[English]
Li Ming, I found something interesting.
Oh? What's up?
After we recorded the "Good Night Story" last time,
it was the time we talked about "The Little White Rabbit's Red Umbrella".
When I went to bed at night,
I really dreamed of a small red umbrella,
and a very cute little white rabbit.
(laughing) Really?
It seems that those stories are not only for children,
but also have a great influence on us adults.
Yes! Those stories are simple and warm.
I felt very comfortable after listening to them.
Especially the little white rabbit sharing his umbrella with the little mushroom.
That scene is really cute.
I agree.
However, when it comes to good night stories,
the stories I heard when I was a child,
were not all as light-hearted and cute as the little white rabbit.
My mother also told me some stories,
They were very simple,
but they taught me many important truths.
What kind of truth?
Well...for example, about gratitude,
about respect,
and...
about how to treat good and bad people in this world.
Wow, that sounds a bit profound.
It’s not as simple as the story of the little white rabbit.
Right.
I think good night stories are like the meals we eat at night.
Sometimes, we need a little dessert,
like "Little White Rabbit's Red Umbrella", sweet,
to make us happy.
But sometimes,
we also need to eat some nutritious "staple food",
these stories can help us grow,
make us smarter,
more kind.
A nutritious good night story?
This statement is very interesting.
I'd love to hear your story.
OK.
So today
we will continue our "Good Night Story" series, but this time,
let's talk about some more "nutritious" stories,
how about it?
Great!
I'm ready, let's get started!
OK.
The first story we are going to tell today,
is called "The Farmer and the Snake".
This story may be a little sad,
but the truth it teaches us is very important.
Farmer and snake?
It sounds very unusual.
Yes.
The story goes like this.
A long time ago, there was a kind farmer.
Winter is here, and it's snowing heavily outside.
The weather is very, very cold.
Well, winter is very cold and
there is snow.
I can picture that.
One day, the farmer finished his work and wanted to go home.
He was walking on the road,
Suddenly he saw a snake on the snow.
The snake lay there, motionless.
What happened to it?
Are you sick?
Because it's too cold, the weather is too cold,
It's about to freeze to death.
The farmer is a very kind person.
He felt very sad when he saw this poor snake.
He said: "Ah, how pitiful, I must save it."
He wanted to help the snake, he was so kind.
Yes, he is very kind.
So, he slowly walked to the snake,
picked it up carefully,
then put it into his clothes,
used his body to warm it.
Wow, he put a snake in his clothes?
He is brave.
He wanted to use his own body temperature to revive the snake.
After a while, the farmer's body was very warm.
The snake slowly felt the warmth and woke up.
Great!
The snake is alive!
The farmer succeeded.
Yes, the snake came to life.
However, what happened next was very bad.
Huh? what happened?
After the snake woke up, it felt like it had regained its strength.
Its nature is to bite.
So, the first thing it did was to
bite the farmer who saved it.
What?
Why did it bite the farmer?
The farmer is its savior!
Because a snake is a snake and its nature will not change.
After the farmer was bitten by a snake, he was quickly poisoned.
When he was about to die, he regretted it very much,
He said: "I am so stupid, I pity a bad snake,
I wanted to save it, but ended up hurting myself."
After saying that, the farmer died.
Alas... this story
is really... so sad.
The farmer just wanted to do a good deed. He was so kind.
Why did the final result be like this?
Yes, Wang Yu,
I know the ending of this story is uncomfortable.
This is also what this story wants to tell us.
Kindness is a very good thing,
But our kindness needs to be given to the right people.
To the right person?
But how do we know who is the "right person" and
who is the "bad snake"?
When the farmer rescued the snake,
he must have felt that he was doing the right thing.
You are right.
This is indeed a difficult question in life.
I heard this story for the first time when I was a child,
and it’s the same as what you think.
I think it's unfair to the farmer.
Yes! I feel sad.
Isn’t it a good thing to help others?
I know how you feel.
This story does not tell us not to help others.
It's more like a reminder.
It reminds us that while we are kind, we must also be wise.
The nature of a snake is to hurt people,
The farmer's kindness did not change its nature.
Therefore, when we help others,
we also need to protect ourselves and think about,
what kind of objects we are helping.
So, it means that kindness also requires intelligence?
Can’t be blindly kind?
It can be understood this way.
It's like crossing the street.
We know that we must obey traffic rules and use crosswalks.
This is right.
But when we cross the road,
should we also check to see if there are cars on both sides?
We can't walk there with our eyes closed, right?
Well, yes.
Even if the light is green, we have to take a look.
Yes.
The same goes for our kindness.
A kind heart is like a green light, it tells us that we can act.
However, our eyes and brain are our wisdom,
to help us see the situation clearly,
to ensure our own safety.
Therefore, the story of "The Farmer and the Snake" teaches us,
to be a kind and smart person.
Hmm...I seem to understand a little bit.
Although this story is very sad, it is indeed very "nutritious".
It made me think a lot.
That's good.
This story is very famous in China.
We often use it to describe those who are not grateful and
hurt those who help them.
Okay, I remember this story.
So, are there any stories that are not so sad,
but also very nutritious?
About helping others.
Of course!
In the next story, the atmosphere is completely different.
It will make you feel very warm.
Great, tell me now! Okay,
This story is called "The Lion and the Mouse".
Lion and mouse?
One is so big and the other is so small.
What story will there be between them?
You will know after listening to it.
One day, a powerful lion was sleeping in the forest.
It sleeps soundly.
At this time, a little mouse
accidentally ran onto the lion.
Wow, that's so dangerous!
Yes. The lion felt it,
and he woke up immediately.
It was very angry and grabbed the little mouse.
Opened its big mouth and prepared to eat it.
Ah! Is the little mouse going to be eaten?
The little mouse was frightened.
It was very scared and said to the lion: "Lion King,
please let me go!
I didn't mean to disturb your sleep.
If you let me go today,
I will definitely repay you in the future."
The mouse wants to repay the lion?
How is this possible?
The lion felt very funny after hearing what the little mouse said.
It laughed loudly and said: "Hahahaha!
You are so small and weak, how can you repay me?
It's so interesting!"
Although the lion thought it was funny,
but it was in a good mood that day,
So it released its paw and said to the little mouse: "Okay,
you go, you little thing."
Did the lion let it go?
Great! Although the lion is very powerful,
it is also a little kind.
Yes.
The little mouse was saved. It was very grateful to the lion,
and then ran away quickly.
This incident was quickly forgotten by the lion.
However, not long after, the lion
was walking in the forest,
accidentally fell into the net set by a hunter.
Oh no! The lion was caught?
Right.
The net was very strong.
The lion used all his strength,
but he could not break the net.
It was very anxious and scared,
and could only roar loudly.
Its voice echoed in the forest,
It sounded very desperate.
What should we do?
Can anyone save it?
At this time,
a small animal heard the lion's voice.
It ran over immediately.
Guess who?
Is it... is it that little mouse?
Absolutely correct!
It was the little mouse that was let go by the lion.
It saw the lion trapped in the net,
It immediately said to the lion:
"Lion King, don't worry, I will save you!"
But it is so small, how can it save the lion?
Rats have very sharp teeth.
It ran to the side of the net,
and started to bite the ropes with its teeth.
It kept biting, one, two,
three... Although the rope was very thick,
the mouse was very patient.
In the end, it really chewed a big hole in the net.
Really? Awesome!
The lion crawled out of that hole and he was free!
It looked at the little mouse in front of it and felt very grateful.
It also felt a little embarrassed.
It remembered what it had said when laughing at the mouse.
Yes, it definitely didn't expect that the person who saved it in the end
turned out to be this little mouse that it looked down upon.
The little mouse said to the lion:
"Look, although you laughed at me at first,
but now I have proved that
even a little mouse can repay the lion."
From then on, the lion and the little mouse became very good friends.
Wow! What a great story!
I love this story so much.
It makes me feel warm inside.
Yes. This story tells us,
Never underestimate anyone
or any act of kindness.
Yes!
Just like a lion letting go of a mouse, for it
it may be just a very small thing,
it may turn around and forget it.
But for the mouse, it saved its life.
So it always remembers this kindness.
That’s right.
Moreover, this story also tells us,
Strong and weak are relative.
The lion is very powerful, but sometimes he is trapped.
The rat is very weak, but its sharp teeth
can play a huge role at critical moments.
You are right.
This reminds me of a saying,
It seems like "a drop of kindness should be repaid by a spring."
Yes, that’s what it means.
This is a Chinese idiom, which means,
Even if the help we get is very small, like a drop of water,
we should thank the other party in return
as much as spring water.
Hmm.
I think there is another beautiful point in this story.
It's like planting a seed of kindness.
The lion may have just planted it casually.
He never thought that the seed would grow up, let alone
that the grown tree would be able to protect him from the rain.
Wang Yu, you used this metaphor so well!
"The seeds of kindness" are very vivid.
Every small act of kindness
we do may be a seed.
We don't know when it will sprout,
what it will look like, but as long as we sow the seeds,
there may be surprises in the future.
Well! Compared with "The Farmer and the Snake",
I prefer "The Lion and the Mouse".
It makes me believe that kindness will be rewarded most of the time.
Yes, the two stories look at
"kindness" from different angles.
"The Farmer and the Snake" reminds us to be wise,
"The Lion and the Mouse" encourages us to persist in kindness.
They all make sense.
Hmm. Speaking of gratitude and repayment,
I suddenly thought of our family, especially our parents.
We rarely say "thank you" to them.
You touched on a very important topic.
In Chinese culture, gratitude and filial piety to parents
are one of the most important qualities of a person.
Exactly, the third story we are going to tell today,
is related to this.
Oh?
What is the story?
The protagonist of this story is a bird.
The name of the story is "The Crow Feeds Back".
"Crow" I know is a black bird.
What does "feedback" mean?
"Bu" means to feed or feed something to eat.
For example, when a mother bird feeds her chicks, it is "nurturing".
"Anti" means the opposite.
So "feeding back" means feeding in turn.
Feeding in turn? What do you mean...
When the baby bird grows up, feed the mother bird food?
Exactly right.
You are very smart.
The story of "The Crow Feeds Back" is very simple.
What it says is that when birds like crows are very young,
they are crow mothers and crow fathers
who work very hard to find food.
Then feed them one bite at a time.
Crow parents will take care of their little crows
until they grow up and can fly by themselves and find food by themselves.
Well, all small animals seem to be like this.
Yes.
But crows have a very special habit.
When the crow parents are old and can no longer fly,
their eyes cannot see clearly,
and it is difficult to find food by themselves,
those little crows that have grown up,
will fly out to find food every day just like their parents took care of themselves.
...
What then?
Then, they will bring back the food they find and
feed it to their elderly parents.
They will do this until their parents die.
This behavior is called "crow feeding back".
Oh my god...this touches me so much.
Animals actually know how to repay their parents in this way.
Yes. Therefore,
the ancient Chinese people observed this phenomenon and were very moved.
They used the idiom "crow feeds back" to
educate children to be filial to their parents and
repay their parents for their nurturing grace.
This story reminds me of my parents.
When I was young, my health was not very good and I often fell ill.
I remember many times, when I had a fever in the middle of the night,
my dad would get up immediately and carry me to the hospital.
At that time, our home was far away from the hospital and we didn’t have a car.
In winter,
Dad wrapped me in a thick quilt and
walked in the snow step by step.
I can feel the warmth on his back.
Your parents are so great.
Yes. And my mom,
she always knows what I like to eat.
When I was in college, I was far away from home. Every time I went home during vacation,
my mother must have prepared all my favorite dishes
and waited for me on the table before I even got home.
Thinking about it now, I still feel very warm in my heart.
I totally understand.
Parents' love is often reflected in these little things.
Right.
Now that I'm working,
I can make money by myself.
So every time I go home, I will also buy them some
things they like to eat, or take them to a good restaurant that they have never
been to.
Seeing them happy makes me feel very happy.
I think what I have done
may be regarded as a kind of "feedback".
Of course forget it.
Wang Yu, what you have done,
is what we often call "filial piety" in Chinese.
I often hear the word "filial piety",
but what does it mean specifically?
This is a very important Chinese cultural concept.
"Filial piety" mainly refers to respecting and loving one's parents,
"Shun" refers to listening to parents' reasonable suggestions and
not letting them worry.
So "filial piety" taken together,
refers to children's respect,
love, care and reward for their parents.
This is considered one of the most important virtues in Chinese culture.
The story "The Crow Feeds Back" is a perfect embodiment of the virtue of "filial piety"
...
in the animal world.
I understand.
So filial piety is not just about giving money or buying things to your parents.
What’s more important is to care about them, love them, and make them happy.
You are absolutely right.
Companionship and care are more important than any material thing.
Just like when we were young,
we need more than just food and clothes,
what we need more is the company and love of our parents.
When they grow old, they will need the same.
Hmm. After listening to these stories today,
I really learned a lot.
From the wisdom of "The Farmer and the Snake",
to the gratitude of "The Lion and the Mouse",
to the filial piety of "The Crow Feeds Back".
These "good night stories" are really rich in "nourishment".
Yes.
Through simple plots, these stories tell us
some truths that can affect a lifetime.
This may be the power of stories.
Today’s stories are so meaningful.
Although they sound like good night stories for children,
I feel that we adults
have also learned a lot by listening to them,
and we need to remind ourselves of these truths from time to time.
That's right.
Let’s briefly review it.
Today we mainly talked about three stories.
The first story is "The Farmer and the Snake",
it tells us that kindness is very valuable,
but kindness needs to be accompanied by wisdom.
We must be a kind person but will not be hurt. Well,
be a smart and kind person.
Right.
The second story is "The Lion and the Mouse",
it allows us to see that any small act of kindness
may bring unexpected rewards,
We should never underestimate anyone or anything.
There is no difference in gratitude, big or small, strong or weak.
Yes, we must plant "seeds of kindness".
Well said.
Finally, through the story of "The Crow Feeds Back",
we talked about a very core value in Chinese culture,
which is "filial piety".
Know how to be grateful and repay your parents for their upbringing.
These are very simple stories, but the truth inside
is worth learning
and practicing in our lifetime. yes!
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