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[Music] 00:01
hello everyone welcome back to the 00:10
English dialogue podcast I'm 00:13
Mike and I'm Emma in today's episode 00:17
we're talking about a topic that's 00:21
really important for personal growth 00:23
self-esteem that's right Emma we often 00:26
hear about self self-esteem but what 00:29
does it really mean and how can we build 00:31
it up 00:34
effectively good questions self-esteem 00:35
is basically how we value and perceive 00:38
ourselves it's about having confidence 00:41
in our abilities and knowing our worth 00:43
and today we're going to discuss eight 00:46
practical steps you can take to build 00:49
and strengthen your self-esteem let's 00:51
Dive Right In the first step is 00:54
practicing self-acceptance this means 00:56
accepting yourself as you are with all 01:00
your strengths and 01:01
weaknesses absolutely it's about 01:03
understanding that nobody is perfect and 01:07
that's okay we all have flaws but they 01:09
don't Define our worth I used to 01:12
struggle with comparing myself to others 01:14
but when I started practicing 01:17
self-acceptance I realized it's about 01:18
embracing who I am not trying to be 01:22
someone else that's a great Point 01:25
accepting yourself is the found 01:28
Foundation of building self-esteem 01:29
because it allows you to see your unique 01:32
value step two is setting realistic 01:34
goals when we set achievable goals and 01:38
work towards them it boosts our 01:41
confidence yes and it's important to 01:43
break down big goals into smaller 01:46
manageable steps that way we can 01:48
celebrate small wins along the way for 01:51
example if you want to get fit start 01:54
with small goals like exercising for 10 01:57
minutes a day as you achieve these many 01:59
goals your confidence grows it's amazing 02:02
how reaching even small goals can give 02:06
us a sense of accomplishment and 02:09
motivate us to keep going definitely 02:11
it's about progress not Perfection the 02:14
third step is focusing on your strengths 02:17
we all have things we're good at and 02:20
recognizing these can help us feel more 02:22
confident that's so true instead of 02:26
dwelling on what we can't do we should 02:28
highlight our talents and abilities I 02:31
agree when I started acknowledging my 02:34
skills in writing and speaking it helped 02:36
boost my self-esteem because I was 02:39
focusing on what I excelled at it's like 02:41
shining a light on your positives when 02:44
you focus on your strengths it changes 02:46
your mindset from I can't to I can 02:49
exactly it's a great way to build a 02:52
positive 02:55
self-image step four is practicing 02:56
positive self talk the way we talk to 02:59
ourselves has a big impact on our 03:01
self-esteem yes our inner dialogue can 03:04
either Lift us up or bring us down so 03:07
it's important to replace negative 03:10
thoughts with positive encouraging ones 03:12
for example instead of saying I'm not 03:16
good at this try saying I'm learning and 03:18
I'll get better with practice that's a 03:21
great example positive self-talk can 03:24
change our perspective and help us build 03:27
a health the more confident mindset it 03:29
takes practice but over time it can make 03:32
a huge difference in how we see 03:35
ourselves step five is surrounding 03:37
yourself with positive people the 03:40
company we keep plays a big role in 03:42
shaping our 03:44
self-esteem yes being around supportive 03:46
and encouraging people can boost our 03:49
confidence on the other hand negative 03:51
people can bring us down I remember 03:54
distancing myself from a few negative 03:56
influences in my life it made a big 03:59
difference because I started feeling 04:01
more uplifted and 04:03
confident that's a great move positive 04:05
people help us see our potential and 04:08
remind us of our worth and they Inspire 04:10
us to be the best version of ourselves 04:14
the sixth step is taking care of your 04:16
physical health when we feel good 04:19
physically it often boosts our mental 04:21
and emotional well-being too absolutely 04:24
simple things like exercising eating a 04:28
balanced diet and getting enough sleep 04:31
can have a big impact on how we feel 04:33
about ourselves I've noticed that when 04:35
I'm consistent with my workouts I feel 04:38
more energetic and confident throughout 04:40
the day that's great to hear taking care 04:42
of our bodies is a way of showing 04:46
self-respect and it reflects in our 04:48
self-esteem it's a reminder that we 04:51
deserve to feel our best step seven is 04:53
learning to say no this might sound 04:56
simple 04:59
but it's a powerful way to protect our 05:00
self-esteem that's true many of us have 05:03
a hard time saying no because we want to 05:06
please others but constantly saying yes 05:08
can lead to burnout and make us feel 05:11
unappreciated I've experienced that 05:14
before but when I started setting 05:16
boundaries and saying no when necessary 05:19
I felt more in control of my time and 05:22
energy it's about valuing your own needs 05:24
and not overcommit yourself 05:27
exactly saying no doesn't make you 05:30
selfish it means you're respecting your 05:32
own limits the final step step eight is 05:35
embracing failure as a learning 05:39
opportunity yes failure is a part of 05:41
life but it doesn't Define Us in fact 05:44
it's often where we learn the most 05:48
valuable 05:50
lessons that's right instead of seeing 05:51
failure as a setback we can see it as a 05:54
stepping stone to success I used to be 05:57
afraid of failing but now I view it as a 06:00
chance to grow every failure teaches us 06:03
something new and helps us improve 06:06
exactly the key is to learn from our 06:09
mistakes and keep moving forward it's a 06:12
powerful way to build resilience and 06:15
self-esteem and it reminds us that we're 06:18
capable of overcoming challenges no 06:20
matter how tough they seem 06:22
[Music] 06:25
all right now let's dive into some 06:32
really useful vocabulary 06:34
selfworth meaning the sense of One's Own 06:37
value or worth as a person example it's 06:40
important to recognize your selfworth 06:44
and not let others Define it for you 06:46
resilience meaning the ability to 06:50
recover quickly from difficulties or 06:52
setbacks example developing resilience 06:55
can help you bounce back from failure 06:57
and keep moving forward affirmation 06:59
meaning a positive statement that is 07:03
repeated to oneself to encourage 07:05
confidence and self-belief example 07:07
saying daily affirmations like I am 07:11
capable and strong can boost your 07:13
self-esteem over time boundary meaning a 07:15
limit or rule set to protect one's 07:19
personal space time or 07:21
emotions example setting boundaries with 07:25
friends can help you manage your time 07:27
better better and reduce 07:29
stress mindset meaning a person's way of 07:31
thinking or their attitude towards a 07:35
particular 07:36
situation example adopting a growth 07:38
mindset allows you to see challenges as 07:40
opportunities to learn and 07:43
grow so there you have it eight 07:45
practical steps to help build 07:48
self-esteem let's quickly recap practice 07:50
self-acceptance set realistic goals 07:53
focus on your strengths practice 07:56
positive selft talk surround yourself 07:59
with positive people take care of your 08:01
physical health learn to say no and 08:04
embrace failure as a learning 08:07
opportunity we hope you found these tips 08:09
helpful building self-esteem is a 08:12
journey and it takes time but it's 08:14
definitely worth the effort 08:17
absolutely 08:21
remember self-esteem starts from 08:22
within and the more you practice these 08:25
steps the more confident you'll become 08:28
if you enjoyed today's episode please 08:31
subscribe to the English dialogue 08:33
podcast and share it with a friend who 08:35
might need a confidence boost thanks for 08:38
listening everyone stay positive and 08:41
believe in yourself you've got this take 08:44
care and we'll see you in the next 08:47
episode bye for now 08:50
[Music] 08:55

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[English]
[Music]
hello everyone welcome back to the
English dialogue podcast I'm
Mike and I'm Emma in today's episode
we're talking about a topic that's
really important for personal growth
self-esteem that's right Emma we often
hear about self self-esteem but what
does it really mean and how can we build
it up
effectively good questions self-esteem
is basically how we value and perceive
ourselves it's about having confidence
in our abilities and knowing our worth
and today we're going to discuss eight
practical steps you can take to build
and strengthen your self-esteem let's
Dive Right In the first step is
practicing self-acceptance this means
accepting yourself as you are with all
your strengths and
weaknesses absolutely it's about
understanding that nobody is perfect and
that's okay we all have flaws but they
don't Define our worth I used to
struggle with comparing myself to others
but when I started practicing
self-acceptance I realized it's about
embracing who I am not trying to be
someone else that's a great Point
accepting yourself is the found
Foundation of building self-esteem
because it allows you to see your unique
value step two is setting realistic
goals when we set achievable goals and
work towards them it boosts our
confidence yes and it's important to
break down big goals into smaller
manageable steps that way we can
celebrate small wins along the way for
example if you want to get fit start
with small goals like exercising for 10
minutes a day as you achieve these many
goals your confidence grows it's amazing
how reaching even small goals can give
us a sense of accomplishment and
motivate us to keep going definitely
it's about progress not Perfection the
third step is focusing on your strengths
we all have things we're good at and
recognizing these can help us feel more
confident that's so true instead of
dwelling on what we can't do we should
highlight our talents and abilities I
agree when I started acknowledging my
skills in writing and speaking it helped
boost my self-esteem because I was
focusing on what I excelled at it's like
shining a light on your positives when
you focus on your strengths it changes
your mindset from I can't to I can
exactly it's a great way to build a
positive
self-image step four is practicing
positive self talk the way we talk to
ourselves has a big impact on our
self-esteem yes our inner dialogue can
either Lift us up or bring us down so
it's important to replace negative
thoughts with positive encouraging ones
for example instead of saying I'm not
good at this try saying I'm learning and
I'll get better with practice that's a
great example positive self-talk can
change our perspective and help us build
a health the more confident mindset it
takes practice but over time it can make
a huge difference in how we see
ourselves step five is surrounding
yourself with positive people the
company we keep plays a big role in
shaping our
self-esteem yes being around supportive
and encouraging people can boost our
confidence on the other hand negative
people can bring us down I remember
distancing myself from a few negative
influences in my life it made a big
difference because I started feeling
more uplifted and
confident that's a great move positive
people help us see our potential and
remind us of our worth and they Inspire
us to be the best version of ourselves
the sixth step is taking care of your
physical health when we feel good
physically it often boosts our mental
and emotional well-being too absolutely
simple things like exercising eating a
balanced diet and getting enough sleep
can have a big impact on how we feel
about ourselves I've noticed that when
I'm consistent with my workouts I feel
more energetic and confident throughout
the day that's great to hear taking care
of our bodies is a way of showing
self-respect and it reflects in our
self-esteem it's a reminder that we
deserve to feel our best step seven is
learning to say no this might sound
simple
but it's a powerful way to protect our
self-esteem that's true many of us have
a hard time saying no because we want to
please others but constantly saying yes
can lead to burnout and make us feel
unappreciated I've experienced that
before but when I started setting
boundaries and saying no when necessary
I felt more in control of my time and
energy it's about valuing your own needs
and not overcommit yourself
exactly saying no doesn't make you
selfish it means you're respecting your
own limits the final step step eight is
embracing failure as a learning
opportunity yes failure is a part of
life but it doesn't Define Us in fact
it's often where we learn the most
valuable
lessons that's right instead of seeing
failure as a setback we can see it as a
stepping stone to success I used to be
afraid of failing but now I view it as a
chance to grow every failure teaches us
something new and helps us improve
exactly the key is to learn from our
mistakes and keep moving forward it's a
powerful way to build resilience and
self-esteem and it reminds us that we're
capable of overcoming challenges no
matter how tough they seem
[Music]
all right now let's dive into some
really useful vocabulary
selfworth meaning the sense of One's Own
value or worth as a person example it's
important to recognize your selfworth
and not let others Define it for you
resilience meaning the ability to
recover quickly from difficulties or
setbacks example developing resilience
can help you bounce back from failure
and keep moving forward affirmation
meaning a positive statement that is
repeated to oneself to encourage
confidence and self-belief example
saying daily affirmations like I am
capable and strong can boost your
self-esteem over time boundary meaning a
limit or rule set to protect one's
personal space time or
emotions example setting boundaries with
friends can help you manage your time
better better and reduce
stress mindset meaning a person's way of
thinking or their attitude towards a
particular
situation example adopting a growth
mindset allows you to see challenges as
opportunities to learn and
grow so there you have it eight
practical steps to help build
self-esteem let's quickly recap practice
self-acceptance set realistic goals
focus on your strengths practice
positive selft talk surround yourself
with positive people take care of your
physical health learn to say no and
embrace failure as a learning
opportunity we hope you found these tips
helpful building self-esteem is a
journey and it takes time but it's
definitely worth the effort
absolutely
remember self-esteem starts from
within and the more you practice these
steps the more confident you'll become
if you enjoyed today's episode please
subscribe to the English dialogue
podcast and share it with a friend who
might need a confidence boost thanks for
listening everyone stay positive and
believe in yourself you've got this take
care and we'll see you in the next
episode bye for now
[Music]

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Vocabulary Meanings

esteem

/ɪˈstiːm/

B2
  • noun
  • - respect and admiration for someone

confidence

/ˈkɒnfɪdəns/

B1
  • noun
  • - the feeling of being certain about something

acceptance

/əkˈsɛptəns/

B2
  • noun
  • - the act of agreeing or taking something willingly

goals

/ɡəʊlz/

A2
  • noun
  • - objectives or aims

strengths

/strɛŋθs/

B1
  • noun
  • - qualities or abilities that give someone an advantage

weaknesses

/ˈwiːknəsɪz/

B1
  • noun
  • - qualities or abilities that make someone vulnerable

flaws

/flɔːz/

B2
  • noun
  • - imperfections or defects

worth

/wɜːrθ/

A2
  • noun
  • - the value or usefulness of something

talents

/ˈtælənts/

B1
  • noun
  • - natural abilities or skills

mindset

/ˈmaɪndsɛt/

B2
  • noun
  • - a person's way of thinking or attitude

resilience

/rɪˈzɪljəns/

C1
  • noun
  • - the ability to recover quickly from difficulties

affirmation

/ˌæfərˈmeɪʃən/

C1
  • noun
  • - a positive statement repeated to encourage confidence

boundary

/ˈbaʊndəri/

B2
  • noun
  • - a limit set to protect personal space or emotions

positive

/ˈpɒzɪtɪv/

A1
  • adjective
  • - good or optimistic

negative

/ˈnɛɡətɪv/

A1
  • adjective
  • - bad or pessimistic

health

/hɛlθ/

A1
  • noun
  • - the state of being well in body or mind

failure

/ˈfeɪljər/

A2
  • noun
  • - lack of success

embrace

/ɪmˈbreɪs/

B2
  • verb
  • - to accept or support something willingly

compare

/kəmˈpeər/

A2
  • verb
  • - to examine similarities or differences

celebrate

/ˈsɛlɪbreɪt/

B1
  • verb
  • - to show happiness about something

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