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[Music] 00:00
hello everyone and welcome back to the 00:04
simple English podcast I'm your host 00:06
Lisa and today we're diving into a topic 00:09
that a lot of us struggle with 00:12
overthinking it's something that can 00:15
slow us down keep us stuck and make it 00:17
so hard to just get started on the 00:19
things we want to do but don't worry 00:21
we've got the answers and joining me 00:24
today to help us break it all down is 00:26
someone who's no stranger to action Jeff 00:28
as always don't forget to check out the 00:32
free PDF file in the comment section 00:34
below to get the full transcript and 00:36
vocabulary for this 00:38
[Music] 00:40
episode Jeff welcome to the show thanks 00:44
for having me 00:48
Lisa I'm really excited to be here and 00:49
talk about this topic overthinking is 00:52
something I know all too well in fact I 00:54
think a lot of people can relate 00:57
definitely it's like that little voice 01:00
in your head that keeps you up at night 01:02
asking what if or what could go wrong it 01:04
can be exhausting right exactly you 01:08
start thinking about all the 01:12
possibilities and then you end up doing 01:13
nothing the more you think the less you 01:15
act it's a vicious 01:17
cycle So today we're going to talk about 01:20
how to break free from that cycle how to 01:23
stop overthinking and start taking 01:26
action we'll share practical tips tips 01:28
and real life examples so you can get 01:30
out of your head and into motion and 01:31
Jeff you've got some personal stories to 01:34
share 01:36
right Absolutely I'll be sharing some of 01:37
my own struggles with overthinking and 01:40
how I turned it around it wasn't easy 01:42
but it was worth 01:44
it great let's dive 01:46
[Music] 01:49
in so to kick things off why do you 01:52
think we get stuck in this Loop of 01:55
overthinking well overthinking often 01:58
comes from fear fear of failure fear of 02:00
making the wrong decision fear of what 02:03
others might think it's like we try to 02:05
predict every possible outcome and and 02:07
when we do that we paralyze 02:09
ourselves right we try to be so prepared 02:11
that we end up doing nothing I think a 02:14
lot of people can relate to that feeling 02:17
like let's say you want to start a new 02:19
job or take on a new project but you 02:21
keep thinking what if I fail what if I'm 02:24
not good 02:27
enough the more you think about it the 02:28
harder it becomes to take the first 02:31
step exactly and it's funny because 02:33
often we're not even considering the 02:37
possibility that the outcome could be 02:39
positive it's always about the worst 02:41
case 02:43
scenario I had a moment like that 02:44
recently with a project I started I kept 02:46
thinking what if it's not perfect what 02:48
if people don't like it but once I took 02:51
action and got started I realized the 02:53
fear was way worse than the actual 02:55
experience so it's almost like we get 02:57
stuck in our own heads and build these 02:59
huge mountains out of small mole Hills 03:01
do you have any tips for how people can 03:04
stop themselves from overthinking and 03:06
start taking 03:08
action one big tip is to set small 03:09
manageable goals when we try to do 03:12
everything at once we get 03:14
overwhelmed so break things down for 03:16
example instead of saying I need to 03:19
start a business break it down into 03:20
smaller steps like today I'll research 03:22
the market or this week I'll write a 03:25
plan small wins add up 03:27
I love that small goals feel less 03:30
intimidating and it's easier to focus on 03:33
the task at hand and I've noticed that 03:36
once you achieve those little wins you 03:39
start building momentum you feel more 03:41
confident and you're less likely to get 03:44
stuck in your 03:46
head exactly momentum is key and also 03:47
give yourself permission to fail I know 03:51
it sounds strange but failure is part of 03:53
the process if you're too afraid of 03:55
making a mistake you'll never try 03:57
anything at all I've learned that you 03:59
don't have to be perfect you just have 04:01
to be willing to 04:04
try that's so true it's like we all know 04:06
that we learn from mistakes but 04:09
sometimes we let that fear of failure 04:11
keep us from doing anything at all 04:13
another way to stop overthinking is to 04:16
set a deadline for your decision making 04:18
like instead of thinking about something 04:21
for weeks or months decide that you'll 04:23
make a choice by the end of the week and 04:25
then stick to it 04:27
I love deadlines they force you to take 04:29
action I've had to do that with projects 04:32
before if I give myself an unlimited 04:35
amount of time I'll just keep putting it 04:37
off but if I say okay I'm going to make 04:39
this decision by Friday it helps me move 04:42
forward 04:45
exactly and I think people underestimate 04:47
how much time they spend just thinking 04:50
about something you can easily spend 04:52
hours or days going back and forth in 04:54
your mind when you could have spent that 04:57
time actually doing the thing you were 04:59
worried about and when you do finally 05:01
take action you realize that it's never 05:03
as bad as you thought sometimes it's 05:05
just about getting out of your own way 05:08
and trusting the process so true it's 05:10
like when you're in school and you have 05:13
a big test coming up you might be so 05:15
stressed about it for days but once you 05:17
sit down and take the test it's not as 05:19
hard as you 05:22
imagined it's the same with starting a 05:23
new project or taking on something 05:25
new exactly 05:28
and it's also helpful to remember that 05:30
overthinking is a habit and habits can 05:32
be broken so be patient with yourself 05:35
it's about creating a new mindset of 05:38
action instead of 05:40
[Music] 05:42
fear all right before we wrap up let's 05:45
take a quick break with a fun fact did 05:48
you know that the average person spends 05:50
up to 60% of their time in a state of 05:52
overthinking that's a lot of energy 05:55
wasted right wow 05:57
60% that's crazy imagine what we could 06:00
do with all that time if we focused on 06:03
action instead of worry seriously if we 06:05
could shift just a fraction of that 06:08
energy into taking action we could 06:10
accomplish so much 06:12
more so to sum it up overthinking 06:14
doesn't help us make better decisions in 06:17
fact it usually just holds us back but 06:20
by setting small goals creating 06:22
deadlines and allowing ourselves to fail 06:24
we can break free from the cycle of 06:28
overthinking and start taking real 06:30
action Jeff thank you so much for 06:33
joining us today and sharing your 06:36
insights thanks Lisa it was great to 06:39
talk about this and I hope it helps some 06:42
people out there take that first 06:44
step I'm sure it will and to everyone 06:45
listening remember action over 06:49
overthinking start small stay consistent 06:52
and most importantly don't be afraid to 06:55
fail that's how we learn and grow thanks 06:58
for tuning in and we'll see you next 07:01
time on the simple English podcast take 07:03
care 07:06
[Music] 07:07
everyone all right it's time to learn 07:10
some important vocabulary related to the 07:12
topic the first word of today is 07:15
overthink it means to think about 07:18
something too much especially in a way 07:21
that makes it more complicated or 07:23
stressful than it needs to be example I 07:25
I tend to overthink every decision which 07:29
makes it harder for me to move forward 07:31
next word is procrastinate it means to 07:34
delay or postpone doing something often 07:37
because of fear lack of motivation or 07:40
distraction example instead of taking 07:43
action I procrastinated on starting my 07:46
project for 07:48
weeks next word is paralyze it means to 07:50
cause someone or something to become 07:53
unable to move or act often due to fear 07:55
anxiety or indecision 07:58
example the fear of failing can paralyze 08:00
you making it impossible to take the 08:03
first step next word is 08:05
momentum it means the force or energy 08:07
gained by an object or person as they 08:10
continue to move forward or make 08:13
progress example after completing the 08:15
first task I gained momentum and 08:19
finished the entire project in one day 08:21
the last word is fear of 08:24
failure it means the anxiety or worry 08:27
about not succeeding or making mistakes 08:30
which can prevent someone from taking 08:33
action example his fear of failure held 08:35
him back from starting his own business 08:39
for 08:41
[Music] 08:42
years thank you for listening to our 08:46
episode of the simple English podcast I 08:48
hope you learned something new and 08:51
helpful today please give us a like And 08:53
subscribe for video like this share it 08:55
with your friends and let let us know 08:58
what you think in the comment section 08:59
below we'll be back with more 09:01
interesting discussions soon 09:03

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[English]
[Music]
hello everyone and welcome back to the
simple English podcast I'm your host
Lisa and today we're diving into a topic
that a lot of us struggle with
overthinking it's something that can
slow us down keep us stuck and make it
so hard to just get started on the
things we want to do but don't worry
we've got the answers and joining me
today to help us break it all down is
someone who's no stranger to action Jeff
as always don't forget to check out the
free PDF file in the comment section
below to get the full transcript and
vocabulary for this
[Music]
episode Jeff welcome to the show thanks
for having me
Lisa I'm really excited to be here and
talk about this topic overthinking is
something I know all too well in fact I
think a lot of people can relate
definitely it's like that little voice
in your head that keeps you up at night
asking what if or what could go wrong it
can be exhausting right exactly you
start thinking about all the
possibilities and then you end up doing
nothing the more you think the less you
act it's a vicious
cycle So today we're going to talk about
how to break free from that cycle how to
stop overthinking and start taking
action we'll share practical tips tips
and real life examples so you can get
out of your head and into motion and
Jeff you've got some personal stories to
share
right Absolutely I'll be sharing some of
my own struggles with overthinking and
how I turned it around it wasn't easy
but it was worth
it great let's dive
[Music]
in so to kick things off why do you
think we get stuck in this Loop of
overthinking well overthinking often
comes from fear fear of failure fear of
making the wrong decision fear of what
others might think it's like we try to
predict every possible outcome and and
when we do that we paralyze
ourselves right we try to be so prepared
that we end up doing nothing I think a
lot of people can relate to that feeling
like let's say you want to start a new
job or take on a new project but you
keep thinking what if I fail what if I'm
not good
enough the more you think about it the
harder it becomes to take the first
step exactly and it's funny because
often we're not even considering the
possibility that the outcome could be
positive it's always about the worst
case
scenario I had a moment like that
recently with a project I started I kept
thinking what if it's not perfect what
if people don't like it but once I took
action and got started I realized the
fear was way worse than the actual
experience so it's almost like we get
stuck in our own heads and build these
huge mountains out of small mole Hills
do you have any tips for how people can
stop themselves from overthinking and
start taking
action one big tip is to set small
manageable goals when we try to do
everything at once we get
overwhelmed so break things down for
example instead of saying I need to
start a business break it down into
smaller steps like today I'll research
the market or this week I'll write a
plan small wins add up
I love that small goals feel less
intimidating and it's easier to focus on
the task at hand and I've noticed that
once you achieve those little wins you
start building momentum you feel more
confident and you're less likely to get
stuck in your
head exactly momentum is key and also
give yourself permission to fail I know
it sounds strange but failure is part of
the process if you're too afraid of
making a mistake you'll never try
anything at all I've learned that you
don't have to be perfect you just have
to be willing to
try that's so true it's like we all know
that we learn from mistakes but
sometimes we let that fear of failure
keep us from doing anything at all
another way to stop overthinking is to
set a deadline for your decision making
like instead of thinking about something
for weeks or months decide that you'll
make a choice by the end of the week and
then stick to it
I love deadlines they force you to take
action I've had to do that with projects
before if I give myself an unlimited
amount of time I'll just keep putting it
off but if I say okay I'm going to make
this decision by Friday it helps me move
forward
exactly and I think people underestimate
how much time they spend just thinking
about something you can easily spend
hours or days going back and forth in
your mind when you could have spent that
time actually doing the thing you were
worried about and when you do finally
take action you realize that it's never
as bad as you thought sometimes it's
just about getting out of your own way
and trusting the process so true it's
like when you're in school and you have
a big test coming up you might be so
stressed about it for days but once you
sit down and take the test it's not as
hard as you
imagined it's the same with starting a
new project or taking on something
new exactly
and it's also helpful to remember that
overthinking is a habit and habits can
be broken so be patient with yourself
it's about creating a new mindset of
action instead of
[Music]
fear all right before we wrap up let's
take a quick break with a fun fact did
you know that the average person spends
up to 60% of their time in a state of
overthinking that's a lot of energy
wasted right wow
60% that's crazy imagine what we could
do with all that time if we focused on
action instead of worry seriously if we
could shift just a fraction of that
energy into taking action we could
accomplish so much
more so to sum it up overthinking
doesn't help us make better decisions in
fact it usually just holds us back but
by setting small goals creating
deadlines and allowing ourselves to fail
we can break free from the cycle of
overthinking and start taking real
action Jeff thank you so much for
joining us today and sharing your
insights thanks Lisa it was great to
talk about this and I hope it helps some
people out there take that first
step I'm sure it will and to everyone
listening remember action over
overthinking start small stay consistent
and most importantly don't be afraid to
fail that's how we learn and grow thanks
for tuning in and we'll see you next
time on the simple English podcast take
care
[Music]
everyone all right it's time to learn
some important vocabulary related to the
topic the first word of today is
overthink it means to think about
something too much especially in a way
that makes it more complicated or
stressful than it needs to be example I
I tend to overthink every decision which
makes it harder for me to move forward
next word is procrastinate it means to
delay or postpone doing something often
because of fear lack of motivation or
distraction example instead of taking
action I procrastinated on starting my
project for
weeks next word is paralyze it means to
cause someone or something to become
unable to move or act often due to fear
anxiety or indecision
example the fear of failing can paralyze
you making it impossible to take the
first step next word is
momentum it means the force or energy
gained by an object or person as they
continue to move forward or make
progress example after completing the
first task I gained momentum and
finished the entire project in one day
the last word is fear of
failure it means the anxiety or worry
about not succeeding or making mistakes
which can prevent someone from taking
action example his fear of failure held
him back from starting his own business
for
[Music]
years thank you for listening to our
episode of the simple English podcast I
hope you learned something new and
helpful today please give us a like And
subscribe for video like this share it
with your friends and let let us know
what you think in the comment section
below we'll be back with more
interesting discussions soon

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fear

/fɪər/

A2
  • noun
  • - a feeling of worry about something bad that might happen
  • verb
  • - to be afraid of something

failure

/ˈfeɪljər/

B1
  • noun
  • - the fact of not succeeding

action

/ˈækʃən/

A2
  • noun
  • - the process of doing something

stuck

/stʌk/

B1
  • adjective
  • - unable to move or progress

paralyze

/ˈpærəlaɪz/

C1
  • verb
  • - to make someone unable to move or act

momentum

/moʊˈmentəm/

C1
  • noun
  • - the strength or force that keeps an object or process moving

goal

/ɡoʊl/

A2
  • noun
  • - an aim or desired result

confident

/ˈkɒnfɪdənt/

B1
  • adjective
  • - feeling certain about your abilities or qualities

decision

/dɪˈsɪʒən/

B1
  • noun
  • - a choice that you make about something after thinking about it carefully

procrastinate

/proʊˈkræstɪneɪt/

B2
  • verb
  • - to delay doing something that you need to do

habit

/ˈhæbɪt/

A2
  • noun
  • - something that you do often and regularly, sometimes without knowing that you are doing it

mindset

/ˈmaɪndset/

C1
  • noun
  • - a set of attitudes or a way of thinking

energy

/ˈenərdʒi/

A2
  • noun
  • - the power from physical or mental activity

step

/step/

A2
  • noun
  • - one of a series of actions that you take in order to achieve something

outcome

/ˈaʊtkʌm/

B2
  • noun
  • - the result of an action or process

mistake

/mɪˈsteɪk/

A2
  • noun
  • - an action or opinion that is wrong or inaccurate

process

/ˈprɑːses/

B1
  • noun
  • - a series of actions or changes that lead to a result

cycle

/ˈsaɪkəl/

B2
  • noun
  • - a series of events that happen again and again in the same order

project

/ˈprɑːdʒekt/

B1
  • noun
  • - a planned piece of work that you do to achieve a particular aim
  • noun
  • - to cause an image to appear on a surface

overthink

/ˌoʊvərˈθɪŋk/

B2
  • verb
  • - to think about something too much or for too long

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