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[中文]

我和丈夫查克结婚已有十八年。

我一直体重超标，但丈夫从不在意。

即使我妻子最重时达到280磅，

我们的性生活也是满分十分。

事后我们会开玩笑说，今晚全镇没人

能比我们更尽兴了。

去年我下定决心

要减重

并成功减掉超过100磅。

我感觉棒极了。

但我很难适应她如今的身型。

他说与我亲热时

感觉像在和另一个女人在一起。

她曾经曲线丰盈。

如今却非常纤瘦。

我妻子的胸部原本在这个位置

现在却下垂到这里。

她的皮肤出现了严重的松弛下垂问题。

现在身体组织容易松垂。

我穿着塑身衣，否则多余的皮肤

会溢出来。

我们曾经的性生活很美满。

如今却陷入挣扎。

我在丈夫面前感觉不到性感。

只想遮盖和隐藏身体。

与女性亲密时，

触感、体感和视觉体验都很重要

而这些都发生了巨大变化。

我依然深爱我的妻子。

只是很难接受她如今

的身体状态。

我只希望他能注视我并觉得我有魅力。

好的，首先祝贺你

如此自律—— - 谢谢。

以及付出的努力，

因为你取得了这样的成果。- 谢谢。

（观众鼓掌）

尽管这带来了一些

新的挑战，但这是重获健康，对吗？

完全正确。

你为此感到高兴吧？

当然。

那么是什么困扰着你？

她感觉像换了个人。

我还不习惯。

她体重减得太快了。

她并没有变成另一个人。

她还是原来的她。

是的。- 你们结婚

已经18年了，对吗？

18年，没错。

当你注视她的双眼，

那是一样的眼眸，一样的精神，

一样的灵魂，是同一位女性。

对。

她很美

是的，她很美。- 没错。

她确实很美。

（观众鼓掌）

请允许我说明，在大家指责他之前，

（观众笑）

在所有前期访谈中，

他从未说过一句

贬低这位女士的话，一句都没有。

（观众鼓掌）

没有半句负面评价，

他所表达的只是自身感受。

他说：我也不明白缘由，但感觉不同了。

这对我产生了不同的影响。

他丝毫没有批评过她。

是的，从未。

你认为问题出在哪里？

我认为这只是减肥过程中

一个非常意外的副作用。

减肥带给我许多益处

和积极变化。

过去我甚至无法弯腰系鞋带

现在一切好多了

但这个问题确实令我们措手不及。

就好像突然之间，天啊，

我们竟面临这样的困境。

我们的性生活从未出过问题。

一直非常和谐。

所以突然间，我开始对自己的

腹部松弛和胸部下垂感到不安，

感觉像是，天啊，

我不想让他看到这些，太不堪了。

而他则觉得，这不是那个

我熟悉的伴侣，感觉不对了。

接着我开始焦虑他的感受，

他也担忧我的感受，

我想是太多的心理负担

影响了我们关系的亲密层面。

[英语]

My husband, Chuck, and I have been married for 18 years.

I've always been overweight, but my husband never cared.

Even when my wife was at her heaviest, 280 pounds,

our sex life was a 10 out of 10.

We would joke afterwards, saying there isn't anybody

in this town who got it that good tonight.

Last year, I made the decision

that I was gonna lose weight

and I lost over 100 pounds.

I felt fantastic.

It's been difficult for me to adjust to her new body type.

He said that having sex with me

felt like he was having sex with a different woman.

She was very curvaceous.

Now she's a very thin woman.

My wife's breasts used to be up here

and now they're kind of down here.

She's had a lot of issues with her skin sagging, drooping.

Now things just have a tendency to kind of sag.

I wear this body shaper because if I don't stuff,

the extra skin spills out.

Our sex life used to be great.

Now we're struggling.

I don't feel sexy with my husband.

I want to cover up and hide things.

When you're having sex with a woman,

it's about touch, it's about feel, it's about how they look

and that's changed dramatically.

I still love my wife very much.

It's just been very difficult to accept her body

the way it is now.

I just want him to look at me and find me attractive.

Okay, so congratulations

on your discipline-- Thank you.

And your hard work,

'cause you've got that done. Thank you.

(audience applauds)

And despite the fact that it's brought about

some new challenges, it's a return to health, right?

Absolutely.

You're happy for that, right?

Absolutely.

So what's bugging you?

She feels like a different woman.

I'm not used to it.

She lost all of this weight so quickly.

She's not a different woman.

She's the same woman.

Correct. You've been married

to her for 18 years, right?

18 years, yeah.

And when you look in her eyes,

it's the same eyes, it's the same spirit,

it's the same soul, it's the same woman.

Right.

She's beautiful

Yes, she is. Yeah.

Yes she is.

(audience applauds)

And let me say, before y'all go with attacking him,

(audience laughs)

in all of the pre-interviews,

he has not said one negative word

about this woman at all, period, paragraph.

(audience applauds)

Not one negative word about her,

what he has said is about him.

He said, I don't know why, but I'm feeling different.

It's affecting me different.

He has not criticized her one bit.

No, never.

What do you think is going on?

I think that this is just a very

unexpected side effect of,

I mean, there's been so many great things to my weight loss

and so many positives.

I couldn't even tie my shoes before

and it's been amazing

but I think this kind of hit us out of nowhere.

It was like, all of a sudden, oh my gosh,

like we're having this issue.

Our sex life has never been an issue.

It's always been great.

And so all of a sudden, I think I was feeling self-conscious

about my stomach and my breasts sagging,

and feeling like, oh my gosh,

I don't want him to see this, it's hideous.

And then he's feeling like, this isn't the woman

that I've been with, this doesn't feel the same.

And then I'm worrying about how he's feeling,

and he's worrying about how I'm feeling,

and I think there's just so much mental stuff going on

that it's affecting the physical part of our relationship.

重点词汇

词汇	含义
overweight /ˌoʊ.vərˈweɪt/ B2	adjective - 体重超标的
curvaceous /kɜːrˈveɪʃəs/ C1	adjective - 曲线优美的
sagging /ˈsæɡ.ɪŋ/ B2	verb - 下垂 adjective - 下垂的
drooping /ˈdruː.pɪŋ/ B2	verb - 垂下 adjective - 下垂的
shaper /ˈʃeɪ.pər/ B2	noun - 塑形器具
self-conscious /ˌsɛlfˈkɒnʃəs/ C1	adjective - 自觉的，害羞的
discipline /ˈdɪs.ə.plɪn/ B2	noun - 纪律 verb - 训练
side-effect /ˈsaɪd ˌiˈfɛkt/ B2	noun - 副作用
unexpected /ˌʌn.ɪkˈspɛk.tɪd/ B2	adjective - 意外的
mental /ˈmɛn.təl/ B1	adjective - 精神的
physical /ˈfɪz.ɪ.kəl/ B1	adjective - 身体的
relationship /rɪˈleɪ.ʃən.ʃɪp/ B1	noun - 关系
attractive /əˈtræk.tɪv/ B2	adjective - 有吸引力的
challenging /ˈtʃæl.ɪn.dʒɪŋ/ B2	adjective - 具有挑战性的
adjust /əˈdʒʌst/ B1	verb - 调整
lose /luːz/ A2	verb - 失去
fantastic /fænˈtæs.tɪk/ B1	adjective - 极好的
healthy /ˈhɛl.θi/ B1	adjective - 健康的

重点语法结构

• My husband, Chuck, and I have been married for 18 years.

  ➔ 现在完成进行时

  ➔ "have been married"使用**现在完成进行时**，表示从过去持续到现在的状态。

• I lost over 100 pounds.

  ➔ 一般过去时

  ➔ "lost"是**一般过去时**，表示已完成的动作。

• It was difficult for me to adjust to her new body type.

  ➔ 形容词后接目的不定式 (to + 动词)

  ➔ "to adjust"是**目的不定式**，说明为何困难。

• He said that having sex with me felt like he was having sex with a different woman.

  ➔ 间接引语 + 一般过去时 + 过去进行时

  ➔ "said that" 引入**间接引语**；"felt" 用**一般过去时**，"was having" 用**过去进行时**来描述过去的持续动作。

• Now things just have a tendency to kind of sag.

  ➔ 名词 + have + a tendency to + 动词原形

  ➔ "have a tendency to" 是**固定结构**，"to"后面的动词保持**动词原形**（"sag"）。

• If I don't stuff, the extra skin spills out.

  ➔ 第一条件句 (if + 一般现在时, ... + 一般现在时)

  ➔ "If I don't stuff"在if从句使用**一般现在时**，结果从句的"spills"也是**一般现在时**，构成**第一条件句**。

• I'm feeling different.

  ➔ 现在进行时 (be + 动词-ing)

  ➔ "I'm feeling" 将助动词 "am" 与**动词‑ing形式**"feeling"结合，表达暂时的状态。

• It's affecting our relationship.

  ➔ 现在进行时 (be + 动词-ing) 用作状态动词

  ➔ "is affecting" 使用**现在进行时**来强调持续的影响，尽管"affect"可以是状态动词。