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oh my God by the it's just so much nicer 00:00
asking the 00:03
questions having to answer how do how 00:04
does it feel to you be on the other side 00:07
so before this show Ali interview me for 00:09
my book coming out yeah how does it feel 00:11
on the the other side Oli I I quite like 00:13
being a podcast guest to be honest I 00:15
feel like I much prefer being a podcast 00:17
guest than making a YouTube video 00:20
because if you ask me a question it's 00:22
like if someone asks me a question I can 00:24
respond and I'm like in in flow I'm in 00:25
the zone all that kind of fun stuff but 00:27
if I'm just talking directly to a camera 00:29
and there's no one else in the room and 00:31
there's no energy then it feels a lot 00:32
harder so I'm kind of comparing this to 00:34
what it's like filming my own YouTube 00:36
video and this is just way nicer and 00:37
there's no response when you're filming 00:39
your own YouTube yeah exactly just the 00:40
freaking camera and just 00:41
like is that how you is that how you 00:43
feel yeah all the time all the time 00:45
what's the question you you wish people 00:48
ask you when they're like oh you're like 00:49
oh just give me that one question dude I 00:51
can't wait 00:52
oh do I have a question I wish people 00:54
ask me I find it flattering that people 00:57
would uh want to ask me anything 00:58
anything at all 00:59
um yeah is there a question I wish 01:02
someone would ask 01:04
me I don't know I've never thought about 01:09
it but mate that's a good question I'm 01:11
stumped I have no idea what where 01:12
someone would ask me take your 01:15
time 01:28
I wish someone would ask me something 01:33
like what's the last book you've read 01:35
that had an impact on you or something 01:36
like that because because I I always 01:38
have a new book that I've read that 01:40
that's had an impact on me so I feel 01:41
like that would be a a good way of me to 01:43
re surface the things that I've been 01:45
thinking about myself um 01:47
yeah what's the last book you've read 01:50
and that had an impact on you the last 01:52
book I read That's had an impact on me 01:54
is a weird one it's uh The Strangest 01:55
Secret by Earl Nightingale have you 01:58
heard have you heard of this guy I've 02:00
heard of it he's old school like radio 02:01
stuff he's like an old school 1950s us 02:02
radio guy who was motivational self-help 02:05
Guru back in the day um and the he wrote 02:07
he recorded this audio program in 1956 02:11
which is like the secret to success and 02:14
his like grandchildren turned it into a 02:17
Kindle ebook which I read 02:19
recently and it's really good I mean the 02:21
first half of it is really good but 02:23
basically this is the first book I've 02:25
read that has fully sold me on the idea 02:27
of setting goals basically the first 02:29
half of the book is is just like look 02:31
the secret to success in all areas of 02:32
life is basically you got to know what 02:34
you want and if you just know what you 02:36
want and like write it down somewhere 02:38
and just have a destination in mind then 02:40
everything else will just work out 02:43
everything else will take care of itself 02:44
as long as you know what you want and 02:46
I'm like huh that's quite nice he's just 02:47
basically saying that in a bunch of 02:51
different ways just know what you want 02:52
and so I've been seeing this a lot like 02:53
when when I help people with their 02:56
YouTube channels or their businesses and 02:58
stuff 02:59
the the question I always find myself 03:00
asking is what's what's the goal like 03:02
what are we actually trying to do here 03:05
because people will often come to me and 03:06
I I used to have this thing when I when 03:07
I would speak to my own coaches and my 03:09
own mentors and I'd be like Oh I'm 03:10
struggling with this this this and I'm 03:12
not sure whether to X or Y or Zed and 03:13
they would say okay let's zoom out a 03:15
little what's the goal and I'd always be 03:16
like stumped by that question because 03:18
I'm like I don't freaking know like um 03:20
make money have fun help people all this 03:23
kind of stuff and I never really had 03:25
Clarity on what my goal was and like 03:26
where I was actually trying to get to 03:27
but now that I'm kind of more in that 03:29
Coach position where I'm helping people 03:30
out and mentoring them and now that I've 03:31
read this book I'm like oh it's just so 03:33
helpful when you know what someone's 03:35
destination is because then you can help 03:36
them figure out like all of the chess 03:39
moves that would take to get there but 03:40
if someone doesn't know what they want 03:42
then it's like you know I was speaking 03:44
to a friend um a mutual friend of ours 03:45
earlier and she was like yeah I don't I 03:47
don't know what to make videos about I 03:49
was like okay I but like what's what's 03:51
the goal what are we trying to do here 03:52
and based on that we can brainstorm some 03:54
things to make videos about but it's 03:56
just H it's so so good figure out what 03:58
the goal is and just write it down 04:01
somewhere it seems in life it's easier 04:03
to get what you want but figuring out 04:05
what we want is harder yeah it's so hard 04:06
to figure out what you actually want and 04:08
there are so many people that I know and 04:10
I have this problem myself where it's 04:12
like struggling to figure out what to do 04:13
with my life is like a phrase that you 04:16
know I I often used to throw around and 04:18
I think take taking the time to Fig 04:21
actually figure that out it's not it's 04:23
not that hard to figure out because I I 04:25
think I think one of the problems is 04:28
that people feel like once they have 04:29
quote figured it out then it's a fixed 04:31
destination and they can't change but 04:33
actually the whole point of figuring it 04:35
out is just like setting yourself a 04:36
direction like the journey is what 04:37
matters but you can't have a journey 04:39
without a destination in mind that's not 04:41
to say you're going to be fixated on 04:43
that destination but at least it tells 04:44
you what direction to go in um there was 04:46
a thing that one of my mentors in 04:48
medical school said to me once ages ago 04:50
and he said this was around the time he 04:52
was like he was he asked me what 04:55
specialty I wanted to specialize in and 04:56
I was like I don't know I'm only in my 04:58
fourth year I've got another three years 04:59
to decide and blah blah blah and he was 05:01
like sure like you don't have to decide 05:03
right now but it's much easier to steer 05:04
a moving ship than a stationary ship and 05:07
I was like huh so he was like I'd 05:10
recommend you just pick something and 05:11
just go for it and then change course 05:13
along the way and I guarantee it's going 05:14
to be a good method and I was like okay 05:16
cool so I decided to go for plastic 05:18
surgery like reconstructive surgery and 05:19
then opportunities started coming my way 05:22
I started well I started seeing like oh 05:23
there's a conference there there's this 05:25
thing there I can attend this thing 05:26
there I could design that website for 05:27
that person there who I know is 05:29
connected to this like plastic surgery 05:30
organization started connecting with all 05:31
these people and I'm like all of a 05:33
sudden the universe trans conspired to 05:34
help me meet other people who are 05:38
plastic surgeons for me to realize that 05:39
okay I probably don't want this but it's 05:42
also really cool but what I do want is 05:43
this thing and by virtue of just taking 05:45
action and moving in that direction 05:48
something you talk about in billion 05:49
dollar weekend good things just started 05:50
to happen whereas when I was static and 05:52
I was like oh I need to figure it out 05:54
it's like sometimes figuring out where 05:55
you want to go is a case just about just 05:57
committing to the thing and not over 05:59
fixating on like oh I really need to 06:01
think so hard it's about where do you 06:03
feel you might like to go cool let's 06:05
start going in that direction and we can 06:07
always change course along the way you 06:08
got me remembering I did the best 06:10
boyfriend ever 06:12
strategy I was dating women this is two 06:13
women I dated years ago many years ago I 06:16
didn't know if it was a good 06:19
relationship I think all of us have done 06:19
that like I don't know if it's a good 06:21
job I don't know if it's a good thing I 06:22
was like well I'm just going to act like 06:23
it's the best relationship I've ever 06:24
been in and I'm going to treat them the 06:25
best they've ever had nice and then 06:26
after and I said I'm do for three months 06:28
and this is for two different women and 06:30
both times after I was the best I've 06:31
ever been like I can't I'm like this is 06:33
the best you're going to get out of me I 06:34
was like oh it's not a good relationship 06:36
for me I broke up but at least I 06:37
committed to being the best in that 06:39
relationship and then was able to make 06:40
that decision yeah it's pretty helpful 06:41
that sounds very helpful uh your book so 06:43
you just said the book that impacted you 06:46
the most the ear night Andale The 06:48
Stranger secre what do you want people 06:49
telling someone else about Feelgood 06:52
productivity o great question um what I 06:54
would love people to tell other people 06:57
about about feel good productivity is 06:59
man this book really taught me that the 07:00
secret to being productive is to find a 07:03
way to feel good is to find a way to 07:04
enjoy what you're doing um and I think 07:06
just that like that that is the core 07:10
message of the book if you find a way to 07:13
enjoy what you are doing you will be 07:14
more productive you'll be more creative 07:16
you'll be less stress you'll have more 07:18
energy to give to your work but also to 07:19
every other area of your life you'll be 07:21
able to sustain it for longer let find a 07:22
way to enjoy what you're doing that's 07:24
not to say only do things that you enjoy 07:25
that's very different because the only 07:28
people that only do things that they 07:30
enjoy are actually I don't know anyone 07:31
in the world who only does things that 07:33
they enjoy even people who are really 07:34
rich don't only do things that they 07:36
enjoy because we all have to do things 07:37
that at times do feel like work 07:39
sometimes as much as you enjoy it 07:41
writing a book or like going to the gym 07:43
or even spending time with your family 07:46
does feel like a bit of a chore even if 07:47
you enjoy it people who have kids say 07:49
that sometimes it's not it's not always 07:50
enjoyable so I'm not saying you have to 07:52
always enjoy it and you can only do 07:55
things that are fun I'm saying there's 07:56
always a way to take whatever you're 07:57
doing doing and approach it in a way 07:59
that makes it feel a little bit better 08:00
and if that's the one thing people take 08:02
away from it that will be that'll be a 08:03
win for me there's so I've read it and I 08:04
recommend it oh thanks there's a lot in 08:06
it yeah there's a lot there's and I love 08:09
how you have I think it's Labs or 08:12
experiments experiments yeah experiments 08:14
and there's just like there's a lot in 08:15
there what do you think is the one that 08:17
you've noticed as people have been 08:19
reading your book and passing the book 08:20
around that people are like this is the 08:22
one I'm like I'm going to think about 08:23
this 08:25
[Music] 08:25
more in in the first chapter the first 08:26
chapter is play and there's a really 08:28
simple experiment that you can try there 08:30
and it's just like a simple question to 08:32
ask yourself whenever you're doing 08:34
something that feels like a bit of a 08:35
grind which is to ask yourself what 08:36
would this look like if it were 08:39
fun like Tim Ferris has the has a 08:40
variant of this question what would this 08:42
look like if it were easy but my version 08:44
is what would this look like if it were 08:45
fun if you're struggling with studying 08:47
for that exam or writing that essay or 08:49
making that presentation or starting 08:51
that like writing that landing page 08:52
whatever the thing might be what would 08:54
it look like if it were actually fun and 08:56
normally if you ask that question 08:58
people can always come up with five or 08:59
10 different ways the thing that they're 09:01
currently doing could be made a little 09:03
bit more fun maybe it's background music 09:04
maybe it's doing it with friends maybe 09:07
it's like going down to the local coffee 09:09
shop and having a coffee and doing it on 09:10
your laptop from there rather than 09:12
sitting in your office like there's so 09:13
many different ways that we could 09:15
potentially find of making things fun 09:16
but it's a question we don't often ask 09:18
and that simple question is a thing that 09:20
seems to resonate with quite a lot of 09:23
people how did it feel to write the 09:24
book 09:28
H it felt 09:30
like it felt enjoyable at times it felt 09:33
like a grind at times it felt like a 09:37
battle with impostor syndrome a lot of 09:39
the time it felt 09:41
like 09:45
um scary I'm doing this thing that feels 09:47
scary because putting a book out into 09:50
the world feels like a scary thing 09:51
that's going to open me to you know bad 09:53
reviews and criticism and stuff it feels 09:56
scary it felt scary cuz it's like what 09:58
if it doesn't sell as many copies as 10:00
like I don't know I would like it to 10:02
sell even though I don't really know how 10:04
many copies I'd like it to sell um but 10:05
it also felt quite joyful at times along 10:08
the way where it was like when I was 10:11
researching something and things 10:13
suddenly came together and I was like oh 10:15
that's it like all this reading I've 10:16
been doing this is the one thing that is 10:18
like TI ties it all together so there 10:20
were parts of it that were super fun 10:22
parts of it that were less fun um but 10:24
now that I've done the process once I'm 10:26
excited to write feature books because I 10:28
know what I would do differently next 10:30
time oh so okay so I'm the oppos I'm one 10:31
and done I'm like this is my Best Book 10:35
it's the only book million dollar 10:37
weekend Oh interesting I want to write a 10:38
book every few years oh wow and then so 10:40
what did you what would you change or 10:42
what did you regret in this process yeah 10:43
I won't say if there's anything I 10:45
regretted because I learned from the 10:46
whole thing but what I would change is I 10:47
would have the title and the hook in 10:50
mind from day one before I even begin 10:52
writing um I 10:55
would 10:58
the way I want to approach future books 10:59
is I want to I want to have the title 11:03
sorted I want to I want to have the sort 11:05
of one paragraph sales page completely 11:08
nailed I want to send that to hundreds 11:10
of people to be like is this a grand 11:11
slam offer right now just just purely 11:13
based on the title and the one and the 11:14
one paragraph sales pitch once I know 11:15
that that is a grand slam offer and the 11:17
thing that the the core concept of the 11:19
book seems to resonate and people are 11:21
like yeah I would definitely buy that 11:23
then I would explode that into chapter 11:25
into chapter headings and then I would 11:27
AB test the [ __ ] out of those chapter 11:29
headings to test with the audience to 11:31
make sure it's like here are 50 11:32
different chapter titles what are the 11:34
top five that you'd be most interested 11:36
in reading about and getting the data 11:37
from the audience to be like hm if I 11:39
want to write a fitness book if and 11:41
maybe there's a chapter on like the most 11:43
productive ways to stretch maybe that 11:46
suddenly gets 80% of the votes and I'm 11:47
like oh okay cool interesting that's the 11:49
thing that people want to hear and then 11:51
I would approach that as the title of a 11:52
YouTube video CU I'm very good at making 11:54
YouTube videos and I've but I've never 11:56
written a book so this was a lot of like 11:57
uh trying to learn the thing from 12:00
scratch and working with the editors and 12:01
so much back and forth but I know how to 12:02
make a YouTube video so if I approached 12:04
it as like this book is 10 different 12:06
YouTube videos which all then you know 12:08
all the research I'm then doing for 12:10
those videos is for a YouTube video 12:12
where I test the ideas I turn it into 12:13
Twitter thread I test the ideas a bit 12:15
more I take the stuff that's good that's 12:16
resonating I put it into the book I 12:17
would do so much more of like a start 12:19
upy lean start upy kind of way of 12:21
writing a book this one was was very 12:23
different this one was a lot of just 12:25
like in the weeds in the research papers 12:26
in my own head um and I I would do 12:28
things differently next time I'm I'm I'm 12:32
happy with the way it turned out but it 12:33
was a lot more of a painful process then 12:35
I think I hope the second one will be 12:37
what was your productivity system to put 12:39
together the 12:41
book or approach yeah it changed a lot 12:44
so it took three years from start to 12:48
finish to get this book out how long has 12:50
a YouTube video take three 12:52
minutes yeah so it took three years so 12:56
in that time time I learned a lot about 12:58
myself I learned a lot about 12:59
productivity at the start I thought that 13:00
oh I mean how hard can it be it's like 13:04
I'm I type pretty fast I write I can 13:05
write 2,000 words a day a book is 60,000 13:07
words that's a one month job easy a book 13:09
is just a collection of blog posts 13:11
anyway right like you know books can 13:12
just be sumarized in the blog post like 13:14
all the only thing that a book is is 13:15
just a few points padded out with a load 13:17
of fluff th those were the stories I 13:18
told myself and so I wrote 2,000 words 13:20
in day one day two day three day four 13:24
and 8,000 words in I run out of material 13:26
I was like I've literally written 13:28
everything I can possibly think of and 13:29
I've got like 8,000 words out of a 13:31
65,000 word book uhoh this is bad um and 13:33
that was when I started I I dove into 13:36
the research myself and I started like 13:37
reading papers and stuff and coming 13:39
across like way more stuff I think 13:41
initially I tried to delegate that out I 13:44
was like oh I don't need to be doing the 13:46
research myself let me hire a research 13:48
assistant so I hired a research 13:49
assistant and he was really helpful but 13:51
it it was not the same as me doing the 13:53
research myself cuz like I've got the 13:54
Science Background I literally did a 13:56
degree in psychology where I was 13:58
literally reading research papers and 13:59
writing essays about them that was where 14:00
I ranked first in my university for that 14:02
particular year that particular degree 14:04
because I just love this [ __ ] and I was 14:06
trying too hard to delegate that process 14:09
away but now I realized that actually me 14:11
being in the weeds with it was really 14:13
fun really exhilarating and led to so 14:14
many more insights than Outsourcing it 14:16
to an 14:18
assistant and so your productivity was 14:19
it how did evolved so you wrote 14:21
everything in 8,000 words and then how 14:24
did that shift over the next few years 14:25
yeah then it was a lot of research a lot 14:26
of outlining I think the there was 14:27
another thing that might be useful for 14:29
people which is there were periods of 14:31
time where I was writing the book in 14:33
parallel with other things I was like 14:35
okay I'm going to do two hours of 14:36
writing in the morning and then I'm 14:37
going to do my this then I'm going to do 14:38
that then I'm going to do this and I 14:39
made very little progress on those those 14:41
weeks but there were weeks where I was 14:43
like the only thing I'm doing this week 14:45
is writing the next five 14:46
chapters that's literally the only thing 14:48
or the only thing I'm doing for the 14:50
whole day is to work on work on this 14:52
chapter and I'm going to get it done by 14:54
the end of the day those were the days 14:54
where I made tons and tons of progress 14:56
now people say that like oh but a a 14:58
writer only gets four productive hours 15:00
in a day so I was like okay if I spend 15:02
the first four hours writing that's good 15:03
but what I didn't realize is that you 15:05
got to take procrastination into account 15:07
got to take the screwing around into 15:09
account the sort of getting set up 15:10
getting a coffee going to the toilet 15:12
getting set up getting into the swing of 15:14
things and on days where I had anything 15:15
on the calendar other than writing I 15:17
didn't seem to make much progress but on 15:18
days where I the only thing I had to do 15:20
was just work on the book I made loads 15:23
of progress cuz I got into that head 15:25
that head space and I think this Works 15:26
differently for different people there 15:28
are some people who do a really good job 15:29
of like making small amounts of progress 15:32
consistently with a large number of 15:35
things but I think for me what I've 15:36
realized is going all in and fully 15:38
focusing on one thing at a time is way 15:40
more effective for me personally than 15:43
trying to do multiple things in parallel 15:44
as I was reading your book and I what I 15:46
noticed is there's just so many 15:48
different things you encourage people to 15:49
think about and test out experiment to 15:51
find the way that they're productive I 15:53
was trying to think about what is 15:54
productivity because on one hand I wrote 15:56
down productivity for me it's speeding 15:59
up your your track speed like that's my 16:00
first thing always and then I was like 16:02
okay that's is that productive and and I 16:04
was just trying to think about what is 16:07
productivity yeah for me productivity 16:10
is doing the things that matter to you 16:13
in a way that's intentional effective 16:16
enjoyable and sustainable there like 16:19
quite quite a lot that goes into it so 16:21
doing the things that matter to you in a 16:23
way that's intentional like you're 16:24
intentionally doing them you're 16:25
effectively doing them as in not like 16:27
screwing around you're having fun along 16:28
the way and it's sustainable and I think 16:31
if we can get to those things that is 16:34
when we're truly productive because yeah 16:36
you could be productive with like you 16:38
know I was big in keyboard short cuts 16:39
and typing speed and all that crap but 16:41
if you're working on the things that 16:42
don't really matter then all of that 16:43
productivity is wasted so there's some 16:45
element of like intentionality and 16:47
meaningfulness that's important here 16:48
yeah similarly if you're sprinting and 16:50
doing the thing and burning out that's 16:52
also not productive so it's it's got to 16:54
be sustainable and like the the whole 16:55
the whole thesis of the book and partly 16:58
of your book is that the process should 16:59
be enjoyable because if the process is 17:00
enjoyable you're just going to be more 17:02
productive but it's also going to be 17:03
more fun more sustainable more 17:04
energizing all the good things will 17:06
happen if you can find a way to enjoy 17:07
the process itself so to me productivity 17:09
is like all of those things which some 17:11
people would say is cheating because I'm 17:13
being I'm defining productivity very 17:14
holistically but that's how I think 17:16
about it so it's my book I can do what I 17:18
want yeah who is someone in your 17:22
audience or your team that you've seen 17:24
that you've changed and help them 17:27
through productivity what's what's a 17:28
story that comes to 17:29
mind one of one of the guys on our team 17:34
his name is Tintin he's our YouTube 17:36
producer and he also loves all these 17:37
like productivity books prent 17:39
development books and he's read he's 17:41
read a lot of them and so he was really 17:42
helpful in giving feedback on the early 17:43
drafts and he just sort of read a draft 17:45
in like like a year ago or something and 17:47
like six months later he he just said to 17:51
me you know that first chapter I've been 17:52
actually I've been actually applying 17:55
that in those insights for the last six 17:56
months months and it's completely 17:58
changed the way that I approach my he 17:59
he's doing a side business approach my 18:01
side business I was like oh how is that 18:03
because the first chapter is about play 18:04
it's about approaching work in the 18:05
spirit of play he was like yeah you know 18:07
just a Post-It note what would this look 18:08
look like if it were fun the daily 18:11
Adventure it's like that's a framing 18:12
where every at the start of every day 18:14
you ask yourself what is today's 18:15
adventure going to be and that's just 18:17
like a more fun way of asking what's my 18:18
biggest most important task for the day 18:20
and tinon asks himself this question 18:23
every day and he's like it's just 18:24
completely moved the needle for my 18:26
productivity and also for my happiness 18:27
to frame work in this way and I was like 18:28
oh that's cool it's nice that like he 18:31
read it and six months later the Insight 18:33
was still still holding strong it's 18:34
um I don't think people realize like 18:39
what it takes to make a 18:41
book I feel I bond with with other 18:44
authors so much of like the pain of the 18:46
process and like how long and audious it 18:48
is I hit up Tim Ferris I've never I know 18:50
20 years and I was like yeah I'm going 18:52
to do a book I'm thinking about it for a 18:54
long time he's like it's hard yeah it's 18:55
really and there's only there's kind of 18:59
one 19:00
shot you know you do the YouTube video 19:01
like we do YouTube or tweets or emails 19:04
okay video didn't work I'm gonna do 19:06
another video I'm do another like 19:07
there's a proposal to a book to copy 19:09
editing to to being published and um 19:11
it's just yeah it's such a process I'm 19:15
sure you you've experienced a lot of 19:18
highs and lows as you were saying and uh 19:19
I don't know I I do know some of these 19:22
things in life I've been thinking about 19:25
this it's like what's the hardest thing 19:26
I can do and then do that doesn't mean 19:28
it's always going to be easy but like 19:30
this sounds like this book for you is a 19:31
real 19:33
challenge yeah I feel like I learned a 19:33
lot through the process and even if it 19:35
doesn't it's not a commercial success I 19:38
am still I'm I'm proud of what we 19:40
collectively have created as in me and 19:44
our editors who have been amazing 19:46
throughout the whole process and our 19:48
research assistants um and even if it's 19:49
not a commercial success I've learned so 19:51
much along the way about how to write a 19:53
book and how to put research together 19:55
and how to kind of the marketing side of 19:57
things and all of that stuff like yeah 20:00
well it was kind of when we were talking 20:03
earlier today I thought was really 20:05
powerful and really interesting is that 20:07
you started your main YouTube channel at 20:08
what age uh 24 24 yeah you were 20:10
commenting how I think at 16 you did web 20:14
design and then you had an affiliate 20:17
site then you did all these things and 20:18
you started all this stuff that 20:20
eventually LED you to get to YouTube at 20:21
24 which has led you to success with it 20:23
I think you would say it's success by 29 20:26
and it's getting going yeah you know we 20:28
talked about starting and same with this 20:31
book it's interesting you you said 20:32
something kind of in passing it's like I 20:34
do believe a lot of us have fixed 20:35
mindsets I read a book and that's the 20:37
book which for me I'm happy with one 20:39
book but this is your first of many yeah 20:40
right and the fact that you got it going 20:43
LED you to think about all right well 20:44
how do I want to do it differently next 20:46
time that's such a powerful lesson 20:47
throwing out there yeah which is if you 20:49
want to get somewhere great just 20:51
starting out whether it's writing 20:52
whether it's content whether whatever it 20:53
is and then now in the future you know 20:55
how you want to improve that exactly 20:56
yeah and you know one of the things I I 20:58
love is you know another book I've read 21:01
recently is the practice by Seth Goden 21:02
it's really good basically it's the 21:05
whole book is just lots of different 21:06
ways of saying focus on the process 21:08
don't worry about the outcome um and his 21:10
whole thing is like if you making one 21:12
thing one blog post every week it means 21:15
that you're not that attached to each 21:17
individual blog post it's like ah it's a 21:19
bit of a dud that's okay I'll do I'll do 21:21
another one next week and again and 21:22
again and again and again and I think 21:24
having that approach is actually very 21:26
useful for writing a book as well cuz 21:28
this was a threee long project but like 21:29
Ryan holiday you know WR writes books 21:31
every one to one to two years and some 21:33
of them are less bestselling than others 21:36
like courage is calling no one cares 21:38
about courage but discipline is Destiny 21:40
man people love discipline or obstacle 21:41
is the way is you know still still 21:43
selling ego the enemy is still selling 21:44
but no one really reads trust me I'm 21:46
lying or like very few people read The 21:47
Perennial seller even though very good 21:49
read all of them oh 21:51
nice and it's like you know he's he's 21:52
just prolific he's just producing all 21:55
this stuff and 21:56
it's in a way I I admire that approach 22:00
to Creation I think yes there's there's 22:03
a lot of the the the counter example is 22:06
like James CLA has got one book and has 22:09
sold more copies than all of Ryan 22:11
holiday's 15 books combined but 22:12
also I don't know I think there's 22:16
something really nice about the constant 22:18
creative act of learning researching 22:20
synthesizing and putting something out 22:23
there and saying hey you know this is 22:24
what I've done take it or leave it I 22:27
hope I hope you find it helpful and 22:28
doing that a lot and to me that feels 22:30
like a good way of living life um it's 22:32
not it's not everyone's cup of tea but I 22:34
can imagine myself at 50 continuing to 22:35
write books and continuing to learn new 22:37
things and being like yeah I want to 22:39
write the next book how do you figure 22:40
out what to be productive 22:42
on yeah this comes down to that 22:45
conversation around goal setting it's 22:47
like figuring out where you want to go 22:48
the way I approach it is 22:50
like a few different ways so essentially 22:53
in in each of the major areas of my life 22:56
so work health and relationships I have 22:58
a a goal in mind or two or three of like 23:01
okay this is where I want to go and I I 23:04
like the idea of annual planning of like 23:06
okay I I in in the book I call it the 12 23:08
month celebration 12 months from now you 23:10
and I are sitting here we're having a 23:12
conversation what are we celebrating 23:13
what are we celebrating in our health 23:15
what are we celebrating in our 23:17
relationships for me in health what I'd 23:18
love to be oh no a man last 12 months 23:20
I've been hitting the gym three or four 23:21
times a week and I've done that without 23:23
fail even when I was traveling even when 23:24
I was ill I was just hitting the gym at 23:26
Le you know fairly consistently and now 23:28
check me out check out the biceps I 23:30
would love to be celebrating that with 23:31
you 12 months from now cool that that 23:32
tells me that that's something I I'd 23:36
like to be productive in I'd like to 23:37
find a way to make the process of going 23:38
to the gym uh intentional effective 23:40
enjoyable and sustainable nice when it 23:42
comes to relationships you know this 23:44
time next year I'd love to be married 23:46
I'd love to be having a kid on the way 23:47
you're going to you're going to be a dad 23:48
by this time next year and we're both 23:50
going to be celebrating how present we 23:51
are as like as partners and as fathers 23:53
and all this kind of stuff that would be 23:56
really cool so that's now I can be 23:57
productive towards that it's like okay 23:59
that's my goal what does that actually 24:01
mean it means I should probably I I want 24:02
to do like two date nights a week with 24:04
the girlfriend fiance wife whatever the 24:06
situation is uh I want to make sure I 24:08
finish work by 500 P p.m. every day so 24:10
that I can spend time with the family I 24:11
want to make sure I do my workouts in 24:13
the morning when maybe the kid is asleep 24:14
like all all of that kind of stuff by 24:16
knowing that by knowing the thing we are 24:18
trying to celebrate 12 months from now 24:20
we can then figure out the how to 24:22
getting there and to me that involves 24:24
figuring out okay what does it look like 24:25
on the calendar what do it look like on 24:27
the to-do list like what are the what 24:28
are the mental models I need to be 24:30
holding in my mind to act to act in a 24:31
way that will make it very likely that 24:35
I'll be celebrating with you 12 months 24:37
from now and then in the book in the 24:38
Final Chapter we talk about like the 24:41
long-term the medium-term time Horizon I 24:42
I I really enjoy thinking about like 24:45
what would you want people to say at 24:46
your funeral as like a way a sort of 24:47
like who's the sort of person you'd like 24:50
to be uh what would you like written in 24:51
your orbituary so I wrote my own 24:53
orbitary the other day just I was doing 24:55
the exercise and it's quite helpful for 24:56
figuring out what I wanted to do with my 24:58
life cuz I'm like if you if you figure 25:00
out like what would you like people to 25:01
write about you when you're dead about 25:03
like your accomplishments your 25:04
achievements the sort of person you were 25:05
gives you a pretty good idea of like 25:08
okay cool am I going in is is that in is 25:09
is that the path I'm on or do I need to 25:12
change course a little bit so there's 25:14
all sorts of ways to figure out what you 25:16
should be productive in I think part of 25:18
it is about thinking long term and part 25:20
of it is thinking about like the 25:23
different what do I actually want in 25:24
these different areas of life M cuz once 25:26
you figure out what you want it's like 25:28
okay you can then figure out the plan to 25:29
get there but I think a lot of people 25:31
struggle with figuring out what they 25:32
want what do you in in terms of being 25:34
productive what are you saying no 25:36
to yeah these days I say no to anything 25:40
that doesn't take me towards the things 25:43
that I know that I want um and it's 25:46
going to it's going to keep keep coming 25:48
back to that so these days what I say 25:49
often what I say no to is um something 25:51
that helps me make money but that where 25:55
the process of that doesn't feel good so 25:57
for example uh if it's a sponsorship 26:00
deal with a brand that I don't actually 26:03
use I'd say no to that because I don't 26:04
need the money I don't I don't want the 26:06
money anymore if it's like hey can you 26:07
travel to this random country when 26:08
you're in the middle of a vacation with 26:10
your girlfriend to give a random talk 26:11
and we'll pay you 50k for it I'm like uh 26:13
actually I'm at a point in my life where 26:16
I can comfortably say no to that so 26:17
things like that where I I want to make 26:19
sure that the things I'm doing are not 26:21
I'm not just doing for the money cuz 26:24
doing doing something just for the money 26:26
is a terrible reason to do something 26:27
once you're at a point where you don't 26:29
where you no longer need to be 26:30
optimizing for making money once you've 26:31
got your family's basic needs met what 26:33
anything what stood out to you about the 26:35
obituary that you wrote for 26:37
yourself what stood out about it was 26:42
that 26:44
um like I I I wrote something to the 26:48
effect of Ali abdal was one of the world 26:50
well was one of the greatest teachers in 26:52
the world he throughout throughout his 26:53
Decades of creating writing and videos 26:55
and stuff he he like harmoniously 26:58
integrated loads of disciplines to help 27:02
people live their best life in terms of 27:04
Body Mind heart and soul and I as I was 27:06
writing that like this idea of Body Mind 27:09
heart and soul came to me I was like huh 27:11
that's interesting I must have heard it 27:12
from somewhere because it didn't just 27:14
come to me spontaneously but like like 27:15
Body Mind heart and soul that actually 27:16
feels pretty good like productivity sort 27:18
of mind I want to do a book about 27:19
Fitness at some point once I go on my 27:21
own fitness journey that's about the 27:22
body heart I mean that's relationships I 27:23
want to do relationships book at some 27:26
point and soul is like 27:27
spirituality I want to write a 27:28
spirituality book I was like huh that's 27:30
pretty cool like if that is my body of 27:32
work in the next like a few decades Body 27:34
Mind heart and soul and then my YouTube 27:37
content or whatever platforms are around 27:39
then podcast you know I'm fairly 27:41
platform agnostic the stuff that I teach 27:42
is about Body Mind heart and soul that's 27:45
freaking sick and I was like and now I 27:46
have this vision for like the sort of 27:49
body of work that I want to do and maybe 27:50
it'll change but at least for now I I 27:51
have this idea of like that's that's 27:53
kind of where I'm getting to and then 27:55
alongside it was like you know alongside 27:56
all this stuff while he was like being a 27:58
legend traveling around the world 27:59
teaching cool stuff he was always humble 28:00
always down to earth prioritized his 28:02
family took care of his health like his 28:04
kids and his grandkids were were with 28:07
him when he died peacefully in their 28:08
nice family home and it's like you know 28:10
keeping in mind that like that's the 28:11
thing I want to do for work doing all 28:13
this teaching you stuff around Body Mind 28:14
heart and soul but actually I want to 28:16
prioritize my family first and I want to 28:18
be there for my kids and for the wife 28:19
and for grandkids and all that stuff and 28:21
I don't want worldly success to come at 28:23
the expense of personal relationships so 28:24
that's the obituary and so that's a 28:26
pretty reasonable painting of the 28:27
destination I'm like great let's stop 28:29
moving in that direction I love that 28:30
yeah how come I I was looking at the 28:32
back of your book uh Feelgood 28:34
productivity and it said Dr Ali abdall I 28:36
was like oh [ __ ] he actually is a doctor 28:38
oh yeah forgot know I mean I know I've 28:39
been you a while how come you didn't put 28:42
it on the front of the 28:43
book I felt a bit uncomfortable putting 28:44
it on the front of the book because I'm 28:47
no longer practicing and I didn't want 28:48
the doctor thing to be a key part of the 28:51
story I I I want I want it's a key part 28:55
of the back story but it's not part of 28:57
the forward story it's like that was a 28:59
previous life so we put it in the back 29:01
of the book cuz it's kind of cool it's 29:03
like oh he's a doctor as well um but I 29:04
didn't want to put it at the front for 29:06
that reason but you you do include 29:07
stories about you know your opening of 29:09
the story is is you as a new medical 29:11
doctor and making a mistake yeah and 29:13
then there's stories throughout it about 29:15
your medical experience I was just kind 29:16
of like I forgot until I saw in the back 29:18
of the book yeah yeah it was it was a a 29:20
conscious decision this is why my 29:23
YouTube channel has never been called a 29:24
Dr Ali because I I when you when you 29:25
lead with that it's like it puts a 29:27
certain expectation and a certain 29:30
attachment to that identity which I 29:31
don't really want anymore and actually 29:33
was um I was interviewed on Dar CEO like 29:35
three years ago back when it was still a 29:38
small podcast two years ago and none of 29:39
that was about me being a doctor like he 29:42
didn't even mention I was a doctor and 29:44
the title of the podcast was the 29:46
productivity expert and I was like huh 29:47
interesting I've never I kind of like 29:50
that I've never I've never been called a 29:52
productivity expert that's cool and huh 29:53
I guess people people got a lot of value 29:56
from that and we didn't discuss medicine 29:58
at all cuz I think one of the stories I 29:59
told myself was if I'm not a doctor then 30:01
no one's going to listen to my stuff and 30:03
actually I'm not a doctor anymore I I've 30:05
left that behind and people still seem 30:07
to Vibe with my stuff so it's like great 30:09
that's quite liberating how do you think 30:11
more people can break free from 30:13
certificates oo yeah my brother's a 30:16
doctor as well and he always sees these 30:19
YouTubers Y and authors who are not 30:22
certified yep they have no certificate 30:24
to be a business Expert I mean you even 30:27
see people on YouTube like they're 30:29
teaching business they don't even have 30:31
businesses 30:32
yeah and so I I do think that's a shift 30:34
in society where a doctor will make 200 30:36
a YouTuber who was teaching about doctor 30:39
other things can make millions and it's 30:42
an interesting shift just in society 30:43
yeah I think the certificate things is 30:47
is is interesting obviously there are 30:49
some areas of life in which 30:50
certification is important like you 30:52
probably don't want your neurosurgeon to 30:53
be operating on you without the appr 30:55
like degree and license and certificate 30:57
but if 31:00
there's I don't know in a lot of other 31:02
areas like do if I wanted to hire a 31:04
guitar teacher do they need any 31:07
qualification other than they are good 31:09
at teaching guitar probably not maybe 31:11
there's guitar teacher qualifications 31:14
but I don't really care like can they 31:15
play and can they teach well it's like 31:16
that's what I'm judging them on there's 31:18
a the guy who taught me to play guitar 31:19
is called Justin Guitar he's on he's on 31:21
YouTube I followed his beginner's course 31:22
I have no idea what his qualifications 31:24
are but he's a good te teacher and I 31:26
liked his Vibe it's like who cares what 31:27
his his qualifications are and I think 31:29
um people who have built their career 31:31
and their life on credentials will 31:33
always find that difficult to stomach um 31:34
my mom really struggles with this um I 31:37
was telling her at one point about 31:39
Thiago for's course building a second 31:40
brain and her first question was what 31:42
are his qualifications and I was like I 31:44
have not the foggiest she was like what 31:46
which university did he go to I was like 31:48
I don't know I'm sure it's on his 31:50
website but like who cares the point is 31:51
he's teaching me how to do digital note 31:53
taking which is a thing he's been 31:54
obsessed with for 10 years and I'm 31:55
learning from him 31:56
who cares what degree he got whether he 31:57
did a degree in economics or like 31:59
political science or like who who cares 32:01
um so I think increasingly in the 32:04
world the PE people will people will 32:08
vote with their eyeballs like there are 32:13
a bunch of people who do like maths 32:16
tutorials on YouTube and no one know who 32:17
cares if they're a math professor being 32:20
a professor doesn't mean you're good at 32:21
teaching it means you're good at 32:22
research like the medical school 32:23
professors we had at cambri Cambridge is 32:26
a [ __ ] hu huge Name Medical School 32:27
almost none of the professors were 32:30
actually good at teaching there was a 32:31
tiny number who were good at teaching 32:32
because the way you become a professor 32:34
is not by being a good teacher it's by 32:35
being a good researcher and these guys 32:36
are like oh God damn it I've got to to 32:38
teach my lecture I just want to be in my 32:39
lab doing my research whereas the people 32:41
who are the best teachers was the 32:43
student in the year above me like or two 32:45
years above me who's just doing it for 32:47
fun they don't have a qualification 32:48
they're not a doctor yet but they're 32:50
like they know the subject really well 32:51
they understand me they have empathy for 32:53
where I am because they did it last year 32:54
they've got really good notes they have 32:56
good vibes they have energy they bring 32:57
sweets to the classroom like that's the 32:59
person I want to learn from and there's 33:02
a place of learning from experts and 33:03
credentials and stuff but I think 33:04
increasingly the world is moving towards 33:05
if you can actually do the thing that 33:07
you're claiming to do and people like it 33:09
and people are getting value from it 33:11
then who cares what certification you 33:12
have again provided it's not like 33:14
neurosurgery or stuff like that yeah 33:16
yeah you don't really even that you 33:18
don't really ask your doctor when you're 33:20
coming into emergency room like uh can I 33:21
see your degree if you have an emergency 33:23
is like I hope this person can help yeah 33:24
exactly what have you learned about 33:26
effective teaching through teaching 33:28
yourself so much and creating a book 33:30
about teaching people how to be 33:32
productive and creating all this YouTube 33:33
and courses what have you talk about 33:34
what what makes an Effective Teacher 33:36
what are some stories or things you've 33:37
seen that that you teach one thing that 33:39
I keep on coming back to is that 33:42
teaching is a performance 33:43
art and the best teachers are really 33:45
good entertainers and they can tell a 33:48
really good story and they can keep you 33:50
engaged through an otherwise something 33:52
that might otherwise be boring we had a 33:54
great teacher in first year who was 33:55
doing physiology he was a Canadian 33:57
lecturer actually he was like the best 33:59
guy we had teaching us that whole year 34:00
and he just made it so engaging he was 34:03
he he didn't have PowerPoint slides even 34:05
he was like he would like draw diagrams 34:07
on a little overhead projector like old 34:08
school even though he could have used 34:10
PowerPoint or like interative whiteboard 34:11
or anything and he was just really good 34:12
at explaining things and he just like 34:16
draw a diagram and explain in a 34:17
charismatic way with some storytelling 34:18
and some analogies and like the heart 34:20
like imagine the heart as like a little 34:22
a little pump with with that's connected 34:24
to like four pipes and here's the little 34:26
pump and here are the four pipes okay 34:28
cool now imagine when you squeeze the 34:30
pump here's what's happened what's going 34:31
to happen when you squeeze the pump well 34:32
a line's going to go there a line's 34:33
going to go there it was so engaging and 34:34
so nice compared to some of the other 34:36
lecturers that were like dense 34:39
PowerPoint slide loads of references 34:40
handouts that are just boring they were 34:42
just boring it's like I think a huge 34:45
part of being an Effective Teacher is 34:47
being engaging and being fun and being a 34:48
it's it's a performance art um I used to 34:52
do close-up magic back in the day when I 34:55
when I was at University and one of my 34:56
dreams is to have my own stage show kind 34:58
of like Darren Brown meets Jay Shetty 35:00
meets like Tony Robins is is um and BEC 35:02
and I think there's something around 35:06
people who are into 35:08
entertaining often tend to be good 35:10
teachers as well at least from what I've 35:12
seen on YouTube and in real life so I 35:14
think that's a really underrated part of 35:16
teaching what do you what did your 35:19
parents do for learing both my parents 35:21
are doctors so my mom is a single parent 35:23
my parents divorced when I was like one 35:25
year old old so I never really knew my 35:26
dad uh but he's a doctor in Pakistan and 35:28
my mom is a psychiatrist so spe 35:30
specializes in mental health disorders 35:32
and stuff like that um yeah did you do 35:34
you ever interact with your dad not 35:37
really we hang out with him every few 35:39
years when we go back to Pakistan grab a 35:41
bite to eat or something like that how's 35:43
that kind of awkward um I don't really 35:45
know him that well it sort of feels like 35:48
a distant uncle that you s know that 35:50
you're related to but like don't really 35:53
feel that close to um but you know it's 35:54
a Vibe it's a 35:58
Vibe yeah I think like not growing up 36:01
with a dad it's it's it's very hard to 36:03
imagine what it's like having a dad so I 36:04
don't it's you know my mom sometimes 36:07
asks me she's like you know do you ever 36:09
regret that you didn't have a father 36:10
growing up and 36:11
like it's like if someone if if if 36:13
someone I don't know is is not able to 36:17
see color from birth they're seeing in 36:19
black and white they they can't even 36:22
comprehend what it's like to see color 36:23
it's like no I don't spend any time 36:25
thinking like wishing I had a dad or 36:26
wishing yeah yeah it's just not even 36:28
something that remotely crosses my mind 36:30
um 36:32
but I do Wonder I've I've seen patterns 36:33
one I similarly my parents divorced 36:36
early luckily my stepdad was great and 36:38
my father I think a lot of my business 36:39
was to try to get him to acknowledge me 36:42
oh okay and I think that's true for like 36:44
you know Jeff Bezos was uh adopted Steve 36:46
Jobs no Jeff basos a stepdad Steve Jobs 36:49
adopted um there's a lot of you know 36:52
kind of similar patterns so I wonder if 36:54
and like I was just curious if that 36:57
impacted you or how you think that that 36:59
maybe played a role or not yeah I don't 37:00
know I think one thing that I did miss 37:02
out on a little bit 37:04
is like not having a father figure 37:06
growing up means that I had zero 37:08
examples of what like positive 37:11
masculinity looked like in 37:13
that you know 37:16
like I have I have no idea I had no idea 37:19
what it what does it look like if 37:21
someone is upset for a man be the one 37:24
comforting them cuz the only examples I 37:27
saw of someone comforting someone else 37:29
was my mom or the female teachers who I 37:31
had in Primary School don't have any 37:34
mail teachers in primary school and so 37:36
it's like that's a bit weird what does 37:38
that actually look like and some people 37:40
might be listening to this saying that 37:41
like oh it's the same as when a female 37:42
Comforts someone it's like no it's not 37:44
like the way a the the the way a Man 37:45
shows like reassurance and comfort is 37:49
not the same as a maternal nurturing 37:51
figure like a mom showing the same thing 37:53
it would just be kind of weird weird 37:55
especially if it was a stranger it's 37:56
like guys do have to interact in a 37:58
different way than women do naturally 37:59
and I've just I I see Zero I've seen 38:02
zero examples of that so a lot of like 38:04
when my girlfriend was upset for example 38:06
and she was describing how her dad would 38:08
come for her when she was young I was 38:09
like whoa that's just like mind-blowing 38:11
that what was it like what' she say oh 38:14
she was just like yeah he would just you 38:15
know come up to me he would Crouch down 38:16
to my level he would ask if I was okay 38:18
he would put a hand on my shoulder he 38:20
would tell me everything's going to be 38:22
all right he would give me a little 38:22
sandwich from his bag and I'm like oh 38:23
that's cute 38:26
whereas you know when like my mom would 38:27
do it it would be much more of a much 38:29
more of a show of like oh honey come 38:31
here is like like just a different way 38:33
of communicating and I always find 38:36
myself fascinated to see like what does 38:38
how how do dads interact with kids in a 38:40
way that's different to how moms 38:42
interact with kids so I've started 38:43
keeping a lookout for those things now 38:44
did your mom date no she never remarried 38:46
here never yeah so my mom's single 38:48
parent she moved us to Africa it was me 38:50
my brother and my grandma and my mom so 38:52
my mom was working full-time as a doctor 38:55
doctor at the time in Africa and my 38:56
grandma was sort of raising me and my 38:58
brother and then my mom would get home 39:00
from work and like we'd all have dinner 39:02
as a family and my grandma was a teacher 39:03
so she sort of like homeschooled us a 39:06
little bit while we were in school as 39:07
well we in Africa uh lutu what lutu is 39:09
like a country surrounded by South 39:12
Africa oh really like right at the 39:14
bottom of South Africa with within South 39:16
Africa there is a country called lutu 39:17
and another country called Swaziland and 39:19
I've heard that one I think yeah so luu 39:21
is like a a random country that most 39:22
people haven't heard of and how long did 39:24
you live there before like five years 39:26
what age is age like 1 to six oh 39:28
interesting do you do you remember 39:31
anything from that time yeah quite a lot 39:32
like when yeah had a great time it was 39:33
just like it it feels weird to talk 39:36
about now but it was just normal growing 39:38
up because it's like when that's all you 39:40
know that's you think that's totally 39:41
normal um so went to the local school 39:42
Good Vibes mostly black kids I was 39:46
surprised I I remember coming to the UK 39:48
for the first time going to school I was 39:50
like whoa everyone's my skin color cuz 39:52
everyone was white and you know I look 39:55
more you know in in a school of black 39:58
people I I stand out but in a when when 40:00
I saw a school of white people it was 40:03
such a contrast I was like whoa that's 40:04
mental I've never seen all these white 40:06
people before um but like yeah it was 40:07
good 40:10
vibes do you know why your pars broke up 40:11
um my mom never has never quite given me 40:14
the juicy details of it she says that 40:17
they had the differences and she sort of 40:19
believes it at that and then was this in 40:20
Pakistan came met yeah then how did she 40:22
end up going to Africa um it was kind of 40:24
random at at a wedding she was Vis she 40:25
was attending a guy she was sitting next 40:28
to happened to be the guy who was sent 40:30
by the queen to go to lutu to set up a 40:33
hospital there for the British Empire 40:35
and he just happened to meet my mom at a 40:37
wedding and my mom was like oh you work 40:39
in Africa interesting I've always wanted 40:41
to work in Africa just because it seemed 40:42
cool and he was like well do you want a 40:44
job we're looking for doctors and she 40:45
was like huh actually yeah let's go so 40:47
she took me and my brother and her mom 40:49
and we just all moved to Africa from 40:53
Pakistan it's kind kind of kind of Rogue 40:55
that is Rogue what are there ways how 40:57
did your mom raise you and then what 41:00
what were house 41:02
rules what the house 41:05
rules there was a there was a big 41:08
emphasis on education so like you know 41:10
from Africa we moved to the UK because 41:12
of education so my mom my mom and 41:14
grandma always valued our our our 41:16
education as like being the ultimate 41:17
thing and so there was a real emphasis 41:19
on you know doing well in school uh I 41:22
was lucky because was naturally smart 41:25
and so I just did well in school by 41:27
default but also I think the vibe of and 41:28
you know I got I got this messaging from 41:32
my grandma more than my mom of like you 41:33
know it's like a great thing to get into 41:36
a good University and you know the words 41:38
Oxford and Cambridge kind of being 41:40
thrown around when we were like 8 years 41:41
old I was like yeah I want to go to I 41:43
want to go to Oxford or Cambridge you 41:44
know that that kind of thing so that 41:45
developed within me it it wasn't like 41:47
there were like you have to do one in 41:50
school with like a stick it was more 41:51
like I wanted to do one in school but 41:52
I'm pretty sure that cuz the messaging I 41:54
got was like doing well in school is a 41:55
good thing to do and so I had that fire 41:57
inside me um I think like growing up cuz 41:59
my mom was a single parent working as a 42:03
doctor in the UK her salary was like 28k 42:04
30k something like that like we had 42:06
enough money for the you know for the 42:09
basics of life but not enough money to 42:12
like go on fancy holidays or like to get 42:14
PlayStations for a birthday or anything 42:16
like that and I think that was a very 42:18
good thing because it meant that I had 42:20
this like base security of like where 42:22
you know things are totally fine we live 42:25
in a nice house and go to nice school 42:27
and we had enough money to send us on 42:29
like the school ski trip and stuff but 42:30
for the luxuries like a PlayStation or a 42:32
laptop or things like that I had to save 42:33
up for those things and I had to save up 42:35
by you know birthday money that I would 42:37
get as gifts and E presents and stuff 42:39
like that but also I got myself a 42:41
part-time job teaching maths and private 42:43
tutoring and trying to make websites on 42:45
the internet and I think had we had more 42:47
disposable income growing up I may have 42:49
had less of an entrepreneurial Drive 42:51
than I did and so me and my brother 42:53
would be thinking like oh man if we can 42:55
just make £200 this year we'll be able 42:57
to get an extra monitor for a desk setup 42:59
and stuff like that when we were when we 43:01
were kids whereas I had friends who 43:02
would get like PlayStation 3's and stuff 43:04
stuff for their birthdays and they had 43:06
no entrepreneurial drive so I I I wonder 43:08
if there was something around growing up 43:10
with enough money so as to not worry 43:11
about like poverty but not so much that 43:13
like you had everything handed to you 43:16
that developed that desire to make money 43:18
on the internet which I am so grateful 43:19
for did your mom trip out when you quit 43:22
doctor or did she was she happy about it 43:25
uh she tripped out quite a lot she's 43:27
she's over it now but at the time she 43:29
was like cuz you know for her I think 43:31
for immigrant parents the whole thing is 43:35
like Safety and Security 43:37
and medicine is a very safe and secure 43:40
profession and so to trade something 43:43
that's safe and secure for like this 43:45
YouTube thing like what the the hell 43:47
like where is this going to go like what 43:49
if it doesn't last all of those things 43:50
are fears that I had and fears that were 43:52
magnified hundredfold in my mom because 43:54
she was like oh my goodness um but she's 43:56
gotten over it now so yeah it's pretty 43:59
chill these days does she watch all the 44:01
videos no she's kind of stopped now I 44:03
think I don't know really yeah she she 44:04
she listens to the podcast that I do 44:07
with my brother but like to be honest we 44:08
we produce too much content 44:10
like it's it's a full-time job to keep 44:12
up with 44:14
it yeah um what was the most trouble you 44:16
got in as a kid most trouble I got in oh 44:19
one time I was trying to learn I think I 44:21
was like 13 I was trying to teach myself 44:23
how to program uh viruses uh like um and 44:25
I found this like article about how to 44:29
write a trojan horse as like a back door 44:31
into a computer and I I had the code on 44:33
like a USB memory stick and I only had 44:35
one USB memory stick which was also the 44:37
thing I used for my school work and so I 44:38
plugged it in just randomly in one of 44:40
the school computers to do my school 44:41
transferring PowerPoint files or 44:43
whatever and the school's antivirus 44:44
system picked it up because it was a 44:46
really unsophisticated basic ass Trojan 44:47
that I'd written just a just as a sort 44:49
of tutorial project and then the 44:51
antivirus flagged up then I got a call 44:53
from the Deputy Headmaster being like 44:55
come to my office he took me to the 44:57
Headmaster got super got like major 44:59
bollocking by by the Headmaster of the 45:02
school who was like this big imposing 45:03
guy I had I had to come in I he they 45:04
said they were going to suspend me from 45:07
school for a week and I was like the 45:09
good kid I was like he never been in 45:11
trouble I was always like top of the 45:12
class it's like this was very 45:13
uncharacteristic for me but I wrote like 45:14
a nice apology letter and so instead all 45:16
I had to do was come into school for a 45:18
few days during the holidays and they 45:20
were like well this guy likes computers 45:22
so let's just get him to like open up 45:23
every computer in the school and just 45:25
get rid of the packets of chips and the 45:26
chewing gum and the dust with a little 45:29
Hoover Hoover up the inside of the 45:31
school computers so thankfully I managed 45:33
to get away without getting suspended 45:35
from school you you you see I was such a 45:37
badass I was I was really cool as you 45:39
can tell you're smoking cigarettes 45:42
exactly that was so cool is this a 45:44
private school or public it was a public 45:45
grammar school so it's like a selective 45:48
public school okay yeah how did you know 45:49
you were smart when you were younger you 45:52
said you knew you were smart 45:54
did I know I was smart I mean uh I could 45:58
I could get good grades without having 46:01
to work too hard for it and I saw that 46:03
like the kids around me were really 46:05
struggling and I seemed to not and I was 46:06
like huh I I I don't think I told myself 46:08
that oh it's cuz I'm 46:10
smart I that I think that's a a 46:11
realization I made off to the 46:14
fact what do you what do you what do you 46:16
believe is the hardest thing you've 46:18
worked 46:19
[Music] 46:20
on good question what's the hardest 46:21
thing I've worked on probably this book 46:24
went to medical school yeah I mean 46:28
honestly like Med medical schools is 46:30
isn't that hard like once you get in 46:32
like it's quite hard to get in but if 46:34
you have really good grades it's it's 46:35
not that hard to get in it's hard to get 46:36
in if you don't have good grades now 46:38
you're then you're fighting an uphill 46:39
battle but I had like amazing grades and 46:40
I prepared for the interviews and stuff 46:42
like I was going to get in it would have 46:44
been weird if I didn't get in given 46:46
those unfair advantages that I had once 46:48
you're in medical school it's not that 46:50
hard because there's a lot of support 46:52
you've got all friends around you 46:53
everyone's trying to do well it's really 46:54
hard to fail like you have to kind of 46:56
try to flunk out at least at least in 46:58
the UK 47:00
um and so there have been very few 47:03
things that I've like like failed at as 47:05
such and very few things that I've i' 47:08
I've felt like I had to really level up 47:11
and really step up to get good at and 47:14
honestly this book while trying to 47:16
juggle the business and everything else 47:18
that was going on in life just honestly 47:19
making the time to just write every day 47:22
or find this find this period of Sol you 47:24
just focus on writing and trying to 47:26
craft a thesis that felt a bit novel and 47:28
trying to do the research at the same 47:30
time it was like writing a really long 47:31
thesis well I mean like a PhD program is 47:32
three years and you end up with like a 47:34
60,000 word dissertation this is a 47:36
65,000 word dissertation from threeyear 47:38
like PhD program of like looking at 47:40
research papers and stuff while doing 47:42
that alongside running the business 47:43
honestly I would say writing this book 47:45
has been the hardest thing I've 47:46
done what you said you had unfair 47:47
advantages to get into medical school 47:50
yeah in that I had good grades and a 47:51
supportive family and stuff which a lot 47:53
of people don't which is why it's hard 47:56
to get in for a lot of people um do you 47:57
think your success is rep replicable 48:00
like other people can copy and get to 48:03
where you 48:04
are uh depends I I don't think someone 48:06
who is in medical school now could start 48:09
a YouTube channel in exactly the same 48:10
way that I did and do it because that 48:12
was six years ago times have changed but 48:14
if if if by success we mean Successful 48:16
YouTube channel and business around it 48:19
then yeah easily well well sorry not not 48:20
easily it's simple but not easy it's 48:24
simple in that the formula is pretty 48:26
obvious it's like find a way to create 48:28
useful educational videos once or twice 48:31
a week and just do it for seven 48:33
years it's not it's not that hard and 48:35
just aim to be a little bit better each 48:39
time even though that's unsustainable so 48:40
don't even do that forever because you 48:43
can't be BL better every time just focus 48:44
on being as useful as possible and sell 48:46
a course off the back of what people 48:48
asking are asking you for every now and 48:50
then like that's literally the formula 48:51
and anyone could do it like someone 48:53
listening to this right now now if they 48:54
really wanted to could teach themselves 48:56
a thing and then just make videos about 48:58
the thing now that they've taught 49:00
themselves the thing whatever the thing 49:01
is yeah and to do it for a very long 49:03
time it's like almost impossible to not 49:05
succeed with something if you do it for 49:08
long 49:10
enough and as you say million dollar 49:11
weekend people just quit too early yeah 49:14
there are so few people who make it past 49:16
100 videos there are so few podcasts 49:18
that make it past episode number three 49:20
even fewer that make it past episode 49:22
number 20 like for a podcast to get more 49:23
than 20 episodes oh man the person 49:25
making the podcast have been been a real 49:27
trooper like sticking it out I'm on 750 49:28
videos like it's it's it's not that hard 49:31
it's 49:35
just just got to make the videos every 49:36
week and just do it forever what kept 49:38
you sticking with it for seven years um 49:40
I think in the early days it was faith 49:43
and patience faith that something would 49:45
work out and patience that I'm willing 49:48
to wait until it does and enjoying the 49:50
process and trying and focusing on the 49:52
process rather than the outcome like I'm 49:53
just going to focus on making one video 49:55
a week and I know something good will 49:56
come of this I don't know what it is but 49:57
I have faith that something good will 49:59
come of this and then once the momentum 50:00
started like momentum then sustains the 50:02
thing it's it's like the the the the 50:05
effort at the start is sort of like 50:08
kindling the fire getting the fire 50:09
started but once the fire is going like 50:10
all you need to do is not screw it up 50:13
like but as the as the channel started 50:15
to gain momentum now it's like there's 50:16
new views and new comments and new likes 50:18
and all that stuff is motivating there's 50:19
money coming in it's like [ __ ] I'm 50:21
making $5 a day now man I could get my 50:23
myself a takeaway every day and YouTube 50:25
would I'm now making $50 a day $50 a day 50:27
I can literally eat forever and YouTube 50:30
would fund it now I'm making like 50:32
freaking $1,000 a day and it's 50:35
completely absurd and it's like all of 50:37
these things like start to snowball over 50:39
time then actually a conversation with 50:40
you three years ago where you were like 50:43
oh man you know you you've easily got a 50:44
$1 million business on your hands I was 50:46
like H 50:48
interesting let me see what products I 50:50
could sell which kind of sparked this 50:52
course creation thing which then took us 50:54
from 100K to a million in that year and 50:56
like that's cool there's momentum behind 50:57
that once something starts to be 50:59
successful all you have to do is not 51:01
screw it up and just sort of ride the 51:02
wave but to create the wave in the first 51:03
place requires the faith and the 51:06
patience that things will work out who 51:07
is the coolest channel that you that's 51:09
gone through your YouTuber Academy that 51:12
you're most proud 51:13
of so there is 51:15
a there's a friend of ours called Izzy 51:19
who Izzy cely who started her YouTube 51:21
channel as like her she started during 51:24
the YouTuber Academy like the course and 51:27
she she was also she was also medic a 51:30
medical student at the time um now 51:33
working as a doctor and she made videos 51:35
about like personal development and 51:38
stuff but she made a video about how to 51:39
learn Mandarin cuz she taught herself 51:41
Mandarin in like 6 months and that video 51:43
went viral and that was only video like 51:44
15 it took me 85 videos to go viral she 51:46
went viral on video number 15 and her 51:49
Channel's just crossed 500,000 51:50
subscribers and she's only made like 50 51:52
videos videos for context I got 1,000 51:55
subscribers when I made 52 videos and 51:58
she's got 500,000 subscribers with 50 51:59
with 50ish videos so she's just like 52:02
taken all the lessons that we teach in 52:04
the course and just sort of supercharged 52:05
them another like famous alumnus is 52:06
Chris Williamson he was on he was on 52:09
100,000 subscribers his channel was 52:11
called modern wisdom he didn't know 52:12
anything about YouTube he took the 52:14
course he leveled up his titles and 52:15
thumbnails rebranded to Chris Williamson 52:17
he's on 1.5 million now and just keeps 52:20
on climbing obviously he's put in loads 52:21
of work I cannot take any credit for his 52:23
success but 52:24
we have a nice video testimonial from 52:26
him where he's like man I was such a 52:27
noob and then I took the course and then 52:28
I knew how to do YouTube so I just 52:30
applied it to my podcast and so he's 52:32
he's blown up as 52:34
well um few things and then we'll uh go 52:35
get some sushi amazing you got to 52:38
YouTube but you you when we were talking 52:41
before walk me through every business 52:43
you've done okay not not in detail but I 52:45
think this is just such an interesting 52:48
thing we talked about experiment and 52:49
swings and I didn't realize how many 52:51
swings you took before you even got to 52:53
starting the YouTube stuff maybe like 52:54
the of of these things from when you got 52:56
going yeah okay so here are all the 52:59
businesses that I've tried to start 53:01
firstly when I was 13 I decided to start 53:03
a forum which was going to teach kids 53:06
how to be spies because I loved like the 53:09
Cherub and Alex Ryder books back in the 53:12
day and I was like okay this is a forum 53:13
we're going to teach teenagers how to 53:15
pick locks and how to do martial arts 53:16
and all that [ __ ] that was a total flop 53:18
obviously then it was trying to build 53:20
online games so I contacted blizzard I 53:23
contacted Nintendo I contacted a few 53:25
authors who admired and I kept on asking 53:27
for permission to turn their 53:29
intellectual property into games all of 53:30
them either ignored me or they said no 53:32
or they said sorry we've already sold 53:33
the movie rights and that comes with the 53:35
video game rights then I built a sort of 53:36
web design studio which was basically 53:38
just me as a 14-year-old in my bedroom 53:40
but I was a web design studio so I tried 53:42
to make money by Shilling myself to 53:44
friends and family and also on like 53:46
freelance marketplaces back in the day 53:48
and so I in total made like $300 across 53:50
like8 years from doing that so not very 53:53
much money at all business number four 53:55
that I attempted to start was uh a niche 53:57
affiliate marketing site so Starcraft 2 53:59
the video game had just come out and I 54:02
watched this online course on how to 54:04
make money on the internet with 54:05
affiliate marketing and there was this 54:06
guy selling a Starcraft to guide for 54:07
like $50 and the affiliate deal for that 54:10
was like 50% so if you sold his guide 54:12
you would get $25 so I tried making a 54:14
website where protos which is one of the 54:16
races in Starcraft 2 has protos build 54:18
orders was the SEO term I was trying to 54:20
rank for and I was like if I can just 54:22
make the build ERS for all the protos of 54:24
like in this or this is the order of 54:26
buildings that you place with order of 54:28
pylons and Order of nexuses and order 54:30
like the timings people are searching 54:31
for that [ __ ] people will read my 54:33
articles on wordpress.com they'll buy 54:34
the thing and I'll make $25 I made no 54:37
money from that that was business number 54:39
four or five I've forgotten where we are 54:40
then I decided to do a multi-level 54:42
marketing thing where Blockbuster video 54:44
at the time was doing an affiliate 54:47
system where if you got someone to sign 54:48
up for Blockbuster you would even if it 54:50
was just a free trial that they canceled 54:52
they'd pay $1250 and I was like sick I'm 54:53
in so what I did was I made one of these 54:56
websites where you could sign up to 54:58
Blockbuster and if you referred 25 other 55:01
people you would win a Xbox 360 or 55:03
something cuz we would make enough from 55:05
that affiliate commission I made $50 55:07
from that the way I made it is cuz one 55:09
of my friends had four sisters so he 55:10
signed up with all four of their credit 55:12
cards and I got $1250 time four so I 55:13
made £50 and I got that as a weird check 55:16
I I I was on a school trip and my mom 55:18
rang me up on she was like you've got 55:20
this weird check in the mail it's like 55:22
an electronic check that says Millions 55:23
zero hundreds of thousands zero tens of 55:25
thousands zero and it's like I I don't 55:28
know if you've seen these like 55:29
electronic programmatically generated 55:30
checks I was like tens five and so the 55:32
total is like0 0 Z $50 so I cashed that 55:35
check I was like yes I've made passive 55:38
income on the internet that was business 55:39
number five business number six was um I 55:41
tried to build another game after I knew 55:45
more about coding that game did not work 55:46
business number seven I think was the 55:49
one that finally succeeded and business 55:52
number seven was 55:54
when I made courses to help people get 55:55
into med school and I built a website 55:57
for that and I marketed nationally I did 55:59
some lead generation on forums and stuff 56:02
I was giving loads of helpful advice and 56:04
this was like when I was 19 the first 56:06
business I made when I was 19 when I 56:08
started at 13 at 19 suddenly it 56:10
succeeded in year 1 we made 10K year 2 56:12
we made 100K year 3 we made 150 and I 56:14
sold the business many years later and 56:16
that business led to the formation of my 56:18
YouTube channel which I guess was 56:20
business number eight and that's made me 56:21
multimillionaire so it's like were quite 56:23
a lot of shots of B for those first six 56:25
years oh along the way business 6 and a 56:27
half was like a you know soft software 56:29
as a service like for medical students 56:31
but it was within the branch of the 56:33
medal school thing where me and my 56:34
brother programmed an online question 56:36
bank with a subscription payment system 56:38
for helping people do practice questions 56:40
for these exams so I programmed all the 56:42
backend stuff I was watching tutorials 56:44
on like PHP and the LEL framework in my 56:46
lunch breaks as a medical student 56:48
watching this guy called Jeffrey way 56:49
who's a programmer just like screencast 56:51
how he was programming and this language 56:53
PHP and my brother was into programming 56:55
as well so he built the front end using 56:58
react which is another web framework and 56:59
so we combined forces and built this 57:01
thing together and that was making some 57:03
money there was quite a lot of shots at 57:04
bat and now I've been doing YouTube for 57:07
the last seven years so that's been my 57:09
main 57:10
focus the best business is the one that 57:11
works oops I 57:13
just oh well 57:16
the what what is you know now you said 57:20
you're a multimillionaire what is the 57:22
best part of being 57:23
oh the best part of being rich is the 57:28
freedom the freedom to not do [ __ ] that 57:31
I don't want to do and to do the stuff 57:34
that I do want to do the freedom to for 57:36
example I'm flying to Australia in a bit 57:40
it's a long flight I was like screw it 57:42
I'll just go business class like the 57:44
freedom to be able to do that is like I 57:46
would have never imagined millionaires 57:47
that would pay so much to fly business 57:49
class but I'm like you know what 57:51
actually I value comfort that's my money 57:53
dial you know to use REM sei's 57:55
terminology comfort and convenience so 57:57
let's go for it the freedom to be able 57:59
to quit my day job which you know I 58:00
quite enjoyed working as a doctor but 58:02
having the freedom to move away from 58:04
that to do the thing that I that really 58:06
lights me up which is to read write 58:07
learn and teach Ah that's incredible the 58:09
freedom to you know a friend s Bloom 58:12
invites me to go to Caro in Mexico for 58:15
like a week to hang out and I'm like 58:17
let's go I've got the time Freedom I've 58:19
got the money freedom to to be able to 58:20
do that and hang out with entrepreneurs 58:21
the freedom to just come to LA just to 58:23
hang out with people and to be on 58:24
people's podcasts and just make make 58:25
make friends be like you know I think I 58:27
might want to move to LA let's just 58:28
visit for a week and just see what 58:29
happens it's like the freedom to like 58:30
fly back to London on a moment's notice 58:35
just to be there for my mom's birthday 58:37
it's just so much so much freedom is 58:39
unlocked by having money as as you know 58:40
and that's like it's not about the 58:44
purchases I don't really buy anything 58:47
particularly fancy I buy camera bags 58:49
that's like my thing I was like finding 58:52
the perfect camera bag and I make sure I 58:53
have decent cameras but like there's 58:55
only so much you can spend on cameras 58:57
and camera bags before you physically 58:58
cannot spend anymore so like I don't 59:01
really buy anything I just have the 59:03
freedom to go places and do things that 59:04
a lot of other people don't have the 59:07
freedom to purely because they don't 59:08
have enough money how much have you 59:10
spent on your camera gear because as I 59:12
walked into your hotel room with where 59:13
you have like decent amount of camera I 59:15
was like wow how much have you spent on 59:16
Tech yeah probably I don't know a few 59:17
tens of thousands maybe in my life the 59:21
camera gear that I have with me I 59:24
probably carry about 15K worth of camera 59:26
gear with me he doesn't carry it with 59:28
him by the way yeah I don't carry with 59:30
me his Security Guard Security yeah um 59:32
yeah again there's only so much like 59:35
yeah you could go for the 50k RED 59:37
cameras but then they're really heavy 59:38
and really bulky Sony A7 S3 like sick 59:40
3,000 camera really really really good 59:43
and like the lenses I have on them are 59:46
not even the expensive ones cuz these 59:47
the cheap ones are lighter and I'm 59:48
optimizing for weight and size and no 59:50
one can tell the difference between a 59:52
1.8 $1 lens and a 1.2 G Master lens like 59:53
literally no one can tell the difference 59:56
and so I might as well save the two 59:58
grand save the one extra 1 kg and just 59:59
have the have a cheap ass lens so I like 00:02
finding those optimizations of like 00:04
what's the what's the upper limit to how 00:07
much is reasonable to spend on this 00:09
thing and all in terms of like the size 00:11
and the weight to that this thing will 00:13
get me you started a business recently 00:14
we're got I'm going to finish up because 00:16
we have sushi time soon shout out kin 00:17
Nori you're blow your mind be awesome 00:19
how's your keyboard I saw you launch 00:22
your keyboard I right here yeah how's 00:24
the keyboard launch how that go that was 00:25
interesting I was like surprised yeah it 00:27
didn't go very well um it sold I think a 00:30
few tens of units like tens of thousands 00:32
or tens no tens like actually tens um 00:35
we've I think we have about a thousand 00:38
either either a few hundred or a couple 00:42
of thousand in stock I don't really know 00:43
like the team deals with that 00:45
um I we liked I I like the idea of 00:50
building a tech brand of being a able to 00:53
build productivity Tech like the the 00:54
perfect backpack the perfect keyboard 00:56
the perfect Journal stuff that I would 00:58
actually use on a daily basis um and so 01:00
we thought [ __ ] it let's just do it and 01:02
we haven't really tried very hard to 01:06
Market it like we only just briefly 01:07
mentioned it on Instagram because like 01:08
we were promoting our YouTube of course 01:09
on Black Friday and that did $514,000 of 01:11
sales in like three days which was 01:13
pretty cool and so we were like we don't 01:14
want to promote this keyboard too hard 01:16
also we're promoting the book so we're 01:18
like you know what let's just kind of 01:19
chill launch it I don't really have any 01:21
expectations it's be on Amazon as well 01:23
the company we're working with is pretty 01:25
confident that worst case scenario the 01:27
stock will sell slowly over the next 5 01:29
years so hopefully we're not going to 01:30
lose money on it but I just like the 01:32
idea of building a Cool Tech brand so 01:33
all of this camera gear and stuff that I 01:35
buy I can actually build our own version 01:37
of it and sell that and that to me seems 01:39
pretty cool um it's a bit of a bet um 01:41
not sure how successful it's going to be 01:44
but we're going to give it a go and and 01:45
try it out and I think it's kind of you 01:47
it's kind of the same message that you 01:49
had earlier which is you tried a lot of 01:50
things some work some don't but you keep 01:51
trying yeah we've tried some many things 01:53
within this within this YouTube business 01:54
as well tried so many different niches 01:56
of content tried so many different ways 01:57
of doing courses tried so many 01:58
iterations of our YouTuber Academy I was 02:00
like eventually we landed on something 02:02
that worked and even when something 02:03
works you have to adapt it over time 02:04
because what works today may not work 02:06
two years from now and so there's just 02:07
so much experimentation going on 02:09
throughout the whole thing to the point 02:10
that when you asked how did the launch 02:12
go I was kind of like huh how did the 02:13
launch go I guess objectively it didn't 02:14
go very well but I just haven't haven't 02:16
even vaguely thought about that cuz I'm 02:18
like oh yeah it's just one of the many 02:19
projects we're working on yeah it like 02:22
there there are some things that you do 02:24
where you push the door and it swings 02:26
right open like the YouTuber Academy 02:28
course cohort one man I thought seven 02:30
people would buy it 350 people bought it 02:32
more money I've ever seen than I've ever 02:34
seen in my life that completely changed 02:35
my life but like there was so like the 02:37
stars aligned to make that happen that 02:39
doesn't usually happen when you launch a 02:41
business for the first time it's not 02:42
usually the case that you just mention 02:44
it on Twitter and suddenly 300 people 02:45
sign up to pay ,000 for the thing that's 02:46
weird U and so I don't have the 02:48
expectation that like things are going 02:50
to be as effortlessly successful as the 02:52
YouTuber Academy was I'm just like yeah 02:53
we'll give it a go try it out see what 02:55
happens double down on the things that 02:57
are working think twice about the things 02:59
that are not if it's fun we might just 03:01
do it anyway even if it doesn't make 03:02
money and just hope for the 03:03
best can you teach everyone out there 03:06
some cool British words like three of 03:09
the coolest British words you know yeah 03:11
you called one you said one downstairs 03:12
to me like I was call it like we were 03:14
calling a chap or a lab you had a 03:16
different word like something cool oh 03:18
yeah what was it 03:20
um oh okay 03:22
the thing I said to you downstairs was 03:26
weter w t t r weter is British slang 03:27
it's it's like I I was ironically using 03:32
the word because it's a sort of toxic 03:35
masculinity kind of word it's like if if 03:36
someone's being a if for example you 03:38
were talking to me about your feelings 03:40
and I was like a stereotypical British 03:42
dude who didn't know anything about 03:45
feelings I'd be like oh mate you being 03:46
such a wetter like you're being a bit of 03:48
a bit of a [ __ ] a bit of a Sim whatever 03:50
the I don't know what the Americans 03:53
would say so wetter is a fun one um 03:54
another fun phrase from British English 03:56
is faf that mate writing this book was 03:59
such a faff mate launching a keyboard is 04:03
such a faff it's like a bit of a ball L 04:05
it's a bit of a bit of a hassle it's a 04:08
bit of like oh it's kind of annoying 04:09
yeah oh man it's such a faf oh it's it's 04:12
such a faf booking an Airbnb these days 04:14
but you got to pay the cleaning fees you 04:15
know all that kind of stuff and the 04:17
third one is can't be asked can't be 04:20
asked it's like a r s e d ARS you know 04:22
like ARS like bottom can't be asked 04:25
means I can't be bothered means like I 04:26
don't have the energy for it I can't be 04:28
asked you you shorten that to CBA if 04:29
you're like texting 04:32
someone wor now yeah so I I I can't be 04:33
asked to write another book because it's 04:36
too much of a faf and I'm not a wetter 04:38
it's like that would be a sentence that 04:41
has all three although it's slightly out 04:43
of context what has been the book you've 04:44
recommended the most O show your work by 04:46
Austin Cleon amazing amazing book 04:49
changed my life 2016 I read it that was 04:51
it takes literally minutes to read I 04:53
love show your work by atin Clon um it's 04:55
the book that convinced me that it's 04:56
okay to start a blog I've been wanting 04:59
to start a blog for years I was 05:00
struggled I had the fear of 05:02
starting uh and I I yeah I had the fear 05:03
of starting and that book took away my 05:06
fear of starting it helped me realize 05:07
that actually there is something really 05:09
nice about putting your work out there 05:10
on the internet and it's totally okay to 05:11
do and it's a good thing to do so thank 05:13
you Austin Clon I'll be forever in your 05:15
debt because if I hadn't started that 05:16
blog in 2016 I would not have started 05:17
the YouTube channel in 2017 so it's such 05:19
an easy book to gift it's like tiny so 05:22
that's number one actually recently 05:24
maybe uh the pathless path by Paul 05:26
Millard um he's also based in Austin 05:28
that's a self-published book um so he's 05:30
become a uh become a friend of mine and 05:32
my brothers so this is a book about like 05:35
you know he had a corporate Consulting 05:37
gig and quit his job to like do his own 05:38
thing and wasn't making that much money 05:40
but so it's sort of meditations and 05:43
musings around like life and money and 05:44
meaning and work and what does it really 05:46
mean to sort of do have freedom and 05:48
follow your passion and he sort of has 05:50
this idea of the pathless path or the 05:52
pathless path As Americans would say 05:54
like rather than the default path which 05:56
is like get a job work your way up the 05:58
pathless path versus like you know what 06:01
actually I'll do a bit of Consulting 06:03
here a bit of freelancing here and there 06:04
I'll make enough money to get by and 06:05
then I'll just sort of wander and 06:07
explore and spend loads of time in the 06:08
park and go to the beach and spend time 06:09
with the family and I just love it it's 06:12
it's a really good book last two 06:13
things you come in my experience of 2 06:16
few years now you really make me feel 06:20
that nice guys can finish first 06:22
don't I'm not being a wetter here dude 06:25
nice but I I truly believe like you're 06:27
maybe this is just a compliment I don't 06:31
know what the question is it was I guess 06:32
it was a question in a 06:33
statement I do think some people people 06:35
like oh I'm selling I'm taking from 06:37
someone else or I'm trying to get famous 06:39
so I like trying to take advantage and 06:41
climb up other people but I I feel I've 06:42
always admired how you you always seem 06:44
to do it in a genuine and carrying way 06:46
sorry being I'm being a w yeah you're 06:50
being a 06:51
w 06:53
but it's just like I don't know I don't 06:55
know what my question is there I was 06:57
just I was thinking about it when I was 06:58
you know putting together the show and 07:00
the something about like just being 07:01
happy I'm assuming you're happy hate 07:03
when people do that like they leave the 07:05
other person you seem you're enjoying it 07:06
you seem like you're wanting to help 07:09
others and and smile and along the way I 07:10
think this is the thing with having like 07:14
just not very ambitious goals like if 07:15
someone asked me what are your goals for 07:18
the book you know part of me would say 07:19
oh I'd love if I the New York Times best 07:21
set list and stuff but like really 07:22
what's my goal for the book to write a 07:25
book I'm proud of and hope that some 07:26
people find it helpful what's my goal 07:27
for YouTube honestly to just being able 07:29
to keep on doing it that's a fairly non- 07:31
ambitious goal I'm not like we're going 07:33
to go for 10 million subscribers next 07:34
year guys I'm just like I just want to 07:36
find a way to keep the process fun and 07:37
just do it for a long time because I 07:39
found that when you keep the process fun 07:41
you just do it for a long time good 07:42
things will just happen and so when 07:43
that's the goal it means that I'm not 07:46
like trying to sort of message loads of 07:49
people to sort of feel hey man can I 07:53
come on your podcast I really want to 07:55
promote my book it's like if they offer 07:56
great I'll I'll I'll send an email I'll 07:58
I'll I'll make the ask once but like I 08:01
don't I don't need to I don't need to 08:03
feel like I'm begging for this thing 08:05
similarly I don't need to feel like I'm 08:07
competing with anyone I don't need to 08:08
feel you know we have a very liberal 08:09
money back guarantee on our stuff if you 08:11
don't like our [ __ ] we'll just give you 08:12
your money back we don't care we don't 08:13
need the money like who gives a [ __ ] you 08:14
know all of that's like what I try and 08:15
tell my team it's like and they and they 08:17
now get it they're like if anyone's even 08:19
vaguely unhappy we're just giving their 08:20
money back like it's like when you have 08:21
a high margin business where the goal is 08:24
to just keep on doing the thing you 08:25
don't need to clamber over anyone to get 08:27
there cuz it's so easy to just stay 08:29
there by just being nice and being 08:31
helpful and trying to help people out 08:32
and it's it's weird it's like the Good 08:35
Karma that I've been putting out into 08:37
the like three years ago I wrote I made 08:38
a video about jett's book think like a 08:40
monk and I hung out with jhett last time 08:42
we were in LA and he took me and you 08:44
know my team out to dinner uh to lunch 08:46
super nice guy and he was like yeah you 08:49
know I really appreciate the fact you 08:51
made that video about my book I was like 08:52
oh I didn't even realize he'd seen it 08:53
but he he'd seen that three years ago 08:55
and it's like the good karma for that 08:57
video it's like coming back now where 08:58
he's like yeah if you want to move to LA 09:00
let me know I've got lawyers got 09:01
contacts and what I'm just finding is 09:02
like people in this industry are just so 09:04
nice like everyone who's a Creator is 09:06
just so nice in the especially in the 09:07
educational space I don't really know 09:09
many entertainment people but it's like 09:10
you know I was on Louis house podcast 09:12
you know mentioned him a couple of times 09:14
in videos and stuff and now we're mates 09:15
you know had Matthew hussy on my podcast 09:17
he lives in La now we mes it's just like 09:18
good [ __ ] just keeps on happening 09:20
because I think 09:22
it's like you know the whole thing is 09:24
focus on the process focus on enjoying 09:26
it and be helpful to people along the 09:27
way and that's I think one of the 09:29
secrets to success if you can call it 09:31
that 09:34
up nice 09:35

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oh my God by the it's just so much nicer
asking the
questions having to answer how do how
does it feel to you be on the other side
so before this show Ali interview me for
my book coming out yeah how does it feel
on the the other side Oli I I quite like
being a podcast guest to be honest I
feel like I much prefer being a podcast
guest than making a YouTube video
because if you ask me a question it's
like if someone asks me a question I can
respond and I'm like in in flow I'm in
the zone all that kind of fun stuff but
if I'm just talking directly to a camera
and there's no one else in the room and
there's no energy then it feels a lot
harder so I'm kind of comparing this to
what it's like filming my own YouTube
video and this is just way nicer and
there's no response when you're filming
your own YouTube yeah exactly just the
freaking camera and just
like is that how you is that how you
feel yeah all the time all the time
what's the question you you wish people
ask you when they're like oh you're like
oh just give me that one question dude I
can't wait
oh do I have a question I wish people
ask me I find it flattering that people
would uh want to ask me anything
anything at all
um yeah is there a question I wish
someone would ask
me I don't know I've never thought about
it but mate that's a good question I'm
stumped I have no idea what where
someone would ask me take your
time
I wish someone would ask me something
like what's the last book you've read
that had an impact on you or something
like that because because I I always
have a new book that I've read that
that's had an impact on me so I feel
like that would be a a good way of me to
re surface the things that I've been
thinking about myself um
yeah what's the last book you've read
and that had an impact on you the last
book I read That's had an impact on me
is a weird one it's uh The Strangest
Secret by Earl Nightingale have you
heard have you heard of this guy I've
heard of it he's old school like radio
stuff he's like an old school 1950s us
radio guy who was motivational self-help
Guru back in the day um and the he wrote
he recorded this audio program in 1956
which is like the secret to success and
his like grandchildren turned it into a
Kindle ebook which I read
recently and it's really good I mean the
first half of it is really good but
basically this is the first book I've
read that has fully sold me on the idea
of setting goals basically the first
half of the book is is just like look
the secret to success in all areas of
life is basically you got to know what
you want and if you just know what you
want and like write it down somewhere
and just have a destination in mind then
everything else will just work out
everything else will take care of itself
as long as you know what you want and
I'm like huh that's quite nice he's just
basically saying that in a bunch of
different ways just know what you want
and so I've been seeing this a lot like
when when I help people with their
YouTube channels or their businesses and
stuff
the the question I always find myself
asking is what's what's the goal like
what are we actually trying to do here
because people will often come to me and
I I used to have this thing when I when
I would speak to my own coaches and my
own mentors and I'd be like Oh I'm
struggling with this this this and I'm
not sure whether to X or Y or Zed and
they would say okay let's zoom out a
little what's the goal and I'd always be
like stumped by that question because
I'm like I don't freaking know like um
make money have fun help people all this
kind of stuff and I never really had
Clarity on what my goal was and like
where I was actually trying to get to
but now that I'm kind of more in that
Coach position where I'm helping people
out and mentoring them and now that I've
read this book I'm like oh it's just so
helpful when you know what someone's
destination is because then you can help
them figure out like all of the chess
moves that would take to get there but
if someone doesn't know what they want
then it's like you know I was speaking
to a friend um a mutual friend of ours
earlier and she was like yeah I don't I
don't know what to make videos about I
was like okay I but like what's what's
the goal what are we trying to do here
and based on that we can brainstorm some
things to make videos about but it's
just H it's so so good figure out what
the goal is and just write it down
somewhere it seems in life it's easier
to get what you want but figuring out
what we want is harder yeah it's so hard
to figure out what you actually want and
there are so many people that I know and
I have this problem myself where it's
like struggling to figure out what to do
with my life is like a phrase that you
know I I often used to throw around and
I think take taking the time to Fig
actually figure that out it's not it's
not that hard to figure out because I I
think I think one of the problems is
that people feel like once they have
quote figured it out then it's a fixed
destination and they can't change but
actually the whole point of figuring it
out is just like setting yourself a
direction like the journey is what
matters but you can't have a journey
without a destination in mind that's not
to say you're going to be fixated on
that destination but at least it tells
you what direction to go in um there was
a thing that one of my mentors in
medical school said to me once ages ago
and he said this was around the time he
was like he was he asked me what
specialty I wanted to specialize in and
I was like I don't know I'm only in my
fourth year I've got another three years
to decide and blah blah blah and he was
like sure like you don't have to decide
right now but it's much easier to steer
a moving ship than a stationary ship and
I was like huh so he was like I'd
recommend you just pick something and
just go for it and then change course
along the way and I guarantee it's going
to be a good method and I was like okay
cool so I decided to go for plastic
surgery like reconstructive surgery and
then opportunities started coming my way
I started well I started seeing like oh
there's a conference there there's this
thing there I can attend this thing
there I could design that website for
that person there who I know is
connected to this like plastic surgery
organization started connecting with all
these people and I'm like all of a
sudden the universe trans conspired to
help me meet other people who are
plastic surgeons for me to realize that
okay I probably don't want this but it's
also really cool but what I do want is
this thing and by virtue of just taking
action and moving in that direction
something you talk about in billion
dollar weekend good things just started
to happen whereas when I was static and
I was like oh I need to figure it out
it's like sometimes figuring out where
you want to go is a case just about just
committing to the thing and not over
fixating on like oh I really need to
think so hard it's about where do you
feel you might like to go cool let's
start going in that direction and we can
always change course along the way you
got me remembering I did the best
boyfriend ever
strategy I was dating women this is two
women I dated years ago many years ago I
didn't know if it was a good
relationship I think all of us have done
that like I don't know if it's a good
job I don't know if it's a good thing I
was like well I'm just going to act like
it's the best relationship I've ever
been in and I'm going to treat them the
best they've ever had nice and then
after and I said I'm do for three months
and this is for two different women and
both times after I was the best I've
ever been like I can't I'm like this is
the best you're going to get out of me I
was like oh it's not a good relationship
for me I broke up but at least I
committed to being the best in that
relationship and then was able to make
that decision yeah it's pretty helpful
that sounds very helpful uh your book so
you just said the book that impacted you
the most the ear night Andale The
Stranger secre what do you want people
telling someone else about Feelgood
productivity o great question um what I
would love people to tell other people
about about feel good productivity is
man this book really taught me that the
secret to being productive is to find a
way to feel good is to find a way to
enjoy what you're doing um and I think
just that like that that is the core
message of the book if you find a way to
enjoy what you are doing you will be
more productive you'll be more creative
you'll be less stress you'll have more
energy to give to your work but also to
every other area of your life you'll be
able to sustain it for longer let find a
way to enjoy what you're doing that's
not to say only do things that you enjoy
that's very different because the only
people that only do things that they
enjoy are actually I don't know anyone
in the world who only does things that
they enjoy even people who are really
rich don't only do things that they
enjoy because we all have to do things
that at times do feel like work
sometimes as much as you enjoy it
writing a book or like going to the gym
or even spending time with your family
does feel like a bit of a chore even if
you enjoy it people who have kids say
that sometimes it's not it's not always
enjoyable so I'm not saying you have to
always enjoy it and you can only do
things that are fun I'm saying there's
always a way to take whatever you're
doing doing and approach it in a way
that makes it feel a little bit better
and if that's the one thing people take
away from it that will be that'll be a
win for me there's so I've read it and I
recommend it oh thanks there's a lot in
it yeah there's a lot there's and I love
how you have I think it's Labs or
experiments experiments yeah experiments
and there's just like there's a lot in
there what do you think is the one that
you've noticed as people have been
reading your book and passing the book
around that people are like this is the
one I'm like I'm going to think about
this
[Music]
more in in the first chapter the first
chapter is play and there's a really
simple experiment that you can try there
and it's just like a simple question to
ask yourself whenever you're doing
something that feels like a bit of a
grind which is to ask yourself what
would this look like if it were
fun like Tim Ferris has the has a
variant of this question what would this
look like if it were easy but my version
is what would this look like if it were
fun if you're struggling with studying
for that exam or writing that essay or
making that presentation or starting
that like writing that landing page
whatever the thing might be what would
it look like if it were actually fun and
normally if you ask that question
people can always come up with five or
10 different ways the thing that they're
currently doing could be made a little
bit more fun maybe it's background music
maybe it's doing it with friends maybe
it's like going down to the local coffee
shop and having a coffee and doing it on
your laptop from there rather than
sitting in your office like there's so
many different ways that we could
potentially find of making things fun
but it's a question we don't often ask
and that simple question is a thing that
seems to resonate with quite a lot of
people how did it feel to write the
book
H it felt
like it felt enjoyable at times it felt
like a grind at times it felt like a
battle with impostor syndrome a lot of
the time it felt
like
um scary I'm doing this thing that feels
scary because putting a book out into
the world feels like a scary thing
that's going to open me to you know bad
reviews and criticism and stuff it feels
scary it felt scary cuz it's like what
if it doesn't sell as many copies as
like I don't know I would like it to
sell even though I don't really know how
many copies I'd like it to sell um but
it also felt quite joyful at times along
the way where it was like when I was
researching something and things
suddenly came together and I was like oh
that's it like all this reading I've
been doing this is the one thing that is
like TI ties it all together so there
were parts of it that were super fun
parts of it that were less fun um but
now that I've done the process once I'm
excited to write feature books because I
know what I would do differently next
time oh so okay so I'm the oppos I'm one
and done I'm like this is my Best Book
it's the only book million dollar
weekend Oh interesting I want to write a
book every few years oh wow and then so
what did you what would you change or
what did you regret in this process yeah
I won't say if there's anything I
regretted because I learned from the
whole thing but what I would change is I
would have the title and the hook in
mind from day one before I even begin
writing um I
would
the way I want to approach future books
is I want to I want to have the title
sorted I want to I want to have the sort
of one paragraph sales page completely
nailed I want to send that to hundreds
of people to be like is this a grand
slam offer right now just just purely
based on the title and the one and the
one paragraph sales pitch once I know
that that is a grand slam offer and the
thing that the the core concept of the
book seems to resonate and people are
like yeah I would definitely buy that
then I would explode that into chapter
into chapter headings and then I would
AB test the [ __ ] out of those chapter
headings to test with the audience to
make sure it's like here are 50
different chapter titles what are the
top five that you'd be most interested
in reading about and getting the data
from the audience to be like hm if I
want to write a fitness book if and
maybe there's a chapter on like the most
productive ways to stretch maybe that
suddenly gets 80% of the votes and I'm
like oh okay cool interesting that's the
thing that people want to hear and then
I would approach that as the title of a
YouTube video CU I'm very good at making
YouTube videos and I've but I've never
written a book so this was a lot of like
uh trying to learn the thing from
scratch and working with the editors and
so much back and forth but I know how to
make a YouTube video so if I approached
it as like this book is 10 different
YouTube videos which all then you know
all the research I'm then doing for
those videos is for a YouTube video
where I test the ideas I turn it into
Twitter thread I test the ideas a bit
more I take the stuff that's good that's
resonating I put it into the book I
would do so much more of like a start
upy lean start upy kind of way of
writing a book this one was was very
different this one was a lot of just
like in the weeds in the research papers
in my own head um and I I would do
things differently next time I'm I'm I'm
happy with the way it turned out but it
was a lot more of a painful process then
I think I hope the second one will be
what was your productivity system to put
together the
book or approach yeah it changed a lot
so it took three years from start to
finish to get this book out how long has
a YouTube video take three
minutes yeah so it took three years so
in that time time I learned a lot about
myself I learned a lot about
productivity at the start I thought that
oh I mean how hard can it be it's like
I'm I type pretty fast I write I can
write 2,000 words a day a book is 60,000
words that's a one month job easy a book
is just a collection of blog posts
anyway right like you know books can
just be sumarized in the blog post like
all the only thing that a book is is
just a few points padded out with a load
of fluff th those were the stories I
told myself and so I wrote 2,000 words
in day one day two day three day four
and 8,000 words in I run out of material
I was like I've literally written
everything I can possibly think of and
I've got like 8,000 words out of a
65,000 word book uhoh this is bad um and
that was when I started I I dove into
the research myself and I started like
reading papers and stuff and coming
across like way more stuff I think
initially I tried to delegate that out I
was like oh I don't need to be doing the
research myself let me hire a research
assistant so I hired a research
assistant and he was really helpful but
it it was not the same as me doing the
research myself cuz like I've got the
Science Background I literally did a
degree in psychology where I was
literally reading research papers and
writing essays about them that was where
I ranked first in my university for that
particular year that particular degree
because I just love this [ __ ] and I was
trying too hard to delegate that process
away but now I realized that actually me
being in the weeds with it was really
fun really exhilarating and led to so
many more insights than Outsourcing it
to an
assistant and so your productivity was
it how did evolved so you wrote
everything in 8,000 words and then how
did that shift over the next few years
yeah then it was a lot of research a lot
of outlining I think the there was
another thing that might be useful for
people which is there were periods of
time where I was writing the book in
parallel with other things I was like
okay I'm going to do two hours of
writing in the morning and then I'm
going to do my this then I'm going to do
that then I'm going to do this and I
made very little progress on those those
weeks but there were weeks where I was
like the only thing I'm doing this week
is writing the next five
chapters that's literally the only thing
or the only thing I'm doing for the
whole day is to work on work on this
chapter and I'm going to get it done by
the end of the day those were the days
where I made tons and tons of progress
now people say that like oh but a a
writer only gets four productive hours
in a day so I was like okay if I spend
the first four hours writing that's good
but what I didn't realize is that you
got to take procrastination into account
got to take the screwing around into
account the sort of getting set up
getting a coffee going to the toilet
getting set up getting into the swing of
things and on days where I had anything
on the calendar other than writing I
didn't seem to make much progress but on
days where I the only thing I had to do
was just work on the book I made loads
of progress cuz I got into that head
that head space and I think this Works
differently for different people there
are some people who do a really good job
of like making small amounts of progress
consistently with a large number of
things but I think for me what I've
realized is going all in and fully
focusing on one thing at a time is way
more effective for me personally than
trying to do multiple things in parallel
as I was reading your book and I what I
noticed is there's just so many
different things you encourage people to
think about and test out experiment to
find the way that they're productive I
was trying to think about what is
productivity because on one hand I wrote
down productivity for me it's speeding
up your your track speed like that's my
first thing always and then I was like
okay that's is that productive and and I
was just trying to think about what is
productivity yeah for me productivity
is doing the things that matter to you
in a way that's intentional effective
enjoyable and sustainable there like
quite quite a lot that goes into it so
doing the things that matter to you in a
way that's intentional like you're
intentionally doing them you're
effectively doing them as in not like
screwing around you're having fun along
the way and it's sustainable and I think
if we can get to those things that is
when we're truly productive because yeah
you could be productive with like you
know I was big in keyboard short cuts
and typing speed and all that crap but
if you're working on the things that
don't really matter then all of that
productivity is wasted so there's some
element of like intentionality and
meaningfulness that's important here
yeah similarly if you're sprinting and
doing the thing and burning out that's
also not productive so it's it's got to
be sustainable and like the the whole
the whole thesis of the book and partly
of your book is that the process should
be enjoyable because if the process is
enjoyable you're just going to be more
productive but it's also going to be
more fun more sustainable more
energizing all the good things will
happen if you can find a way to enjoy
the process itself so to me productivity
is like all of those things which some
people would say is cheating because I'm
being I'm defining productivity very
holistically but that's how I think
about it so it's my book I can do what I
want yeah who is someone in your
audience or your team that you've seen
that you've changed and help them
through productivity what's what's a
story that comes to
mind one of one of the guys on our team
his name is Tintin he's our YouTube
producer and he also loves all these
like productivity books prent
development books and he's read he's
read a lot of them and so he was really
helpful in giving feedback on the early
drafts and he just sort of read a draft
in like like a year ago or something and
like six months later he he just said to
me you know that first chapter I've been
actually I've been actually applying
that in those insights for the last six
months months and it's completely
changed the way that I approach my he
he's doing a side business approach my
side business I was like oh how is that
because the first chapter is about play
it's about approaching work in the
spirit of play he was like yeah you know
just a Post-It note what would this look
look like if it were fun the daily
Adventure it's like that's a framing
where every at the start of every day
you ask yourself what is today's
adventure going to be and that's just
like a more fun way of asking what's my
biggest most important task for the day
and tinon asks himself this question
every day and he's like it's just
completely moved the needle for my
productivity and also for my happiness
to frame work in this way and I was like
oh that's cool it's nice that like he
read it and six months later the Insight
was still still holding strong it's
um I don't think people realize like
what it takes to make a
book I feel I bond with with other
authors so much of like the pain of the
process and like how long and audious it
is I hit up Tim Ferris I've never I know
20 years and I was like yeah I'm going
to do a book I'm thinking about it for a
long time he's like it's hard yeah it's
really and there's only there's kind of
one
shot you know you do the YouTube video
like we do YouTube or tweets or emails
okay video didn't work I'm gonna do
another video I'm do another like
there's a proposal to a book to copy
editing to to being published and um
it's just yeah it's such a process I'm
sure you you've experienced a lot of
highs and lows as you were saying and uh
I don't know I I do know some of these
things in life I've been thinking about
this it's like what's the hardest thing
I can do and then do that doesn't mean
it's always going to be easy but like
this sounds like this book for you is a
real
challenge yeah I feel like I learned a
lot through the process and even if it
doesn't it's not a commercial success I
am still I'm I'm proud of what we
collectively have created as in me and
our editors who have been amazing
throughout the whole process and our
research assistants um and even if it's
not a commercial success I've learned so
much along the way about how to write a
book and how to put research together
and how to kind of the marketing side of
things and all of that stuff like yeah
well it was kind of when we were talking
earlier today I thought was really
powerful and really interesting is that
you started your main YouTube channel at
what age uh 24 24 yeah you were
commenting how I think at 16 you did web
design and then you had an affiliate
site then you did all these things and
you started all this stuff that
eventually LED you to get to YouTube at
24 which has led you to success with it
I think you would say it's success by 29
and it's getting going yeah you know we
talked about starting and same with this
book it's interesting you you said
something kind of in passing it's like I
do believe a lot of us have fixed
mindsets I read a book and that's the
book which for me I'm happy with one
book but this is your first of many yeah
right and the fact that you got it going
LED you to think about all right well
how do I want to do it differently next
time that's such a powerful lesson
throwing out there yeah which is if you
want to get somewhere great just
starting out whether it's writing
whether it's content whether whatever it
is and then now in the future you know
how you want to improve that exactly
yeah and you know one of the things I I
love is you know another book I've read
recently is the practice by Seth Goden
it's really good basically it's the
whole book is just lots of different
ways of saying focus on the process
don't worry about the outcome um and his
whole thing is like if you making one
thing one blog post every week it means
that you're not that attached to each
individual blog post it's like ah it's a
bit of a dud that's okay I'll do I'll do
another one next week and again and
again and again and again and I think
having that approach is actually very
useful for writing a book as well cuz
this was a threee long project but like
Ryan holiday you know WR writes books
every one to one to two years and some
of them are less bestselling than others
like courage is calling no one cares
about courage but discipline is Destiny
man people love discipline or obstacle
is the way is you know still still
selling ego the enemy is still selling
but no one really reads trust me I'm
lying or like very few people read The
Perennial seller even though very good
read all of them oh
nice and it's like you know he's he's
just prolific he's just producing all
this stuff and
it's in a way I I admire that approach
to Creation I think yes there's there's
a lot of the the the counter example is
like James CLA has got one book and has
sold more copies than all of Ryan
holiday's 15 books combined but
also I don't know I think there's
something really nice about the constant
creative act of learning researching
synthesizing and putting something out
there and saying hey you know this is
what I've done take it or leave it I
hope I hope you find it helpful and
doing that a lot and to me that feels
like a good way of living life um it's
not it's not everyone's cup of tea but I
can imagine myself at 50 continuing to
write books and continuing to learn new
things and being like yeah I want to
write the next book how do you figure
out what to be productive
on yeah this comes down to that
conversation around goal setting it's
like figuring out where you want to go
the way I approach it is
like a few different ways so essentially
in in each of the major areas of my life
so work health and relationships I have
a a goal in mind or two or three of like
okay this is where I want to go and I I
like the idea of annual planning of like
okay I I in in the book I call it the 12
month celebration 12 months from now you
and I are sitting here we're having a
conversation what are we celebrating
what are we celebrating in our health
what are we celebrating in our
relationships for me in health what I'd
love to be oh no a man last 12 months
I've been hitting the gym three or four
times a week and I've done that without
fail even when I was traveling even when
I was ill I was just hitting the gym at
Le you know fairly consistently and now
check me out check out the biceps I
would love to be celebrating that with
you 12 months from now cool that that
tells me that that's something I I'd
like to be productive in I'd like to
find a way to make the process of going
to the gym uh intentional effective
enjoyable and sustainable nice when it
comes to relationships you know this
time next year I'd love to be married
I'd love to be having a kid on the way
you're going to you're going to be a dad
by this time next year and we're both
going to be celebrating how present we
are as like as partners and as fathers
and all this kind of stuff that would be
really cool so that's now I can be
productive towards that it's like okay
that's my goal what does that actually
mean it means I should probably I I want
to do like two date nights a week with
the girlfriend fiance wife whatever the
situation is uh I want to make sure I
finish work by 500 P p.m. every day so
that I can spend time with the family I
want to make sure I do my workouts in
the morning when maybe the kid is asleep
like all all of that kind of stuff by
knowing that by knowing the thing we are
trying to celebrate 12 months from now
we can then figure out the how to
getting there and to me that involves
figuring out okay what does it look like
on the calendar what do it look like on
the to-do list like what are the what
are the mental models I need to be
holding in my mind to act to act in a
way that will make it very likely that
I'll be celebrating with you 12 months
from now and then in the book in the
Final Chapter we talk about like the
long-term the medium-term time Horizon I
I I really enjoy thinking about like
what would you want people to say at
your funeral as like a way a sort of
like who's the sort of person you'd like
to be uh what would you like written in
your orbituary so I wrote my own
orbitary the other day just I was doing
the exercise and it's quite helpful for
figuring out what I wanted to do with my
life cuz I'm like if you if you figure
out like what would you like people to
write about you when you're dead about
like your accomplishments your
achievements the sort of person you were
gives you a pretty good idea of like
okay cool am I going in is is that in is
is that the path I'm on or do I need to
change course a little bit so there's
all sorts of ways to figure out what you
should be productive in I think part of
it is about thinking long term and part
of it is thinking about like the
different what do I actually want in
these different areas of life M cuz once
you figure out what you want it's like
okay you can then figure out the plan to
get there but I think a lot of people
struggle with figuring out what they
want what do you in in terms of being
productive what are you saying no
to yeah these days I say no to anything
that doesn't take me towards the things
that I know that I want um and it's
going to it's going to keep keep coming
back to that so these days what I say
often what I say no to is um something
that helps me make money but that where
the process of that doesn't feel good so
for example uh if it's a sponsorship
deal with a brand that I don't actually
use I'd say no to that because I don't
need the money I don't I don't want the
money anymore if it's like hey can you
travel to this random country when
you're in the middle of a vacation with
your girlfriend to give a random talk
and we'll pay you 50k for it I'm like uh
actually I'm at a point in my life where
I can comfortably say no to that so
things like that where I I want to make
sure that the things I'm doing are not
I'm not just doing for the money cuz
doing doing something just for the money
is a terrible reason to do something
once you're at a point where you don't
where you no longer need to be
optimizing for making money once you've
got your family's basic needs met what
anything what stood out to you about the
obituary that you wrote for
yourself what stood out about it was
that
um like I I I wrote something to the
effect of Ali abdal was one of the world
well was one of the greatest teachers in
the world he throughout throughout his
Decades of creating writing and videos
and stuff he he like harmoniously
integrated loads of disciplines to help
people live their best life in terms of
Body Mind heart and soul and I as I was
writing that like this idea of Body Mind
heart and soul came to me I was like huh
that's interesting I must have heard it
from somewhere because it didn't just
come to me spontaneously but like like
Body Mind heart and soul that actually
feels pretty good like productivity sort
of mind I want to do a book about
Fitness at some point once I go on my
own fitness journey that's about the
body heart I mean that's relationships I
want to do relationships book at some
point and soul is like
spirituality I want to write a
spirituality book I was like huh that's
pretty cool like if that is my body of
work in the next like a few decades Body
Mind heart and soul and then my YouTube
content or whatever platforms are around
then podcast you know I'm fairly
platform agnostic the stuff that I teach
is about Body Mind heart and soul that's
freaking sick and I was like and now I
have this vision for like the sort of
body of work that I want to do and maybe
it'll change but at least for now I I
have this idea of like that's that's
kind of where I'm getting to and then
alongside it was like you know alongside
all this stuff while he was like being a
legend traveling around the world
teaching cool stuff he was always humble
always down to earth prioritized his
family took care of his health like his
kids and his grandkids were were with
him when he died peacefully in their
nice family home and it's like you know
keeping in mind that like that's the
thing I want to do for work doing all
this teaching you stuff around Body Mind
heart and soul but actually I want to
prioritize my family first and I want to
be there for my kids and for the wife
and for grandkids and all that stuff and
I don't want worldly success to come at
the expense of personal relationships so
that's the obituary and so that's a
pretty reasonable painting of the
destination I'm like great let's stop
moving in that direction I love that
yeah how come I I was looking at the
back of your book uh Feelgood
productivity and it said Dr Ali abdall I
was like oh [ __ ] he actually is a doctor
oh yeah forgot know I mean I know I've
been you a while how come you didn't put
it on the front of the
book I felt a bit uncomfortable putting
it on the front of the book because I'm
no longer practicing and I didn't want
the doctor thing to be a key part of the
story I I I want I want it's a key part
of the back story but it's not part of
the forward story it's like that was a
previous life so we put it in the back
of the book cuz it's kind of cool it's
like oh he's a doctor as well um but I
didn't want to put it at the front for
that reason but you you do include
stories about you know your opening of
the story is is you as a new medical
doctor and making a mistake yeah and
then there's stories throughout it about
your medical experience I was just kind
of like I forgot until I saw in the back
of the book yeah yeah it was it was a a
conscious decision this is why my
YouTube channel has never been called a
Dr Ali because I I when you when you
lead with that it's like it puts a
certain expectation and a certain
attachment to that identity which I
don't really want anymore and actually
was um I was interviewed on Dar CEO like
three years ago back when it was still a
small podcast two years ago and none of
that was about me being a doctor like he
didn't even mention I was a doctor and
the title of the podcast was the
productivity expert and I was like huh
interesting I've never I kind of like
that I've never I've never been called a
productivity expert that's cool and huh
I guess people people got a lot of value
from that and we didn't discuss medicine
at all cuz I think one of the stories I
told myself was if I'm not a doctor then
no one's going to listen to my stuff and
actually I'm not a doctor anymore I I've
left that behind and people still seem
to Vibe with my stuff so it's like great
that's quite liberating how do you think
more people can break free from
certificates oo yeah my brother's a
doctor as well and he always sees these
YouTubers Y and authors who are not
certified yep they have no certificate
to be a business Expert I mean you even
see people on YouTube like they're
teaching business they don't even have
businesses
yeah and so I I do think that's a shift
in society where a doctor will make 200
a YouTuber who was teaching about doctor
other things can make millions and it's
an interesting shift just in society
yeah I think the certificate things is
is is interesting obviously there are
some areas of life in which
certification is important like you
probably don't want your neurosurgeon to
be operating on you without the appr
like degree and license and certificate
but if
there's I don't know in a lot of other
areas like do if I wanted to hire a
guitar teacher do they need any
qualification other than they are good
at teaching guitar probably not maybe
there's guitar teacher qualifications
but I don't really care like can they
play and can they teach well it's like
that's what I'm judging them on there's
a the guy who taught me to play guitar
is called Justin Guitar he's on he's on
YouTube I followed his beginner's course
I have no idea what his qualifications
are but he's a good te teacher and I
liked his Vibe it's like who cares what
his his qualifications are and I think
um people who have built their career
and their life on credentials will
always find that difficult to stomach um
my mom really struggles with this um I
was telling her at one point about
Thiago for's course building a second
brain and her first question was what
are his qualifications and I was like I
have not the foggiest she was like what
which university did he go to I was like
I don't know I'm sure it's on his
website but like who cares the point is
he's teaching me how to do digital note
taking which is a thing he's been
obsessed with for 10 years and I'm
learning from him
who cares what degree he got whether he
did a degree in economics or like
political science or like who who cares
um so I think increasingly in the
world the PE people will people will
vote with their eyeballs like there are
a bunch of people who do like maths
tutorials on YouTube and no one know who
cares if they're a math professor being
a professor doesn't mean you're good at
teaching it means you're good at
research like the medical school
professors we had at cambri Cambridge is
a [ __ ] hu huge Name Medical School
almost none of the professors were
actually good at teaching there was a
tiny number who were good at teaching
because the way you become a professor
is not by being a good teacher it's by
being a good researcher and these guys
are like oh God damn it I've got to to
teach my lecture I just want to be in my
lab doing my research whereas the people
who are the best teachers was the
student in the year above me like or two
years above me who's just doing it for
fun they don't have a qualification
they're not a doctor yet but they're
like they know the subject really well
they understand me they have empathy for
where I am because they did it last year
they've got really good notes they have
good vibes they have energy they bring
sweets to the classroom like that's the
person I want to learn from and there's
a place of learning from experts and
credentials and stuff but I think
increasingly the world is moving towards
if you can actually do the thing that
you're claiming to do and people like it
and people are getting value from it
then who cares what certification you
have again provided it's not like
neurosurgery or stuff like that yeah
yeah you don't really even that you
don't really ask your doctor when you're
coming into emergency room like uh can I
see your degree if you have an emergency
is like I hope this person can help yeah
exactly what have you learned about
effective teaching through teaching
yourself so much and creating a book
about teaching people how to be
productive and creating all this YouTube
and courses what have you talk about
what what makes an Effective Teacher
what are some stories or things you've
seen that that you teach one thing that
I keep on coming back to is that
teaching is a performance
art and the best teachers are really
good entertainers and they can tell a
really good story and they can keep you
engaged through an otherwise something
that might otherwise be boring we had a
great teacher in first year who was
doing physiology he was a Canadian
lecturer actually he was like the best
guy we had teaching us that whole year
and he just made it so engaging he was
he he didn't have PowerPoint slides even
he was like he would like draw diagrams
on a little overhead projector like old
school even though he could have used
PowerPoint or like interative whiteboard
or anything and he was just really good
at explaining things and he just like
draw a diagram and explain in a
charismatic way with some storytelling
and some analogies and like the heart
like imagine the heart as like a little
a little pump with with that's connected
to like four pipes and here's the little
pump and here are the four pipes okay
cool now imagine when you squeeze the
pump here's what's happened what's going
to happen when you squeeze the pump well
a line's going to go there a line's
going to go there it was so engaging and
so nice compared to some of the other
lecturers that were like dense
PowerPoint slide loads of references
handouts that are just boring they were
just boring it's like I think a huge
part of being an Effective Teacher is
being engaging and being fun and being a
it's it's a performance art um I used to
do close-up magic back in the day when I
when I was at University and one of my
dreams is to have my own stage show kind
of like Darren Brown meets Jay Shetty
meets like Tony Robins is is um and BEC
and I think there's something around
people who are into
entertaining often tend to be good
teachers as well at least from what I've
seen on YouTube and in real life so I
think that's a really underrated part of
teaching what do you what did your
parents do for learing both my parents
are doctors so my mom is a single parent
my parents divorced when I was like one
year old old so I never really knew my
dad uh but he's a doctor in Pakistan and
my mom is a psychiatrist so spe
specializes in mental health disorders
and stuff like that um yeah did you do
you ever interact with your dad not
really we hang out with him every few
years when we go back to Pakistan grab a
bite to eat or something like that how's
that kind of awkward um I don't really
know him that well it sort of feels like
a distant uncle that you s know that
you're related to but like don't really
feel that close to um but you know it's
a Vibe it's a
Vibe yeah I think like not growing up
with a dad it's it's it's very hard to
imagine what it's like having a dad so I
don't it's you know my mom sometimes
asks me she's like you know do you ever
regret that you didn't have a father
growing up and
like it's like if someone if if if
someone I don't know is is not able to
see color from birth they're seeing in
black and white they they can't even
comprehend what it's like to see color
it's like no I don't spend any time
thinking like wishing I had a dad or
wishing yeah yeah it's just not even
something that remotely crosses my mind
um
but I do Wonder I've I've seen patterns
one I similarly my parents divorced
early luckily my stepdad was great and
my father I think a lot of my business
was to try to get him to acknowledge me
oh okay and I think that's true for like
you know Jeff Bezos was uh adopted Steve
Jobs no Jeff basos a stepdad Steve Jobs
adopted um there's a lot of you know
kind of similar patterns so I wonder if
and like I was just curious if that
impacted you or how you think that that
maybe played a role or not yeah I don't
know I think one thing that I did miss
out on a little bit
is like not having a father figure
growing up means that I had zero
examples of what like positive
masculinity looked like in
that you know
like I have I have no idea I had no idea
what it what does it look like if
someone is upset for a man be the one
comforting them cuz the only examples I
saw of someone comforting someone else
was my mom or the female teachers who I
had in Primary School don't have any
mail teachers in primary school and so
it's like that's a bit weird what does
that actually look like and some people
might be listening to this saying that
like oh it's the same as when a female
Comforts someone it's like no it's not
like the way a the the the way a Man
shows like reassurance and comfort is
not the same as a maternal nurturing
figure like a mom showing the same thing
it would just be kind of weird weird
especially if it was a stranger it's
like guys do have to interact in a
different way than women do naturally
and I've just I I see Zero I've seen
zero examples of that so a lot of like
when my girlfriend was upset for example
and she was describing how her dad would
come for her when she was young I was
like whoa that's just like mind-blowing
that what was it like what' she say oh
she was just like yeah he would just you
know come up to me he would Crouch down
to my level he would ask if I was okay
he would put a hand on my shoulder he
would tell me everything's going to be
all right he would give me a little
sandwich from his bag and I'm like oh
that's cute
whereas you know when like my mom would
do it it would be much more of a much
more of a show of like oh honey come
here is like like just a different way
of communicating and I always find
myself fascinated to see like what does
how how do dads interact with kids in a
way that's different to how moms
interact with kids so I've started
keeping a lookout for those things now
did your mom date no she never remarried
here never yeah so my mom's single
parent she moved us to Africa it was me
my brother and my grandma and my mom so
my mom was working full-time as a doctor
doctor at the time in Africa and my
grandma was sort of raising me and my
brother and then my mom would get home
from work and like we'd all have dinner
as a family and my grandma was a teacher
so she sort of like homeschooled us a
little bit while we were in school as
well we in Africa uh lutu what lutu is
like a country surrounded by South
Africa oh really like right at the
bottom of South Africa with within South
Africa there is a country called lutu
and another country called Swaziland and
I've heard that one I think yeah so luu
is like a a random country that most
people haven't heard of and how long did
you live there before like five years
what age is age like 1 to six oh
interesting do you do you remember
anything from that time yeah quite a lot
like when yeah had a great time it was
just like it it feels weird to talk
about now but it was just normal growing
up because it's like when that's all you
know that's you think that's totally
normal um so went to the local school
Good Vibes mostly black kids I was
surprised I I remember coming to the UK
for the first time going to school I was
like whoa everyone's my skin color cuz
everyone was white and you know I look
more you know in in a school of black
people I I stand out but in a when when
I saw a school of white people it was
such a contrast I was like whoa that's
mental I've never seen all these white
people before um but like yeah it was
good
vibes do you know why your pars broke up
um my mom never has never quite given me
the juicy details of it she says that
they had the differences and she sort of
believes it at that and then was this in
Pakistan came met yeah then how did she
end up going to Africa um it was kind of
random at at a wedding she was Vis she
was attending a guy she was sitting next
to happened to be the guy who was sent
by the queen to go to lutu to set up a
hospital there for the British Empire
and he just happened to meet my mom at a
wedding and my mom was like oh you work
in Africa interesting I've always wanted
to work in Africa just because it seemed
cool and he was like well do you want a
job we're looking for doctors and she
was like huh actually yeah let's go so
she took me and my brother and her mom
and we just all moved to Africa from
Pakistan it's kind kind of kind of Rogue
that is Rogue what are there ways how
did your mom raise you and then what
what were house
rules what the house
rules there was a there was a big
emphasis on education so like you know
from Africa we moved to the UK because
of education so my mom my mom and
grandma always valued our our our
education as like being the ultimate
thing and so there was a real emphasis
on you know doing well in school uh I
was lucky because was naturally smart
and so I just did well in school by
default but also I think the vibe of and
you know I got I got this messaging from
my grandma more than my mom of like you
know it's like a great thing to get into
a good University and you know the words
Oxford and Cambridge kind of being
thrown around when we were like 8 years
old I was like yeah I want to go to I
want to go to Oxford or Cambridge you
know that that kind of thing so that
developed within me it it wasn't like
there were like you have to do one in
school with like a stick it was more
like I wanted to do one in school but
I'm pretty sure that cuz the messaging I
got was like doing well in school is a
good thing to do and so I had that fire
inside me um I think like growing up cuz
my mom was a single parent working as a
doctor in the UK her salary was like 28k
30k something like that like we had
enough money for the you know for the
basics of life but not enough money to
like go on fancy holidays or like to get
PlayStations for a birthday or anything
like that and I think that was a very
good thing because it meant that I had
this like base security of like where
you know things are totally fine we live
in a nice house and go to nice school
and we had enough money to send us on
like the school ski trip and stuff but
for the luxuries like a PlayStation or a
laptop or things like that I had to save
up for those things and I had to save up
by you know birthday money that I would
get as gifts and E presents and stuff
like that but also I got myself a
part-time job teaching maths and private
tutoring and trying to make websites on
the internet and I think had we had more
disposable income growing up I may have
had less of an entrepreneurial Drive
than I did and so me and my brother
would be thinking like oh man if we can
just make £200 this year we'll be able
to get an extra monitor for a desk setup
and stuff like that when we were when we
were kids whereas I had friends who
would get like PlayStation 3's and stuff
stuff for their birthdays and they had
no entrepreneurial drive so I I I wonder
if there was something around growing up
with enough money so as to not worry
about like poverty but not so much that
like you had everything handed to you
that developed that desire to make money
on the internet which I am so grateful
for did your mom trip out when you quit
doctor or did she was she happy about it
uh she tripped out quite a lot she's
she's over it now but at the time she
was like cuz you know for her I think
for immigrant parents the whole thing is
like Safety and Security
and medicine is a very safe and secure
profession and so to trade something
that's safe and secure for like this
YouTube thing like what the the hell
like where is this going to go like what
if it doesn't last all of those things
are fears that I had and fears that were
magnified hundredfold in my mom because
she was like oh my goodness um but she's
gotten over it now so yeah it's pretty
chill these days does she watch all the
videos no she's kind of stopped now I
think I don't know really yeah she she
she listens to the podcast that I do
with my brother but like to be honest we
we produce too much content
like it's it's a full-time job to keep
up with
it yeah um what was the most trouble you
got in as a kid most trouble I got in oh
one time I was trying to learn I think I
was like 13 I was trying to teach myself
how to program uh viruses uh like um and
I found this like article about how to
write a trojan horse as like a back door
into a computer and I I had the code on
like a USB memory stick and I only had
one USB memory stick which was also the
thing I used for my school work and so I
plugged it in just randomly in one of
the school computers to do my school
transferring PowerPoint files or
whatever and the school's antivirus
system picked it up because it was a
really unsophisticated basic ass Trojan
that I'd written just a just as a sort
of tutorial project and then the
antivirus flagged up then I got a call
from the Deputy Headmaster being like
come to my office he took me to the
Headmaster got super got like major
bollocking by by the Headmaster of the
school who was like this big imposing
guy I had I had to come in I he they
said they were going to suspend me from
school for a week and I was like the
good kid I was like he never been in
trouble I was always like top of the
class it's like this was very
uncharacteristic for me but I wrote like
a nice apology letter and so instead all
I had to do was come into school for a
few days during the holidays and they
were like well this guy likes computers
so let's just get him to like open up
every computer in the school and just
get rid of the packets of chips and the
chewing gum and the dust with a little
Hoover Hoover up the inside of the
school computers so thankfully I managed
to get away without getting suspended
from school you you you see I was such a
badass I was I was really cool as you
can tell you're smoking cigarettes
exactly that was so cool is this a
private school or public it was a public
grammar school so it's like a selective
public school okay yeah how did you know
you were smart when you were younger you
said you knew you were smart
did I know I was smart I mean uh I could
I could get good grades without having
to work too hard for it and I saw that
like the kids around me were really
struggling and I seemed to not and I was
like huh I I I don't think I told myself
that oh it's cuz I'm
smart I that I think that's a a
realization I made off to the
fact what do you what do you what do you
believe is the hardest thing you've
worked
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on good question what's the hardest
thing I've worked on probably this book
went to medical school yeah I mean
honestly like Med medical schools is
isn't that hard like once you get in
like it's quite hard to get in but if
you have really good grades it's it's
not that hard to get in it's hard to get
in if you don't have good grades now
you're then you're fighting an uphill
battle but I had like amazing grades and
I prepared for the interviews and stuff
like I was going to get in it would have
been weird if I didn't get in given
those unfair advantages that I had once
you're in medical school it's not that
hard because there's a lot of support
you've got all friends around you
everyone's trying to do well it's really
hard to fail like you have to kind of
try to flunk out at least at least in
the UK
um and so there have been very few
things that I've like like failed at as
such and very few things that I've i'
I've felt like I had to really level up
and really step up to get good at and
honestly this book while trying to
juggle the business and everything else
that was going on in life just honestly
making the time to just write every day
or find this find this period of Sol you
just focus on writing and trying to
craft a thesis that felt a bit novel and
trying to do the research at the same
time it was like writing a really long
thesis well I mean like a PhD program is
three years and you end up with like a
60,000 word dissertation this is a
65,000 word dissertation from threeyear
like PhD program of like looking at
research papers and stuff while doing
that alongside running the business
honestly I would say writing this book
has been the hardest thing I've
done what you said you had unfair
advantages to get into medical school
yeah in that I had good grades and a
supportive family and stuff which a lot
of people don't which is why it's hard
to get in for a lot of people um do you
think your success is rep replicable
like other people can copy and get to
where you
are uh depends I I don't think someone
who is in medical school now could start
a YouTube channel in exactly the same
way that I did and do it because that
was six years ago times have changed but
if if if by success we mean Successful
YouTube channel and business around it
then yeah easily well well sorry not not
easily it's simple but not easy it's
simple in that the formula is pretty
obvious it's like find a way to create
useful educational videos once or twice
a week and just do it for seven
years it's not it's not that hard and
just aim to be a little bit better each
time even though that's unsustainable so
don't even do that forever because you
can't be BL better every time just focus
on being as useful as possible and sell
a course off the back of what people
asking are asking you for every now and
then like that's literally the formula
and anyone could do it like someone
listening to this right now now if they
really wanted to could teach themselves
a thing and then just make videos about
the thing now that they've taught
themselves the thing whatever the thing
is yeah and to do it for a very long
time it's like almost impossible to not
succeed with something if you do it for
long
enough and as you say million dollar
weekend people just quit too early yeah
there are so few people who make it past
100 videos there are so few podcasts
that make it past episode number three
even fewer that make it past episode
number 20 like for a podcast to get more
than 20 episodes oh man the person
making the podcast have been been a real
trooper like sticking it out I'm on 750
videos like it's it's it's not that hard
it's
just just got to make the videos every
week and just do it forever what kept
you sticking with it for seven years um
I think in the early days it was faith
and patience faith that something would
work out and patience that I'm willing
to wait until it does and enjoying the
process and trying and focusing on the
process rather than the outcome like I'm
just going to focus on making one video
a week and I know something good will
come of this I don't know what it is but
I have faith that something good will
come of this and then once the momentum
started like momentum then sustains the
thing it's it's like the the the the
effort at the start is sort of like
kindling the fire getting the fire
started but once the fire is going like
all you need to do is not screw it up
like but as the as the channel started
to gain momentum now it's like there's
new views and new comments and new likes
and all that stuff is motivating there's
money coming in it's like [ __ ] I'm
making $5 a day now man I could get my
myself a takeaway every day and YouTube
would I'm now making $50 a day $50 a day
I can literally eat forever and YouTube
would fund it now I'm making like
freaking $1,000 a day and it's
completely absurd and it's like all of
these things like start to snowball over
time then actually a conversation with
you three years ago where you were like
oh man you know you you've easily got a
$1 million business on your hands I was
like H
interesting let me see what products I
could sell which kind of sparked this
course creation thing which then took us
from 100K to a million in that year and
like that's cool there's momentum behind
that once something starts to be
successful all you have to do is not
screw it up and just sort of ride the
wave but to create the wave in the first
place requires the faith and the
patience that things will work out who
is the coolest channel that you that's
gone through your YouTuber Academy that
you're most proud
of so there is
a there's a friend of ours called Izzy
who Izzy cely who started her YouTube
channel as like her she started during
the YouTuber Academy like the course and
she she was also she was also medic a
medical student at the time um now
working as a doctor and she made videos
about like personal development and
stuff but she made a video about how to
learn Mandarin cuz she taught herself
Mandarin in like 6 months and that video
went viral and that was only video like
15 it took me 85 videos to go viral she
went viral on video number 15 and her
Channel's just crossed 500,000
subscribers and she's only made like 50
videos videos for context I got 1,000
subscribers when I made 52 videos and
she's got 500,000 subscribers with 50
with 50ish videos so she's just like
taken all the lessons that we teach in
the course and just sort of supercharged
them another like famous alumnus is
Chris Williamson he was on he was on
100,000 subscribers his channel was
called modern wisdom he didn't know
anything about YouTube he took the
course he leveled up his titles and
thumbnails rebranded to Chris Williamson
he's on 1.5 million now and just keeps
on climbing obviously he's put in loads
of work I cannot take any credit for his
success but
we have a nice video testimonial from
him where he's like man I was such a
noob and then I took the course and then
I knew how to do YouTube so I just
applied it to my podcast and so he's
he's blown up as
well um few things and then we'll uh go
get some sushi amazing you got to
YouTube but you you when we were talking
before walk me through every business
you've done okay not not in detail but I
think this is just such an interesting
thing we talked about experiment and
swings and I didn't realize how many
swings you took before you even got to
starting the YouTube stuff maybe like
the of of these things from when you got
going yeah okay so here are all the
businesses that I've tried to start
firstly when I was 13 I decided to start
a forum which was going to teach kids
how to be spies because I loved like the
Cherub and Alex Ryder books back in the
day and I was like okay this is a forum
we're going to teach teenagers how to
pick locks and how to do martial arts
and all that [ __ ] that was a total flop
obviously then it was trying to build
online games so I contacted blizzard I
contacted Nintendo I contacted a few
authors who admired and I kept on asking
for permission to turn their
intellectual property into games all of
them either ignored me or they said no
or they said sorry we've already sold
the movie rights and that comes with the
video game rights then I built a sort of
web design studio which was basically
just me as a 14-year-old in my bedroom
but I was a web design studio so I tried
to make money by Shilling myself to
friends and family and also on like
freelance marketplaces back in the day
and so I in total made like $300 across
like8 years from doing that so not very
much money at all business number four
that I attempted to start was uh a niche
affiliate marketing site so Starcraft 2
the video game had just come out and I
watched this online course on how to
make money on the internet with
affiliate marketing and there was this
guy selling a Starcraft to guide for
like $50 and the affiliate deal for that
was like 50% so if you sold his guide
you would get $25 so I tried making a
website where protos which is one of the
races in Starcraft 2 has protos build
orders was the SEO term I was trying to
rank for and I was like if I can just
make the build ERS for all the protos of
like in this or this is the order of
buildings that you place with order of
pylons and Order of nexuses and order
like the timings people are searching
for that [ __ ] people will read my
articles on wordpress.com they'll buy
the thing and I'll make $25 I made no
money from that that was business number
four or five I've forgotten where we are
then I decided to do a multi-level
marketing thing where Blockbuster video
at the time was doing an affiliate
system where if you got someone to sign
up for Blockbuster you would even if it
was just a free trial that they canceled
they'd pay $1250 and I was like sick I'm
in so what I did was I made one of these
websites where you could sign up to
Blockbuster and if you referred 25 other
people you would win a Xbox 360 or
something cuz we would make enough from
that affiliate commission I made $50
from that the way I made it is cuz one
of my friends had four sisters so he
signed up with all four of their credit
cards and I got $1250 time four so I
made £50 and I got that as a weird check
I I I was on a school trip and my mom
rang me up on she was like you've got
this weird check in the mail it's like
an electronic check that says Millions
zero hundreds of thousands zero tens of
thousands zero and it's like I I don't
know if you've seen these like
electronic programmatically generated
checks I was like tens five and so the
total is like0 0 Z $50 so I cashed that
check I was like yes I've made passive
income on the internet that was business
number five business number six was um I
tried to build another game after I knew
more about coding that game did not work
business number seven I think was the
one that finally succeeded and business
number seven was
when I made courses to help people get
into med school and I built a website
for that and I marketed nationally I did
some lead generation on forums and stuff
I was giving loads of helpful advice and
this was like when I was 19 the first
business I made when I was 19 when I
started at 13 at 19 suddenly it
succeeded in year 1 we made 10K year 2
we made 100K year 3 we made 150 and I
sold the business many years later and
that business led to the formation of my
YouTube channel which I guess was
business number eight and that's made me
multimillionaire so it's like were quite
a lot of shots of B for those first six
years oh along the way business 6 and a
half was like a you know soft software
as a service like for medical students
but it was within the branch of the
medal school thing where me and my
brother programmed an online question
bank with a subscription payment system
for helping people do practice questions
for these exams so I programmed all the
backend stuff I was watching tutorials
on like PHP and the LEL framework in my
lunch breaks as a medical student
watching this guy called Jeffrey way
who's a programmer just like screencast
how he was programming and this language
PHP and my brother was into programming
as well so he built the front end using
react which is another web framework and
so we combined forces and built this
thing together and that was making some
money there was quite a lot of shots at
bat and now I've been doing YouTube for
the last seven years so that's been my
main
focus the best business is the one that
works oops I
just oh well
the what what is you know now you said
you're a multimillionaire what is the
best part of being
oh the best part of being rich is the
freedom the freedom to not do [ __ ] that
I don't want to do and to do the stuff
that I do want to do the freedom to for
example I'm flying to Australia in a bit
it's a long flight I was like screw it
I'll just go business class like the
freedom to be able to do that is like I
would have never imagined millionaires
that would pay so much to fly business
class but I'm like you know what
actually I value comfort that's my money
dial you know to use REM sei's
terminology comfort and convenience so
let's go for it the freedom to be able
to quit my day job which you know I
quite enjoyed working as a doctor but
having the freedom to move away from
that to do the thing that I that really
lights me up which is to read write
learn and teach Ah that's incredible the
freedom to you know a friend s Bloom
invites me to go to Caro in Mexico for
like a week to hang out and I'm like
let's go I've got the time Freedom I've
got the money freedom to to be able to
do that and hang out with entrepreneurs
the freedom to just come to LA just to
hang out with people and to be on
people's podcasts and just make make
make friends be like you know I think I
might want to move to LA let's just
visit for a week and just see what
happens it's like the freedom to like
fly back to London on a moment's notice
just to be there for my mom's birthday
it's just so much so much freedom is
unlocked by having money as as you know
and that's like it's not about the
purchases I don't really buy anything
particularly fancy I buy camera bags
that's like my thing I was like finding
the perfect camera bag and I make sure I
have decent cameras but like there's
only so much you can spend on cameras
and camera bags before you physically
cannot spend anymore so like I don't
really buy anything I just have the
freedom to go places and do things that
a lot of other people don't have the
freedom to purely because they don't
have enough money how much have you
spent on your camera gear because as I
walked into your hotel room with where
you have like decent amount of camera I
was like wow how much have you spent on
Tech yeah probably I don't know a few
tens of thousands maybe in my life the
camera gear that I have with me I
probably carry about 15K worth of camera
gear with me he doesn't carry it with
him by the way yeah I don't carry with
me his Security Guard Security yeah um
yeah again there's only so much like
yeah you could go for the 50k RED
cameras but then they're really heavy
and really bulky Sony A7 S3 like sick
3,000 camera really really really good
and like the lenses I have on them are
not even the expensive ones cuz these
the cheap ones are lighter and I'm
optimizing for weight and size and no
one can tell the difference between a
1.8 $1 lens and a 1.2 G Master lens like
literally no one can tell the difference
and so I might as well save the two
grand save the one extra 1 kg and just
have the have a cheap ass lens so I like
finding those optimizations of like
what's the what's the upper limit to how
much is reasonable to spend on this
thing and all in terms of like the size
and the weight to that this thing will
get me you started a business recently
we're got I'm going to finish up because
we have sushi time soon shout out kin
Nori you're blow your mind be awesome
how's your keyboard I saw you launch
your keyboard I right here yeah how's
the keyboard launch how that go that was
interesting I was like surprised yeah it
didn't go very well um it sold I think a
few tens of units like tens of thousands
or tens no tens like actually tens um
we've I think we have about a thousand
either either a few hundred or a couple
of thousand in stock I don't really know
like the team deals with that
um I we liked I I like the idea of
building a tech brand of being a able to
build productivity Tech like the the
perfect backpack the perfect keyboard
the perfect Journal stuff that I would
actually use on a daily basis um and so
we thought [ __ ] it let's just do it and
we haven't really tried very hard to
Market it like we only just briefly
mentioned it on Instagram because like
we were promoting our YouTube of course
on Black Friday and that did $514,000 of
sales in like three days which was
pretty cool and so we were like we don't
want to promote this keyboard too hard
also we're promoting the book so we're
like you know what let's just kind of
chill launch it I don't really have any
expectations it's be on Amazon as well
the company we're working with is pretty
confident that worst case scenario the
stock will sell slowly over the next 5
years so hopefully we're not going to
lose money on it but I just like the
idea of building a Cool Tech brand so
all of this camera gear and stuff that I
buy I can actually build our own version
of it and sell that and that to me seems
pretty cool um it's a bit of a bet um
not sure how successful it's going to be
but we're going to give it a go and and
try it out and I think it's kind of you
it's kind of the same message that you
had earlier which is you tried a lot of
things some work some don't but you keep
trying yeah we've tried some many things
within this within this YouTube business
as well tried so many different niches
of content tried so many different ways
of doing courses tried so many
iterations of our YouTuber Academy I was
like eventually we landed on something
that worked and even when something
works you have to adapt it over time
because what works today may not work
two years from now and so there's just
so much experimentation going on
throughout the whole thing to the point
that when you asked how did the launch
go I was kind of like huh how did the
launch go I guess objectively it didn't
go very well but I just haven't haven't
even vaguely thought about that cuz I'm
like oh yeah it's just one of the many
projects we're working on yeah it like
there there are some things that you do
where you push the door and it swings
right open like the YouTuber Academy
course cohort one man I thought seven
people would buy it 350 people bought it
more money I've ever seen than I've ever
seen in my life that completely changed
my life but like there was so like the
stars aligned to make that happen that
doesn't usually happen when you launch a
business for the first time it's not
usually the case that you just mention
it on Twitter and suddenly 300 people
sign up to pay ,000 for the thing that's
weird U and so I don't have the
expectation that like things are going
to be as effortlessly successful as the
YouTuber Academy was I'm just like yeah
we'll give it a go try it out see what
happens double down on the things that
are working think twice about the things
that are not if it's fun we might just
do it anyway even if it doesn't make
money and just hope for the
best can you teach everyone out there
some cool British words like three of
the coolest British words you know yeah
you called one you said one downstairs
to me like I was call it like we were
calling a chap or a lab you had a
different word like something cool oh
yeah what was it
um oh okay
the thing I said to you downstairs was
weter w t t r weter is British slang
it's it's like I I was ironically using
the word because it's a sort of toxic
masculinity kind of word it's like if if
someone's being a if for example you
were talking to me about your feelings
and I was like a stereotypical British
dude who didn't know anything about
feelings I'd be like oh mate you being
such a wetter like you're being a bit of
a bit of a [ __ ] a bit of a Sim whatever
the I don't know what the Americans
would say so wetter is a fun one um
another fun phrase from British English
is faf that mate writing this book was
such a faff mate launching a keyboard is
such a faff it's like a bit of a ball L
it's a bit of a bit of a hassle it's a
bit of like oh it's kind of annoying
yeah oh man it's such a faf oh it's it's
such a faf booking an Airbnb these days
but you got to pay the cleaning fees you
know all that kind of stuff and the
third one is can't be asked can't be
asked it's like a r s e d ARS you know
like ARS like bottom can't be asked
means I can't be bothered means like I
don't have the energy for it I can't be
asked you you shorten that to CBA if
you're like texting
someone wor now yeah so I I I can't be
asked to write another book because it's
too much of a faf and I'm not a wetter
it's like that would be a sentence that
has all three although it's slightly out
of context what has been the book you've
recommended the most O show your work by
Austin Cleon amazing amazing book
changed my life 2016 I read it that was
it takes literally minutes to read I
love show your work by atin Clon um it's
the book that convinced me that it's
okay to start a blog I've been wanting
to start a blog for years I was
struggled I had the fear of
starting uh and I I yeah I had the fear
of starting and that book took away my
fear of starting it helped me realize
that actually there is something really
nice about putting your work out there
on the internet and it's totally okay to
do and it's a good thing to do so thank
you Austin Clon I'll be forever in your
debt because if I hadn't started that
blog in 2016 I would not have started
the YouTube channel in 2017 so it's such
an easy book to gift it's like tiny so
that's number one actually recently
maybe uh the pathless path by Paul
Millard um he's also based in Austin
that's a self-published book um so he's
become a uh become a friend of mine and
my brothers so this is a book about like
you know he had a corporate Consulting
gig and quit his job to like do his own
thing and wasn't making that much money
but so it's sort of meditations and
musings around like life and money and
meaning and work and what does it really
mean to sort of do have freedom and
follow your passion and he sort of has
this idea of the pathless path or the
pathless path As Americans would say
like rather than the default path which
is like get a job work your way up the
pathless path versus like you know what
actually I'll do a bit of Consulting
here a bit of freelancing here and there
I'll make enough money to get by and
then I'll just sort of wander and
explore and spend loads of time in the
park and go to the beach and spend time
with the family and I just love it it's
it's a really good book last two
things you come in my experience of 2
few years now you really make me feel
that nice guys can finish first
don't I'm not being a wetter here dude
nice but I I truly believe like you're
maybe this is just a compliment I don't
know what the question is it was I guess
it was a question in a
statement I do think some people people
like oh I'm selling I'm taking from
someone else or I'm trying to get famous
so I like trying to take advantage and
climb up other people but I I feel I've
always admired how you you always seem
to do it in a genuine and carrying way
sorry being I'm being a w yeah you're
being a
w
but it's just like I don't know I don't
know what my question is there I was
just I was thinking about it when I was
you know putting together the show and
the something about like just being
happy I'm assuming you're happy hate
when people do that like they leave the
other person you seem you're enjoying it
you seem like you're wanting to help
others and and smile and along the way I
think this is the thing with having like
just not very ambitious goals like if
someone asked me what are your goals for
the book you know part of me would say
oh I'd love if I the New York Times best
set list and stuff but like really
what's my goal for the book to write a
book I'm proud of and hope that some
people find it helpful what's my goal
for YouTube honestly to just being able
to keep on doing it that's a fairly non-
ambitious goal I'm not like we're going
to go for 10 million subscribers next
year guys I'm just like I just want to
find a way to keep the process fun and
just do it for a long time because I
found that when you keep the process fun
you just do it for a long time good
things will just happen and so when
that's the goal it means that I'm not
like trying to sort of message loads of
people to sort of feel hey man can I
come on your podcast I really want to
promote my book it's like if they offer
great I'll I'll I'll send an email I'll
I'll I'll make the ask once but like I
don't I don't need to I don't need to
feel like I'm begging for this thing
similarly I don't need to feel like I'm
competing with anyone I don't need to
feel you know we have a very liberal
money back guarantee on our stuff if you
don't like our [ __ ] we'll just give you
your money back we don't care we don't
need the money like who gives a [ __ ] you
know all of that's like what I try and
tell my team it's like and they and they
now get it they're like if anyone's even
vaguely unhappy we're just giving their
money back like it's like when you have
a high margin business where the goal is
to just keep on doing the thing you
don't need to clamber over anyone to get
there cuz it's so easy to just stay
there by just being nice and being
helpful and trying to help people out
and it's it's weird it's like the Good
Karma that I've been putting out into
the like three years ago I wrote I made
a video about jett's book think like a
monk and I hung out with jhett last time
we were in LA and he took me and you
know my team out to dinner uh to lunch
super nice guy and he was like yeah you
know I really appreciate the fact you
made that video about my book I was like
oh I didn't even realize he'd seen it
but he he'd seen that three years ago
and it's like the good karma for that
video it's like coming back now where
he's like yeah if you want to move to LA
let me know I've got lawyers got
contacts and what I'm just finding is
like people in this industry are just so
nice like everyone who's a Creator is
just so nice in the especially in the
educational space I don't really know
many entertainment people but it's like
you know I was on Louis house podcast
you know mentioned him a couple of times
in videos and stuff and now we're mates
you know had Matthew hussy on my podcast
he lives in La now we mes it's just like
good [ __ ] just keeps on happening
because I think
it's like you know the whole thing is
focus on the process focus on enjoying
it and be helpful to people along the
way and that's I think one of the
secrets to success if you can call it
that
up nice

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Vocabulary Meanings

feel

/fiːl/

A2
  • verb
  • - to experience an emotion
  • noun
  • - an emotion or sensation

question

/ˈkwes.tʃən/

A1
  • noun
  • - a sentence in an interrogative form, addressed to someone in order to get information in response.
  • verb
  • - to ask someone a question

answer

/ˈɑːn.sər/

A1
  • verb
  • - to respond to a question
  • noun
  • - a reaction to a question

side

/saɪd/

A1
  • noun
  • - a position to the left or right of a person or thing

show

/ʃəʊ/

A1
  • noun
  • - a performance or event
  • verb
  • - to present or exhibit

book

/bʊk/

A1
  • noun
  • - a written work or composition that has been published
  • verb
  • - to reserve a place or event

podcast

/ˈpɒd.kɑːst/

B1
  • noun
  • - a digital audio file made available on the Internet for downloading to a computer or mobile device, typically available as a series

guest

/ɡest/

A1
  • noun
  • - a person invited to visit or stay in someone's home or attend a social occasion

video

/ˈvɪd.i.əʊ/

A1
  • noun
  • - a recording of moving visual images made digitally or on videotape

camera

/ˈkæm.ər.ə/

A1
  • noun
  • - a device for recording visual images as photographs, film, or video signals.

energy

/ˈen.ə.dʒi/

B1
  • noun
  • - the strength and vitality required for sustained physical or mental activity.

fun

/fʌn/

A1
  • noun
  • - enjoyment, amusement, or lighthearted pleasure.
  • adjective
  • - amusing, entertaining, or enjoyable

time

/taɪm/

A1
  • noun
  • - the indefinite continued progress of existence and events in the past, present, and future regarded as a whole.
  • verb
  • - to measure or record the time taken to complete something

goal

/ɡəʊl/

A2
  • noun
  • - the object of a person's ambition or effort; an aim or desired result.

life

/laɪf/

A1
  • noun
  • - the condition that distinguishes animals and plants from inorganic matter, including the capacity for growth, reproduction, functional activity, and continual change preceding death.

people

/ˈpiː.pəl/

A1
  • noun
  • - human beings in general or considered collectively.

hard

/hɑːrd/

A2
  • adjective
  • - requiring or capable of a great deal of effort; difficult.

action

/ˈæk.ʃən/

B1
  • noun
  • - the fact or process of doing something, typically to achieve an aim.

success

/səkˈses/

B1
  • noun
  • - the accomplishment of an aim or purpose.

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Key Grammar Structures

  • oh my God by the it's just so much nicer

    ➔ Comparative adjective

    ➔ The word "nicer" is a comparative adjective, showing a comparison of the degree of "nice."

  • how does it feel to you be on the other side

    ➔ Infinitive of purpose (to be)

    ➔ The infinitive "to be" is used to express purpose after the verb "feel".

  • because because I I always have a new book that I've read that that's had an impact on me

    ➔ Relative clause (that I've read)

    "That I've read" is a relative clause providing information about the "book".

  • and if you just know what you want and like write it down somewhere

    ➔ Conditional sentence (If + present simple)

    ➔ This sentence uses a conditional structure to express a hypothetical situation and its likely result.

  • The Strangest Secret by Earl Nightingale have you heard have you heard of this guy

    ➔ Present Perfect (have you heard)

    ➔ The use of "have you heard" is in the present perfect tense, indicating an action that started in the past and continues to be relevant now.

  • it's just so so good figure out what the goal is and just write it down somewhere

    ➔ Emphasis with "so"

    ➔ The use of "so" emphasizes the preceding adjective "good".

  • but actually the whole point of figuring it out is just like setting yourself a direction

    ➔ Gerund (figuring)

    "Figuring" functions as a gerund, acting as the subject of the prepositional phrase.

  • you're going to you're going to be a dad by this time next year

    ➔ Future Simple (going to be)

    "Going to be" is used to express a future action or event, often a plan or prediction.

  • what do you think is the one that you've noticed as people have been reading your book and passing the book around that people are like this is the one

    ➔ Present perfect continuous (have been reading)

    "have been reading" is the present perfect continuous tense, which describes an action that started in the past and is ongoing or has recently finished.

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