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Hello and welcome back to my slow
English podcast.
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Today I will be having another interview
with my sister Brianna.
We'll use
real English expressions.
you can use at work or in daily life.
Listen for phrasal verbs and expressions
and see how many you catch.
Today, my sister and I are talking about
burnout
and the balance we need between
work and life. Have you ever taken on
too much at work or school?
Um, definitely.
Last year, I was working full-time and
studying for a certification at night.
That's a lot. Did you ever feel burned
out?
>> Um, yes. By the end of the month, I was
exhausted.
>> Mhm. And do you normally take on too
much?
>> Uh, yes, I do take on too much. I like
to do as much as I can, but the problem
is I usually end up feeling burned out.
>> Mhm.
And did you ever have to put in extra
hours?
>> Sometimes. Sometimes I've had to put in
extra hours from maybe a time I was more
productive or a time I was less
productive.
>> Mhm. And how did that feel?
>> It was very exhausting.
Uh I was very tired at the end of all of
it and I lost a lot of time for my
hobbies and what makes me happy. Mhm.
And have you ever let something slide
because you were too busy?
>> Sometimes I'll let my sleep schedule
slide or I'll let my workout schedule
slide because I'm too busy with other
things.
>> Mhm. Yeah. Um so normally would you say
you bite off more than you can chew?
Um, not always.
>> In life or sometimes.
>> Do you think more so in life or in work?
>> Um, probably more
Well, I would say those kind of go
together in work and in life. So, if I
take off if I bite off more than I can
chew in work, then my life is affected
and vice
>> versa.
Yeah. I've been there, too. Once I
actually had to meet three deadlines in
an afternoon, and I didn't even have
time to take a break. I tried to catch
up over the weekend, but honestly, I
think I've just I should have just taken
a day off because when I sacrifice my
weekends, that's when the whole week
goes wrong. I think I need a break.
Everybody needs a break.
>> Yeah. Sometimes it's important to just
slow down and admit that you can't
handle the pressure.
>> By the way, this episode is from my
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Mhm. Yeah, that's exactly it. We need to
slow down. Yeah. I feel like when you're
under pressure, it's always best to take
a break instead of forcing yourself to
catch up on work that you just didn't
finish when you were supposed to.
>> Personally, me, I work a lot better
under pressure. If I don't feel
pressure, I am not as productive.
>> Mhm. Yeah. And uh have you ever fallen
behind on a project? And if so, what did
you do?
Um, yes, I have fallen behind. Um,
usually to catch up, I'll try and
sometimes it's not the best, but I will
pull allnighters
or work through the weekend.
Just try and find ways to keep a fast
pace so I don't fall even more behind.
>> Mhm. Yeah, that's a good strategy. And
what do you usually do when you feel
stressed out at work or school?
>> If I'm feeling really stressed out, but
I don't have any time to relax or I do
have time to relax.
>> Um, I guess you do have time. Let's say,
>> okay, if I'm feeling stressed and I do
have time to relax, the way that I
choose to would probably be
going out with my boyfriend, playing
video games, or seeing my friends.
>> Mhm. Now, what if you don't have time?
I'm curious.
>> If I don't have time, I just listen and
deal with the stress. I'll take uh maybe
small times of my day um 10 to 15
minutes to meditate to read or you know
rest in any way I can find.
>> Mhm. Yeah. Or you take like shifts right
you'll do little little shifts of work a
break and then another break to sleep
for like 2 hours and then you wake up
and you work again and then you have a
break and sleep again.
sometimes. Yeah.
>> Yeah. You separated. I think you split
it up and that's good.
>> I split up my time.
>> Mhm.
>> Now, have you ever had to take time off
to recover
>> recently? Yes. I had my wisdom tooth
removal.
>> Mhm.
>> And I had to take um about 3 days off of
work. I got my surgery on Sunday and I
wasn't back at work until Thursday.
Okay. Yeah. So you that was mandatory.
You had to take time off that time.
>> Um
it was it was mandatory because
otherwise um I was in a lot of pain. Um
just the way that I couldn't uh do a lot
of physical activity at first
>> didn't allow me to work.
>> Mhm. Yeah. And is there ever someone you
need to run things by to? For example,
your break that you needed for your
wisdom teeth. Is it something you had to
run by someone?
>> Yes. Whenever it comes to paid time off
or time off. Um, and that could be
another one cuz paid time off is
something that they use in business.
PTO.
>> PTO
or paid time off. This is a common
abbreviation used in the workplace.
>> Paid time off.
>> PTO. And then
>> so whenever I take time off, I do need
to run it by my boss.
>> Mhm.
>> She she isn't the CEO of the company,
but she is my manager basically.
>> So when it comes to those things, I just
need to send her a message and usually
it's fine. Okay. But yeah, I remember
when I used to work for the last company
I was working for teaching English, um
my boss would always say, "Run it by me
first." Always. So, I always had to run
things by someone else before teaching
them or before showing them to students.
Do you consider you've ever dropped the
ball on any tasks that you had to hand
in? Maybe a deadline you had to meet.
Um,
I would say that I don't normally drop
the ball, but sometimes I do. Um,
sometimes when it comes to
We had a project recently that I had to
wrap up by the end of the week and I
ended up handing it in probably like
Tuesday the next week. So, it wasn't
delayed too much, but it was
not something that should have happened.
>> Mhm. Okay. Have you ever felt burned out
at work?
>> Um, sometimes. Sometimes I feel burned
out. I think that everybody goes through
a burnout
when you can't practice your hobbies as
much or when you're in a job that
consumes your energy and all your time.
>> Um, it's really easy to experience
burnout. I wouldn't say in my current
job, but I would say as a teacher, I
would experience a lot of burnout
because I had almost no time for
anything else.
>> Mhm. Yeah. I feel like it's easy to have
an overload of work when you're a
teacher cuz I feel like it just never
ends. It can keep on going if you don't
stop yourself and give yourself a break.
Mhm.
>> So, yeah, it's good to take a break and
not take on too much work. What do you
usually take a break from when work is
stressful? When I have to take a break
from work, especially now that I work
with brands, I try and stay away from
anything that has to do with
advertisements
>> because it can remind me a lot of work.
So, I stay away from screens. I stay
away from TV. I stay away from my phone.
I really try and connect with nature or
something of the sort because my work
involves a lot of advertising.
>> Yeah, that's good. And it's the same as
when you're a teacher. You know, the
only thing you want to do is to take a
break from all the noise. So, I feel
like that's what you do mostly when you
need to take a break from something. You
take a break from the noise and from
chaos in general.
I remember mom used to come home from
school and be super stressed because
they're little kids that she's working
with all day. They're always crazy.
They're always super energetic. So,
she's pretty low on energy when she
would come home. And do you ever stay
late at the office? Even when you're
tired?
Um, yes, I do stay late at the office.
I'll stay late. Um if I'm behind on work
or if I felt that I wasn't um productive
enough that day, maybe I break early in
the morning and so I try and gain that
time back later in the day.
>> Mhm. Do you ever feel like your workload
is too heavy and that's why you work
overtime or is it more because of you?
I think that it's a little bit of both.
I think the workload maybe is heavy for
me, but it might not be as heavy for
other people.
>> So, I try and do my best to adapt and to
get better, get faster. So, so it's not
um a me issue always and so I can
eventually um fill in the shoes that I
need to fill in.
>> Mhm. Yeah. So now I want to go through a
quick teaching moment using some more
phrasal verbs and expressions that you
might use in the workplace.
First one being um to check in with
someone.
So I always check in with my manager
before starting a lesson plan. So,
Brianna, who's someone you have to check
in with before making a big decision?
>> I always have to check in with my my
boss, my manager. Um, I'm in the
creative division and I always have to
make sure that before I start on an idea
or before I uh choose to go a certain
way, I need to check in with her and
make sure it aligns with the company.
Another phrase is to wrap up.
For example, I need to wrap up this
report
before lunch.
So, Brianna, can you explain what wrap
up means or refers to?
>> Wrap-up is basically to finish.
>> It comes from the idea of wrapping up a
gift or wrapping up a toy, wrapping up
your lunch, which is preparing it to be
ready.
>> Mhm. Okay.
>> And in work, um, wrap-up could be used
like, I need to wrap up this report
before the end of the day. Mhm. Yeah.
Before a certain point.
>> Another big one. They use that a lot.
EOD. End of the day.
>> Uhhuh. Before the EOD. Before the end of
the day.
>> Mhm.
>> They use that a lot. You know, managers
say that all the time. Like
>> they say EOD.
>> Yeah.
>> They send emails or they'll send out
instructions like, "Oh, this needs to be
ready." EOD.
>> Okay. It's e o d or end of the day. This
is another common expression we use in
the workplace. And another one is hand
in. That one's pretty common to hear in
the workplace. Like did you hand in your
assignment? Or if you're asking, what
time do I have to hand in this project?
Mhm. And last one, to drop the ball. So,
Brandon, maybe you could explain what
drop the ball refers to.
>> Drop the ball is a phrase that means you
messed up or you made a mistake. So, as
maybe in football, I think the
expression comes from American football.
I think
>> Mhm.
>> when you drop the ball, it's a fumble
and it's a big mistake in American
football.
>> And as it is maybe in the workplace, you
dropped the ball because you made a
mistake.
>> Mhm. Yeah. You dropped the ball. I can't
believe I dropped the ball on sending
those emails. So, you made a mistake.
You messed up.
>> Now it's your turn. Which expressions
did you hear in our conversation?
Shadow this sentence with me. I'm
feeling under pressure,
so I need to take a break.
And tell me,
have you ever felt burned out?
What happened?
Try to tell me a story
on a time when you had to catch up on
work or school.
Think of a moment when you let something
slide because of too much work.
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