[English]
Hello everyone, welcome to the new issue of "Everyday Chinese".
I am Li Ming.
Hello everyone, I am Wang Yu.
I’m glad to meet you all again!
Yes, Wang Yu, we meet again.
I feel like time flies by so fast.
Yes!
Li Ming, let me ask you a question.
What are you busy with recently?
Have you encountered anything interesting?
Well...I have been preparing for some work matters recently and read a lot of information.
Speaking of which, I discovered something very interesting.
Oh? What's up? Tell me quickly.
I found that many modern problems,
people had already thought about them in China a long time ago,
and they put a lot of ideas and wisdom into some very short words.
Do you mean... idiom?
Yes, it’s an idiom!
Four words, very simple, but there is a story,
or a deep truth inside.
I find it very interesting.
I totally agree!
I especially like idioms.
For me, learning idioms is not like studying, but more like listening to stories.
There is a vivid story behind each idiom. Some characters are very smart,
some characters are stupid, which is very interesting.
(laughing), you are right.
Let’s talk about this topic with everyone today, shall we?
Let’s talk about “wisdom in idioms”.
We can share a few of our favorite idioms or idioms that we find helpful in life.
Great!
This is a great idea.
I have a lot to say.
Friends who listen to our podcast, are you ready?
Our storytelling session is about to begin today!
Okay, Wang Yu.
When we talk about idioms, many friends who are learning Chinese may feel that
there are many and difficult idioms and they don’t know how to start learning them.
Yes, I understand.
Put four words together, sometimes you know each word,
But when you put them together, you don’t know what they mean.
That's right.
So I think the best way to learn an idiom is to first listen to its story.
Once you understand the story, you understand its meaning.
It's like making a friend. Once you understand his story, you really get to know him.
This metaphor is so good!
Learning idioms is like meeting new friends.
Who is the first "new friend" we want to meet today?
Li Ming, please introduce one first.
Okay.
The first idiom I want to introduce is related to "patience".
This idiom is called "pull a seedling to encourage growth".
Pull out the seedlings and help them grow.
Well, I seem to recognize these four words. "Pull" means to pull up, "Miao" is a small plant, seedling,
"Zhu" means to help, and "长" means grow.
Connected together... to help small plants grow taller?
Sounds like a good thing.
It sounds like a good thing, but its story tells us that this is actually a bad thing.
Oh? Tell me this story.
Okay.
This story is that a long time ago, there was a farmer.
He planted many seedlings in his field.
What we call "seedlings" refers to these very small,
newly grown rice or wheat.
I understand, it is very young plants.
Right.
The farmer goes to the field every day to see his seedlings.
He very much hoped that these seedlings would grow taller and grow up quickly.
He waited for a day, but the seedlings seemed unchanged.
After waiting for two days, there was still no change.
He was very anxious.
Well, I can understand his mood.
Just like when I plant flowers, I also hope that my flowers will bloom quickly.
Yes.
One day, the farmer was walking around the field,
He thought: "I must think of a way,
to help my seedlings grow faster!"
Then, he really thought of a "good way". What solution?
He walked into the field and began to pull up each small seedling a little higher with his hands.
He thought, wouldn’t the seedlings become taller in this way?
Huh? Did he pull it out with his hands?
Wouldn’t that hurt the roots of small plants?
Absolutely correct.
But the farmer was too anxious at the time and did not think of this.
He was busy from morning to night, pulling up all the seedlings in the field.
He was very tired, but very happy.
He returned home and said to his family: "I am too tired today!
But I helped the seedlings in the field grow taller!"
His family must have found it strange.
Yes, his son heard something and felt something was wrong, so he immediately ran to the field to take a look.
As a result, he found that all the seedlings in the field were dead.
Oh my God! What a pity!
originally wanted to help them, but ended up harming them.
Right.
Therefore, the idiom "pull a seedling to encourage growth",
now we use it to describe those behaviors that
mess up things because they are too anxious and do not respect the natural laws of the development of things.
Its meaning is somewhat similar to "haste makes waste" in English.
I understand.
So the wisdom in this idiom is to be patient when doing things and not to be too anxious.
Many things take time.
Exactly.
For example, when we learn Chinese, it is a good example.
We cannot hope that if we learn something today, we will be able to speak it fluently tomorrow.
Learning a language is like planting seedlings, which need to be watered day by day,
practiced day by day.
Slowly, it will naturally grow taller and better.
If you are too anxious, you may not learn well.
You are so right!
This was the case when I first started learning to drive.
I'm very anxious and always want to drive on the road quickly, but always make mistakes and
the car doesn't drive well.
Later, my coach told me to slow down and practice the basics first, and then I will get faster naturally.
Isn’t this a negative example of “cultivating a young child to encourage its growth”?
Yes, this is a very good real life example.
Therefore, the wisdom that the idiom "pull a seedling to encourage growth" tells us is: Patience is the friend of success.
Li Ming, the story about the farmer you just told,
reminded me of another very interesting idiom.
This idiom is also related to an animal.
Oh? What is the idiom?
This idiom is called "frog in the well".
(laughing), this idiom is very famous.
"Well" means well, "bottom" means bottom, "之" means of, and "frog" means frog.
So it is "the frog in the well".
Yes! The story of this idiom is also very simple.
That is, there is a frog,
It has lived in a very deep well since it was born.
Well, its home is that well.
Yes.
It jumps around in the well every day,
Looks at the water in the well, and then looks up at the sky.
Because it is at the bottom of the well, the sky it sees
is only as big as the wellhead, and is a small round piece.
I can picture that.
Its world is small.
Right.
But it doesn't feel it.
It feels very happy and satisfied.
It feels that the sky is so big and the world is like this well.
One day, a big turtle from the East China Sea passed by this well.
A turtle?
That’s a big guest.
Yes.
The frog saw the turtle and said to it very proudly:
"Look how nice my place is!
I am so happy!
I jump to the well to play, or go back to the water to rest.
I am the only one here, and I am the master here.
Why don't you come down and have a look?"
This frog is quite hospitable.
Yes. However, the big turtle was so big that
its body got stuck before its feet could fully reach into the well.
It can only go back and start telling the frog about the outside world.
What does it say?
It said to the frog: "Have you ever seen the sea?
The sea is very, very big.
One thousand miles away is not enough to describe its width;
One thousand meters high is not enough to describe its depth."
Wow, the big turtle described his home so well.
Yes.
The big turtle continued: "Living in the sea is the real happiness."
The frog in the well was very surprised after hearing this.
It can't say a word.
It knew for the first time that the world was so big.
The sky was not the small patch it saw.
This story is really good.
Therefore, the idiom "frog in the well"
is used to describe a person who has a very small vision,
and has very little knowledge, but he doesn't know it, and he thinks he knows everything.
That’s right!
I think this idiom is also particularly useful in life.
It reminds us to go out more and see more of the outside world.
Do you have any personal experience?
Of course!
I think I might have been a "frog in the well" before.
Before I went to college, I lived in my hometown, a small city.
I think my hometown is very nice. I have all my friends and family,
and my life is very comfortable.
I think the best place in the world is there.
The growth experience of many people is like this.
Yes. Later, I was admitted to a university in Beijing.
The first time I left home and came to such a big city, I was really scared.
I saw classmates from different places in China and even different countries.
They speak dialects that I don’t understand, and they like to eat dishes that I haven’t seen before.
They talked about topics I had never thought of.
That must be a big shock to you.
is a very big shock!
I suddenly discovered that the world is so big and different.
Just like the frog, listening to the turtle telling the story of the sea for the first time.
From that time on, I told myself that I must not be a "frog in the well".
Learn more, travel more, and chat with different people.
Because there are really too many things you don’t know.
I totally understand how you feel.
This is actually a process of learning a language.
When we only speak our mother tongue, we are in a "well of language".
But when we start to learn a new language, such as Chinese,
we jump out of the well and see a completely different world,
understand a completely different culture and way of thinking.
Yes, yes!
Your metaphor is great!
Learning a foreign language is the best way to help us get out of our own well.
That's right.
Speaking of which, I also want to say something to my friends who are listening to our podcast.
I think idioms may be a bit difficult for foreign friends who learn Chinese.
Four words, but the meaning is profound.
Yes, it is indeed a challenge.
But don’t be afraid.
We can think of learning idioms as a process of "jumping out of the well" to see the world.
We don’t want to learn too much at once.
Learn one at a time, like today, first understand its story.
When you understand why the farmer in "Pulling a Seedling to Boost Growth" is wrong,
understand why the "frog in the well" is surprised, you will truly learn this idiom.
Moreover, you also learned a little more about Chinese culture and thought.
Well! This advice is very practical.
Take your time, one story at a time.
Isn't this exactly in line with what our first idiom
"destroys a young child to encourage its growth" teaches us?
Don't be in a hurry.
(laughing), yes.
You see, the wisdom of idioms is the same.
Li Ming, we just talked about two idioms, one tells us to be patient,
the other tells us to broaden our horizons.
I would also like to share one that I find particularly useful in daily communication.
OK, you say.
This idiom is called "Playing the piano to the cow".
This one is also very famous. Literally means play the zither to a cow.
Yes! Its story is also very funny.
It is said that there was a musician in ancient times who played the piano very beautifully.
One day, he was walking in the countryside and saw a cow grazing quietly.
He suddenly had an idea.
He wants to show the cow?
Yes!
He thought, my music is so beautiful, even cows will like it if they listen to it.
So he sat down and played a very beautiful tune for the cow very seriously.
What's the result? How did the cow react?
As a result, the cow ignored him at all.
It still lowered its head and continued to eat its own grass. It seemed like nothing was heard.
(laughing), the cow may not be interested in music, it is only interested in grass.
The musician was a little unhappy.
He changed another song and played harder.
However, the cow still didn't react at all.
In the end, the musician could only leave disappointed.
So, "playing the lute to a cow" means that you
tell someone who doesn't understand or is not interested in something very profound or something that he can't understand.
Your efforts were in vain, and the other party didn't respond at all.
Absolutely correct!
This idiom is really commonly used in life.
For example, I am a football fan and I especially like watching football.
Once, I had a friend who was not interested in sports at all.
I kept telling her about my favorite team and how exciting the game was.
What was her reaction?
She just kept looking at me, smiling and nodding, but her eyes were empty.
I talked for a long time, and she finally asked me: "Are there many people chasing the ball in football matches?"
I felt at that time that I was completely "playing the piano to a cow" in the half hour just now.
(laughing), I can imagine.
This shows that when we communicate with people, we must also look at the target.
Say something that the other person is interested in and understands.
Otherwise, it is a waste of time and energy.
Yes.
The wisdom of this idiom is to teach us how to communicate more effectively.
Well said.
Since you shared one, I will also share another one that I personally like very much.
It is an idiom with a very positive meaning.
It's called "repairing the situation after the sheep has gone".
Death-sheep-repair-prison.
"die" means lost, "sheep" means sheep, "make up" means to fix,
"prison" means the house where sheep live, pen.
So it’s “If the sheep is lost, then repair the sheepfold”?
Right.
The story is that there was a shepherd who had a hole in his sheepfold.
One morning, he found that a sheep was missing.
The neighbor reminded him: "There is a hole in your sheepfold, fix it quickly."
Did he listen?
He didn't listen.
He said: "The sheep have been lost, so what's the use of repairing the sheepfold now?"
So he didn't repair it.
Ah, I think he should repair it.
The next morning, he found that another sheep was missing.
The sheep ran out of that hole again.
At this time, he regretted it very much.
He thought, if I had listened to my neighbor yesterday, I would not have lost another sheep.
So, he immediately started to repair the hole in the sheepfold.
From then on, his sheep never lost again.
Therefore, "making amends before the sheep are gone" means that although problems have already occurred and losses have occurred,
if you find ways to solve and remedy the situation now, it is not too late.
Absolutely correct.
Its core meaning is "better late than never".
This idiom gives us a very positive attitude.
After making a mistake or failing, many people will feel, "Ah, everything is over,
there is no hope", and then give up.
Yes, many people do.
But "repairing the situation" tells us that it is not.
Even if you are already a "lost sheep" and have already suffered losses,
but as long as you start to "make up for it" now and
repair your mistakes, you can avoid greater losses in the future.
I like this idiom!
It is full of hope.
For example, some people are about to take the exam and realize that they have not learned many things well.
He may think, ah, it’s too late, give up.
But in fact, if he studies hard from now on, he might still be able to pass the exam.
This is "repairing the situation before it's too late".
Very good example.
Therefore, the wisdom of this idiom is that it tells us that making mistakes is not terrible.
What matters is your attitude and actions after making a mistake. It's never too late to
start working hard.
The four idioms we talked about today are really interesting and useful.
Yes.
Behind every idiom, there is a little philosophy of life.
Well, happy time always passes quickly, and our program today is almost over.
Yes, I had so much fun talking about idioms today!
I feel like I have learned a lot.
Learning idioms, as Li Ming said, is like meeting new friends,
like collecting short stories full of wisdom.
That's right.
At the end of the program, let me help you briefly review
the "idiom friends" we met today.
Okay, this is important!
The first idiom we talk about today is "to encourage growth".
Its story tells us that we must be patient when doing things, not be too anxious, and respect the laws of nature.
Yes, neither study nor work can "reinforce the growth of a young person."
The second idiom is "frog at the bottom of the well".
It reminds us that the world is big and we know very little,
so we must keep a humble and open heart and learn more and experience more.
We don’t want to be the frog at the bottom of the well!
The third one is "Playing the Qin to a Cow" shared by Wang Yu.
It tells us that we should pay attention to the objects and methods of communication, otherwise our efforts will be in vain.
Yes, don’t play the piano to a cow that doesn’t like to eat grass!
(laughing). The last one is the "remedial solution" that I shared.
It gives us the courage to face mistakes and failures positively,
It tells us that as long as we remedy it in time, it is not too late.
Well! This is a hopeful idiom.
I hope that these idioms and their stories shared today
can be helpful to everyone in learning Chinese and understanding Chinese culture.
Definitely!
So, friends who listen to our podcast, what about you?
Of the four idioms we talked about today, which one do you like best?
Or, in your country, are there any sayings or stories that have similar meanings to them?
Everyone is very welcome to leave us a message in the comment area and share your thoughts.
Yes, we are looking forward to seeing everyone share.
Okay, that’s it for today’s issue of “Everyday Chinese”.
Thanks everyone for listening.
I am Wang Yu.
I am Li Ming.
See you next time!
Goodbye!
Goodbye!