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A lot of people are turned off by 00:00
learning. And if you don't find learning 00:02
one of the most exciting things in the 00:05
world, then the whole game, everything 00:07
else will fall apart. But it has to be 00:10
something that excites 00:13
[Music] 00:16
you. I've said to many people that live 00:20
in a world where knowledge and skills 00:23
are the most important thing. That's the 00:25
goal that you are after more than money. 00:27
You want to develop knowledge and 00:29
skills. And so this person asks, "What 00:31
would be the three or so skills that are 00:34
the most essential moving forward in the 00:37
21st century?" And you know, it's not 00:40
like specific skills that I'm going to 00:42
talk about like coding or, you know, 00:45
mastering AI or going to some business 00:48
strategy because I think that's not 00:51
really what the spirit of the question 00:53
is. In general, there are certain kind 00:54
of personal skills that you want to 00:56
develop. Okay. So, number one, and this 00:59
is something that I have in my book, 01:02
Mastery, you must see being social and 01:04
getting along with people and 01:07
cooperating and knowing how to work with 01:09
people as a skill. It's not something 01:10
you were born with. It's not something 01:13
that some people are good, bad, or bad 01:15
at. Like anything, it is a skill that 01:17
you develop. being social and knowing 01:20
how to work with people and knowing how 01:22
to be sensitive to their energy. And in 01:24
this skill, what it is is you're able to 01:28
pay attention to people and see who they 01:31
are as an individual and see what their 01:34
particular needs are, what they're 01:37
missing in life, and you're able to 01:38
supply that. You're able to enter their 01:40
spirit. You don't offend them 01:43
unnecessarily. You know how to work with 01:45
them, right? you know how to properly 01:47
criticize them if that's necessary. 01:49
Because if you don't understand that 01:52
being social is a skill, if you don't 01:54
develop it, you could be the greatest at 01:56
whatever you could do. You could be even 01:59
the greatest athlete in the world, but 02:00
you're going to be offending your 02:03
teammates. You can be offending the 02:04
people that you work with and all of 02:06
your knowledge and your other skills are 02:08
going to be completely neutralized by 02:10
how bad you are in dealing with people. 02:12
And so when you look at social as a 02:15
skill, what that means is you have to be 02:18
spending time with people. You got to 02:20
get out of your phone. You got to get 02:23
out of your office. You got to get out 02:25
of all of your virtuality. You have to 02:26
be around people. You have to interact 02:28
more. That's the only way that you will 02:30
become social. And if you find yourself, 02:32
you know, alone a lot. And and I have 02:35
found that difficult. You have to force 02:37
yourself out there. You have to force 02:39
yourself to go to clubs, to go to bars, 02:40
to hang out with people. So developing 02:43
social skills is incredibly important, 02:45
but it's not the only thing, right? So 02:49
another skill that's extremely important 02:52
and probably the most important of all 02:55
is to develop a love of learning. I know 02:57
personally when there's something that I 03:00
don't know, there's something that I'm 03:03
not good at that I then take an effort 03:05
to like learn it to get better at it. 03:08
And I'm not going to make say specifics. 03:11
It could be some sports or it could be 03:13
playing a musical instrument or a game. 03:15
That process of learning to me is so 03:18
exciting. It's like I know it because 03:21
when I was a child, getting better at 03:24
something is a really, really exciting 03:27
process. So, I will give you an example. 03:30
years ago when I was writing the war 03:32
book, I got myself a pool table because 03:34
I wanted something to take my mind off 03:38
the war book which is really heavy and 03:40
was like kind of driving me crazy and I 03:42
wanted something where I could just do 03:44
kind of feel the strategy in the game 03:46
itself and just kind of get out of my 03:49
head. And at first I was really bad at 03:51
it, but slowly I got better and better. 03:55
I was practicing and I was playing 03:56
against myself, you know, which is 03:58
pretty easy. And I would read books 04:00
about it and I would practice certain 04:02
shots and when I could make like a 04:03
double bank shot and things like that or 04:06
put spin on the ball, I was so excited. 04:08
Man, this was really great. The feeling 04:11
that you're improving at something. A 04:12
lot of people are turned off by 04:14
learning. And if you don't find learning 04:16
one of the most exciting things in the 04:19
world, then I think you're never going 04:21
to develop the whole game. Everything 04:24
else will fall apart. But it has to be 04:26
something that excites you. If you are 04:29
somebody who's interested in literature 04:32
and you try and learn algebra, that 04:34
could be interesting. You may enjoy the 04:37
challenge, but you won't learn as much 04:39
because you're not really that 04:41
interested in it, right? But if you 04:42
learn like a foreign language like 04:45
French where you can read the 04:47
literature, you're so motivated that you 04:49
will learn and you will that natural 04:51
love that you have will come out. The 04:53
other skill that you must develop, so 04:56
just to reiterate, is being social, 04:57
having a love of learning. The third one 05:00
is kind of related to the second one, 05:02
but it is patience. A lot of people 05:04
nowadays are really really impatient. 05:07
And the reason I think is I mean, I'm 05:09
very I I have a lot of impatience 05:12
myself, so I I can't preach about that. 05:14
But the reason why I think it's gotten 05:16
worse is we're so used to the power of 05:18
our phones, of our computers, that we 05:21
think everything should be happening 05:24
quickly and instantly. If we have to 05:26
wait 5 seconds to get a piece of 05:28
information on the internet, we think, 05:30
"Oh my god, it's taking so long. It's 05:32
takes so long to download." Whereas 20, 05:34
30 years ago, you would have had to go 05:36
to the library. You would have to spend 05:38
an hour to do it. You learned how to 05:40
develop patience to find things. But 05:42
people are so impatient because 05:44
everything is so quick and easy and 05:46
powerful right now. So you want to be 05:48
able to slow things down. You want to 05:50
have the ability to say if it's going to 05:53
take me an hour to learn this, if I have 05:56
to spend time practicing something 05:59
that's tedious, I'm okay with it. I like 06:01
the 06:04
slowness. I actually embrace the pain 06:05
that's involved. So learning anything, 06:08
developing any skill involves pain. When 06:11
I first got that pool table, I was so 06:15
bad at it. It was so frustrating and it 06:17
really made me kind of upset because I 06:19
like being really good at things, right? 06:21
But I played every day and I got better 06:24
and better and better and better. And 06:26
then I remember one day I I mentioned 06:28
this before. I was playing with 50 Cent 06:30
in his office and I beat him three times 06:33
in a row and he's a pretty good pool 06:35
player. I felt, "Wow, man, I've 06:37
arrived." But then I had a humbling 06:38
experience a few days later when I went 06:40
to this pool hall in Manhattan and I got 06:42
creamed by this other guy. So, you know, 06:45
put kind of put it in perspective, but I 06:47
was getting better at it. I had to be 06:50
patient because at first I really sucked 06:51
at it. So, developing patience is 06:54
absolutely critical thing. And related 06:56
to that, so all these things are kind of 06:59
related to that is the ability to be 07:01
bored. Right? So sometimes boredom is a 07:04
good thing. Sometimes being frustrated 07:08
in in what you're doing is okay because 07:11
it forces you it forces you to be 07:13
patient and to slow things down as well. 07:16
One other thing I would say is and I had 07:20
a a interview about this is the ability 07:22
the skill it is a skill of managing your 07:26
anxiety. So, when you're starting 07:30
something out, when you're trying to 07:33
build a business, when you're trying to 07:35
write a book, when you're trying to 07:37
create a movie, you're going to feel a 07:39
lot of anxiety because it's not there. 07:42
It's going to take a lot of work. You're 07:44
looking a month, for me, years of work 07:46
to produce it. And it makes you kind of 07:49
anxious and it makes you, as I said 07:51
before, impatient. But being able to 07:53
deal with your anxiety and being able to 07:56
handle it and manage it and not get in a 07:59
hurry to get to the goals that you want 08:02
is very important. Those elements of 08:04
dealing with boredom, dealing with 08:07
anxiety, and impatience are all 08:08
interrelated. They're the ability to 08:10
slow things down, to deal with the micro 08:12
aspects of any kind of learning process. 08:15
Those are skills that I think are 08:17
absolutely essential for going forward 08:19
in the 21st century because what you 08:22
want the endgame of all this is because 08:25
you love learning because you've been 08:28
patient and you've developed skills and 08:30
you're good with people you will reach a 08:31
point where you have mastered a couple 08:34
of things. Right? So it's not like you 08:36
want to go through life and just master 08:40
one thing. You want to master two at 08:41
least two kind of real skills in the 08:43
world. For me it was writing and 08:46
research and there were a few others but 08:50
being able to combine writing and 08:52
research as I had was what led to the 48 08:54
laws of power. So you reach a point 08:57
where you develop two two or three 08:59
really basic skills and then when you're 09:02
30 or or in that vicinity you're able to 09:05
combine them and to create something a 09:08
new kind of business a new kind of 09:11
enterprise. And because we live in an 09:13
age where there's so much information 09:15
available and so many skills you can 09:18
learn even online developing that I 09:20
absolutely guarantee that something 09:24
brilliant will happen for you. But if 09:25
you don't have the patience and the love 09:27
of learning then none of this will ever 09:30
matter. So those are the skills I think 09:32
that are essential. 09:33

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[English]
A lot of people are turned off by
learning. And if you don't find learning
one of the most exciting things in the
world, then the whole game, everything
else will fall apart. But it has to be
something that excites
[Music]
you. I've said to many people that live
in a world where knowledge and skills
are the most important thing. That's the
goal that you are after more than money.
You want to develop knowledge and
skills. And so this person asks, "What
would be the three or so skills that are
the most essential moving forward in the
21st century?" And you know, it's not
like specific skills that I'm going to
talk about like coding or, you know,
mastering AI or going to some business
strategy because I think that's not
really what the spirit of the question
is. In general, there are certain kind
of personal skills that you want to
develop. Okay. So, number one, and this
is something that I have in my book,
Mastery, you must see being social and
getting along with people and
cooperating and knowing how to work with
people as a skill. It's not something
you were born with. It's not something
that some people are good, bad, or bad
at. Like anything, it is a skill that
you develop. being social and knowing
how to work with people and knowing how
to be sensitive to their energy. And in
this skill, what it is is you're able to
pay attention to people and see who they
are as an individual and see what their
particular needs are, what they're
missing in life, and you're able to
supply that. You're able to enter their
spirit. You don't offend them
unnecessarily. You know how to work with
them, right? you know how to properly
criticize them if that's necessary.
Because if you don't understand that
being social is a skill, if you don't
develop it, you could be the greatest at
whatever you could do. You could be even
the greatest athlete in the world, but
you're going to be offending your
teammates. You can be offending the
people that you work with and all of
your knowledge and your other skills are
going to be completely neutralized by
how bad you are in dealing with people.
And so when you look at social as a
skill, what that means is you have to be
spending time with people. You got to
get out of your phone. You got to get
out of your office. You got to get out
of all of your virtuality. You have to
be around people. You have to interact
more. That's the only way that you will
become social. And if you find yourself,
you know, alone a lot. And and I have
found that difficult. You have to force
yourself out there. You have to force
yourself to go to clubs, to go to bars,
to hang out with people. So developing
social skills is incredibly important,
but it's not the only thing, right? So
another skill that's extremely important
and probably the most important of all
is to develop a love of learning. I know
personally when there's something that I
don't know, there's something that I'm
not good at that I then take an effort
to like learn it to get better at it.
And I'm not going to make say specifics.
It could be some sports or it could be
playing a musical instrument or a game.
That process of learning to me is so
exciting. It's like I know it because
when I was a child, getting better at
something is a really, really exciting
process. So, I will give you an example.
years ago when I was writing the war
book, I got myself a pool table because
I wanted something to take my mind off
the war book which is really heavy and
was like kind of driving me crazy and I
wanted something where I could just do
kind of feel the strategy in the game
itself and just kind of get out of my
head. And at first I was really bad at
it, but slowly I got better and better.
I was practicing and I was playing
against myself, you know, which is
pretty easy. And I would read books
about it and I would practice certain
shots and when I could make like a
double bank shot and things like that or
put spin on the ball, I was so excited.
Man, this was really great. The feeling
that you're improving at something. A
lot of people are turned off by
learning. And if you don't find learning
one of the most exciting things in the
world, then I think you're never going
to develop the whole game. Everything
else will fall apart. But it has to be
something that excites you. If you are
somebody who's interested in literature
and you try and learn algebra, that
could be interesting. You may enjoy the
challenge, but you won't learn as much
because you're not really that
interested in it, right? But if you
learn like a foreign language like
French where you can read the
literature, you're so motivated that you
will learn and you will that natural
love that you have will come out. The
other skill that you must develop, so
just to reiterate, is being social,
having a love of learning. The third one
is kind of related to the second one,
but it is patience. A lot of people
nowadays are really really impatient.
And the reason I think is I mean, I'm
very I I have a lot of impatience
myself, so I I can't preach about that.
But the reason why I think it's gotten
worse is we're so used to the power of
our phones, of our computers, that we
think everything should be happening
quickly and instantly. If we have to
wait 5 seconds to get a piece of
information on the internet, we think,
"Oh my god, it's taking so long. It's
takes so long to download." Whereas 20,
30 years ago, you would have had to go
to the library. You would have to spend
an hour to do it. You learned how to
develop patience to find things. But
people are so impatient because
everything is so quick and easy and
powerful right now. So you want to be
able to slow things down. You want to
have the ability to say if it's going to
take me an hour to learn this, if I have
to spend time practicing something
that's tedious, I'm okay with it. I like
the
slowness. I actually embrace the pain
that's involved. So learning anything,
developing any skill involves pain. When
I first got that pool table, I was so
bad at it. It was so frustrating and it
really made me kind of upset because I
like being really good at things, right?
But I played every day and I got better
and better and better and better. And
then I remember one day I I mentioned
this before. I was playing with 50 Cent
in his office and I beat him three times
in a row and he's a pretty good pool
player. I felt, "Wow, man, I've
arrived." But then I had a humbling
experience a few days later when I went
to this pool hall in Manhattan and I got
creamed by this other guy. So, you know,
put kind of put it in perspective, but I
was getting better at it. I had to be
patient because at first I really sucked
at it. So, developing patience is
absolutely critical thing. And related
to that, so all these things are kind of
related to that is the ability to be
bored. Right? So sometimes boredom is a
good thing. Sometimes being frustrated
in in what you're doing is okay because
it forces you it forces you to be
patient and to slow things down as well.
One other thing I would say is and I had
a a interview about this is the ability
the skill it is a skill of managing your
anxiety. So, when you're starting
something out, when you're trying to
build a business, when you're trying to
write a book, when you're trying to
create a movie, you're going to feel a
lot of anxiety because it's not there.
It's going to take a lot of work. You're
looking a month, for me, years of work
to produce it. And it makes you kind of
anxious and it makes you, as I said
before, impatient. But being able to
deal with your anxiety and being able to
handle it and manage it and not get in a
hurry to get to the goals that you want
is very important. Those elements of
dealing with boredom, dealing with
anxiety, and impatience are all
interrelated. They're the ability to
slow things down, to deal with the micro
aspects of any kind of learning process.
Those are skills that I think are
absolutely essential for going forward
in the 21st century because what you
want the endgame of all this is because
you love learning because you've been
patient and you've developed skills and
you're good with people you will reach a
point where you have mastered a couple
of things. Right? So it's not like you
want to go through life and just master
one thing. You want to master two at
least two kind of real skills in the
world. For me it was writing and
research and there were a few others but
being able to combine writing and
research as I had was what led to the 48
laws of power. So you reach a point
where you develop two two or three
really basic skills and then when you're
30 or or in that vicinity you're able to
combine them and to create something a
new kind of business a new kind of
enterprise. And because we live in an
age where there's so much information
available and so many skills you can
learn even online developing that I
absolutely guarantee that something
brilliant will happen for you. But if
you don't have the patience and the love
of learning then none of this will ever
matter. So those are the skills I think
that are essential.

Key Vocabulary

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Vocabulary Meanings

exciting

/ɪkˈsaɪtɪŋ/

A2
  • adjective
  • - causing great enthusiasm or interest

knowledge

/ˈnɒlɪdʒ/

A2
  • noun
  • - information and skills acquired through experience or education

skills

/skɪlz/

A1
  • noun
  • - the ability to do something well

essential

/ɪˈsɛnʃəl/

A2
  • adjective
  • - absolutely necessary; extremely important

social

/ˈsoʊʃəl/

A1
  • adjective
  • - relating to society or its organization

cooperating

/koʊˈɒpəreɪtɪŋ/

A2
  • verb
  • - to work together to achieve a common goal

sensitive

/ˈsɛnsɪtɪv/

B1
  • adjective
  • - aware of and responsive to the feelings of others

criticize

/ˈkrɪtɪsaɪz/

B1
  • verb
  • - to express disapproval of someone or something

neutralized

/ˈnjuːtrəlaɪzd/

B2
  • verb
  • - to make something ineffective or harmless

virtuality

/ˌvɜːrˈtuːələti/

C1
  • noun
  • - the quality of being virtual or almost real

patience

/ˈpeɪʃəns/

A2
  • noun
  • - the capacity to accept or tolerate delay

frustrating

/ˈfrʌstreɪtɪŋ/

B1
  • adjective
  • - causing feelings of anger or annoyance

anxiety

/æŋˈzaɪəti/

B1
  • noun
  • - a feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease

interrelated

/ˌɪntərˈrɪleɪtɪd/

C1
  • adjective
  • - connected or related to each other

mastered

/ˈmɑːstərd/

B2
  • verb
  • - to become skilled or proficient in something

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Key Grammar Structures

  • You must see being social and getting along with people and cooperating and knowing how to work with people as a skill.

    ➔ Gerunds as subjects and objects, parallel structure

    ➔ The sentence uses multiple gerunds (**being**, **getting**, **cooperating**, **knowing**) functioning as parts of a compound subject. The parallel structure emphasizes the multifaceted nature of social skills. 'as a skill' functions as a complement.

  • It's not something you were born with. It's not something that some people are good, bad, or bad at.

    ➔ Cleft sentences, use of 'that' as a relative pronoun, comparative adjectives

    ➔ The sentence employs a **cleft sentence** structure ('It's not something...') to emphasize that social skills are not innate. The use of **'that'** introduces a relative clause. The repetition of 'bad' is stylistic, emphasizing a spectrum of ability.

  • If you don't find learning one of the most exciting things in the world, then the whole game, everything else will fall apart.

    ➔ Conditional sentences (first conditional), superlative adjectives, emphatic structure

    ➔ This is a **first conditional** sentence (**If** you don't find..., **then**...). **'one of the most exciting things'** uses a superlative adjective. The phrase **'the whole game, everything else'** is an emphatic way of saying 'all aspects of your life'.

  • And I'm not going to make say specifics.

    ➔ Causative verb construction ('make someone do something'), infinitive without 'to'

    ➔ The phrase **'make say specifics'** is a causative construction. The verb **'say'** is used in the bare infinitive (without 'to') after 'make'.

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