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[English]

hi guys welcome back to my Channel today

I want to talk about self- Lov again now

this is a passion for me and I'm not

going to stop talking about it until I'm

going to make each every one of you fall

in love with yourself and walk around

with your head high so your crown won't

fall okay okay so today I actually

wanted to talk about self- Lov and

relationships I'm getting a lot of DMS

from you for advice there's a lot of

amazing girls that feel comfortable to

do that with me and I'm so grateful but

I got a few messages in the past two

days about relationship things so I'm

just going to kind of mention a few

points that hopefully will resonate with

you first things first you got to do

your inner work before you choose your

partner and that really applies to all

ages if you are looking for someone to

get married or you're looking for a

boyfriend or you're just 14 years old

and you like like boys and they like you

back and they pull your hair you got to

do inner work and I'll tell you why you

will at some point in your life realize

that no one can make you happy the way

you can make yourself happy and I'm not

saying that you should retire and have

15 cats and live by yourself what I'm

saying is that you can't put that

responsibility on other people you have

to make yourself whole on your own

instead of searching for somebody to

save you and complete you that's not how

it works unfortunately and I know that

there's a lot of movies and a lot of

love songs and a lot of C tunes that

tell you otherwise but reality is that

if you're not happy it doesn't matter

how amazing the person beside you is

you're not going to see it because

you're going to ruin that relationship

because your relationship with yourself

is not there yet when you are in a

relationship um and you are whole on

your own um it's such an amazing strong

base to start with if your partner have

bad days you don't kind of crumble with

it if your partner you know just not

feeling it or not showing you enough

effect it doesn't like ruin your life

and that's the thing we rely sometimes

so much emotionally on our partners that

it completely destroys us when that

partner can keep up when you put that

burden on your partner to constantly

make you happy it can damage your

relationship don't put your happiness

entirely in others people's hands

because if you can't make yourself happy

no one will be able to make you happy

the end another message that I got that

really struck something with me because

I was in that situation before is a

beautiful girl that just says that the

guy she's with he's great and he's funny

and he's amazing and he's smart but he

basically treats her like but she's

still there people treat you the way

they see you treat yourself if you belit

in yourself if you are being mean to

yourself if you keep saying negative

things about yourself that sets the tone

to how people will approach you so you

really have to have high standards to

the way you treat yourself because other

people see it you have to remember that

you lead by example when you're being

mean to yourself or you let people step

over you it shows them that it's okay to

do it cuz you don't stand out for

yourself you don't say no I I'm not

tolerating this and I'm better than this

so please be aware of what you let

people say or do or act towards you

because you're basically giving them the

okay go sign and that also triggers for

you that it's okay this one is something

very very important and I hope you're

going to listen and rewind this and

listen to it again the woman you're

becoming will cost you people will cost

you relationship will cost you places

always choose her over everything so you

have to be true to that woman to your

future self because if you don't make

the right Investments the right move the

right decisions today it will affect you

in the future and um unfortunately

sometimes you will have to cut ties with

certain people with certain friends uh

and relationships that just don't

progress you as a human they don't make

you feel good they don't make you grow

and that's okay you'll be sad just for a

little bit but you'll be fine I promise

it's so worth it you're putting the

investment for your future self and you

know what in 10 years you look back and

say I'm so happy I made myself a

priority um this is kind of it these are

my tips for self- Lov and relationships

um I hope it did something for you if

not whatever I just had 5 minutes of

talking to myself thank you so much for

listening to me and I truly appreciate

your willingness to go and fight for

yourself so you're doing great

Key Vocabulary

Vocabulary	Meanings
self-love /ˈsɛlf ˈlʌv/ B1	noun - the regard for one's own happiness and well-being
resonate /ˈrezəˌneɪt/ B2	verb - to evoke a feeling of sympathy or recognition
whole /hoʊl/ A2	adjective - complete or full
crumble /ˈkrʌməl/ B1	verb - to break into small fragments
burden /ˈbɜːr.dən/ B1	noun - a heavy load or responsibility
belittle /bɪˈlɪtəl/ B2	verb - to make someone or something seem unimportant
standards /ˈstæn.dɚdz/ B1	noun - a level of quality or attainment
tolerate /ˈtɑː.lə.reɪt/ B2	verb - to allow or accept something unpleasant
investments /ɪnˈvɛst.mənts/ B1	noun - the act of devoting time, effort, or money to something
progress /ˈprɑː.ɡres/ B1	verb - to move forward or develop
prioritize /praɪˈɔː.rə.taɪz/ B2	verb - to decide which things are most important and deal with them first
gratitude /ˈɡrætɪˌtud/ B1	noun - the quality of being thankful
resilience /rɪˈzɪl.i.əns/ B2	noun - the ability to recover from difficulties
boundaries /ˈbaʊn.də.riz/ B1	noun - limits that define acceptable behavior
empower /ɛmˈpaʊ.ər/ B2	verb - to give someone the authority or power to do something

Key Grammar Structures

• you have to do your inner work before you choose your partner

  ➔ modal verb ‘have to’ + infinitive (obligation)

  ➔ The phrase "have to" expresses a strong obligation that the subject must fulfill.

• no one can make you happy the way you can make yourself happy

  ➔ comparative clause with "the way" + simple present

  ➔ "the way" introduces a comparative clause showing how something is done.

• I’m not saying that you should retire and have 15 cats and live by yourself

  ➔ present continuous + negation + that‑clause with modal "should" + infinitive

  ➔ "I’m not saying" uses the present continuous in a negative form to soften the statement, followed by a that‑clause with the modal "should" expressing advice.

• if you’re not happy it doesn’t matter how amazing the person beside you is

  ➔ first conditional (if + present simple, result + present simple)

  ➔ "if you’re not happy" is the protasis using the present simple; the apodosis "it doesn’t matter …" also uses the present simple to express a general truth.

• don’t put your happiness entirely in other people’s hands

  ➔ imperative sentence (base verb form)

  ➔ "don’t" + base verb "put" forms a negative imperative, giving a direct command or advice.

• people treat you the way they see you treat yourself

  ➔ relative clause with "the way" + simple present

  ➔ "the way" introduces a relative clause that describes the manner in which something happens.

• you have to remember that you lead by example

  ➔ modal verb "have to" + infinitive + that‑clause

  ➔ "have to" expresses necessity; it is followed by the base verb "remember" and the content clause introduced by "that".

• if you don’t make the right investments today it will affect you in the future

  ➔ first conditional (if + present simple, will + base verb)

  ➔ "if you don’t make" is the protasis using present simple; the apodosis "it will affect" uses "will" + base verb to indicate a future result.