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hello and welcome back to the English
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dialogue podcast where we explore
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intriguing topics to help you master the
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English language and better understand
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the world around you I'm Mike and I Emma
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today we're delving into a topic That's
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essential for personal and professional
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growth emotional
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intelligence specifically we'll be
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discussing the seven signs of emotional
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intelligence and helping you identify
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which of these you might possess let's
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get started absolutely Emma so first
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things first what exactly is emotional
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intelligence or EI for short great
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question Mike emotional intelligence
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refers to the ability to recognize
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understand manage and effectively
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express your own emotions as well as the
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ability to understand interpret and
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respond to the emotions of others it
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plays a crucial role in how we interact
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with people and handle daily
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challenges right it's not just about
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being smart or having high IQ emotional
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intelligence involves a set of skills
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that can enhance your relationships
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career and overall
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well-being now let's dive into the seven
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signs of emotional
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intelligence we'll go through each one
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explain what it means and provide some
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examples ready absolutely let's start
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with the first sign
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self-awareness self-awareness is the
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ability to recognize and understand your
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own emotions strengths weaknesses values
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and drivers it's about knowing what
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you're feeling and why you're feeling
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that way people with high self-awareness
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are typic Al very in tune with their own
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emotions and how those emotions affect
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their thoughts and
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behavior exactly for example if you're
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feeling stressed about a project
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deadline a self-aware person might
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recognize that stress and take steps to
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manage it rather than letting it
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overwhelm them they understand how their
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emotions influence their actions and
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decisions that's a great Point moving on
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to the second sign self-regulation
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self-regulation is the ability to manage
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your emotions in healthy ways it means
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staying in control and adaptable even in
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challenging situations people who excel
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in self-regulation can calm themselves
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down when they're angry or anxious and
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can handle unexpected changes with grace
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for instance imagine you receive
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critical feedback at work instead of
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reacting defensively someone with strong
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self-regulation might take a moment
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oment to process the feedback
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constructively and use it to improve
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their performance exactly it's about
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maintaining composure and not letting
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emotions dictate your responses in a
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negative way now let's talk about the
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third sign
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motivation motivation in the context of
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emotional intelligence refers to being
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driven to achieve for the sake of
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achievement it's about having a passion
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for your work being resilient in the
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face of setbacks and Main maintaining a
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positive attitude highly motivated
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individuals set goals and work
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persistently towards them
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right for example someone who is
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motivated might take on challenging
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projects not because they have to but
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because they're excited about the
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opportunity to grow and learn they find
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intrinsic satisfaction in their
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achievements that's a great example the
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fourth sign is empathy empathy is the
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ability to understand and share the
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feelings of others it goes beyond just
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recognizing someone's emotions it
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involves putting yourself in their shoes
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and responding with compassion empathy
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is crucial for building strong
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meaningful
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relationships absolutely think about a
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friend going through a tough time an
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empathetic person would not only
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recognize their distress but also offer
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support and understanding helping them
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feel hurt and valued
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exactly empathy Fosters trust and
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deepens connections whether in personal
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relationships or professional settings
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now let's move on to the fifth sign
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social skills social skills refer to
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managing relationships to move people in
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desired directions whether towards
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agreement in a negotiation or towards
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accomplishing a shared goal people with
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strong social skills are effective
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communicators
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good at resolving conflicts and able to
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build and maintain
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networks right for example in a team
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project someone with excellent social
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skills might facilitate discussions
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ensure everyone's ideas are heard and
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help the group reach a consensus thereby
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enhancing the team's overall
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performance that's a perfect
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illustration the sixth sign is
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adaptability adaptability is the ability
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to ad adust your emotions thoughts and
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behaviors in response to changing
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circumstances and
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environments it's about being flexible
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and open to new ideas even when things
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don't go as planned exactly imagine your
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company underg goes a major
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restructuring an adaptable person would
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embrace the changes seek out new
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opportunities within the new structure
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and help others navigate the transition
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smoothly absolutely adaptability is key
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in today's fast-paced world where change
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is constant it helps individuals thrive
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in diverse and evolving
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environments now the final sign Conflict
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Management conflict management is the
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ability to handle resolve and navigate
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disagreements effectively it involves
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understanding different perspectives
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mediating disputes and finding mutually
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beneficial Solutions people skilled in
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Conflict Management can turn conflicts
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into opportunities for growth and
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Improvement right for example in a
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workplace disagreement someone
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proficient in Conflict Management would
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listen to all parties involved identify
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the root causes of the conflict and work
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towards a resolution that satisfies
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everyone maintaining a positive and
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productive
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environment that's a great example so to
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recap the seven signs of emotional
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intelligence are
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self-awareness self-regulation
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motivation empathy social skills
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adaptability and conflict management
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each of these plays a vital role in how
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we interact with ourselves and
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others absolutely Mike now let's discuss
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how you can identify which of these
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signs you might possess it's important
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to remember that emotional intelligence
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is not a fixed trait it can be developed
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and strengthened over time right one way
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to assess your emotional intelligence is
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through
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self-reflection think about situations
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where you've successfully managed your
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emotions or navigated a difficult
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interaction which of the seven signs
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were you using in those moments another
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method is seeking feedback from others
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sometimes those around you can provide
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valuable insights into your strengths
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and areas for improvement in terms of
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emotional
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intelligence they might notice things
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you're not fully aware of
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that's a great Point additionally there
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are various assessments and quizzes
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available online that can help you
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evaluate your emotional
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intelligence these tools can offer a
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structured way to understand where you
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stand and what areas you might want to
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work on exactly and once you've
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identified your strengths you can
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leverage them more effectively in your
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personal and professional life for the
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areas you want to improve there are
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plenty of strategies and resources to
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help you develop those skills let's
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share some practical tips on how to
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enhance each of the seven signs of
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emotional
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intelligence starting with
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self-awareness keeping a journal to
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track your emotions and reflect on your
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experiences can be incredibly helpful
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absolutely for
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self-regulation practicing mindfulness
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and stress management
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techniques such as deep breathing or
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meditation can help you maintain control
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over for your emotions great tips Emma
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to boost motivation set clear and
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achievable goals for yourself and
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celebrate your progress along the way
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this keeps you driven and focused on
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your objectives for empathy make a
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conscious effort to listen actively and
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attentively to others try to understand
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their perspectives without judgment
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which can deepen your connections and
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enhance your empathetic
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abilities excellent advice to improve
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social skills engage in activities that
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require teamwork and communication such
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as group projects or networking events
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this helps you practice and refine your
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interpersonal
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interactions for adaptability Embrace
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change by stepping out of your comfort
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zone and trying new things whether it's
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learning a new skill or taking on a
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different role flexibility is key to
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becoming more
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adaptable and finally for Conflict
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Management develop your negotiation and
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mediation skills role playing different
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conflict scenarios can prepare you to
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handle real life disagreements more
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effectively those are all fantastic
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strategies Mike developing emotional
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intelligence is a continuous journey and
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these tips can help guide you along the
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way remember improving EI not only
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benefits you but also enhances your
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interactions and relationships with
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others absolutely Emma before we move on
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let's practice using these signs in a
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conversation I'll start so Emma I've
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been feeling really overwhelmed with the
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new project deadlines I'm not sure how
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to manage everything I understand Mike
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let's break it down together maybe we
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can prioritize the tasks and delegate
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some of the work remember staying
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organized and asking for help when
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needed is key
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that sounds like a great plan thanks for
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your support I also think setting
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smaller goals will help me stay
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motivated and keep track of my progress
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absolutely and if you ever need to talk
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or vent I'm here to listen we can tackle
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this together that really helps Emma
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it's good to know I'm not alone in this
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of course Mike teamwork and
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understanding each other's emotions can
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make a big big difference in overcoming
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challenges that's a perfect example of
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using emotional intelligence in everyday
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interactions it shows empathy social
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skills and effective Conflict
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Management exactly by recognizing and
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applying these signs we can improve our
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relationships and work more efficiently
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together thank you Emma for such an
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insightful discussion on the seven signs
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of emotional intelligence and thank you
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thank you to our listeners for tuning in
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it's been a pleasure Mike we hope this
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episode helps you identify and develop
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your emotional intelligence skills until
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next time keep growing and connecting
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intelligence /ɪnˈtɛlɪdʒəns/ B2 |
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emotional /ɪˈmoʊʃənl/ A2 |
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self-awareness /ˌsɛlf əˈwɛr nɪs/ B2 |
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regulation /ˌrɛɡjəˈleɪʃən/ B2 |
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motivation /ˌmoʊtəˈveɪʃən/ B1 |
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empathy /ˈɛm pəθi/ B2 |
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social /ˈsoʊʃəl/ A2 |
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adaptability /əˌdæptəˈbɪlɪti/ B2 |
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conflict /ˈkɑːnflɪkt/ A2 |
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manage /ˈmænɪdʒ/ A2 |
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recognize /ˈrɛkəɡˌnaɪz/ A2 |
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understand /ˌʌndərˈstænd/ A1 |
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express /ɪkˈsprɛs/ A2 |
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resilient /rɪˈzɪliənt/ B2 |
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compassion /kəmˈpæʃən/ B2 |
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negotiation /nɪˌɡoʊʃiˈeɪʃən/ B2 |
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