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- Here are eight steps to
get your (censored) together.
Step one, tell no one.
The urge to tell everybody you know,
especially the people closest to you
about this big change you're gonna make
is often overwhelming
because it feels really good
to announce to everybody
that you're gonna start going
to the gym every single day,
or that you're gonna read a
book a week for a whole year,
or whatever the hell you want to do.
Whatever it is, it's
exciting to tell people.
You know, you're thinking to yourself,
"Man, it would be really
cool to be this person."
You start imagining it
as if it's real, right?
You imagine the more
jacked version of yourself,
the more well-read version of yourself,
the person whose house is always clean.
You start to get infatuated
with this future projection.
So you let your friends know,
you let your family know.
But I would urge you to
resist the urge to do this,
not because it's useless,
but because it's genuinely destructive.
Because think about it,
what's the best possible thing
that they could say as a response
to you in that situation?
You say to them, "I'm gonna
start going to the gym
every single day."
You would want them to say something like,
"Oh wow! That's great.
Good for you. I can't
wait to see the results."
But if that is the response,
what will that do to you?
It'll make you feel all
warm and fuzzy inside.
You just gained a bunch of praise,
even though you did absolutely nothing.
You've been generously
rewarded for inaction.
And if the response is
completely different,
you know, if it's a
very negative response.
If they call you out
on your bull (censored)
and they say, "Eh, good
luck sticking to that."
You might take offense to that.
You might say to yourself,
"Damn, maybe I don't have what it takes."
Or you'll be the kind of person who says,
"F you, I'll show you."
And then you end up being very consistent
for a short while out of spite.
This is a very immature reason
to start doing something
that you already know
you want to do, right?
Who are you doing this for?
To prove the haters wrong?
Nobody hates you.
And if people somehow do hate you,
why would you do anything for them, right?
Why would you say like,
"Oh, these people hate me,
so I am going to act and
live my life differently."
That gives them all the power.
You see what I'm getting at here?
It's pretty much lose
lose all across the board
if you get in the habit
of just talking about this
person you're gonna be.
So, if you're very excited,
and rightfully so, about a
big change you're gonna make,
keep that to yourself.
Use that energy and that excitement
to actually do the thing.
And let the results of your consistency
be something that's discovered
rather than announced.
Step number two, start
before you're ready.
The feeling of readiness
is something that will almost never come.
You don't need new shoes, you
don't need the perfect system,
you don't need to remember anything that
that one health guru said
on that YouTube Short
that you watched the other
day, and you can't find it.
Forget about it, you
need less information,
not more information.
Transformation is something
that happens through action.
So prove to yourself that you can act
regardless of the weather,
regardless of your levels of motivation,
or the amount of sleep
that you got last night.
All of these things are helpful,
but they're not requirements.
You can do the thing anyways.
You've always been able to.
Do it now and figure out
the details along the way.
Step number three, don't hide.
So a lot of people, when they
want to transform their life,
get very infatuated with this idea
of going away up a mountain somewhere,
isolating themselves away from society,
self-improving in a bubble,
and then coming back
as this unrecognizable,
superior version of themself.
And everyone claps.
It's very obvious
to see how this is a extremely
insecure mindset, right?
It rides pretty heavily
on people having some sort of
reaction to you or something.
Like, "Oh wow, Lisan al Gaib!"
But again, you have to ask yourself,
who are you doing this for?
Is this not your life?
Who do you want to be?
That's the great thing about life.
You get to be who you want to be.
So don't isolate yourself and
only participate in society
when you're this improved
version of yourself.
You're okay now.
Spend time with the people
that you care about.
Go do the things that
you want to do today.
Improve what you want to
improve on the backend, right?
That's healthy.
But don't somehow twist this
whole self-improvement thing
with self-hatred.
Do it because it's good for you
and it feels good to feel good.
Step four, stay on track.
Life is like a train, and
it's leading you somewhere,
and there's no way to
stop the train, right?
You can't stop time.
You will always end up at
a different destination.
There's no such thing is
staying in the same place,
because time won't allow for it.
All you can do is pay attention
to where the train is currently going.
What's the trajectory? And
do you need to change course?
Will you end up in your
desired destination?
Doing something positive every single day
is like making sure you
don't veer off course.
Keep in mind to what the
ultimate destination is,
where are you going and
where do you want to go?
Making substantial progress in your life
is a lot easier when you realize
that it was never about
climbing a huge mountain.
You never needed to make a
huge journey up Mount Everest
in order to change something.
It was always about simple decisions,
decisions that you make every single day.
It's just about bringing
consciousness to those decisions
and then doing the better thing
instead of the worst thing.
So to bring this back to
like going to the gym,
it's probably the easiest example.
Becoming a healthy person,
to achieve, you know, a
physique that you want.
It's never been about going
to the gym super hard one day,
getting super motivated, you know,
watching all the necessary
clips on YouTube,
getting super jacked up,
and then going to the gym really hard.
All it is, is a decision
you're already familiar with.
When you get that urge,
when you get that sort of
conflict in your mind about,
"Should I go to the gym
right now or should I not?"
And you say, "Eh, you
know, I'll go tomorrow."
That's all it is.
That is all it is.
It's finding a way to just
say, "Yeah, what the hell?
I'll go to the gym today."
That's it.
Just doing the better thing
instead of the worst thing
is the answer to everything.
We would like to think that the answer
to all of our life's problems
is some other conflict that
we're not already familiar with.
It can't be that little thing.
That's all it is, unfortunately.
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Step number five, grease the grooves.
I cannot stress enough the
importance of taking advantage
of environmental cues
to make it as easy as
possible to stay on the path.
Everybody is aware that
if their Xbox is visible,
they're more likely to play it.
That if junk food is in the house,
they're more likely to eat it.
Our environment shapes our
mindset and our behaviors
more than we probably realize,
but we can take advantage of this fact
and set traps of growth.
It's extremely easy to take
your vitamins every single day
if they are sitting out on display
where you tend to drink water.
That is basically the only reason
why I ever take vitamins, ever.
Another little hack that
gets me into the gym,
I'm addicted to caffeine.
So what I've done recently is
instead of quitting caffeine,
'cause that would be ridiculous.
What am I insane?
I take advantage of my caffeine addiction.
I use it as a strength.
I usually have three
cups of coffee in a day,
two in the morning.
So one when I first wake up,
another one like right after.
And then there's this period of time
where I want that third cup of coffee
sometime after lunch, so around 2:00 PM.
So what I've done
is I don't let myself have
that third cup of coffee.
Instead, it has to be pre-workout.
My emotions, my little monkey
brain wants a pick me up.
It requires a pick me up.
I say to myself,
"You can have a pick me up
a scoop of pre-workout."
When I have the pre-workout,
I find myself automatically
setting off a chain reaction,
putting on my gym shoes,
and heading to the gym.
Work with what you've got.
Survey your life
and all the little weird
tendencies that you have
and all of your insanities,
and use it to your advantage.
Hack your environment and your behavior
and your current
lifestyle to work for you.
Make it as easy as possible
to do what's good for you
and what you want to do,
and as difficult and strenuous,
and kind of inconvenient as possible
to do what's bad for you.
And leave a comment saying,
"Joey, I like your
mustache," or, roast me.
Step number six, do it your way.
I don't know what you're going through.
I don't know the reasons
why you would want to
get your shit together,
but nothing is more powerful
than your own reasons for doing this.
Ask yourself, "How do you
want to live this life?
Who is the person that you want to be?
And in what ways do you
tend to fail achieving that?
How can you course-correct"
The answers to these personal questions
are by far the biggest motivator
that will help you stay on track.
Figure out a way that works for you,
figure out a way that compliments
your little insanities that you have.
Find a way to work with your
weird procrastination habits,
your strange, intrusive thoughts,
your freakish brain that you might have.
Who cares?
You know what you're like,
you know how you tend to fail,
so work with yourself and do it your way.
You don't need an aha moment.
You just need to see the truth.
Become conscious.
Which leads directly
into step number seven,
which is pay attention.
Once you've been on the path for a while,
pay attention to how you feel.
Notice how much better it
feels to live in a reality
where you've consistently
been who you want to be.
Doing what's good for you,
more often, more frequently,
literally feels better
right here, right now.
This feeling is why it's worth it.
It feels better to be alive
knowing that you're on the righteous path
rather than on the path to destruction.
Like the trains I was talking about,
it feels good knowing that
you are on the right track.
Your existence feels better,
so pay attention to that feeling.
When you realize just how
much better you feel now,
it'll become obvious that
white-knuckle tactics
and little tips and tricks and
mental hacks to stay on track
become completely obsolete.
You don't need that stuff anymore
because it's so obviously better
that you wouldn't want to go back.
People who conquer addictions
for their whole life
really understand this feeling.
It's not like they're sitting there
free from the shackles of their addiction,
feeling deprived and super pent up
and angry that they can't go back, right?
They realize that it
feels better to be free.
They don't need to do that anymore.
So that's the type of
truth I'm talking about.
When you've been on the
righteous path for a while,
then, the benefits of
transcending mediocrity
are no longer this distant hypothetical
that you have to think about and conjure.
The benefits become inarguable.
They become your overwhelming reality
that you enjoy in the present moment.
That's when you know
that things have clicked.
Step eight, rejoice.
Take time to reflect
and be grateful that you're
on the righteous path.
Now, this might sound like a
waste of time, or very woo woo,
but it is very important
because what a lot of people tend to do,
they're starting to actually live the life
that they want to live, and
they start feeling really good.
And then this little voice
creeps in, a voice of regret,
of bitterness for not starting earlier.
You know, for all this wasted time.
You know, "I wasted so much time.
I'm so old now.
Why didn't I start doing
this when I was way younger?"
Stay on top of this little voice.
It is absolutely useless and destructive.
Because the truth is,
there could have been a million reasons
why you didn't start exactly when you did,
but you're on the path now, right?
You are in the best possible
reality that you can be in
in this moment.
All of the failed mindsets
and white-knuckle tactics
that you had to try out
led you to this moment,
the moment that worked.
So rejoice and be grateful
that you got here,
because not everybody does.
It feels good to feel good, be at peace.
Because as Seneca once said,
"The secret of change is
to focus all your energy,
not on fighting the old,
but by building the new,
and liking this video."
Because when you actually
hit the like button,
the video genuinely
does do so much better.
You could see it with the last video.
The last video was a banger.
If you haven't watched it, go watch it.
But so many of you hit the like button
because I said to hit the like button,
and it got way more views
than the previous couple of videos.
So it does make a huge difference,
and I really appreciate it.
Other than that, thanks for watching.
We'll catch you in the next video.
- [Narrator] If your Uranus was this big,
it would be a black hole.