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- Here are seven things that will make you unstoppable. 00:00
Number one, change your inputs to change your outputs. 00:03
So a lot of us go throughout life completely unaware 00:06
of why we do certain things or why we think certain thoughts 00:09
or why we say things the way that we say them, 00:12
with the tone in which we say them. 00:15
Or we can't figure out why we're tired all the time. 00:17
Our behavior is like a mystery to us. 00:19
Something completely out of our control, like the weather 00:21
or some foreign government EMPing you 00:24
while you're in a plane on the way to Europe. 00:27
But maybe things aren't so complicated or mysterious. 00:30
Maybe we're putting out exactly what we're putting in. 00:33
Your mother and your grandmother have said it 00:35
since you were a child, 00:37
"You are what you eat." 00:39
But it goes way deeper than that. 00:40
You are what you eat, what you smell, what you see. 00:41
Your senses are soaking in inputs all the time, 00:45
99.9% of which are synthesized and understood 00:49
and processed by your subconscious. 00:53
And what that means is that 00:56
you're not conscious of it. 00:57
You're not consciously aware of the fact 00:58
that all these calculations are being made. 01:01
Your conscious mind is super efficient at no longer noticing 01:03
the filth in your bedroom, 01:07
the moldy spaghetti behind your monitor. 01:08
But your subconscious smells that every second of the day. 01:10
What you are inputting into your subconscious is information 01:14
that is making you feel a certain way, 01:17
that's making you behave a certain way. 01:19
Become conscious of what you are feeding your subconscious 01:20
on a regular basis. 01:24
When was the last time you saw a tree? 01:25
Number two, you have to stretch in order to grow. 01:27
So in order to be successful in life, you probably need 01:30
to have habits that benefit you. 01:33
So maybe you don't have those (laughs) 01:35
and maybe you want to be a person that has those. 01:38
But I think there are two main ways that people fail 01:40
to implement beneficial habits for the long term. 01:43
The first way is they think it's going to be too easy. 01:46
They think that habit change is this really fun thing. 01:49
People want to go to the gym every day, 01:52
so they shop for new supplements and new workout clothes, 01:54
and they get all infatuated with this idea 01:57
of being this healthy, gym going person. 02:00
And then obviously you know the story. 02:02
You show up to the gym 02:04
and it's way harder than you thought it was gonna be. 02:05
It feels nothing like thinking about going to the gym. 02:08
Lifting weights is hard. 02:10
You have to sweat and then you feel like, 02:12
"Eh, this isn't fun." 02:14
So you stop doing it. 02:16
The second way I see people fail 02:16
is they think it's going to be really hard 02:18
and miserable, treacherous, not worth it. 02:21
Maybe they've tried a bunch of times 02:24
and they've burned away their naivety 02:26
and they say things like, "I would start going to the gym, 02:28
but I just don't feel like putting in all of that effort. 02:31
It's not worth it." 02:34
You probably can identify that there are truths 02:36
and falsehoods to both of these approaches. 02:39
Yeah, it's not easy to implement a new habit. 02:41
Yes, it's not going to feel natural 02:43
and it's going to be kind of unpleasant for a lot of it, 02:46
but also, it is worth it 02:49
because every single time you implement something 02:51
that is genuinely good for you, 02:54
when you can manage to have these small wins, 02:56
when you actually show up to the gym, 02:58
you put in a workout, it is difficult. 03:00
But when you leave the gym 03:03
and you're sitting there on your couch 03:04
after a great workout, chugging back a protein shake, 03:06
you get this quiet feeling of victory. 03:10
Like, "Damn, a lot of bad things could happen to me today, 03:12
but at least I went to the gym." 03:16
And that might seem subtle, 03:18
but if you compound that feeling over a very long time, 03:19
you feel like a completely different person. 03:23
You have inputted into your mind repeatedly 03:24
that you have won, you've done something worthwhile. 03:27
You're growing, you're getting stronger. 03:30
And when you have that narrative in your subconscious, 03:32
the way you walk changes, 03:35
the way you make eye contact with people changes, 03:36
the way you treat yourself changes. 03:39
That's the power of burning away this lesser self, 03:41
of voluntarily subjecting yourself to pain, 03:44
because what that tells yourself is that I'm willing 03:47
to go through this to better myself because I'm worth it. 03:50
I'm shouldering so much suffering 03:54
so that I can be the best version of myself, 03:56
so that I can be stronger, 03:59
so I can treat myself with respect. 04:01
And that narrative, treating yourself that way, 04:03
completely transforms your existence. 04:05
That is absolutely worth it. 04:08
And suffering viewed in this proper context 04:09
is a wonderful thing. 04:13
It is joyous, even. 04:14
So remember that, yes, it's painful, 04:15
but hell yeah, it's worth it. 04:18
Number three, guard your eyes. 04:20
The more we look at something, 04:22
the more we are telling our brain 04:24
that this thing is valuable, this thing is important to us. 04:25
Even when looking at something as a reflex, 04:28
you hear a pen drop next to you and you're home alone, 04:30
you're gonna look at that right away 04:34
because you value that information. 04:35
It could be a predator. 04:36
It could be somebody climbing through your windows, 04:38
ready to stab your dog. 04:40
I find that the more I scroll Instagram, 04:41
the more I scan my environment kind of aimlessly looking 04:44
for something to sort of peak my interest. 04:47
You know, there's sort of this aimlessness 04:50
to my field of vision where I'm just kinda looking 04:52
for things to stimulate me, 04:54
to give me a little brain tickle. 04:56
If you really need to focus on something in particular, 04:57
try looking at it for 30 seconds. 05:00
Try controlling your eyes, guarding it from distraction, 05:03
and literally just looking at the thing 05:06
that you're supposed to do 05:09
and not directing your vision anywhere else but that thing. 05:10
And when your eyes are focusing on something, 05:13
your entire being tends to focus on it. 05:15
So you don't have to overthink things. 05:17
Just look at what you're supposed to do. 05:19
Don't allow yourself to look anywhere else. 05:21
Treat your eyes like a laser beam. 05:24
Have a reason to be looking where you're looking. 05:26
Number four, figure it out. 05:29
So if you wanna get into power lifting really badly 05:31
and you've never lifted a dumbbell, a barbell in your life, 05:33
then obviously a really dumb thing to do 05:37
would be to go onto YouTube 05:39
and watch a bunch of videos of people who can power lift 05:41
or deadlift 600 pounds or more. 05:44
You watch all these videos 05:46
of these strong dudes showing you the best possible way 05:48
to deadlift 600 pounds. 05:52
Like that's such a waste of time. 05:53
If you've never deadlifted a thing in your life, 05:55
then watching any of these videos 05:58
is the biggest waste of your time 06:00
you could possibly imagine. 06:02
Go to the gym first, 06:04
and then when you're at the gym, take out your phone 06:06
and watch a video on basic form 06:09
so that you don't hurt yourself while you're deadlifting, 06:11
but deadlift! 06:14
Take all the energy you would use to try 06:15
to figure out the perfect way to do something 06:17
and use it to do the thing repeatedly and terribly 06:20
so that you can get good at it faster 06:23
than you ever would by watching videos about it. 06:26
There is no amount of videos you could watch. 06:28
You could watch 7,000 power lifting videos 06:30
and you would not be able to deadlift one more pound, 06:34
maybe like two more pounds, but it ain't gonna be 600. 06:38
Most people's problem nowadays is they forgot 06:41
what it feels like to just figure things out. 06:43
Start doing the thing. Obviously, don't hurt yourself. 06:45
Don't be dumb, but figure it out. 06:49
"Oh no, Joey's telling me 06:51
to start doing free solo climbing on the side of a cliff 06:54
and not watch a video or get a mentor." 06:57
No, I'm not. 07:02
Figure it out. 07:03
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Number five, use leverage. 08:34
This sounds (laughs) 08:36
this sounds like the most technical one, 08:37
it sounds like, I don't know what it sounds like, 08:38
it sounds (duck quacks) stupid, 08:40
that's what it sounds. 08:42
Not all productive things are created equal. 08:42
There are things that you really should be doing, 08:45
or maybe there's literally one thing 08:47
that you always avoid doing, 08:49
and it is by far the most important thing 08:51
you could possibly do. 08:54
In my own life, that's making videos. 08:55
From a strictly monetary, ROI perspective, 08:58
making videos from start to finish and hitting upload 09:02
is, by far, the best use of my time I can possibly do. 09:06
So whenever I am hanging out and you know, 09:10
I'm painting my window sill black in my theater room, 09:14
that is a productive thing. 09:18
I'm painting my window sill, I'm doing something. 09:20
But when I have a deadline for a sponsor 09:23
and I need to make a video and I have something on my mind 09:25
and I should just sit here and talk about it, 09:28
what the hell am I doing painting a window? 09:31
So many things in life are like that where yeah, 09:33
it's technically productive, but it's not the thing. 09:36
It's not the thing that is on your mind 09:38
that's plaguing your existence, 09:41
that is making you feel like you need to escape. 09:43
Everybody has that thing. 09:45
You need to find a way to do whatever that thing is 09:47
as often as possible for as long as possible 09:50
with as much intensity as possible. 09:54
There's a dirty joke in here somewhere. 09:57
And on the exact same wavelength, there's something 09:59
that is the absolute worst use of your time 10:02
that you could possibly do. 10:05
It has the absolute worst ROI out of any activity 10:06
that you do on a daily or weekly basis. 10:10
If you thought about it for even three seconds, 10:13
there's no reason to do it. 10:15
You need to find a way to do that thing 10:17
as little as possible. 10:19
So that's what it looks like to maximize leverage. 10:21
Make that one thing that you need to do 10:23
as enjoyable as possible, as frictionless as possible. 10:26
Make it just so easy to do all the time, 10:30
for a long period of time. 10:34
Spend money and time to help you make that thing 10:35
as good as possible. 10:39
Increase the quality and enjoyability 10:41
of that most important thing. 10:43
And on the exact same token, make doing the worst thing 10:45
that you can possibly do as unenjoyable as possible. 10:48
Straight out miserable, right? Make it inconvenient. 10:52
Make it as hard as possible to do what you don't want to do, 10:55
and as easy as possible 10:59
to do the best thing you could possibly do. 11:00
Number six, stop running from yourself. 11:02
Desiring to be a better version 11:05
of yourself should not be confused with wanting 11:07
to run away from who you are. 11:09
That might sound cheesy, but believe me, I've been there. 11:11
I've wanted to just not be who I am. 11:14
And instead of just resenting my situation, I confused it 11:17
with resenting myself, 11:21
for punishing myself for failing, 11:23
or thinking it's somehow unacceptable 11:25
to be in the state that I'm in 11:27
or to have the lifestyle that I have. 11:29
And it's very important to realize 11:31
that once you start attacking yourself, 11:33
instead of just being proactive about 11:35
leaving your undesirable situation, 11:38
as soon as you start attacking yourself, all progress stops, 11:40
because even if you manage to get yourself out 11:43
of your situation, you're not gonna be happy. 11:46
It's not gonna be good enough. 11:48
You will feel like you always need 11:49
to justify your own existence. 11:51
The narrative inside your head 11:53
when you don't like yourself very much is, 11:54
"Okay, I don't like who I am and where I am. 11:57
So if I just do this thing and get this thing, 12:01
then that will make me worth something, 12:04
that will justify my existence." 12:06
But there's no way to justify your own existence 12:09
through achievement or accumulating objects. 12:12
There's no point to any of this if you don't believe 12:15
that you have inherent dignity. 12:18
And if you don't treat yourself 12:19
like you have inherent dignity from the get go, 12:21
there's nothing you can do to earn that. 12:24
So look at yourself in the mirror, 12:25
take a deep breath, and say, "I got you, buddy. 12:27
I might not like every single thing about how I behave 12:31
or what I've done, but I accept it as the truth. 12:35
I accept it as what has happened. 12:38
It is what it is. This is the reality. 12:41
Now, where do we go from here?" 12:43
Number seven, do what you want. 12:44
And I really mean this in the deepest possible sense. 12:46
Do whatever the hell you want. 12:50
Now before you go and tear open a package of Tim Tams 12:53
and start gobbling your life away, hear me out. 12:58
I think we only ever do what we want. 13:01
We only ever do what we think we want to do 13:04
in any given moment. 13:06
Even when we do something that we don't want to do, 13:07
something that we regret doing, 13:10
something that we're morally opposed to doing. 13:12
I feel like 99% of the time, 13:14
it's only because it's what we thought we wanted to do 13:17
at the time, or there's something in it that we want. 13:20
Maybe we don't want all of it, but there's something there. 13:24
There was something about it 13:26
that we thought we wanted at the time. 13:28
And it turns out we didn't want it, but we thought we did. 13:30
And I think this is important to consider. 13:33
Try to ask yourself on the deepest possible level, 13:34
what do you want? 13:38
What kind of life do you want to live? 13:40
What kind of relationships do you want to have? 13:43
What do you ideally want to do on a day-to-day basis? 13:45
And why do you want those things? 13:50
How would it make you feel to live this way? 13:52
And now contrast that with what you currently do. 13:54
Think about all the things that you don't like that you do, 13:57
and ask yourself, 14:01
what in these things do I actually want? 14:02
And a lot of the time when we have things that we do 14:06
that are bad for us, there's still something in it 14:09
that we want. 14:14
And it's not the thing itself that we want. 14:15
It's usually a feeling it gives us. 14:17
Try to figure out what that feeling is. 14:20
And it's probably a feeling that everybody wants, right? 14:22
It's just the thing itself or the activity 14:25
or the behavior isn't the best possible way 14:28
to achieve that feeling. 14:32
Once you start going through this process, 14:33
a lot of the time you realize 14:35
that even doing what you don't want to do, 14:37
but you think it's something that you want to do, 14:40
but you shouldn't do, 14:42
it's like even that thing isn't doing what you want 14:44
in the best possible way. 14:47
Like obviously the easiest possible example is, you know, 14:48
going on YouTube, 14:52
scrolling through YouTube Shorts or whatever, right? 14:53
If you stop to ask yourself, 14:55
what about this do I actually like? 14:57
What do I want here? 15:01
Why do I do this? 15:02
What feeling am I looking for? 15:04
What do I have to gain from this 15:06
that I can take with me into life? 15:08
Like will I ever feel satisfied? 15:11
Like, man, I have arrived. That was so worth it. 15:13
I feel so good now. 15:16
It's like, probably not. 15:18
Don't you want to feel that way? 15:19
Isn't that what you want? 15:22
Probably. 15:25
And a lot of the time, these dopamine traps, 15:26
things that promise you something and promise you something 15:29
and promise you something, 15:32
there is no feeling of, "Ah, I have arrived, 15:33
that was so worth it. 15:38
I feel so good about myself now." 15:39
No, it's always some fake promise. 15:41
Find what that thing is promising, 15:43
and then find the best possible way 15:46
to give yourself that feeling. 15:48
And a lot of the time what you'll find is giving yourself 15:50
the best possible feeling 15:52
usually aligns with your moral compass. 15:54
It usually makes your life better. 15:58
It usually, you know, 15:59
everything about it is just better 16:00
than doing the worst thing. 16:03
We always think that by giving up the worst thing, 16:05
our life is gonna be less enjoyable. 16:08
We're giving up something that's actually good. 16:10
But it's like, that thing actually isn't that good. 16:12
You know, the best possible way to get the feeling 16:16
that you want in life and to be the person you want 16:18
to be in life is by being the person you want to be in life. 16:20
Unless you actually think about these things 16:24
and reflect on the feelings all these activities give you, 16:26
you'll be blind to it. 16:31
You'll fall for false promises. 16:32
Does that make sense? 16:34
If that doesn't make sense, comment below. 16:36
Say "Joey, that makes no sense." 16:39
The bottom line is, 16:40
you are a living, breathing human being. 16:42
You affect the world around you. 16:46
You can decide right now to pick up the glass 16:48
that's closest to you and throw it against the wall 16:51
and shatter it. 16:54
You can do that. 16:55
You can move through space and time 16:56
and affect the world around you. 16:59
You can affect people around you. 17:01
But most importantly, you can affect your life. 17:02
You can affect the habits you have. 17:05
You can change your life, 17:07
and you can live the life that you want to live, 17:09
truly want to live. 17:12
And it will be what you want. 17:13
Like it's the most basic possible thing and it's exciting. 17:15
So help yourself give yourself what you want, 17:19
and not just moment to moment, right, 17:23
because that's shortsighted, 17:25
but what your soul is screaming for. 17:26
And I hope that by doing so, you'll find more peace 17:30
and fulfillment and enjoyment 17:33
every single day of your life. 17:35

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- Here are seven things that will make you unstoppable.
Number one, change your inputs to change your outputs.
So a lot of us go throughout life completely unaware
of why we do certain things or why we think certain thoughts
or why we say things the way that we say them,
with the tone in which we say them.
Or we can't figure out why we're tired all the time.
Our behavior is like a mystery to us.
Something completely out of our control, like the weather
or some foreign government EMPing you
while you're in a plane on the way to Europe.
But maybe things aren't so complicated or mysterious.
Maybe we're putting out exactly what we're putting in.
Your mother and your grandmother have said it
since you were a child,
"You are what you eat."
But it goes way deeper than that.
You are what you eat, what you smell, what you see.
Your senses are soaking in inputs all the time,
99.9% of which are synthesized and understood
and processed by your subconscious.
And what that means is that
you're not conscious of it.
You're not consciously aware of the fact
that all these calculations are being made.
Your conscious mind is super efficient at no longer noticing
the filth in your bedroom,
the moldy spaghetti behind your monitor.
But your subconscious smells that every second of the day.
What you are inputting into your subconscious is information
that is making you feel a certain way,
that's making you behave a certain way.
Become conscious of what you are feeding your subconscious
on a regular basis.
When was the last time you saw a tree?
Number two, you have to stretch in order to grow.
So in order to be successful in life, you probably need
to have habits that benefit you.
So maybe you don't have those (laughs)
and maybe you want to be a person that has those.
But I think there are two main ways that people fail
to implement beneficial habits for the long term.
The first way is they think it's going to be too easy.
They think that habit change is this really fun thing.
People want to go to the gym every day,
so they shop for new supplements and new workout clothes,
and they get all infatuated with this idea
of being this healthy, gym going person.
And then obviously you know the story.
You show up to the gym
and it's way harder than you thought it was gonna be.
It feels nothing like thinking about going to the gym.
Lifting weights is hard.
You have to sweat and then you feel like,
"Eh, this isn't fun."
So you stop doing it.
The second way I see people fail
is they think it's going to be really hard
and miserable, treacherous, not worth it.
Maybe they've tried a bunch of times
and they've burned away their naivety
and they say things like, "I would start going to the gym,
but I just don't feel like putting in all of that effort.
It's not worth it."
You probably can identify that there are truths
and falsehoods to both of these approaches.
Yeah, it's not easy to implement a new habit.
Yes, it's not going to feel natural
and it's going to be kind of unpleasant for a lot of it,
but also, it is worth it
because every single time you implement something
that is genuinely good for you,
when you can manage to have these small wins,
when you actually show up to the gym,
you put in a workout, it is difficult.
But when you leave the gym
and you're sitting there on your couch
after a great workout, chugging back a protein shake,
you get this quiet feeling of victory.
Like, "Damn, a lot of bad things could happen to me today,
but at least I went to the gym."
And that might seem subtle,
but if you compound that feeling over a very long time,
you feel like a completely different person.
You have inputted into your mind repeatedly
that you have won, you've done something worthwhile.
You're growing, you're getting stronger.
And when you have that narrative in your subconscious,
the way you walk changes,
the way you make eye contact with people changes,
the way you treat yourself changes.
That's the power of burning away this lesser self,
of voluntarily subjecting yourself to pain,
because what that tells yourself is that I'm willing
to go through this to better myself because I'm worth it.
I'm shouldering so much suffering
so that I can be the best version of myself,
so that I can be stronger,
so I can treat myself with respect.
And that narrative, treating yourself that way,
completely transforms your existence.
That is absolutely worth it.
And suffering viewed in this proper context
is a wonderful thing.
It is joyous, even.
So remember that, yes, it's painful,
but hell yeah, it's worth it.
Number three, guard your eyes.
The more we look at something,
the more we are telling our brain
that this thing is valuable, this thing is important to us.
Even when looking at something as a reflex,
you hear a pen drop next to you and you're home alone,
you're gonna look at that right away
because you value that information.
It could be a predator.
It could be somebody climbing through your windows,
ready to stab your dog.
I find that the more I scroll Instagram,
the more I scan my environment kind of aimlessly looking
for something to sort of peak my interest.
You know, there's sort of this aimlessness
to my field of vision where I'm just kinda looking
for things to stimulate me,
to give me a little brain tickle.
If you really need to focus on something in particular,
try looking at it for 30 seconds.
Try controlling your eyes, guarding it from distraction,
and literally just looking at the thing
that you're supposed to do
and not directing your vision anywhere else but that thing.
And when your eyes are focusing on something,
your entire being tends to focus on it.
So you don't have to overthink things.
Just look at what you're supposed to do.
Don't allow yourself to look anywhere else.
Treat your eyes like a laser beam.
Have a reason to be looking where you're looking.
Number four, figure it out.
So if you wanna get into power lifting really badly
and you've never lifted a dumbbell, a barbell in your life,
then obviously a really dumb thing to do
would be to go onto YouTube
and watch a bunch of videos of people who can power lift
or deadlift 600 pounds or more.
You watch all these videos
of these strong dudes showing you the best possible way
to deadlift 600 pounds.
Like that's such a waste of time.
If you've never deadlifted a thing in your life,
then watching any of these videos
is the biggest waste of your time
you could possibly imagine.
Go to the gym first,
and then when you're at the gym, take out your phone
and watch a video on basic form
so that you don't hurt yourself while you're deadlifting,
but deadlift!
Take all the energy you would use to try
to figure out the perfect way to do something
and use it to do the thing repeatedly and terribly
so that you can get good at it faster
than you ever would by watching videos about it.
There is no amount of videos you could watch.
You could watch 7,000 power lifting videos
and you would not be able to deadlift one more pound,
maybe like two more pounds, but it ain't gonna be 600.
Most people's problem nowadays is they forgot
what it feels like to just figure things out.
Start doing the thing. Obviously, don't hurt yourself.
Don't be dumb, but figure it out.
"Oh no, Joey's telling me
to start doing free solo climbing on the side of a cliff
and not watch a video or get a mentor."
No, I'm not.
Figure it out.
A big thank you to Skillshare for sponsoring this video.
So one of the things I've really wanted to get into
and implement into my videos is 3D animation.
So I've been diving into
Harry Helps Beginner's Guide to Blender 3D
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Number five, use leverage.
This sounds (laughs)
this sounds like the most technical one,
it sounds like, I don't know what it sounds like,
it sounds (duck quacks) stupid,
that's what it sounds.
Not all productive things are created equal.
There are things that you really should be doing,
or maybe there's literally one thing
that you always avoid doing,
and it is by far the most important thing
you could possibly do.
In my own life, that's making videos.
From a strictly monetary, ROI perspective,
making videos from start to finish and hitting upload
is, by far, the best use of my time I can possibly do.
So whenever I am hanging out and you know,
I'm painting my window sill black in my theater room,
that is a productive thing.
I'm painting my window sill, I'm doing something.
But when I have a deadline for a sponsor
and I need to make a video and I have something on my mind
and I should just sit here and talk about it,
what the hell am I doing painting a window?
So many things in life are like that where yeah,
it's technically productive, but it's not the thing.
It's not the thing that is on your mind
that's plaguing your existence,
that is making you feel like you need to escape.
Everybody has that thing.
You need to find a way to do whatever that thing is
as often as possible for as long as possible
with as much intensity as possible.
There's a dirty joke in here somewhere.
And on the exact same wavelength, there's something
that is the absolute worst use of your time
that you could possibly do.
It has the absolute worst ROI out of any activity
that you do on a daily or weekly basis.
If you thought about it for even three seconds,
there's no reason to do it.
You need to find a way to do that thing
as little as possible.
So that's what it looks like to maximize leverage.
Make that one thing that you need to do
as enjoyable as possible, as frictionless as possible.
Make it just so easy to do all the time,
for a long period of time.
Spend money and time to help you make that thing
as good as possible.
Increase the quality and enjoyability
of that most important thing.
And on the exact same token, make doing the worst thing
that you can possibly do as unenjoyable as possible.
Straight out miserable, right? Make it inconvenient.
Make it as hard as possible to do what you don't want to do,
and as easy as possible
to do the best thing you could possibly do.
Number six, stop running from yourself.
Desiring to be a better version
of yourself should not be confused with wanting
to run away from who you are.
That might sound cheesy, but believe me, I've been there.
I've wanted to just not be who I am.
And instead of just resenting my situation, I confused it
with resenting myself,
for punishing myself for failing,
or thinking it's somehow unacceptable
to be in the state that I'm in
or to have the lifestyle that I have.
And it's very important to realize
that once you start attacking yourself,
instead of just being proactive about
leaving your undesirable situation,
as soon as you start attacking yourself, all progress stops,
because even if you manage to get yourself out
of your situation, you're not gonna be happy.
It's not gonna be good enough.
You will feel like you always need
to justify your own existence.
The narrative inside your head
when you don't like yourself very much is,
"Okay, I don't like who I am and where I am.
So if I just do this thing and get this thing,
then that will make me worth something,
that will justify my existence."
But there's no way to justify your own existence
through achievement or accumulating objects.
There's no point to any of this if you don't believe
that you have inherent dignity.
And if you don't treat yourself
like you have inherent dignity from the get go,
there's nothing you can do to earn that.
So look at yourself in the mirror,
take a deep breath, and say, "I got you, buddy.
I might not like every single thing about how I behave
or what I've done, but I accept it as the truth.
I accept it as what has happened.
It is what it is. This is the reality.
Now, where do we go from here?"
Number seven, do what you want.
And I really mean this in the deepest possible sense.
Do whatever the hell you want.
Now before you go and tear open a package of Tim Tams
and start gobbling your life away, hear me out.
I think we only ever do what we want.
We only ever do what we think we want to do
in any given moment.
Even when we do something that we don't want to do,
something that we regret doing,
something that we're morally opposed to doing.
I feel like 99% of the time,
it's only because it's what we thought we wanted to do
at the time, or there's something in it that we want.
Maybe we don't want all of it, but there's something there.
There was something about it
that we thought we wanted at the time.
And it turns out we didn't want it, but we thought we did.
And I think this is important to consider.
Try to ask yourself on the deepest possible level,
what do you want?
What kind of life do you want to live?
What kind of relationships do you want to have?
What do you ideally want to do on a day-to-day basis?
And why do you want those things?
How would it make you feel to live this way?
And now contrast that with what you currently do.
Think about all the things that you don't like that you do,
and ask yourself,
what in these things do I actually want?
And a lot of the time when we have things that we do
that are bad for us, there's still something in it
that we want.
And it's not the thing itself that we want.
It's usually a feeling it gives us.
Try to figure out what that feeling is.
And it's probably a feeling that everybody wants, right?
It's just the thing itself or the activity
or the behavior isn't the best possible way
to achieve that feeling.
Once you start going through this process,
a lot of the time you realize
that even doing what you don't want to do,
but you think it's something that you want to do,
but you shouldn't do,
it's like even that thing isn't doing what you want
in the best possible way.
Like obviously the easiest possible example is, you know,
going on YouTube,
scrolling through YouTube Shorts or whatever, right?
If you stop to ask yourself,
what about this do I actually like?
What do I want here?
Why do I do this?
What feeling am I looking for?
What do I have to gain from this
that I can take with me into life?
Like will I ever feel satisfied?
Like, man, I have arrived. That was so worth it.
I feel so good now.
It's like, probably not.
Don't you want to feel that way?
Isn't that what you want?
Probably.
And a lot of the time, these dopamine traps,
things that promise you something and promise you something
and promise you something,
there is no feeling of, "Ah, I have arrived,
that was so worth it.
I feel so good about myself now."
No, it's always some fake promise.
Find what that thing is promising,
and then find the best possible way
to give yourself that feeling.
And a lot of the time what you'll find is giving yourself
the best possible feeling
usually aligns with your moral compass.
It usually makes your life better.
It usually, you know,
everything about it is just better
than doing the worst thing.
We always think that by giving up the worst thing,
our life is gonna be less enjoyable.
We're giving up something that's actually good.
But it's like, that thing actually isn't that good.
You know, the best possible way to get the feeling
that you want in life and to be the person you want
to be in life is by being the person you want to be in life.
Unless you actually think about these things
and reflect on the feelings all these activities give you,
you'll be blind to it.
You'll fall for false promises.
Does that make sense?
If that doesn't make sense, comment below.
Say "Joey, that makes no sense."
The bottom line is,
you are a living, breathing human being.
You affect the world around you.
You can decide right now to pick up the glass
that's closest to you and throw it against the wall
and shatter it.
You can do that.
You can move through space and time
and affect the world around you.
You can affect people around you.
But most importantly, you can affect your life.
You can affect the habits you have.
You can change your life,
and you can live the life that you want to live,
truly want to live.
And it will be what you want.
Like it's the most basic possible thing and it's exciting.
So help yourself give yourself what you want,
and not just moment to moment, right,
because that's shortsighted,
but what your soul is screaming for.
And I hope that by doing so, you'll find more peace
and fulfillment and enjoyment
every single day of your life.

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Vocabulary Meanings

change

/tʃeɪndʒ/

A2
  • verb
  • - to make or become different
  • noun
  • - an act or process of becoming different

input

/ˈɪnpʊt/

A2
  • noun
  • - information or resources that are put into something

subconscious

/ˌsʌbˈkɒnʃəs/

B1
  • noun
  • - the part of the mind that is not conscious
  • adjective
  • - working or existing without being noticed by the conscious mind

habit

/ˈhæbɪt/

A2
  • noun
  • - a regular tendency or practice

stretch

/stretʃ/

B1
  • verb
  • - to make something longer or wider by pulling
  • verb
  • - to extend one's muscles or one's body

grow

/ɡroʊ/

A2
  • verb
  • - to become larger in size or amount

gym

/dʒɪm/

A1
  • noun
  • - a building or club for exercise and sports

feel

/fiːl/

A1
  • verb
  • - to be aware of something by using your sense of touch
  • verb
  • - to experience an emotion

focus

/ˈfoʊkəs/

A2
  • verb
  • - to pay attention to something
  • noun
  • - the center of attention

figure

/ˈfɪɡjər/

B1
  • verb
  • - to understand or solve something
  • noun
  • - a number representing an amount

leverage

/ˈliːvərɪdʒ/

C1
  • noun
  • - power or influence
  • verb
  • - to use something to maximum effect

run

/rʌn/

A1
  • verb
  • - to move quickly on foot
  • verb
  • - to operate or manage

want

/wɒnt/

A1
  • verb
  • - to desire or wish for something
  • noun
  • - a desire or need for something

worth

/wɜːrθ/

A2
  • adjective
  • - equal to the value or price of something
  • noun
  • - the value or importance of something

hard

/hɑːrd/

A1
  • adjective
  • - firm or solid and difficult to break
  • adjective
  • - difficult or requiring effort

avoid

/əˈvɔɪd/

A2
  • verb
  • - to stay away from someone or something

valuable

/ˈvæljuəbl/

B1
  • adjective
  • - worth a lot of money or important

productive

/prəˈdʌktɪv/

B1
  • adjective
  • - achieving a lot or useful

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