[English]
Hello everyone and welcome back to the
Simple English podcast. I'm your host
Lisa and today we're diving into a topic
that honestly we all need to hear about.
Discipline.
Now before you think, "Oh no, discipline
means boring rules and no fun." Hold on.
What if I told you that discipline is
actually the secret key to freedom,
success, and even happiness in life?
>> That's right, Lisa. Discipline is not
about punishing yourself or living like
a robot. It's about building small
habits and routines that keep you moving
in the right direction, whether that's
at work, in school, or even in your
personal life.
>> Exactly. And let me ask you listeners,
have you ever made a New Year's
resolution? Maybe to work out more,
learn English every day, or stop
procrastinating, but after 2 weeks, you
gave up?
Oh, I think everyone has done that,
Lisa. I know I have.
>> Me, too. And that's why this episode is
so exciting. We're going to break down
how you can actually stay disciplined
even when motivation disappears because
trust me, motivation is temporary, but
discipline is what keeps you going long
term.
So, if you're someone who struggles to
stick with your goals, or you just want
to improve your daily routines,
stay tuned.
By the end of this episode, you'll have
clear strategies to become more
disciplined and consistent.
Perfect. Let's jump in. As always, don't
forget to check out the free PDF file in
the comment section below to get the
full transcript and vocabulary for this
episode.
So Tony, let's start simple. How would
you define discipline in everyday life?
For me, discipline is doing what you
need to do even when you don't feel like
doing it.
It's not about being perfect. It's about
being consistent.
For example, if you decide to wake up at
6:30 a.m. to exercise,
discipline is what makes you actually
get out of bed when that alarm rings
instead of hitting snooze 10 times.
>> Oh, wow. I feel personally attacked by
the snooze button example, but you're
right. It's easy to say, "I'll do it
tomorrow." But discipline means you do
it today.
>> And here is the important thing.
Discipline is like a muscle. You don't
build it overnight. You have to train it
slowly, step by step.
>> That's such a good point. A lot of
people think discipline is only for
athletes, soldiers, or super successful
CEOs. But honestly, it's for everyone. A
mom who prepares healthy meals for her
kids, a student who studies even when
friends are out partying, or even
someone who simply makes their bed every
morning. That's discipline, too.
Yes. And discipline gives you freedom.
It sounds strange, right? Because most
people think discipline is about
restriction. But if you're disciplined
with your money, you have financial
freedom later. If you're disciplined
with your health, you can enjoy life
longer.
>> That's powerful.
So, let's talk about some strategies.
What's the first practical way someone
can start building discipline?
Number one, start small. People fail
because they start too big. For example,
someone says, "I'll go to the gym every
day for 2 hours." But they haven't
exercised in years. Of course, after 3
days, they give up.
>> Right. It's like trying to climb a
mountain in one step. Impossible.
>> Exactly. Instead, start with something
small, like a 10-minute walk every day.
When that becomes easy, add more. Small
steps build momentum. And momentum
creates discipline.
I love that.
I actually started a morning routine
last year by just drinking a glass of
water after waking up.
That one tiny action gave me a sense of
accomplishment and it slowly grew into a
full routine with journaling and
stretching.
>> That's a perfect example.
>> Okay, so step one is to start small.
What's next?
>> Step two, build routines and systems.
Relying on motivation doesn't work
because motivation comes and goes. But
if you have a system like always going
to the gym right after work or always
writing your to-do list before bed, you
don't waste energy deciding. You just
follow the system.
>> Yes. I heard a quote. You don't rise to
the level of your goals. You fall to the
level of your systems.
>> Exactly.
For example, if you want to study
English every day, create a system.
Maybe you listen to this podcast while
you cook dinner. It becomes automatic,
part of your routine instead of a big
decision every day.
>> That's such a good tip. Systems make
discipline easier because you don't have
to argue with yourself every time.
What about dealing with distractions?
Because honestly, my phone is my biggest
enemy when I try to focus.
>> Oh, that's a huge one. Step three is
remove temptations.
Discipline is not only about willpower.
If your environment is full of
distractions, you'll lose.
>> So true. Like if I keep cookies in my
kitchen, I will eat them. No question.
>> Exactly.
So don't just rely on self-control.
Make it easy to be disciplined. Put your
phone in another room while working.
Delete apps that waste your time.
Prepare your gym clothes the night
before. Small changes in your
environment can make discipline much
easier.
>> I like that. Set yourself up for
success.
Another thing I find helpful is telling
someone about my goals. Does
accountability help with discipline?
>> Yes, absolutely. Step four,
accountability. Humans are social
creatures. When someone else knows your
goal, you're more likely to stick with
it. For example, if you promise your
friend you'll meet them at the park for
a run, you won't skip it, even if you
feel lazy.
>> Yes, that's why workout buddies are so
powerful. You don't want to disappoint
them.
>> And nowadays, you can use social media
or apps for accountability.
Share your progress online or join a
group with similar goals. It's harder to
quit when others are cheering you on or
watching you.
>> Now, here's something fun. Do rewards
help with discipline?
>> Definitely.
Step five, reward your progress.
But here's the key. The reward should
support your goal, not destroy it.
For example, if you eat healthy for a
week, maybe reward yourself with a movie
night, not a whole cake.
>> Yes, balance. I also find that just
tracking progress, like crossing off
days on a calendar, feels like a reward.
It's satisfying to see the streak.
>> Absolutely.
That's a psychological trick. Our brains
love to see progress. And when you
celebrate small wins, you train your
mind to enjoy discipline instead of
fearing it.
>> Can you share a real life example of how
discipline changed someone's life?
>> Sure. One of my friends wanted to learn
guitar. At first, he was so motivated,
but after two weeks, he lost interest.
So instead of quitting, he changed his
system. just 10 minutes of practice
every night before bed. It sounded
small, but he did it every single day.
After six months, he could play songs
fluently. Now he performs at local
cafes.
>> That's inspiring. And it shows that
discipline beats talent when talent
doesn't show up.
>> Exactly.
All right, Tony, let's take a quick
break from the heavy talk. Time for some
fun facts and quick tips.
>> Sounds good. Did you know that the word
discipline comes from the Latin word
disciplus which means student?
So originally discipline wasn't about
punishment. It was about learning and
training.
>> Wow, that changes the way we see it.
Discipline is not a punishment. It's
training yourself to grow.
>> Exactly. And here are some quick tips
for our listeners.
Use the 5-minut rule. If a task feels
too big, just do it for 5 minutes.
Usually, once you start, you'll keep
going. Stack habits. Attach a new habit
to an old one. For example, after
brushing your teeth, practice 5 minutes
of English. Plan for failure. Don't
expect perfection. If you miss a day,
don't quit. Just get back on track the
next day.
Visual reminders. Put sticky notes on
your desk or fridge with your goals.
Seeing them daily keeps you disciplined.
Celebrate small wins.
Even a small step forward is progress
worth celebrating.
Those are so practical. Honestly, I
think I'm going to start using the
5-minut rule right away.
So, Tony, to wrap this up, what's the
main message about discipline that you
want our listeners to take away? I'd say
this. Discipline is not about being
perfect or living without joy. It's
about creating habits and systems that
help you move toward the life you want.
Start small, be consistent, and remember
that discipline is a skill anyone can
learn.
>> That's powerful. And I'd add, don't wait
for motivation. Motivation will fade,
but discipline is what will carry you
through the hard days.
>> Yes. And remember, every small act of
discipline builds your future.
>> Beautifully said.
Well, thank you so much, Tony, for
sharing your insights today. I think our
listeners are leaving with some powerful
strategies to become more disciplined in
their lives.
>> Thanks, Lisa.
It was great being here.
>> And to our listeners, thank you for
tuning in to the Simple English Podcast.
If you found this episode helpful,
please give it a thumbs up, subscribe to
the channel, and share it with a friend
who might need a little boost in
discipline.
>> And remember, discipline is not about
doing everything perfectly. It's about
doing the right things consistently.
>> Absolutely. Until next time, stay
consistent, stay disciplined, and keep
growing. Bye, everyone.
Okay everyone, it's time to learn some
important vocabulary related to the
topic. The first word of today is
discipline. It means the practice of
training yourself to follow rules,
routines or habits in order to achieve
goals or maintain order.
Example, learning a new language
requires discipline and consistency
every day. The next word is consistency.
It means the quality of always behaving
or performing in a similar way over
time. Example, success comes from
consistency, not from short bursts of
effort. The next word is routine. It
means a regular and repeated way of
doing things often daily.
Example, I added meditation to my
morning routine to stay focused and
calm. The next word is willpower. It
means the strong ability to control your
own actions and resist temptations.
Example, it takes willpower to wake up
early and exercise instead of sleeping
in. The last word is accountability.
It means being responsible for your
actions and goals, often by sharing them
with others.
Example, joining a study group gave me
accountability to keep practicing
English every day.