method is great,
very suitable for shy friends.
Then I also have a way.
My solution is to find a "language partner".
Language partner.
This one is also very popular.
Right. Nowadays, the Internet is very convenient.
You can find many
Chinese people who want to learn your mother tongue online.
You can become friends,
become language partners.
What then? How to practice?
You can make an appointment to have a phone call once a week,
or video chat.
For example, chat for thirty minutes.
For the first fifteen minutes, you spoke in Chinese.
For the next fifteen minutes, you speak in your native language.
This will help both people.
This method is also very good.
Because you have a real communication partner.
You can practice listening and speaking.
Yes.
Moreover, when chatting with real people,
you will learn a lot of very authentic sayings that are not found in books.
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If you can't find a language partner,
there is another way. What is
?
Go talk to real-world people.
For example, if there is a fruit shop downstairs in your home,
you can go and chat with the boss.
This may be a bit difficult for beginners.
It's not difficult.
You can start with the simplest questions.
In China,
we often call older, friendly women
"aunties".
You can walk to the fruit shop,
smile and say to the boss:
"Hello, Auntie."
Well, this is a good start.
Then, you can point at the apple and ask:
"How much does this cost per pound?"
"jin" is a commonly used unit of weight in China,
One pound is equal to 500 grams.
The boss will tell you the price.
You may not understand, that’s okay.
You can ask her to write it on paper.
In this process, you only said two or three sentences,
But this is a real and successful communication!
You will feel very accomplished.
I agree.
This kind of small success,
will give you a lot of confidence,
and make you more courageous to speak Chinese.
Yes!
So, my suggestion is,
Go out and talk to someone.
Even just a "hello",
a "thank you",
is a great start.
Okay, today we talked a lot about "how to speak Chinese". It's almost time.
Wang Yu, as usual, let’s summarize today’s content for you.
Okay. Today we talked about why you still can’t speak Chinese even after studying for a long time.
We think there are three main reasons.
The first and most important thing is "fear".
Please don’t be afraid of making mistakes.
Right. The second reason is that many friends only "input" but not "output".
Remember our "swimming" metaphor.
Learning a language requires not only using your eyes and ears, but also “practicing” with your mouth.
Yes, you have to go swimming!
The third reason is, don’t pursue “perfection” too much.
Remember, "done" first, then "perfect".
Saying a sentence with sixty points is a hundred times better than saying a sentence with zero points!
sums it up very well. We also provide some simple methods,
such as "talk to yourself", or find a "language partner",
or bravely go and say a word to the "aunt" in the fruit shop.
I hope these methods are helpful to everyone.
Well! So, my friends who listen to our podcast, now it’s your turn.
We would like to ask you a question:
In order to practice speaking Chinese, what was the first Chinese sentence you spoke?
Do you dare to speak Chinese?
Do you have any good ways to practice speaking?
Please leave us a message in the comment area below!
We are very much looking forward to seeing what you share and your stories.
Okay, that's it for today.
Thank you all for listening to "Daily Chinese".
See you next time.
Goodbye!