[English]
Hello everyone, welcome to the new issue of "Everyday Chinese".
I am Li Ming.
Hello everyone, I am Wang Yu.
I’m glad to meet you all again!
Wang Yu, you seem to be in particularly good spirits today. Is there anything happy about you?
(laughing), Li Ming, you observe so carefully. I've been learning to draw recently.
I finally finished a painting yesterday that I'm very satisfied with, so I feel a great sense of accomplishment.
But to be honest, the learning process is not so happy every day.
Oh? How to say?
Just...sometimes I feel very tired, don’t want to move, and feel no motivation at all.
I think many of our friends who are learning Chinese may feel the same way, right?
I have to study every day, but sometimes I feel really bored and want to give up.
You are so right.
This is indeed a very common problem.
No matter what you study, enthusiasm and motivation don't come every day.
Many people are very interested in it at the beginning, but gradually they can no longer persist.
Yes! So we’re going to talk about a very important topic today, right?
That's right. We want to talk to you today:
How can we have the motivation to learn every day,
so that we can never get tired of learning or never get angry while learning?
This topic is great!
I have many questions to ask you, Li Ming.
You always seem so planned and disciplined.
(laughing), I also have my own methods. Then let’s start from the first step of learning.
Wang Yu, I think that before we discuss "how to learn",
the more important question is "why to learn". What do you think?
Well, "Why study"?
I understand, you are referring to the learning goal, right?
Yes.
If you don't know where you are going, the wind in any direction is not a tailwind.
The same goes for learning.
If there is no clear goal in mind,
it is easy to get lost when encountering difficulties,
and then give up.
I agree.
For me, when I started learning Chinese,
the initial goal was actually very simple.
It’s because I particularly like watching Chinese TV series, especially costume dramas.
I thought at the time, how cool would it be if I could understand what they were saying without reading the subtitles?
...
This is a very good goal!
Because it is very specific and related to your own interests.
This is a goal that makes you happy.
Yes! Every time I don't want to study,
I will open an episode of my favorite TV series,
listen to the dialogues that I don't understand, and then I will tell myself:
"Wang Yu, come on! You will understand it after you learn it!"
When I think about it, my motivation will come back immediately.
Look, this is the power of interest.
My goals may be a little different from yours. I'm more of a planner.
...
I learn a new language, usually for work needs,
or for a long-term personal development plan.
For example, when I was learning English, my goal was very clear:
Pass an important exam within a year,
Get a certificate, so that I can apply for a better job.
Wow, your goal sounds... so stressful!
(laughing), indeed.
But for me, such a clear and challenging goal,
is like a lighthouse in the distance.
I know that as long as I work hard in that direction, every step I take is meaningful.
I will write down my big goals and stick them in front of my desk so that I can see them every day.
It will remind me that today’s efforts are for a better life tomorrow.
I understand.
So, your motivation comes from expectations and plans for the future.
And my motivation comes more from the current happiness and interest.
You can say that.
But I think these two goals are not contradictory.
We can have a long-term goal like a lighthouse,
such as "pass the HSK Level 6 exam",
or we can have many short-term goals like little flowers on the roadside,
such as "learn to sing a Chinese song" or "understand a Chinese movie."
Yes! This combination is perfect.
There is a general direction, and there are many interesting little scenery on the way.
This way you won’t feel like the journey is too far or too boring.
That's right.
So, dear listeners,
What is the "why" for you to learn Chinese?
Is it for work, for traveling,
or to chat with Chinese friends?
Find your answer, write it down,
Tell yourself that this is why you work hard every day.
Li Ming, I found my "why".
My big goal is "to be able to chat fluently with Chinese friends."
However, this goal is really big!
Feeling like an elephant, I have no idea where to start eating.
Sometimes when I think about how much there is to learn,
I feel very tired and don't want to start.
(laughing), your metaphor is very interesting.
How to eat an elephant?
The answer is: Eat it one bite at a time.
The same is true for learning. We need to break down a huge goal
into many manageable small tasks.
Break it down into small tasks?
This is your strength, please teach me.
It's actually very simple.
For example, the goal of "chatting fluently".
We can break it down into several parts:
Vocabulary, grammar, listening, and speaking.
Then, break each part into smaller,
tasks that can be completed every day.
Oh! For example, in the vocabulary section, I can set a goal of
"Learn 10 new words every day."
Very good!
"Learn 10 new words every day",
This is a perfect little task.
It is very specific and easy to do,
and you will have a sense of accomplishment after you finish it.
You can also plan to "listen to 15 minutes of Chinese podcasts every day",
"read a short article every day",
or "find a Chinese friend to practice speaking for half an hour every week".
I understand!
In this way, I don't have to think about the scary big goal of
"I want to chat fluently" every day.
I only need to focus on today's small tasks:
"Today I want to meet these 10 new friends (words)".
This way I feel much less stressed!
Exactly.
Here I would like to share a metaphor that I really like.
Learning is like building a house,
Your daily task is to put a brick.
Put one piece today and another piece tomorrow.
It seems like nothing happened and the progress is very slow.
But if you persist for a year and look back,
you will find that you have built a beautiful and solid house with your own hands.
This metaphor is great!
"Put a brick every day." I remember.
But... Li Ming, I must admit,
Sometimes, I don't even have the strength to put a brick.
Do you have those days when you don’t want to do anything?
Of course. Everyone has it.
At this time, don't blame yourself and say
"I'm too lazy." This is very normal.
So what would you do if you encountered this situation?
Will you force yourself to "lay bricks"?
My approach is to lower the standards.
If I really don't want to study for 30 minutes today,
then I will tell myself to only study for 5 minutes.
If I don't want to memorize 10 words,
then I will only review 3 words.
Even if I don't even want to open the book,
I will play a Chinese song and listen.
Oh! You mean,
keep a little bit in touch with Chinese even if you feel bad?
Right. The key is "don't let the chain break".
Even if you only do a little bit today,
it is better than doing nothing.
You have maintained this study habit.
It's like taking care of a pot of flowers.
You don't have the energy to fertilize or prune it today,
but at least remember to water it a little bit.
Maintaining this habit is more important than how much you learn on a given day.
I understand.
Don't force yourself,
But keep it a habit.
This method is really good, very gentle, and very effective.
Next time I don't want to study anymore,
I will tell myself:
"Wang Yu, go listen to a Chinese song you like!"
We just talked about goals and plans.
These are relatively rational.
However, humans are emotional animals.
If something is not interesting,
it will be difficult to stick to it for a long time.
Therefore, the third key point,
is to make learning interesting.
I have a lot of say in this!
I am a typical "interested learner".
If I feel bored,
I won't be able to study for a minute.
(laughing),
Then you must have many good ways to make learning interesting, right?
Share it quickly.
Of course! My first method,
is to combine Chinese learning with my own hobbies.
I like cooking,
I will watch Chinese recipe videos,
such as how to make mapo tofu,
how to make scrambled eggs with tomatoes.
While watching, learn
the Chinese expressions for various ingredients and actions,
such as "cut", "stir-fry", "salt" and "sugar".
This method is very good!
Integrate learning into life.
Yes!
Also, I like watching movies,
I will find some simple Chinese cartoons to watch,
such as "Pleasant Goat and Big Big Wolf"
or "Big Ears Tutu".
Their dialogues are relatively simple,
and their speaking speed is also slow, making them very suitable for beginners.
Watching interesting stories,
practiced listening without realizing it.
Use the way you like to come into contact with Chinese,
instead of just sitting at a desk and reading textbooks.
Yes! And listen to music!
I particularly like Jay Chou's songs,
although his lyrics are sometimes unclear.
But I will look for the lyrics, read them sentence by sentence,
and learn the words in them.
Learn to sing a Chinese song,
The sense of accomplishment is really great!
The core of the methods you mentioned
are to turn learning from a "task"
into an "entertainment activity".
In this way, you are not "forcing" yourself to learn,
but "enjoying" the learning process.
That’s right!
From "I want to learn" to "I want to learn".
Li Ming, what about you?
You are such a planned person,
will you also use some interesting methods?
Of course.
Although I like planning,
I don’t like boring either.
For example, when I memorize words,
I don’t like to just look at the list.
I will use some mobile apps.
They design word memorization into a game.
You can pass levels and score points every day, just like playing a game.
Oh, gamified learning!
This one is very popular.
Yes.
Also, I really like a method,
called "Create a Chinese environment for yourself".
For example, I will set the language of my mobile phone to Chinese.
In this way, every time I look at my phone, I will see a lot of Chinese characters,
such as "WeChat", "Settings", and "Calendar".
This method is amazing!
Will it be hard to get used to at first?
It will be a little bit,
but it will be fine soon.
You can also do something simpler,
such as putting sticky notes with Chinese names on some things at home
.
Put a piece of paper on the refrigerator and write "refrigerator";
Put a piece of paper on the door and
write "door".
I see it many times every day,
and I naturally remember it.
Wow,
These methods are so practical!
To sum up,
it is to find your favorite way,
it can be watching dramas,
listening to songs,
cooking,
it can also be playing games,
changing phone settings.
Let Chinese become a part of your life,
rather than a burden.
Wang Yu,
We talked about our goals,
plans and interests.
Finally, I want to talk about an invisible but very powerful thing,
That is the power of habits and environment.
Well,
habits are important,
I know.
But
What does "environment" refer to?
Environment,
first refers to the place where you study.
Where do you usually study Chinese?
I...
Sometimes on the sofa,
Sometimes on the bed,
Sometimes at the dining table...
It seems not very fixed.
I suggest you try creating a dedicated study corner.
It doesn’t need to be big.
A clean desk and
a comfortable chair are enough.
The key is,
This place is only for learning.
As soon as you sit here,
your brain will receive a signal:
"Okay,
it's time to study now."
Oh,
It's like a ritual!
Separate learning from other activities.
Right.
Moreover,
when studying,
take away things that
distract you,
especially mobile phones.
If you can't help but want to play with your phone,
you can put it in another room.
Creating a clean and quiet environment
can greatly improve your learning efficiency.
This is good advice.
In addition to the physical environment,
there is also the "human" environment, right?
For example,
Find a friend to study with?
That’s right!
If you have a language partner,
or join a study group,
everyone can encourage each other,
supervise each other.
When you don't want to study,
seeing your friends still working hard,
may give you some motivation.
You can also practice speaking together,
share learning materials,
make the learning journey less lonely.
Yes,
It feels really good to have companions.
Talking about habits,
There is an old saying in China,
I remember the teacher said,
It’s called
"Review the past and learn the new",
right?
Yes, you remember it clearly.
"Review the old and learn the new",
This is what Confucius said,
means
"Review the old knowledge,
you can gain new understanding and experience."
This sentence is very, very important in the Chinese concept of learning
.
Can you explain more?
Why is review so important?
Because our brains forget things.
I learned 10 words today.
If you never look at them again,
you may only remember two or three in a week.
This will make people very frustrated,
feeling like they have learned in vain.
Ah, I often feel this way!
Therefore,
we need to review regularly.
For example,
you can use the "Ebbinghaus forgetting curve"
to arrange your review plan.
To put it simply,
is to review it on the
first day,
second day,
fourth day,
seventh day...
...
after learning a new knowledge.
Each review
takes a short time,
but the effect is very good.
It turns out that there is a scientific method for review!
Yes.
Turn review into an unbreakable habit.
For example,
Before starting to learn new knowledge every day,
spend 10 minutes
to quickly review what you learned yesterday.
In this way,
your knowledge house will become stronger and stronger.
Remember,
"Review the past to learn the new",
Reviewing is not a waste of time,
but to consolidate your foundation,
allowing you to learn faster and
better.
Great!
I really learned a lot today.
Find why,
Break down tasks,
Increase fun,
Create a good environment,
Develop good habits.
I feel like I am no longer so afraid of "learning every day".
...
I hope what we talked about today
can give some help and encouragement to friends who are learning Chinese.
Okay,
Unknowingly,
We chatted for such a long time again today.
Yes,
time flies so fast!
I can always learn a lot from chatting with you.
Let's briefly summarize what we talked about today,
Let's talk about a few key points on how to maintain motivation for learning.
OK!
The first and most important thing,
is to find the "why" of your study,
which is your goal.
It can be a long-term career goal,
or it can be a short-term interest goal.
Second,
break down big goals
into small tasks that can be completed every day.
Remember that metaphor,
learning is like
"laying a brick every day",
if you persist,
you can build a big house.
Third,
efforts should be made to make learning interesting.
Combine Chinese with your hobbies,
such as watching movies,
listening to music, cooking,
change "I want to learn" into "I want to learn".
Fourth,
we must pay attention to the power of environment and habits.
Create a good learning environment,
Find study partners,
and be sure to develop a good habit of review.
Remember the old Chinese saying:
"Review the past and learn the new."
Very well said.
We mentioned some keywords today,
such as
"motivation", "goal",
"plan", "habit",
"interest",
and the idiom "review the past and learn the new",
I hope everyone can remember it.
So,
At the end of the program,
we also want to ask you who are listening.
Dear friends,
How about you?
Do you have any tips to stay motivated to study?
Or,
What do you think is the most interesting part of learning Chinese
?
Welcome to tell us in the comment area,
Share your story with us!
We look forward to seeing what you all share.
Okay,
This issue of "Everyday Chinese"
ends here.
Thank you all for listening,
See you in the next issue!
Goodbye!