[English]
Hello, my name is Emma,
and in today's video,
we are going to learn
some English that is
very important
for our social lives.
So we're going to learn words like "meet",
"see", and "get together", and we're going
to learn the differences between
these words and how to use them.
They're very important words,
and we use them a lot in English.
So my first question to you
is, which sentence is better?
Every weekend I meet my family, or every
weekend I get together with my family?
Both of these sentences are possible, but
one is a little bit better than the other.
Okay, so which
sentence is better?
Well, they're both
possible, but I would say
the second sentence,
"Every weekend I get
together with my family"
is the better sentence.
And the reason is because
we use "get together"
informally when we're
talking about social
events, and we usually use
"meet" in formal situations.
So for example, at
work I meet with my boss.
This is a formal situation.
I use the word "meet".
At work, I meet with clients.
I meet with customers.
These are all formal
situations, whereas when
I'm seeing my friends
or my family, it's not
formal.
We're having fun.
I can relax.
I can be myself.
So in these cases, when we're socializing,
we can use "get together with".
So the major difference is this "meet" is
usually used for work situations, and "get
together" is used more
for social situations.
Now let's learn a little bit more about
these two verbs and how we use them.
Okay, so let's look at some
more examples with "get together".
Again, we use "get together" to
mean spend time with someone.
It's often when there's a group of people
together for an event, like a party or to
hang out.
So how might we use this?
Well, someone might ask you,
"What did you do last weekend?"
You might say, "Oh, I got
together with my family."
This means you spent
time with your family.
Again, we use this a lot in English,
so it's a really good expression to use.
Notice here I wrote "got".
"Got" is the past
tense of "get".
And I want to also just
show you this word "with".
When we use "get together", we need
to talk about who we got together with.
So you'll see this preposition,
"Who did you get together with?"
"I got together
with my friends."
"I got together with
other YouTubers."
"I got together with my family."
"I got together with
my co-workers."
So we use the word
"with" after "get together".
All right, let's look at another
example with "get together".
So every Tuesday, I get
together with my friends.
So this is - we're talking
about every Tuesday,
we're talking about
the present tense, so
we can say "get"
instead of "got".
"Got" is for the past, "get" is for the
present, and "will get" is for the future.
Okay, so what about as a noun?
Well, we can use "get
together" as a noun.
What you will notice is
we have the word "get",
and then we have here
this hyphen, and then
we have the word "together".
So it has that little hyphen to connect
the word when we use it as a noun.
And how do we use it as a noun?
Well, here's an example.
I went to two get-togethers.
This means - this means
I went to two events
where people were at,
they might be parties.
The reason I said
"two" here is because I
want to show you "get
together" is a countable
noun.
We can count the
number of get-togethers.
So that means that if you're talking about
one get-together, you need the article "a"
or "the" in front of it.
There is a get-together
this weekend.
Do you want to come
to the get-together?
And again, it just means an
event, usually with friends or family.
So let's look at
another example.
At the get-together, I saw Adam,
James, Ronnie, Rebecca, and Alex.
It was an engVid get-together.
So get-together is
another great word to use
when you're talking
about your social life.
Now let's look at the
words "see" and "meet".
So we talked about get-together.
We also use "see" for
social events as well.
So when we use "meet", I mentioned earlier
we use "meet" for formal situations, like
when you meet your boss
and you have a meeting.
These are usually
things you do at work.
We can also use "meet"
for a different situation.
We can use it for the first
time we talk to someone.
So the first time we talk to someone,
we say, "It's nice to meet you.
I'm Emma."
This is an example of
when we would use "meet".
Now many learners
continue to use "meet",
even if they already
met the person and they
know the person.
Well, a better
word to use is "see".
We use "see" the second time we talk to the
person, the third, the fourth, the fifth.
We continue to
use the word "see".
So the first word we use is "meet" for the
first time we talk with a person, and then
after that, we often use "see".
So let's look at some
examples of this.
"Well, yesterday I met Frank."
This means I met
him for the first time.
I said, "Hello, I'm Emma."
And he said, "Hello, I'm Frank."
So that's a first time meeting.
I can also say, "Oh, I
like meeting people."
This means I love
meeting new people.
I like to say, "Oh, I'm Emma.
It's nice to meet you."
And talk to people for the
first time, that's really fun.
So then let's look at "see".
So, again, "meet"
is for the first time.
"Well, I met Frank,
and today I see him."
I can say, "Oh, I
see Frank at work.
Every Tuesday, I see Frank.
I work with Frank on Tuesdays.
I see Frank every Tuesday."
So this means I've
talked to Frank already.
It's not the first meeting.
It's the second or third, or
maybe I see him every week.
I can also use this
in the past tense.
"I saw Frank yesterday."
So this means I talked to him.
I saw Frank, I talked
to him, we socialized.
Another example we can use
is, "I like seeing my friends."
I don't say "meeting",
I don't, you know, "I
meet my friends",
but that is a bit strange
because when I - with
friends, it's not formal,
and I know my friends,
I - it's not the first
time, so because of
that, when I'm talking
about my friends, I'm
saying, "see my friends"
or "see my family".
So, a very key expression to
learn from this video is this one.
"It's nice to see you."
"It's nice to see you again."
We use this when we met someone before, and
it's our second or third or fourth or fifth
or, you know, later meeting,
we use "see" instead of "meet".
So, just to clarify,
"It's nice to meet you"
is the first time, and
then after that, when
you talk to the person
again, at a different
time, you say, "It's
nice to see you again."
All right, well, let's
now look at the word
"meet up", and let's
practice these different
expressions.
So, now, let's look at "meet up", which is
a phrasal verb that is a little different
from "meet".
So, "meet up" is informal.
"Meet" is formal;
"meet up" is informal.
This means we use it like "get
together"; it has the same meaning.
When we "meet up" with someone, it means we
see someone socially, so like our friends
or our family.
So, let's look at some examples.
"I meet up with friends
on the weekend."
So, when we add "up", it's
informal, and it means to socialize.
"On Friday, I met
up with my sister."
So, again, in this
case, we have the word
"up"; we're not talking
about a formal meeting
like we do at work;
we're talking about
socializing, having fun
with friends or family.
And notice that, just
like with "get together",
"meet up" is followed
with "with", so the
preposition we
use here is "with".
We "meet up with someone".
All right, so these are some
examples with "meet up".
Now, let's do some
practice together.
I have here five
questions, and I want you
to fill in the blanks
with the right answer.
So, I'm going to
just grab my marker.
Okay.
Let's look at
the first question.
"Want to get" - so, the
question is about socializing.
What word goes here
to mean "socialize"?
"Want to get together".
So, the answer
here is "together".
"Want to get together
this weekend?"
It's a very common
question in English.
"Do you have time
to get together?"
Another example of
an English question.
Okay, what about
the next question?
Question two, "Let's meet
_______ on Tuesday."
Well, in this case, I'm talking
to my friends, so it's informal.
What do we need to add so it's
informal and it's about socialization?
We can add here "up".
"Let's meet up on Tuesday."
That means let's socialize, let's
hang out, let's get together on Tuesday.
Alright, number three, "We had
_______ get _______ on Friday."
So, let's work backwards,
maybe that will be helpful.
"We had _______
get together on Friday."
And notice I put the hyphen
and then the word "together".
Okay, so "get together" is a noun and it's
countable, so what do we need in front of
the word "get together"?
Well, we need an
article, like "a" or "the".
"We had a get
together on Friday."
Alright, next
question, "Hey, John.
It's nice to _______ you again."
So, what do you think?
Do you think this is going
to be "see" or "meet"?
Well, we have here
the word "again", so we
know this has happened
before, so the answer
here would be "see".
"It's nice to see you again."
This means I've
met John in the past.
What about the next one?
"Hi, my name's Emma.
It's nice to _______ you."
Do you think it's
"see" or "meet"?
Well, in this case, I'm introducing myself,
so it's probably the first time I'm talking
to somebody, so I would
say, "It's nice to meet you."
Okay, great.
So, thank you for
watching today about this
lesson on "see", "meet",
"meet up", and "get
together".
Social English is
important, and we use these
words a lot in our
everyday conversation,
so I really recommend you
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