[English]
Li Ming, let me ask you a question.
Huh? What's the problem? you say.
Have you ever felt...sometimes, life seems a bit boring?
Not interesting?
Why are you asking this suddenly?
Have you encountered anything recently?
It’s not a big deal either.
It’s just...the same every day.
Get up in the morning, go to the company to work,
Get off work at night, go home to eat and sleep.
The next day, I got up again and went to the company...
I felt like a robot.
I understand.
You feel that life is a bit repetitive and tiring, right?
Yes! That’s the word, “tired.”
Not only was my body tired, but my heart was also tired.
It seems like there are a lot of things to do, but I don’t know why.
Feeling a lot of pressure.
I totally understand.
Many people will feel this way.
However... I noticed that you seem a little different today.
You look in good spirits and there is light in your eyes.
(laughing) Really? Is it that obvious?
Really.
You seem very happy, not like usual.
Have you found any good solution to this problem?
Tell me quickly.
Haha, you discovered it.
Actually, I started to do a very simple thing recently.
What's going on?
I started running.
Running? Really? This is great!
I remember you always said that your least favorite sport was running.
Yes, I used to find running tiring and boring.
However, I really didn’t expect that after I started running, I felt completely different.
Oh? Why is it different?
I'd love to hear your story.
Well...this story is a bit long.
It is about a feeling, that is... when life is very boring,
When you run, the wind seems to blow over you.
That feeling is so good.
"When life is boring, when you run, the wind will blow over you."
This sentence is really good.
Let’s talk about this today.
Just now you talked about your feelings. Going to and from get off work every day makes life very repetitive.
Where do you think this "stuffy" feeling mainly comes from? Is it work?
I think work is a big part of the reason.
My work is very busy. I have to answer many emails and talk to many people every day.
When I get off work, I often feel that my mind is no longer my own.
It is filled with work matters.
I understand.
It's like a cup filled with water and can't hold anything else.
Yes! That's what it feels like.
When I got home, I just wanted to lie on the sofa and play with my phone. I didn’t want to do anything else.
Watching some interesting short videos seems to temporarily forget the worries of work.
What then?
When you wake up the next morning, do you feel that the problem is still there?
Yes.
I still have to face the same work and the same pressure the next day.
So, I feel very bored, as if I am in a circle every day and can't escape.
What about you?
You are also busy at work. Do you feel this way?
Of course.
I think everyone has it.
For me, when I’m stressed, I feel annoyed and don’t want to talk.
Sometimes, I will go to a quiet place to sit for a while,
such as a park or a cafe.
Staying alone? Is it useful?
is of some use. Let me think quietly.
However, if you just sit there, the questions in your mind will still keep spinning.
As you said, the "circle" is still there.
So, I think we need to do something to break this circle.
So you went for a run?
When did you start running?
I started a few years ago.
At that time, I had just changed to a new job. I was very stressed and couldn't sleep well every day.
I went to see a doctor. The doctor said that I was too nervous and suggested that I do more exercise.
is somewhat similar to my situation.
It was also because I felt a lot of pressure.
A friend said to me: "Go for a run, it will be good if you sweat."
Haha, it seems that we all started running because of the pressure.
When I ran for the first time, I actually felt very bad.
Really?
Me too!
I thought I was the only one like this.
Of course not.
I think change is always difficult.
Especially for us modern people who are accustomed to "sitting" to
"run" again,
it really takes a lot of courage.
Tell me, what was it like for you to run for the first time?
I remember it clearly.
It was one night,
I finished my dinner, changed into my sneakers, and walked out the door.
I told myself that I would run for at least twenty minutes today.
Twenty minutes! So many!
At that time, I thought that twenty minutes should not be difficult.
However, I ran for maybe less than five minutes, and I felt like I couldn’t do it anymore.
My legs are heavy, my heart is beating very fast, and it's hard to breathe.
I understand!
The first time I ran, I only ran for three minutes!
Really, in just three minutes, I felt like I was going to die.
At that time, I thought that running is really not a human sport.
I'd better go home and lie down.
It seems we are all the same.
I also wanted to give up.
There are many people walking faster than me on the road.
I feel very embarrassed.
I stopped and started walking.
Yes, me too.
When I stopped to walk, I was thinking:
I will never run again tomorrow.
It's too difficult.
Yes.
But as I walked, I thought,
The doctor’s words, my friends’ suggestions... I think I should try again.
So I started running slowly again.
Running very slowly, a little faster than walking.
What then?
Did you last twenty minutes?
No.
I ran for about ten minutes and then walked for ten minutes.
However, just when I was very tired from running and wanted to stop,
A gust of evening wind blew over.
Ah! wind!
Yes, wind.
It was a bit hot that night and I sweated a lot.
The gust of wind blowing on my face and body felt very cool and comfortable.
At that second, I seemed to have forgotten how tired I was.
I know!
I totally know that feeling!
It was the same when I ran for the first time!
I ran to the small park next to our house.
There are many trees in the park.
I couldn't run anymore, so I stopped and held on to a tree.
At that time, I also felt the wind.
What does it feel like?
The wind blows through the leaves, making a "rustling" sound, which is very nice.
The wind blew on my face. Because my face was covered with sweat, it felt cold and very comfortable.
At that moment, all the worries about work in my mind seemed to be blown away by the wind along with the sweat.
It is said so well, "Trouble and sweat are blown away by the wind."
This is like a metaphor, our worries and stress are like dirt in the body.
When we run and sweat, it’s like taking a bath in our hearts.
Give your heart a bath?
This metaphor is really interesting.
I've never thought of it that way before.
I just felt that at that moment, the world was very quiet,
there was only the sound of the wind and the sound of my heartbeat.
I discovered for the first time that my city is so beautiful at night.
The lighting in the park is very gentle,
There are some people walking, and they all look relaxed.
Right.
This is the first gift that running brings.
It allows us to get out of our own little world,
and see the outside world.
When we usually drive or take the subway, the speed is too fast.
We use our own feet to run,
use our own eyes to see,
only then can we discover the beauty around us that we have forgotten.
Yes.
Although the first run was very tiring, because of the comfortable wind,
and the quiet night, I decided to continue the next day.
Did you persevere?
Persevered.
Although I don’t run every day.
I run about three times a week.
From the beginning I could only run for three minutes, but now,
I can easily run for more than 20 minutes.
Wow, great progress!
What changes do you think running has brought to you?
In addition to letting you discover the beauty of the night.
There are too many changes.
First, I sleep better.
In the past, although I felt tired at night, I always couldn't fall asleep while lying in bed.
I would think about many things in my mind.
Now, the night after I came back from running, I lay on the bed after taking a shower.
I fell asleep quickly and slept soundly.
That's for sure.
Exercise is the best sleeping pill.
Only when the body is tired can the brain truly rest.
Then, my spirit also improved.
You just said that I look in good spirits.
I used to feel very sleepy in the afternoon at work and wanted to drink coffee.
Now, I feel very energetic throughout the day.
I feel the same way.
Many people think that exercise will make you more tired, but in fact it is just the opposite.
Regular exercise will make your body more energetic.
The most important change is my mood.
I rarely feel that life is "boring" now.
When I encounter something unhappy or feel very stressed at work, I go for a run.
Running becomes a way for you to relax.
Right.
When running, I can think about anything or nothing.
I just focus on my breathing and my steps.
After running, I was sweating profusely and felt that all the bad emotions had disappeared.
I feel like I can face those difficulties again.
This is what we often say, exercise can make people more positive and optimistic.
Actually, this process is very interesting.
When running, our body will tell us: "I'm tired, stop."
But our brain will say: "Keep on holding on, you can do it."
Every time we overcome the "tiredness" of the body,
our hearts will become stronger.
Well! I discovered it recently too.
I used to think that many work difficulties were "impossible."
Now I think, if I can persevere even though running is so tiring,
I can definitely solve this problem at work.
Very good.
You see, running not only exercises our body, it also exercises our will.
By the way, did you encounter any interesting people or things when you were running?
Yes!
I often see a group of aunties in the park.
They dance in the same place every night.
The music is loud and they dance very happily.
Everyone has a smile on their face.
Are you talking about "square dancing"?
Yes, it should be. What is "square dance"?
"Square dancing" is very common in China. There are many retired uncles and aunts.
They like to go to places like parks or squares to play music and dance together at night.
This is a form of physical exercise and a way of socializing.
They all look very healthy and happy.
Yes!
Every time I run past them and see their smiles,
my own mood will get better.
I think their attitude towards life is particularly good.
They also made me understand that happiness is actually very simple. Dancing with friends makes me happy.
That's right.
Do we need so many complicated things in our lives?
Probably not needed.
Sometimes, the simplest activities, such as running and
dancing, can bring us the most real happiness.
I'm so happy for you after hearing your story.
I believe that many friends who listen to our podcast may be like you before,
feeling pressured in life and want to change, but don't know how to start.
Do you have any advice for them?
Well... I think the most important thing is not to have too high demands on yourself.
How to say?
Like the first time I ran, I only ran for three minutes.
If I had thought, "Three minutes is too little, I'm really useless," I might have given up.
However, I told myself: "It doesn't matter, three minutes is also a start.
I ran for three minutes today, and I can try running for four minutes tomorrow."
This mentality is particularly good.
We call it the "small steps principle".
Don’t always think about running ten kilometers in one breath, start by being able to walk out of the door.
Put on your sneakers and go out for a walk for ten minutes today, it will be a victory.
Yes!
Also, it is important to prepare a pair of comfortable shoes.
If the shoes are not comfortable, running will become a very uncomfortable thing.
This is very practical advice. Equipment can be simple,
but a good pair of shoes is a must.
In addition, listening to music is also a good way.
Do you listen to music while running?
Listen! I will listen to some songs with a faster tempo.
I feel like running along with the music will make me less tired.
It seems like someone is accompanying you and encouraging you.
Yes.
Music can distract us and make us forget fatigue.
Let me add one more thing, I think we can find a friend to go with.
Or, join a running community.
Looking for friends? Why?
When you run alone, you sometimes feel lonely.
Especially when the weather is bad or you are very tired, it is easy to give up.
If you have made an appointment with a friend, you may think:
"He is still waiting for me, I have to go."
In this way, supervising each other and encouraging each other will make it easier to stick to it.
This is a good idea!
Next time I should ask my friends,
if they want to run with me.
Right. You see, the "running" we are talking about today does not necessarily refer to the sport of "running".
...
It can be any small thing you start doing for a change.
For example, if you feel life is boring,
you can start reading for ten minutes every day.
Or, learn five new Chinese words every day.
Or, start learning to cook a new dish.
These things are small,
but when you start taking action and persist,
you will feel the comfortable feeling of "wind blowing over you".
I understand.
The important thing is not "what to do",
but the action itself of "starting to do it".
This action can break the "circle" that makes us feel bored.
That's absolutely correct.
Action is the best way to solve all anxiety and worries.
Don’t think too much, start running first and then talk.
Li Ming, it’s so nice to chat with you today.
I think we talked about a very simple thing very clearly.
I am also very happy.
Your story gave me a lot of new ideas.
Life can be tiring sometimes,
However, the solution to the problem may be hidden in a gust of wind once you go out.
Well!
Let’s summarize some interesting words we talked about today.
OK, come on.
I think the most important word today is "pressure".
When we feel "stressed", we can try "running".
Well, although running is "tiring", you will feel very "comfortable" after running.
Yes!
If you stick to it, there will be good "changes" in your life.
The most important thing is "persistence".
sums it up well. Pressure, running, tiredness, comfort, change, persistence.
I think these words are also very useful for friends who learn Chinese.
The process of learning Chinese is also like running.
Oh? How to say?
It will be difficult at the beginning. You will feel very tired and want to give up.
However, as long as you insist on learning a little bit every day and speaking a little bit every day,
Slowly, you will find your progress,
That feeling will be as comfortable as the wind blowing over you.
You are so right!
So, friends who listen to our podcast, what about you?
When you feel that life is a little tiring and the pressure is a little high,
what will you do?
Should I go for a run, listen to music, or chat with friends?
Everyone is welcome to tell us.
Okay, that’s it for today’s “Everyday Chinese”.
I hope our chat can bring you a little relaxation and happiness.
See you next time!
Goodbye!
Goodbye!