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[Music] 00:01
hey everyone welcome back to the English 00:10
dialogue podcast I am 00:13
Mike and I'm Emma we're so glad you're 00:17
joining us today for another 00:20
conversation today we're diving into a 00:23
topic that affects so many people 00:25
especially Millennials and Z social 00:28
media it's something we all use but is 00:31
it doing more harm than good is it 00:34
making us lazy or even affecting our 00:37
mental health yes we'll be talking about 00:39
how social media might be encouraging 00:43
laziness emotional breakdowns depression 00:45
and this constant feeling of comparison 00:50
so let's Jump Right In all right Emma 00:53
let's get started with 00:56
laziness do you think social media is 00:58
actually making people lazy honestly yes 01:01
to some extent social media is designed 01:04
to keep us scrolling for hours and the 01:07
more time we spend scrolling the less 01:10
time we spend doing things that actually 01:12
make us productive we end up in a 01:14
passive State just consuming content 01:17
Without Really engaging or 01:19
thinking exactly have you noticed how 01:21
often we now see terms like Doom 01:24
scrolling or binge watching these 01:26
weren't really a thing 01:28
10 or 15 years ago now it's normal to 01:30
spend hours just sitting there scrolling 01:33
through content and at the end we feel 01:35
exhausted but haven't really done 01:38
anything and it's kind of addictive 01:40
right we're constantly going back to our 01:43
phones looking for the next update or 01:45
notification it becomes this Loop and 01:48
breaking out of it can feel so difficult 01:51
yeah it's like social media Taps into 01:54
our desire for instant gratification 01:57
we get that dopamine Rush from a like a 02:00
comment or even a funny video but over 02:03
time we may lose the drive to pursue 02:06
things that take longer to accomplish so 02:09
Mike let's talk about how social media 02:12
might contribute to emotional collapse 02:15
and burnout do you think it's making us 02:17
more emotionally 02:19
fragile absolutely social media can 02:21
overload us with information there's so 02:24
much news so many opinions so many EXP 02:26
expectations all the time people 02:29
constantly feel like they have to be on 02:32
like they're always 02:34
performing exactly and the pressure is 02:36
real sometimes it feels like we're 02:39
expected to respond immediately to 02:41
messages or stay updated with every 02:44
Trend it's mentally exhausting and over 02:46
time that can lead to 02:50
burnout not to mention people are 02:51
comparing their lives with the highlight 02:54
reels of others when you're constantly 02:56
seeing everyone else's best moments it's 02:59
easy to feel like your life isn't as 03:02
good or that you're not achieving enough 03:04
and it's not even just about big things 03:07
like careers or 03:09
vacations it's little things too like 03:11
seeing someone have a perfect workout 03:13
routine or an amazing home-cooked meal 03:15
even those small things can make us feel 03:18
inadequate over time social media and 03:21
mental health is this something we 03:24
should be concerned about 03:26
absolutely studies are showing links 03:28
between heavy social media use and 03:31
increased rates of depression and 03:33
anxiety especially among younger people 03:35
it's so true when you're on social media 03:38
you're bombarded with images and posts 03:41
that can make you feel less than and for 03:43
Millennials and genz this can be really 03:46
damaging especially if they're already 03:49
feeling unsure or 03:51
insecure yes and that's partly because 03:54
social media creates unrealistic 03:57
standards 03:59
people only show the best parts of their 04:00
lives which can give us a distorted view 04:02
of reality and that comparison trap can 04:05
be so toxic people start thinking I'll 04:08
never be as successful as fit or as 04:11
happy as everyone else that feeling of 04:14
not Measuring Up can lead to a lot of 04:17
negative 04:19
emotions it's almost like social media 04:21
becomes a mirror but it's a warped 04:23
mirror instead of reflecting reality 04:25
it's showing the this filtered version 04:29
of life that can be really damaging 04:30
especially for those who are struggling 04:34
with self-esteem Mike do you think that 04:35
comparison is something unique to social 04:39
media or is it something that's always 04:41
been around comparison has always been 04:43
around but social media amplifies it 04:46
before you might only compare yourself 04:49
to the people you see at school at work 04:52
or in your 04:54
community now you're comparing yourself 04:55
to celebrities influencers and people 04:58
from all over the world it's a 05:01
comparison on a massive scale and it's 05:03
all happening in real time you can see 05:06
what people are doing right this second 05:09
and that can create a lot of fear of 05:11
missing out fomo fear of missing out 05:13
people feel like they're not doing 05:17
enough or that they're missing out on 05:18
something 05:20
amazing yes and that Foo leads people to 05:21
feel dissatisfied with their lives 05:25
you're constantly thinking maybe I 05:28
should be doing that or going there or 05:30
achieving this it becomes exhausting and 05:32
can really mess with your sense of 05:35
selfworth and we shouldn't underestimate 05:37
the impact this has on Mental Health 05:39
constantly comparing yourself to others 05:42
is emotionally draining over time it can 05:44
lead to a lot of self-doubt anxiety and 05:47
even 05:51
depression so Emma with all these 05:52
challenges do you think there's a way to 05:55
use social media in a healthier way 05:57
I think so it's all about setting 06:00
boundaries limiting the amount of time 06:03
you spend online being selective about 06:06
who you follow and making sure you're 06:08
using it to connect in positive ways 06:11
rather than just consuming content 06:14
passively that's a great point maybe 06:16
it's also about remembering that social 06:20
media isn't reality it's a curated 06:22
version of life people don't post their 06:25
struggles their insec ities or the hard 06:28
parts of their lives exactly we should 06:30
remind ourselves that what we see is 06:34
only part of the picture and we can use 06:36
social media to connect learn and be 06:39
inspired rather than compare it's also 06:42
about taking 06:45
breaks sometimes just stepping away for 06:47
a day or even a few hours can help us 06:50
clear our minds and focus on what's real 06:52
around us yes those breaks are so 06:55
important they help us stay grounded and 06:58
remind us of what's real social media 07:01
isn't going away but we can choose how 07:04
we engage with it well that's it for 07:06
today's episode we hope this 07:10
conversation gave you something to think 07:12
about social media can be a wonderful 07:14
tool but it's important to be mindful of 07:17
how it affects us absolutely and 07:20
remember it's okay to take a break from 07:23
social media if it ever feels 07:25
overwhelming your m mental health is way 07:28
more important than a few likes or 07:30
comments thanks for joining us on the 07:32
English dialogue podcast if you found 07:35
today's episode helpful don't forget to 07:38
subscribe and share it with your friends 07:40
and let us know your thoughts do you 07:43
think social media is making Millennials 07:45
and jenz lazy let us know in the 07:47
comments everyone 07:50
[Music] 07:52
all right now let's dive into some 07:59
vocabulary that's really useful 08:01
integrate meaning to combine or bring 08:04
together different elements to form a 08:08
cohesive whole to incorporate new ideas 08:09
or systems into existing ones example 08:12
the company plans to integrate the new 08:16
software into its existing workflow to 08:18
improve 08:21
efficiency traction meaning gaining 08:22
support momentum or progress in a 08:26
particular idea plan or initiative often 08:29
used to describe how well something is 08:33
being accepted or catching on example 08:35
the new marketing campaign is gaining 08:39
traction with more customers showing 08:41
interest in our products long-term 08:43
stability meaning a state of being 08:47
consistent secure and reliable over an 08:50
extended period the absence of 08:53
volatility or 08:55
instability example investing in 08:57
education and Healthcare is crucial for 09:00
achieving long-term stability in a 09:02
nation's economy substance meaning the 09:04
quality of being meaningful significant 09:08
or important the actual content or 09:11
material of something rather than just 09:15
appearance example the report was full 09:18
of substance offering valuable data and 09:21
insights rather than just superficial 09:24
observations indeed 09:27
meaning a word used to emphasize a 09:29
statement or confirm something that has 09:32
been said often shows agreement or 09:34
acknowledgement example the project was 09:37
challenging but it was indeed a valuable 09:40
learning experience for everyone 09:42
involved it's almost like social media 09:45
becomes a mirror but it's a warped 09:47
mirror instead of reflecting reality 09:49
it's showing this filtered version of 09:53
life that can be really damaging 09:55
especially for those who are struggling 09:58
with self-esteem Mike do you think that 09:59
comparison is something unique to social 10:03
media or is it something that's always 10:05
been around comparison has always been 10:07
around but social media amplifies it 10:10
before you might only compare yourself 10:14
to the people you see at school at work 10:16
or in your 10:18
community now you're comparing yourself 10:19
to celebrities influencers and people 10:22
from all over the world it's a 10:25
comparison on a massive SC scale and 10:27
it's all happening in real time you can 10:30
see what people are doing right this 10:33
second and that can create a lot of fear 10:35
of missing out fomo fear of missing out 10:37
people feel like they're not doing 10:41
enough or that they're missing out on 10:42
something 10:44
amazing yes and that fomo leads people 10:45
to feel dissatisfied with their lives 10:49
you're constantly thinking maybe I 10:52
should be doing that or going there or 10:54
achieving this it becomes exhausting and 10:56
can really mess with your sense of 10:59
self-worth and we shouldn't 11:01
underestimate the impact this has on 11:03
Mental Health constantly comparing 11:05
yourself to others is emotionally 11:07
draining over time it can lead to a lot 11:09
of self-doubt anxiety and even 11:12
depression so Emma with all these 11:16
challenges do you think there's a way to 11:19
use social media in a healthier way I 11:21
think so it's all about setting 11:24
boundaries limiting the amount of time 11:27
you spend online being selective about 11:30
who you follow and making sure you're 11:33
using it to connect in positive ways 11:35
rather than just consuming content 11:38
passively that's a great point maybe 11:40
it's also about remembering that social 11:44
media isn't reality it's a curated 11:46
version of life people don't post their 11:49
struggles their insecurities or the hard 11:52
parts of their lives exactly we should 11:54
remind our our eles that what we see is 11:58
only part of the picture and we can use 12:00
social media to connect learn and be 12:03
inspired rather than compare it's also 12:06
about taking 12:09
breaks sometimes just stepping away for 12:11
a day or even a few hours can help us 12:14
clear our minds and focus on what's real 12:16
around us yes those breaks are so 12:19
important they help us stay grounded and 12:23
remind us of what's real social media 12:25
isn't going way but we can choose how we 12:28
engage with it well that's it for 12:31
today's episode we hope this 12:34
conversation gave you something to think 12:36
about social media can be a wonderful 12:38
tool but it's important to be mindful of 12:41
how it affects us absolutely and 12:44
remember it's okay to take a break from 12:47
social media if it ever feels 12:49
overwhelming your mental health is way 12:52
more important than a few likes or 12:54
comments thanks for joining us on on the 12:56
English dialogue podcast if you found 12:59
today's episode helpful don't forget to 13:02
subscribe and share it with your friends 13:04
and let us know your thoughts do you 13:07
think social media is making Millennials 13:10
and jenzy lazy let us know in the 13:11
comments everyone 13:14
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[English]
[Music]
hey everyone welcome back to the English
dialogue podcast I am
Mike and I'm Emma we're so glad you're
joining us today for another
conversation today we're diving into a
topic that affects so many people
especially Millennials and Z social
media it's something we all use but is
it doing more harm than good is it
making us lazy or even affecting our
mental health yes we'll be talking about
how social media might be encouraging
laziness emotional breakdowns depression
and this constant feeling of comparison
so let's Jump Right In all right Emma
let's get started with
laziness do you think social media is
actually making people lazy honestly yes
to some extent social media is designed
to keep us scrolling for hours and the
more time we spend scrolling the less
time we spend doing things that actually
make us productive we end up in a
passive State just consuming content
Without Really engaging or
thinking exactly have you noticed how
often we now see terms like Doom
scrolling or binge watching these
weren't really a thing
10 or 15 years ago now it's normal to
spend hours just sitting there scrolling
through content and at the end we feel
exhausted but haven't really done
anything and it's kind of addictive
right we're constantly going back to our
phones looking for the next update or
notification it becomes this Loop and
breaking out of it can feel so difficult
yeah it's like social media Taps into
our desire for instant gratification
we get that dopamine Rush from a like a
comment or even a funny video but over
time we may lose the drive to pursue
things that take longer to accomplish so
Mike let's talk about how social media
might contribute to emotional collapse
and burnout do you think it's making us
more emotionally
fragile absolutely social media can
overload us with information there's so
much news so many opinions so many EXP
expectations all the time people
constantly feel like they have to be on
like they're always
performing exactly and the pressure is
real sometimes it feels like we're
expected to respond immediately to
messages or stay updated with every
Trend it's mentally exhausting and over
time that can lead to
burnout not to mention people are
comparing their lives with the highlight
reels of others when you're constantly
seeing everyone else's best moments it's
easy to feel like your life isn't as
good or that you're not achieving enough
and it's not even just about big things
like careers or
vacations it's little things too like
seeing someone have a perfect workout
routine or an amazing home-cooked meal
even those small things can make us feel
inadequate over time social media and
mental health is this something we
should be concerned about
absolutely studies are showing links
between heavy social media use and
increased rates of depression and
anxiety especially among younger people
it's so true when you're on social media
you're bombarded with images and posts
that can make you feel less than and for
Millennials and genz this can be really
damaging especially if they're already
feeling unsure or
insecure yes and that's partly because
social media creates unrealistic
standards
people only show the best parts of their
lives which can give us a distorted view
of reality and that comparison trap can
be so toxic people start thinking I'll
never be as successful as fit or as
happy as everyone else that feeling of
not Measuring Up can lead to a lot of
negative
emotions it's almost like social media
becomes a mirror but it's a warped
mirror instead of reflecting reality
it's showing the this filtered version
of life that can be really damaging
especially for those who are struggling
with self-esteem Mike do you think that
comparison is something unique to social
media or is it something that's always
been around comparison has always been
around but social media amplifies it
before you might only compare yourself
to the people you see at school at work
or in your
community now you're comparing yourself
to celebrities influencers and people
from all over the world it's a
comparison on a massive scale and it's
all happening in real time you can see
what people are doing right this second
and that can create a lot of fear of
missing out fomo fear of missing out
people feel like they're not doing
enough or that they're missing out on
something
amazing yes and that Foo leads people to
feel dissatisfied with their lives
you're constantly thinking maybe I
should be doing that or going there or
achieving this it becomes exhausting and
can really mess with your sense of
selfworth and we shouldn't underestimate
the impact this has on Mental Health
constantly comparing yourself to others
is emotionally draining over time it can
lead to a lot of self-doubt anxiety and
even
depression so Emma with all these
challenges do you think there's a way to
use social media in a healthier way
I think so it's all about setting
boundaries limiting the amount of time
you spend online being selective about
who you follow and making sure you're
using it to connect in positive ways
rather than just consuming content
passively that's a great point maybe
it's also about remembering that social
media isn't reality it's a curated
version of life people don't post their
struggles their insec ities or the hard
parts of their lives exactly we should
remind ourselves that what we see is
only part of the picture and we can use
social media to connect learn and be
inspired rather than compare it's also
about taking
breaks sometimes just stepping away for
a day or even a few hours can help us
clear our minds and focus on what's real
around us yes those breaks are so
important they help us stay grounded and
remind us of what's real social media
isn't going away but we can choose how
we engage with it well that's it for
today's episode we hope this
conversation gave you something to think
about social media can be a wonderful
tool but it's important to be mindful of
how it affects us absolutely and
remember it's okay to take a break from
social media if it ever feels
overwhelming your m mental health is way
more important than a few likes or
comments thanks for joining us on the
English dialogue podcast if you found
today's episode helpful don't forget to
subscribe and share it with your friends
and let us know your thoughts do you
think social media is making Millennials
and jenz lazy let us know in the
comments everyone
[Music]
all right now let's dive into some
vocabulary that's really useful
integrate meaning to combine or bring
together different elements to form a
cohesive whole to incorporate new ideas
or systems into existing ones example
the company plans to integrate the new
software into its existing workflow to
improve
efficiency traction meaning gaining
support momentum or progress in a
particular idea plan or initiative often
used to describe how well something is
being accepted or catching on example
the new marketing campaign is gaining
traction with more customers showing
interest in our products long-term
stability meaning a state of being
consistent secure and reliable over an
extended period the absence of
volatility or
instability example investing in
education and Healthcare is crucial for
achieving long-term stability in a
nation's economy substance meaning the
quality of being meaningful significant
or important the actual content or
material of something rather than just
appearance example the report was full
of substance offering valuable data and
insights rather than just superficial
observations indeed
meaning a word used to emphasize a
statement or confirm something that has
been said often shows agreement or
acknowledgement example the project was
challenging but it was indeed a valuable
learning experience for everyone
involved it's almost like social media
becomes a mirror but it's a warped
mirror instead of reflecting reality
it's showing this filtered version of
life that can be really damaging
especially for those who are struggling
with self-esteem Mike do you think that
comparison is something unique to social
media or is it something that's always
been around comparison has always been
around but social media amplifies it
before you might only compare yourself
to the people you see at school at work
or in your
community now you're comparing yourself
to celebrities influencers and people
from all over the world it's a
comparison on a massive SC scale and
it's all happening in real time you can
see what people are doing right this
second and that can create a lot of fear
of missing out fomo fear of missing out
people feel like they're not doing
enough or that they're missing out on
something
amazing yes and that fomo leads people
to feel dissatisfied with their lives
you're constantly thinking maybe I
should be doing that or going there or
achieving this it becomes exhausting and
can really mess with your sense of
self-worth and we shouldn't
underestimate the impact this has on
Mental Health constantly comparing
yourself to others is emotionally
draining over time it can lead to a lot
of self-doubt anxiety and even
depression so Emma with all these
challenges do you think there's a way to
use social media in a healthier way I
think so it's all about setting
boundaries limiting the amount of time
you spend online being selective about
who you follow and making sure you're
using it to connect in positive ways
rather than just consuming content
passively that's a great point maybe
it's also about remembering that social
media isn't reality it's a curated
version of life people don't post their
struggles their insecurities or the hard
parts of their lives exactly we should
remind our our eles that what we see is
only part of the picture and we can use
social media to connect learn and be
inspired rather than compare it's also
about taking
breaks sometimes just stepping away for
a day or even a few hours can help us
clear our minds and focus on what's real
around us yes those breaks are so
important they help us stay grounded and
remind us of what's real social media
isn't going way but we can choose how we
engage with it well that's it for
today's episode we hope this
conversation gave you something to think
about social media can be a wonderful
tool but it's important to be mindful of
how it affects us absolutely and
remember it's okay to take a break from
social media if it ever feels
overwhelming your mental health is way
more important than a few likes or
comments thanks for joining us on on the
English dialogue podcast if you found
today's episode helpful don't forget to
subscribe and share it with your friends
and let us know your thoughts do you
think social media is making Millennials
and jenzy lazy let us know in the
comments everyone
[Music]

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Vocabulary Meanings

social

/ˈsoʊʃəl/

A1
  • adjective
  • - relating to society or people in groups

media

/ˈmidiə/

A2
  • noun
  • - forms of communication that reach large numbers of people

lazy

/ˈleɪzi/

A1
  • adjective
  • - unwilling to work or use energy

mental

/ˈmentəl/

A2
  • adjective
  • - relating to the mind

health

/hɛlθ/

A1
  • noun
  • - the state of being free from illness or injury

comparison

/kəmˈpɛrəsən/

B1
  • noun
  • - the act of comparing or being compared

emotional

/ɪˈmoʊʃənəl/

A2
  • adjective
  • - relating to emotion

fragile

/ˈfrædʒəl/

B2
  • adjective
  • - easily broken or damaged

overload

/ˈoʊvərloʊd/

B1
  • verb
  • - to load too much weight or work onto something
  • noun
  • - too much of something

exhaustion

/ɪɡˈzɔstʃən/

B1
  • noun
  • - extreme tiredness

highlight

/ˈhaɪlaɪt/

B1
  • verb
  • - to emphasize something
  • noun
  • - the best or most important part

distort

/dɪˈstɔrt/

B2
  • verb
  • - to change something so that it is unclear or unnatural

toxic

/ˈtɒksɪk/

B1
  • adjective
  • - poisonous or harmful to living things

self-esteem

/sɛlf ɪˈstim/

B2
  • noun
  • - confidence in oneself

fomo

/ˈfoʊmoʊ/

C1
  • noun
  • - fear of missing out

dissatisfied

/dɪˈsætɪsfaɪd/

B1
  • adjective
  • - not pleased or happy

boundaries

/ˈbaʊndəriz/

B2
  • noun
  • - limits that show where something ends and another begins

selective

/sɪˈlɛktɪv/

B2
  • adjective
  • - choosing only things that you like or need

inspired

/ɪnˈspaɪərd/

B1
  • adjective
  • - having the enthusiasm to do something creative

mindful

/ˈmaɪndfl/

B2
  • adjective
  • - taking care to notice what you are doing

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