[English]
Would you like to use real life English
phrases that real people use every day,
not that old textbook stuff? If the
answer is yes, you're in the right
place. Hi, I'm Vanessa from
speakenglishwithvanessa.com.
And here on my YouTube channel, you will
learn real life English, the way that
real people speak in the real world.
Today you are going to learn 10 common
phrases that I use every day in my daily
life and you can too. But before we
learn these 10 phrases, you need to know
something. You can listen and watch
vocabulary lessons all day in English
and you will never remember it unless
you use it yourself. So today I have
something special for you. Like usual, I
have created a free PDF worksheet for
you that includes all of today's
important vocabulary, but I want you to
be able to use today's vocabulary
yourself. So, hidden inside that free
PDF worksheet, there is a link. This is
a free link. You could just click on it
and you will be able to download an
audio where you can speak out loud with
me. We will be repeating these sentences
that you hear today in this lesson out
loud together. You will be able to use
your own voice in English repeating my
pronunciation, repeating my sentence
structure, and that way you can use it
yourself. The key to never forgetting.
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our 10 important phrases that I use
every day. Plus, there is a bonus phrase
at the end that includes a very
important difference between American
English and British English. I made this
mistake with British English many years
ago, and I don't want you to make that
mistake. So, wait till the end of this
lesson, and I will tell you exactly how
to avoid the mistake that I made.
Everyday English phrase number one is
inside out. This shirt that you have
probably seen me wear in my English
lessons is inside out. This is a fixed
phrase and you will never hear it any
other way. So, it is a great one to
memorize. This shirt is inside out. Now,
this was a phrase that I used in my
recent video where I was showing you the
laundry and folding clothes. So, what
we're going to do is you're going to see
the original clip from that conversation
and how I used it. This is another way
that will help you remember it because
you are seeing it in various contexts.
And then, of course, I hope you will be
repeating these sentences with me in the
free downloadable audio as well. So,
let's see the original clip so that you
can see how inside out was used. Let's
watch. First, if a shirt is inside out,
like this one was, I have to turn it
right side out. Isn't that kind of a
strange expression? Everyday expression
number two is, what do I do now? I need
to turn this shirt right side out. Right
side out. Both of these phrases use the
word out inside out and right side out.
This is a great fixed phrase to use. And
you can turn any piece of clothing right
side out. You can even turn a pillowcase
right side out. When I make my bed, I
turn the pillowcase right side out
before putting it on my pillow. All
right, let's watch how that was used in
the original context. Usually for my
kids, because they're small, they're
young,
they can turn their clothes right side
out,
but I think if I do it while I'm doing
the laundry, it kind of saves some
hassle. English phrase that I use every
day. Number three is comfy. Comfy. This
sweater is so comfy. I wear it almost
every day in the fall. It's true. I was
wearing it before I filmed this lesson.
And what does the word comfy mean? You
can probably guess. It is a shortened
version of the word comfortable.
Notice the pronunciation of this full
word. Comfortable.
Comfortable.
But good news, we often shorten this
word and just say comfy. Comfy. So, lots
of things can be comfy. Clothes can be
comfy. Maybe even a house can be comfy.
If it is a comfortable place to relax
and spend time, oh, what a comfy house
you have. This is simply a shortened way
to say comfortable. All right, let's see
how I used it in that original context.
These are really comfortable pants, and
my oldest son refuses to wear anything
else except for sweatpants. Whatever. I
don't really care. It's comfy. English
phrase that I use every day. Number four
is to clean up a mess. I use this one
probably 10 times a day. And here we're
talking about when something is spilled
on the ground. What do you need to do?
Well, you need to clean up a mess. And
for me as a mother, I need to clean up a
lot of messes, but I also need to teach
my children to clean up their own
messes. When they spill something, they
need to learn to clean up their own
messes. So, you see there's a little bit
of grammatical flexibility here. We
could say clean up a mess or I need to
clean up my mess. You need to clean up
your own mess. It's true. All right,
let's see how this was used in the
original context. Uh, I use it sometimes
to dry dishes or clean up messes.
I have a lot of messes around my house.
Someone is always spilling something.
Important everyday English phrase number
five is father figure. Now, when I
talked about this in the original
context, it was in a little bit of a
joke. But when we use this in everyday
life, we're talking about an important
man who was a role model for you. This
is not your real father. This is someone
who is like a father to you. You looked
up to them. So for a lot of people, it
might be your basketball coach, your
baseball coach, or maybe a teacher in
your life. Um uh there is not a specific
father figure in my life beside my real
father, but I want to give you an
example about my current life. My
husband Dan is like a father figure for
some of his students. Some of his
students don't have a father who is
present in their life. So my husband Dan
is an important male role model for
them. Whether or not they realize it at
the moment, he is someone who they look
up to and someone who is an important
man in their life. He is a father figure
to many of his students. All right,
let's see how this was used in the
original context. And I used it a bit
like a joke. It's on a t-shirt. So, if
you want to get the full context for
that, you're welcome to watch the
original video where I folded the
laundry and talked about it along the
way. All right, let's watch. Oh, you
have to see this shirt. This is one of
Dan's t-shirts that I got him. It says,
"It's not a dad, bod, it's a father
figure."
Important everyday English phrase number
six is in charge of. I love learning
phrases like this because when you learn
them together, it's easier than
remembering grammatical rules like when
do I use of prepositions? What are the
rules? No, you just remember the full
phrase. In charge of. I am in charge of
folding the laundry in my house. Next
week, my children will be in charge of
checking my neighbors mail because my
neighbors will be on vacation. It is
their job to check her mail. So, they
are in charge of the mail. All right,
let's see how this was originally used
in the context of doing chores at home.
and we'll see. Let's watch. Now, Dan, my
husband, he is in charge of dishes. So,
he does dishes every night and I do
laundry, I don't know, every couple
days. Important everyday English phrase
number seven is kind of a long one, so
stick with me. It is to get in the habit
of doing something. to get in the habit
of doing something for you. You are
learning English and I want you to get
in the habit of learning English every
day. What does that mean? It means you
need to have the habit. You need to have
the daily routine of waking up and
listening to English music. Listening to
an English podcast while you're driving
to work. watching my English lessons
while you're having a coffee break. This
is the routine of English. And notice
the grammatical structure here. When you
get in the habit of learning English,
that last part needs to have an ing
word. Learning English. I want to get
into the habit of walking every day
after dinner. I want to get in the habit
of learning English every day. Make sure
that you have that final part
grammatically correct. All right, let's
watch how this was used in the original
context. I know it's not good for
energy and for the environment, but we
use them all the time. And I think when
you get in the habit of using a dryer,
it's hard to break that habit, right?
Important everyday phrase number eight
is to look back fondly. The key word
here is fondly. This means with some
happiness, maybe some nostalgia. It's a
little bit bittersweet because we're
thinking about a good time in the past.
We are looking back fondly on something
that happened. So, let me give you a
little situation of something that often
happens in my house. when my
mother-in-law comes to visit my house
and my kids are making a mess as I
talked about before and maybe it is the
third or fourth mess that they have made
that day. I might be a little
frustrated. Uh now I have to clean up
another mess. Uh what can I do? And she
says,
I remember when my kids did that. Let me
help you. So, here she is looking back
fondly on something that was probably
difficult at the moment. It's difficult
to constantly be cleaning up messes for
children. But when you are a
grandparent, you can think about the
past in kind of a more happy way
possibly. It's not that it's not a happy
life at the moment, but sometimes those
difficult times don't seem too happy,
right? So, my mother-in-law can look
back fondly on all of the things that
she had to do in order to raise her
kids. And we can do that as well. We can
look back fondly on our childhood. And
in the future, maybe we'll look back
fondly on today. Who knows? All right,
let's see how this was used in the
original context. Sometimes kids find
the strangest things to have fun with,
so I leave it. And I'm sure someday when
my kids are grown, I'll look back fondly
on those silly things.
All right, what have we got left? All
right, we're almost at our bonus word.
It is coming soon. But first, let's get
to number nine. The ninth important
daily life English expression that we
use all the time and that is ideally.
So here we have the root word ideal.
This is almost talking about perfection.
Is perfection possible?
Absolutely not. But when we are making
plans or dreams, we sometimes think
about perfection. This is what I would
love to have happen. So for me, in my
house, ideally, I will have dinner
prepared before my children come home
from school. This way when they're at
home, I can just spend time with them
and I don't need to think about cooking.
Do you think this really happens?
Not very often. That's a lot of prep
work. It's a lot of organization and
sometimes I just don't feel like it. So,
I use the word ideally. In my dream
world, this would happen. Ideally, I
would be totally prepared when my
children come home and I could just
spend time with them. I wouldn't need to
be cooking. But this is kind of in a
dream world, an ideal world, this
perfect world that we don't live in.
It's just an ideal. All right, let's see
how this phrase was used in the original
context. And I want to remind you that
you can use every single one of these
words in the bonus audio. You'll be
repeating sentences with me so that
you'll not only hear me and see that
original context, but you'll be able to
speak out loud and solidify these words
in your mind so that you can use them
when you're speaking and having an
English conversation. So, make sure that
you download that PDF worksheet plus the
bonus audio so that you never forget
these words. Ideally, you will never
forget them. All right, let's watch the
original context. Uh, this is my
husband's colored shirt. So, I would
call that a short sleeve colored shirt
and it gets hung up
in the closet ideally.
So, I will put it on the couch. Our 10th
important daily life everyday English
expression is to do chores.
What is doing chores? Well, this simply
means that you are doing those mundane,
not fun, usually tasks that help keep
your life going. It might be cooking a
meal. It might mean doing the dishes. It
might mean going to the post office. It
might mean mowing the lawn. These are
things that are necessary. They are kind
of the structure of our lives usually
because they happen every day. And these
are the things that are necessary but
not always fun. Over the summer, we
recently implemented a deep cleaning
Saturday with my whole family and we
tried to trick our children into
thinking that chores are fun. So, we
gave everyone a chore to do and we all
do the chores together. This is a way of
keeping motivated but also making it
feel like we are a team. We are working
together. Kids can do chores. Adults
have to do chores, but sometimes it's
more fun when we just do chores
together. So, let's see how this was
used in the original context. And I hope
you will feel a little more motivated to
do chores in your own life. Let's watch.
And I think in general, just helping
kids learn chores is good. But if you
are a parent and you have ever tried to
teach children how to do chores,
you will know that it is 10 times the
amount of effort. Oh, I have so many
unmatched socks.
Are you ready for our bonus important
everyday phrase? It is the word fancy.
Now in American English and in British
English, this means something elegant or
expensive.
I have a fancy necklace that I like to
wear when I go to a nice restaurant.
Okay, that's a fancy necklace. Or maybe
you could say, I only want to go to
fancy restaurants when I go on a date. I
will never go to a simple, inexpensive
restaurant on a date. Well, that's a
little bit difficult maybe, but here
we're talking about something that's
expensive. This is the same in the UK
and in the US, but I want you to pay
attention and do not make this mistake
because in British English, if you are
in the UK, let's say you go to London
and you're visiting some friends in
London and they invite you to a fancy
dress party. What do you think that
means? I thought it meant you wear a
really nice expensive dress. You get to
wear sparkly earrings.
Nope. This means that it is a costume
party, almost like a Halloween party.
Can you imagine how embarrassed I was
when I showed up at the party dressed in
a really nice dress, my hair all fancy,
and everyone else was dressed like a
bear, like a clown? What? Vanessa, what
are you dressed as? A princess.
So, don't make this mistake. In the UK,
in England, a fancy dress party is not
related to the word fancy like we were
talking about a fancy restaurant.
Instead, it's a costume party. This term
doesn't really exist in the US. we would
just say a costume party or maybe a
Halloween party if it's around October
31st. So now you know. All right, let's
see how the word fancy was used in the
original context so that you never
forget it. Let's watch. In the end, I
would rather
save the time. I don't have fancy
clothes. Maybe that's it. If I had fancy
clothes, then I would take more care to
separate them, but I don't. Well,
congratulations. You just learned 10
plus one bonus important everyday
English expressions in context. What's
the next step? Well, the next step is to
download the free PDF worksheet and
you'll get that bonus downloadable
audio, this speaking practice that will
help you to never forget these phrases
ever again. You will shadow with my
voice, speak out loud, so that when you
go into a real English conversation, you
will be absolutely prepared to express
yourself wonderfully. To get the free
PDF worksheet, just click on the link in
the description, enter your name and
email address, and voila, just like
that, the PDF worksheet will land in
your email inbox. It is my gift to you.
And now I have a question for you. In
the comments, I want to know, in your
ideal life, would you wear comfy clothes
or fancy clothes every day? Let me know
in the comments. I can't wait to see
what you have to say. And thank you so
much for learning English with me. I'll
see you again next Friday for a new
lesson here on my YouTube channel. Bye.
But wait, do you want more? I recommend
watching this video next. This is the
original video that included over 50
important daily life English expressions
that you will learn while I am simply
folding the laundry. You're invited to
my house. Go watch that video and find