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you get to face a lot of young man you
got a long journey ahead of you because
you're going to find out that while your
dad did a lot ofit to you you're going
to have to make it on your own because
this world we live in is tough it's
tough it will beat you down the world in
the life that we live in is the ultimate
competitor the world's
tough the world's
tough it will try to take you out it
will it will find your
weakness and it will just Hammer you
so it's time to get back to work get
back to
work stop hearing yourself talk get off
the podcast don't be on social media too
much cut out all the [ __ ] noise get
back to theing mental lab cuz that's
where the knowledge came
from you need to get to a point in your
life where there's nothing can hurt you
because you know exactly who you are
you've faced your demons you were able
to hear all your past traumas you were
able to listen to them
you're able to say okay now I can now
talk to people about what I went through
I'm no longer embarrassed I'm no longer
ashamed being ashamed is one of the
biggest things that kill people nowadays
in their minds kill them from moving
forward I'm ashamed of myself don't ever
be ashamed of anything you've done in
your life face it fix it make it
better everything I need is in my mental
lab everything CU I'm in constant study
of myself and I know what needs to be
conquered because I'm constantly going
through what I don't like what I'm not
comfortable with I know and only I can
fix these problems cuz I have to face
these
problems unchosen suffering is going to
happen right so the only thing that you
can do is have some chosen suffering to
prepare for it it's the only thing you
can do that's the only thing you can
practice for the unchosen suffering is
have chosen suffering do something that
sucks every day
I'm not trying to send a message of run
200 miles be the bad [ __ ] in the
world but be
tough you better have a part about you
that's tough a part about you that can
break down situations and get better and
break down situations very quickly
within some trauma in your life some
Devastation in your life cuz it's going
to come the devastation the trauma is
going to come and you can't allow that
to become a jersey barrier it can't be
Jersey Barry has to be something that
you can maneuver through very quickly
and move forward that takes a lot of
toughness a lot of people when you die
they figure out why you died they figure
out how you died in the
autopsy but we never do live autopsy to
figure out why we're dying while we are
alive and I was dying I was living every
day but I was really dead and so I
figured it out and once I figured it out
I was able to
reborn I was able to be
reborn you must take this knowledge that
you learn from all this [ __ ] is
knowledge so I'm just trying to give
people that strength to go in the
archives of your life cuz while you're
probably up it's probably something
happened to you in your life go through
the archives dig it up study it and then
use it for yourself that's that's the
main purpose for me right now you need
to be better here you need be better
here you need to overcome this overcome
that and I you know people need to have
purpose to get up they need purpose to
perform you need to get to a point in
your life where there's nothing on the
docket there's no 5K there's no I'm
going to get into school to be this or
that and still perform to the highest
level cuz what people don't get is one
day that thing is going to come up and
if you're not constantly performing
without purpose you're not going to be
ready when the time comes it's this
magical thing that we're all looking for
but what's funny about it all is that we
need these things to perform but we
don't take a second to realize the
purpose is always there the purpose
never leaves us cuz the very purpose is
you you are always the purpose there may
be another purpose like being a seal or
going to college or whatever but the
main purpose in life is you so if you
wake up in the morning and you don't
want to do something you don't care
enough about yourself and that's what
you need to really research is why am I
not doing this for myself because that
is the number one purpose in life is to
better oneself so that's the only
purpose I fuing need so the reason I get
up every day even though there's no race
or there's no school there's nothing in
front of me is because I have pride in
myself I was born David gogins David
gogins wasn't good enough he was a
scared bullied
uh abused kid um who struggled in life
and that kid whenever something got
tough you matter how hard I trained no
matter how ready I was whenever
something got tough for me David goggin
the real David goggin would come out and
he would quit so I realized this over a
period of time so I had to build
goggin and in that process that's where
I get better
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I get better when I'm digging holes in
the ground when I'm waking up early
knowing I don't have to do these things
that's where I get better so it's
important to stay hungry it's important
to stay hungry but it's important more
to stay humble within that hunger so
while you're hungry a lot of people are
hungry but humility is everything what
was that story about William Crawford
the janitor yeah so this guy won the
Medal of Honor so he won the Medal of
Honor and which is the highest award in
the
military and this guy went to the Air
Force Academy and he was a
janitor and no one knew who the this man
was he had the highest award in all the
military for heroics for heroics saving
lives putting his life on the line you
know could have been killed and he is
now basically you know cleaning shs for
young kids and we can all imagine how
that probably went you know there's
probably some you know little bit of
taunting here and there and he just sat
there and cleaned the so that's why he's
in my trained humility part because for
this man to be at the level he was and
had that kind of humility to go I'm a
middle of Honor winner but I'm going to
put that in my closet and I'm going to
pick up my broom and dust pan and I'm
going to pick up you know this Rag and
clean the for these young men that right
there is amazing for me man that's
that's where you grow that's that's
growth huge growth and also it shows
that he was doing his
job he was a
servant he didn't look at himself any
better than anybody else the second you
do that you totally lost you cannot look
at yourself like people with me even I
always look at people I I know where you
are I know where cuz I've been there
that's why I help so many people out
I've I've never been above you I've
always pretty much been beneath you and
that's where my knowledge came from so I
know how to reach those people who are
in the dungeon because I've been there
so many
times you have to be your best self and
your least
motivated and that's the tricky part
about all that motivation is just a word
you have to have these different things
in your mind on where you want to go and
know that motivation is not going to get
me there cuz I'm not going to always be
motivated Joo said the exact same thing
he said that discipline needs motivation
for breakfast and discipline is good too
but without a clear head space there's
no discipline what you mean so let's say
we have a circuit breaker okay and I'm
loading everything up to one circuit
just load it up it's going toing
blow and once that thing blows man the
circuit areed
up you got to have each thing plugged
into to the right spot like a crowded
garage you can't put anything in it once
your brain is crowded discipline is
great motivation is great but if you
can't fit in your brain because it's
alling cluttered with
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discipline you may have it sometimes
when it fits in that crowded garage of
your mind but you don't have the
consistency that you need to have with
that discipline I call it mental zones
is you're organized in your mind so you
can put that discipline so a lot of
people talk about discipline okay great
why do you fall off the wagon why can't
I continue with this routine going to
the gym being better waking up early
eating the right Foods it's because
maybe it's your kids maybe it's your
wife maybe it's your job and it's all
just stuffed in your fcking brain you
don't have it compartmentalized and
organized in these nice shelves a lot of
people whose brain Hey where's my d h
let me look they're throwing they're
looking through totes they're all up so
where am I going to put discipline in
that mind if I can't find other you got
to be able to find all these different
things in your mind oh I can put
discipline right there if your life is
not organized and your life being
everything around you because it takes
one little the piece of outside
interference to clutter your whole mind
your mind has to always be clear that's
why I meditate 2 hours every single
night because I refresh I reorganize the
garage which is my mind every night so
then discipline's in there organization
everything is in this right spot I'm
waking up and I'm giving myself all this
armor so when I come out in the world
I'm ready I'm not waking up late I'm not
rushing around I'm not disorganized so
when I wake up I'm ready to
go why is the truth so
important you have to have the truth to
have a starting point and your true self
is found in that very uncomfortable
Zone we all look for
toughness we all want
it but we look for it in a comfortable
environment you will not find toughness
in a comfortable
environment those of you who are
listening to this you will not find it
the only way you find it is to drown
yourself in a position where you're just
out of sorts where you can't swim and
you're drowning you're
drowning will you say know what ma'am
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that once you come face to face with who
you are you have a starting
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point it's in our head saying you know
what man dude you're not you're not
doing [ __ ] you're wasting a bunch of
percentage here in this other 80% is
suffering pain failure failure failure
self-doubt
darkness and then a whole bunch of
light but to get to this light you got
to go through all of this [ __ ]
you're not succeeding and you're not
achieving it's because you're afraid to
go in that dark place to find
yourself you're setting goals you know
you can reach and when you do that that
fear that insecurity that doubt that's
where you grow you must always set goals
that you think you cannot achieve and in
there you get better when that long
clock goes off at 4:00 or 5 in the
morning your mind says no you just say
this is what we do it's what we do now
because to get to where you want to go
the amount of pain involved the amount
of mental pain of how many times you're
going to have to do something that you
don't want to do to get to where you
want to
go every day you must ask yourself did I
do
enough and then once you do this over
and over and over again it becomes like
breathing I don't want to live this
lifestyle but to get to the other side
of this I have to so if you really want
it you realize what trying is and what
trying is
not your brain is the most powerful
weapon in the
world once you put away your phones and
your computers and and all that [ __ ] we
have
nowadays your brain is the only thing
you have when you're going through
depression when you when you're going
through hard times you're going through
death real life [ __ ] you can't Google
that [ __ ]
man you're alone you're alone you may
have a shrink you're going to you may
have a best friend you're going to but
there's 24 hours in the day where you're
alone in this brain and your brain is
talking to you in all kind of ways and
it wants to control you and pull you in
these different Pockets if you can't
control your own brain and your brain
controls you you're [ __ ] you got to
tell your brain where you want to go and
how you want to go and how you want to
get there you got to control it if not
it's over it's
over all I knew back then was hard work
you got to work hard you got to work
hard I can't get this paragraph I can't
remember what the [ __ ] in this
paragraph to pass this test to get in
the military read again still not
getting it read again but if you're not
getting it write it out and that's how I
started
learning I realized if I keep going back
and going back and going back until the
[ __ ] just becomes your mind will say
[ __ ] okay we're going to figure it out
it'll find a way because he is not going
to
stop it's not like I'm going to try one
more time no R clock goes off woo we're
going back I can't read right we're
going back I gave myself no way out and
my mind realized that they said okay
we're going to adapt and overcome now
that was my mindset and that's how you
get through things you put yourself you
immerse yourself in wherever it is and
you become
that I became
hell and that became my new Norm I gave
myself no way out there was nothing
outside these walls walls of Hell
nothing I watched this segment on TV
about these guys going through Navy
still training and I couldn't even I I
was a great swimmer I was afraid of the
water all this crap
man I saw these guys just quitting but
at the very end it says 22 guys there
command officers up there and he gives
this great
speech so I started visualizing me being
the 23rd guy sitting there with these
guys I said man if I could feel that
that would change my
life and what was that feeling you
wanted so bad respect accomplishment
Victory I wanted to win not like beat
somebody else it wasn't about that I I I
just wanted to go the distance
everything in my life when something got
hard I
quit I had didn't work harder than you
so I quit
like man if I could just go that
distance that extra mile to just go just
to finish I want to finish I want to
feel Victory and victory for me wasn't
winning it was just finishing so I said
you know what if I could feel like these
guys feel it would change my
life and literally I started feeling
Victory just by putting myself in the
battle
I started realizing man just by going to
war with myself every day and putting
these challenges and these goals and
these obstacles these insurmountable
obstacles now we can move from
there but if you look at it as man I'm
broken and I'm still here and I'm
fighting and I'm going to find a way to
get through this cuz I have no other
place to go it gives you a lot of power
and no one really finds thems without
going through trials tribulations
suffering accountability and
accountability is suffering being
accountable everying day for doing right
for yourself for the people next to you
it's
measurable the more I do this the more I
gain confidence and then the more I gain
confidence the more I realize [ __ ] these
Navy Seals man
man the the these guys can't do what I'm
doing right now I had no coach had no
trainer had no money I didn't know how
to lose weight I had no knowledge of
what I was doing I was just working I
was just
sacrificing but I would have never found
these
tools if I didn't put myself in a very
uncomfortable place and your true self
is found in that very uncomfortable Zone
that's where he came from he came from
all these [ __ ] up obstacles and now
he's
there so everybody goes how do you do
that you know exactly how to do that
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