– 英语/中文 双语歌词

歌词与翻译

[中文]

（两人都笑了）

— 我真的很喜欢你。

— 等等，你真的喜欢我？— 嗯。

— 噢，我得稍微收回一点了。

— 等等，你说什么？

— 你回应我的感情，让我有点不安，

所以我打算稍微退一步，

只是想喘口气。

— 好吧，如果你退一步，

那我也会退一步，

因为我不想受伤。

— 等等，现在你也退一步了？

— 嗯。— 噢，好吧，你退一步

因为我退一步，这肯定会

引发抛弃和自我价值问题，

我不得不追你，来证明我值得被爱。

— 好了，你现在追我了？— 嗯。

— 这样会激活我对

被束缚的恐惧和我的承诺问题，

所以实际上，我需要退得更多。— 更多？

even more. - Even more?

— 更多。— 噢，好吧。

好吧，现在你看起来情绪上不可靠，

这意味着我只能不断追逐，追逐

追逐，直到我再也追不下去，

因为我会觉得自己一文不值。

所以我想我只能彻底放弃了。

— 好吧，既然你放弃了，

我的恐惧好像消退了，所以，我回来了。

— 好的。— 好的。

— 你想要一段认真的关系吗？

喂？米歇尔？

米歇尔，

你为什么只是四处乱看？

米歇尔…

好吧。

我把这当成拒绝，

我想我们只能放弃，离开。

— 好吧。— 嗯？

你本来要说什么？

米歇尔？— 听着，我真的很喜欢你。

— 我真的很喜欢你。

— 我只是不知道我是否准备好

开始一段认真的关系了。

你知道吗？— 我不知道。

— 就像，我不知道我是否应该

— 不，它不应该，也不该如此。

它应该对你的事业有益。

— 好吧，现在我觉得你

要求太多了，所以我想我得走了。— 好的。

— 你不会追我了吗？— 什么？

— 你没有追我。

— 是的，我想追你。

— 就像，我显然想追你。

那是我唯一会做的事情。

但是，我已经在这种过山车上

度过了我的整个青少年时期和二十几岁，我现在三十岁了。

我厌倦了这种猫捉老鼠的游戏。

我想体验一种不同的、更成熟的乐趣，

比如一次自驾游，一次公路旅行。

— 公路旅行？— 嗯。

你难道不想摆脱这种

日复一日、年复一年的循环，

和那些给你足够希望让你坚持下去的伴侣

却没有任何意愿成为你

认真对待的生活伴侣吗？

你难道不想知道

在一段健康的关系中茁壮成长的感觉吗？

— 我不知道。

— 我只知道这种循环，这种舞蹈，

这种永恒的推拉，已经深深地

烙印在我的潜意识里，源于我多年独特的创伤。

— 好吧，我们为什么不打破这种循环，

真正地尝试一下呢？

— 糟了。

— 天哪，我完全忘了，

实际上，我还有另一个约会。

— 等等，你说什么？

— 无论如何，你真的很棒，

我为你加油，希望我们能成为朋友。

— 哼？— 再见。

就这样了。

过去三年里我经历过的每一个约会

都归结为这一个草图。

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[英语]

(both laughing)

- I really like you.

- Wait, you do? - Yeah.

- Ooh, I'm gonna have to pull back a bit.

- Wait, what?

- You reciprocating my feelings just freaks me out a little,

so I'm just gonna pull back a little bit

just to get a breather.

- Well, I mean, if you step back

then I'm gonna have to take a step back,

'cause I don't wanna get hurt here.

- Wait, now you're pulling back?

- Yeah. - Ooh, well you pulling back

because I'm pulling back, it's definitely

going to ignite abandonment and self-worth issues

and I have to chase you to prove that I'm worthy of love.

- Okay, you're chasing me now? - Yeah.

- Well that kind of activates my fear

of engulfment and my commitment issues

so actually I'm gonna need to pull back

even more. - Even more?

- Even more. - Ooh, okay.

Well now you seem emotionally unavailable

and that means I just have to like chase, chase

chase until I can't chase anymore

because I'm gonna feel like a worthless piece of shit.

So I think I'm just gonna back off for good now.

- Well now that you're backing off

my fear has kind of subsided, so, I'm back in.

- Okay. - Okay.

- So do you want a committed relationship?

Hello? Michelle?

Michelle,

why are you just moving your eyes around?

Michelle...

Okay.

I'm gonna take that as a no,

and I guess we'll just give up and go away.

- Well. - Yeah?

What where you gonna say?

Michelle? - Look, I really like you.

- I really like you.

- I just don't know if I'm ready for something serious.

You know? - No I don't know.

- Like, I don't know if I should be in a relationship,

it might distract me from my career.

- No, it doesn't have to, it shouldn't have to.

It should be great for your career.

- Well, now I feel like you're asking too much of me

so I think I gotta go. - Okay.

- You're not gonna chase me? - What?

- You're not chasing me.

- Yeah, I wanna chase you.

Like, obviously I wanna chase you.

That's all I know how to do.

But, I've been on this merry-go-round

like all my teens and my 20s, I'm 30 now.

I'm tired of this kitty ride.

I wanna go into like a different, more adult ride,

like a drive, like a road trip.

- A road trip? - Yeah.

Aren't you tired of going around and around and around

and just wasting time for years on end with partners

who give you just enough to hang on to

but have no intention of showing

up as a serious life partner?

Don't you wanna know what it's like to thrive

in a healthy relationship?

- I don't know.

I've only ever known this circle, this dance

the eternal push and pull ingrained

into my subconscious from years of my own unique traumas.

- Well, why don't we break that cycle

and give this a real shot?

- Oh, shit.

Oh my God, I totally forgot,

actually, I have another date.

- Wait, what?

- Anyway, you're really cool,

I'm rooting for you and I hope we can be friends.

- Huh? - Bye.

- There you have it.

Every dating experience I've had in the last three years

whittled down to one sketch.

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重点词汇

词汇	含义
reciprocating /rɪˈsɪprəkeɪtɪŋ/ C1	verb - 相互给予 (xiānghù jǐyǔ)
freaks /friːks/ B1	verb - 使惊恐 (shǐ jīngkǒng)
hurt /hɜːrt/ A2	verb - 伤害 (shānghài)
ignite /ɪɡˈnaɪt/ B2	verb - 点燃 (diǎnrán), 激发 (jīfā)
abandonment /əˈbændənmənt/ C1	noun - 抛弃 (pāoqì)
worthy /ˈwɜːrði/ B1	adjective - 值得的 (zhídé de)
activates /ˈæktɪveɪts/ B1	verb - 激活 (jīhuó)
engulfment /ɪnˈɡʌlfmənt/ C1	noun - 吞噬 (tūnshì)
unavailable /ˌʌnəˈveɪləbl/ B2	adjective - 不可用的 (bù kěyòng de)
chase /tʃeɪs/ A2	verb - 追逐 (zhuīzhú)
worthless /ˈwɜːrθləs/ B1	adjective - 无价值的 (wú jiàzhí de)
subsided /səbˈsaɪdɪd/ B2	verb - 减弱 (jiǎnruò)
committed /kəˈmɪtɪd/ B1	adjective - 忠诚的 (zhōngchéng de)
serious /ˈsɪəriəs/ A2	adjective - 严肃的 (yánsù de)
distract /dɪˈstrækt/ B1	verb - 分散注意力 (fēnsàn zhùyìlì)
thrive /θraɪv/ B2	verb - 繁荣 (fánróng)
ingrained /ɪnˈɡreɪnd/ C1	adjective - 根深蒂固 (gēnshēn dìgù)
traumas /ˈtrɔːməz/ C1	noun - 创伤 (chuāngshāng)
whittled /ˈwɪtld/ B2	verb - 削减 (xuējiǎn)